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May 2009 - Another New Novel Arrives in Stores

Tempting Taylor

The Madam of Maple Court meets a new and
wonderful neighbor - sparks fly!!!

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Dear Visitors

My update of April '09 was be my last, at least for a while. I've run out of steam.
I've been posting your letters since 1997 and so many of you have written that the forums have grown beyond my wildest expectations. I thank you all.
I know from the letters I've received from all over the world that lots of you great people have benefited from reading that "you aren't alone" in even your many unusual fantasies. If I've done just that, I'm delighted.
I've tried to spread sanity throughout the world of sex and again, if I've done just that, I'm delighted.
However, I'm done now. I wish you all well. I will still answer honest questions, but I won't be posting your additions to the various forums. I will, however, still keep the page running for all of you who enjoy reading what my visitors and I have to say.
I'll update the page with info about upcoming books (Tempting Taylor - the sequel to The Madam of Maple Court - comes out next month, a new book of short stories in October and another two-for-one in November). Keep running to your bookstore.
It's been fun. Here's wishing great sex to all of you!!!
Joan

A visitor asked whether the letters posted here all depict true events. Frankly, I've no idea and I've no way of finding out. The letters I post are for your entertainment and thus their veracity is irrelevant. Read and enjoy what letters you choose and skip the ones that aren't to your taste. And take the advice with a boulder of salt. I try not to post anything I know to be incorrect but I don't know everything (more's the pity).

Some of my most active topics

I got a great letter from a woman who's taught herself to ejaculate and enjoys it thoroughly. Click over and read that and lots of other letters on Female Ejaculation. 4/09

Erections during Medical exams is one of the busiest forums on my site. 3/09

What messages are we sending our daughters about Body Image . Please read! 4/09

A woman writes that she enjoys watching men masturbate. Anyone know of a 'straight' site she can visit? Here are the ones recommended so far: Jackinworld.com Also try A bad boy.com This site is primarily gay, but offers close-up pictures of men masturbating and be sure to click on the videos of men masturbating. There are no annoying popups and this site is totally free with no adult ID Checks. One woman adds See My Orgasm . Recently a couple added these: Advanced Masturbation" shows methods and techniques. You can also see movies of ejaculations here
One last site is the Documentary of Free Penis Pictures" and there are pictures of Semen and Sperm Ejaculation as well.
Another visitor suggested: Advanced Ejaculation He states: "It has several videos showing ejaculations, including slow motion and hands-free, as well as lots of still images. We think she'll like it!"
Here's another = Erection Photos
And one last one The purple Mushroom

A male visitor asked whether men really like larger breasts. What about bisexual women? I've combined this with another question - How do women feel about having their breasts admired? Does it stimulate? Annoy? Feedback please. I got several letters 11/07 Ancillary question - do women look at the bulge in men's shorts? One man wrote about the bulge. There's also a page on breasts, and breast play with a letter from a man who calls breasts Love Pillows. Updated 4/09

A man wonders about a kit to make a dildo from a cast of your own penis. Anyone know where to get this? Anyone ever tried it? You can at Clone Your Bone and Match Your Snatch or try Make your own dildo.com One man wrote about his experience. What a gas! 1/05

Making love in unusual places including on the beach and a few about making love outdoors. There are many such stories scattered on the site but are a few more including one about sky diving (hmmm) and in cars. Updated 2/09

I've had several requests for info on Multiple Male Orgasms. I've reposted an old essay and lots of responses . 2/09

My Yahoo group got into a discussion about sexual furniture. On that note, here's a link to an old forum on swings. Here's one someone found Dream Lover Chair . Another visitor recommends a company called "Liberator" that sells sex furniture/cushions. 1/08

Lovers' Feedback Forum
Visitors exchange information on varied topics.

Dating a 43 year old virginal man. Updated 3/06
On what one visitor called Adult Onset Gayness Updated 2/09
On Aging Penises Updated 1/09
Anal Sex Updated 4/09
Good sex at any age 5/07
OnSexual Attraction3/09
Ladies - what are we doing to ourselves and our daughters??? Body Image Updated 4/09
Bondage and Bondage Gear Updated 1/08
Do women look at other women's breasts? Updated 2/05
Ever been caught by your kids? By anyone? How did you react? Updated 10/08
Circumcision Updated 9/08
Do you need to clean Up after sex?. 11/08
Condoms - we know we should but... taking the chore out of using them Updated 4/09
On Contraception Updated 2/09
Sex with Coworkers Updated 2/09
Cross Dressing and wearing women's clothing in general or women's panties in particular. I recently posted a few very elaborate tales. Updated 1/09
Cul de sac orgasms Updated 4/07
Is cybersex Cheating? A different perspective Updated 1/09
Deep Throating updated 4/09
Sex with and without Dentures updated 12/08
On Derriers updated 3/07
Dominant/submissive relationships? Updated 12/04
Early Morning Experiences 3/07
Edging - getting close to orgasm and then pulling back. 4/09
On Sexual Education in the US. updated 3/08
Female Ejaculation updated 4/09
Embarrassing Experiences Updated 1/08
A relatively taboo topic Enemas. 11/07
Home made Erotic Books, tapes and Movies - updated 12/04
Ethnicity of partners. Preferences? 1/09
Exercising nude 2/09
Exhibitionism. - doing it and watching others. 4/09
Facials Updated 11/08
Sexual fantasies Updated 1/08
Feet 12/08
Female Ejaculation Updated 2/09 with a great letter from a woman who's trained herself to ejaculate.
Fetishes including recent ones on Ears and feet, and accents 8/08 See the separate forum on feet
Who makes the First Move Updated 4/09
About men who had their first oral sex experience with another man in midlife or later? 4/09
The First Time you had sex - Nothing that might be construed as kiddie porn please Updated 11/08
On vaginal fisting. 2/05
Open Flys Updated 2/08
On Frequency Updated 11/06
Putting the Fun back into Lovemaking Updated 8/07
Do straight men have Gay Fantasies Updated 5/08
Do women have Gay (lesbian) Fantasies? Updated 11/07
Genital waxing at home or professionally. Updated 10/08
The "good old" hand job Updated 4/09
Sex and the handicapped Updated 7/08
High Heels, girdles etc Updated 12/08
Problems with others seeing your hubby nude Updated 10/07
Kegel Exercises Updated 2/06
Men using Kegels to strengthen their PC muscles to control ejaculations? 4/08
On Kissing 4/09
On Kissing after oral sex2/08
What you would have done differently if you had known then 9/08
The Sexual Side of Lactation There's new info - read everything with care and check with your doctor before trying anything!! updated 12/08
On Lingerie 4/09
Locker room behavior.1/08
Long term relationships Updated 5/07 with some new ideas.
Lubes KY seems a little sticky and doesn't last particularly long. I recommended Astroglide or one from Adam and Eve's website. Suggestions from you? 1/08
Lycra Updated 1/06
Problems after a Mastectomy Updated 11/04 with the name of a great book and 2/05 with a link to a very helpful site.
Spicing up Masturbation - How-tos and much more including a Yahoo group and a new site. Updated 2/09
Massage Parlor Visits and Erotic Massages Updated 2/09
Medical Exams give you erections? So many men say YES! Updated 1/09 This is one of my busiest forums!!!
About your most memorable sexual partners 4/09
Missed opportunities 4/09
Do men have sensitive Nipples or want larger ones? I posted a letter from a man who climaxed from just nipple stimulation. Updated 4/09
Enlarging nipples with Nipplette Clamps and large nipples and includes a site for nipple jewelry and a letter from a woman who doesn't like big nipples - Updated 6/07
Nooners - Updated 6/07
About ladies who go out with No Panties on Updated 4/09
Spending non-sexual time nude - and dealing with kids. 6/08
Nudist Colonies and Nudism Updated 4/09
Oral Sex Updated 4/09
Orgasms Updated 7/08
Help for folks with Overweight Partners - Updated 5/07
Do you tell your spouse about your Past Sexual Experiences? Updated 9/08
Peeking up women's skirts- Updated 9/08
On Penises Updated 11/07
the Perfect penis or vagina? 5/07
On having intercourse when a woman has her period.3/09
Phone Sex - Updated 5/05
Posing for nude Photos - Updated 2/09
Piercing Updated 5/07 and includes a letter from a nurse about reactions to piercings
Prostate Massage including a negative note on Aneros Updated 9/07 Also see the page on Aneros updated 5/08
About Prostitutes and Prostitution 3/09
Women with lots of Pubic Hair 9/08
Public Displays of Affection. 4/08
On making out in Public Places 9/08
On Queefing or pussy farts. Embarrassing? Natural? 3/06
Reading Erotica including mine - Updated 1/05
On Role Playing Updated 9/04
Are you turned on by the smell of sex? How about smelling women's panties? Updated 4/09
On Semen Updated 4/07
Shaving 4/09 Including Brazilian Waxing 11/07
Does Size Does it really matter? In breasts or penises? 6/07
Do you sleep in the nude? 11/08
Spanking Updated 7/06
Spit or Swallow Updated 3/09
Spontaneity or lack thereof. 12/08
Storage of Sex Toys Updated 11/07
Using Strapons Updated 5/05
Stripping 1/09
Swapping Updated 4/05
Strip Videos Updated 1/05
Talking Dirty and Verbal Stimulation Updated 7/07
Tantric Sex 2/06
On temptation. 1/09
On Testicles 3/09
Testosterone Cream 6/06
Threesomes and Moresomes updated 4/09
Thong Panties 8/06
Can you come from Thrusting alone? 7/06
Tickling as Foreplay 11/06
Women who get too wetduring sex. 4/09
Toys Updated 1/09. This section also includes links to my pages on Aneros (5/08), Sybian and the Eroscilator and some info about remote control toys.
Undies11/08
Vaginas 4/09
Viagra, Cialis, Levitra etc Women have written too. Please no info about untested herbs and such - Updated 1/08
Watching and being Watched Updated 9/08 with another hot letter
Water Sports Updated 8/08
Genital Waxing 9/08
Letters about the Wildest Sex ever. 2/09

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