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Updated 4/07 [M 45] I once had a lover that got very wet when aroused. I was on a six month assignment in a large US city and ran into her in the coffee shop in the hotel. She was stunning, at least in my eyes, and I told her so while waiting for our orders. She said no one had ever said that to her but she would like to stick around see what else I might surprise her with!
One thing led to another, small talk, dinner, some dancing....after a particularly nice "belly rubber" of a song we sat down and then she leaned over and whispered in my ear, "feel this." She took my hand and placed it between her legs - wet, incredibly wet! I pressed my hand against her, felt her thighs open slightly, and her hand tighten on mine. Then I removed my hand from between her thighs and, while looking into her eyes, licked the moisture from my fingers while enjoying the aroma of this beauty.
That was all it took and we were in bed! She would get very wet, wet to the point that there was very little friction between us. When that occurred I would slide down her body, lick her clitoris and use the sheet to soak up some of her exquisite moisture. She tasted so "soft" and her aroma was this scent that only comes from being a woman. I loved the wet from this woman and wished that things would have turned out different. I often think of her and try to recall the subtle taste and aroma of her body.
Updated 10/06 [M 63] I was reading the entries about excessive vaginal wetness and can't help but write and comment on this subject. To me personally after being around lots of years with lots of experience with numerous vaginas I can honestly state there is no such thing as excessive vaginal wetness. I'm mainly basing this on my most memorable pussy I can remember. She was a girl friend I had in the Philippines. During foreplay when she'd get good and aroused she'd literally leave wet spots on the sheets. When it came time to enter her it didn't take any pushing at all. She was so well lubricated that my penis would slide in with no effort required at all and it felt like heaven inside her! The only problem I may have had with her was I would have a hard time lasting any length of time before getting off and I always wanted to make sure she too got to feel the pleasure of an orgasm. With her I learned to get all the way into her and slow down with real slow, small deep thrust in her. This would drive her crazy with pleasure and allowed me to last a little longer. I also had plenty of women with much dryer and tighter feeling vaginas which took some pushing to enter them all the way and they never brought me the pleasure as did this girl friend that was so wet.
Updated 1/06 [M] Vaginal secretion has two or three functions. The normal everyday wetness keeps the vagina clean and healthy. Sadly, many women in our body conscious market-led world feel uncomfortable about this and feel their juices are
unpleasant. This is most likely if they have been brought up with negative
ideas of sex and sexuality but is probably increasing as the media
encourages women to believe they aren't safe unless they are sprayed with
deodorant and wear a pad to 'protect' themselves!! We should as men and
women stand up against this and recognize that vaginal wetness is natural
and healthy and guys should encourage women they have relationships with to
treat this as it really is- natural and entirely pleasant. Remembering of
course, that if your panty dampness is unpleasant you probably need to visit
the doctor and get it checked out!
Then there is the wetness of arousal which not only aids intercourse but is
a powerful olfactory trigger to attract the male - something we share with
most animals. Girls should realize that men find their wetness and the smell
of their pussies deeply arousing. True there are guys who don't and I've met
some but they are all hung up women haters. Men who really love women love
pussies. We love their look, the soft silken feel of them, their taste and
their smell. Healthy cunts taste sweet and smell soft and musky like an
expensive perfume. Just as every face is different, so each cunt is unique
both in size, shape, contour, colour and taste. In an experiment in the US,
women were asked to wear a tampon every day so that a collection could be
made representing each day of a full cycle. Male respondents were asked to
smell these and comment. The majority of men asserted that the most pleasant
and attractive smell was of the tampons worn when the women were ovulating!!
The first woman I fell in love with was a French exchange student staying
with our neighbours when i was bout 11. She was about 20 and both
mysterious, sexy and unattainable - a fabulous cocktail! I was, of course
attracted to her because of her beauty and exoticism - the fabulous
Bardot-like accent. I was also fascinated by the mystery of her shape, the
strange seductive sound she made as she moved (a rustle of petticoats and
stockinged thighs but. most of all, by her intoxicating smell. Only later,
when I learned more of the mysteries of women did I realize that what I had
found so enchanting was the perfect cocktail of skin scented with soap and
perfume and the underlying hint of her damp pussy!! And nowadays, one of the
pleasures of holidaying in hot Mediterranean countries in summer is that
women wear light summer clothes and that delicious perfume that comes from a
mixture of soap, sun lotion and warm cunt is clearly distinguishable as the
walk by!!
While I'm on the subject of body hang-ups, there is also a popular trend
for removal of pubic hair which, for many women means removing it all of or
the hair around the vulva itself! A significant proportion of men seem to
like this as well! Okay so no girl wants masses of hair protruding out of
her bikini bottoms but much of this trend is associated with mistaken
concern for cleanliness. I for one believe girls are far more sexy as nature
intended and a shapely cunt looks prettier nestled in soft downy fur!!
Now of course, as we are all different just as some people can be regarded
as better looking or more shapely, so some fannies (sorry in the UK that
means a cunt) are prettier than others and some taste and smell better. Of
course we will all have our favourites and preferences. Perhaps this could
be another topic for open discussion on this site. But no woman should fear
or feel concern about her individual situation so long as she is healthy and
takes reasonable sensible care with her personal hygiene.
Finally, of course, wetness is an important aid to sex providing
lubrication. This is essential otherwise the friction would be
uncomfortable. But perhaps women are less aware that this lubrication along
with the soft inner contours and folds of the vagina is what creates true
sexual pleasure for men.
To continue the theme of variation, there are two fundamental differences
from woman to woman. One is the amount of wetness that accompanies arousal.
at one end of the scale some girls just become a little wet and their
wetness is only really detected inside the labia. At the other end of the
spectrum are those women who, if aroused, will be dripping and will release
copious amounts of fluid. In my experience, most women are only modestly wet
no matter how horny but I had a short affair some years ago with a woman
friend who within a few minutes of preliminary excitation would be wet
enough to soak her knickers, literally. She told me that, although she was
not embarrassed about it, she did find it a nuisance as whenever she was
turned on by a guy she would have to walk around in wet uncomfortable pants.
So when your questioner asks if she should be concerned or embarrassed about
how wet she gets, the answer should be a resounding No! Most men, in fact,
would find it both a turn-on and a compliment even though it is really a
matter of individual biology rather than the attractiveness of the man she
is with! If she finds otherwise, she should seriously question whether the
guy is worth her attention!
Personally, not only do I love my wife's cunt, its taste, smell and wetness
but her juice adds a fantastic piquancy to our love-making. There is
something phenomenally arousing and pleasing to feel her wetness on my
stomach and balls as a slide in and out of her. It is intensely erotic when
we assume a position where I can see my cock to see it enter and retract
glistening with her lubrication and it is so wonderful to smell the scent of
her cunt increasing as we near climax and it fills the room with its
distinctive odours. also, there is the sensation of her cool wetness on my
skin. I love making love with her astride my cock so I can look up at her
bouncing tits and her cunt juice can fow down my cock and onto my body!
The other distinction is the thickness and viscosity of her fluid. When your
questioner talks of lack of lubrication and sensation it is probably more
to do with the thinness of her juice than its amount. Again, every girl is
different! Cunt wetness varies from the thin and watery to the thick and
greasy. In my experience and preference it is a happy middle ground that is
preferable being creamy and slippery like baby oil. this is likely to
provide the ideal level and degree of lubrication to the piston push and pul
of an ardent hard cock in a warm and willing vagina. For aesthetics this
type of fluid is light and white like a shiny cream and leaves an enticing
white smear in the panties rather than the darker yellowish stain of other
levels of fluidity.
So, a woman should feel at ease with her vagina and its individual
characteristics and men will rejoice in its smell, taste, feel and
personality from the first dampening of her panties through oral sex to
fucking and the charming reminder of her body left in her discarded panties
Updated 9/05 [M] My wife has been blessed with what some may say is excessive wetness when she gets sexually excited. This has and continues to be an incredible turn on for both of us. It does not take much foreplay to get the crotch of her panties soaked, which then provides for some very stimulating (to her) touch or oral manipulation of her pussy through the nylon of her panties. During intercourse her juices will completely soak my cock and balls along with the bed sheets. Her wetness also allows for easy insertion of my cock or any vibarators she may want at the time. She never needs to lubricate her large dildo with gels or oils or cover it with a lubricated condom; once she is sufficiently excited she can slide it in to its base with ease and stroke it as fast and or as deep as she wants with out any concern for further lubrication. When she climaxes her pussy juices don't actually squirt but do flow quite heavily from between her lips adding even more lubrication. I love the sweet taste of her when she comes in my mouth and always after giving her an oral climax, move up to her face and french kiss her deeply, filling her mouth with her own pussy juices. We both find this final kiss to be especially passionate and exciting, often leading us into another round of great sex.
Updated 8/05 [F 50s] I have had that same trouble many times of the month for most of my life. Sometimes my partners would comment they would even cum faster then. I learned late in life to do my Kegel exercises. This seemed to help with the wetness too. I still end up with a big wet spot even when I masturbate. My husband and our other "friends" no longer comment on the supper slickness. My vagina is much tighter and it grips and massages the penis better than ever so we each are even happier. This might not stop the wetness but it may just add more sensations to both partners.
[F 44] I am 44 and feel that I am extremely wet. My boyfriend disagrees with me and says he loves the fell of my very wet pussy. We have talked about this and hope it doesn't go away as menopause gets closer.
Updated 5/05 [M] My Ex was very wet and warm inside, she complained about not being satisfied as well as I was but how do you handle the perfect fucking pussey? I believe in fairness and equality so after doing research I believe the answer is not in friction but in an accommodating technique. A glass of wine, some Barry White, lots of foreplay and use the base of the penis near the pubic bone to gently rub the clitoris to stimulate. If she really wants friction use a ribbed rubber. Anyone who is overly lubricated has an asset that can be exploited if they learn how to use it.
Updated 3/05 [F] This is a letter about the problem of excess vaginal wetness - something of which I have personal experience. First, though, I’d like to suggest to you personally that perhaps you might consider putting up some kind of warning message along the lines of that at the top of the Viagra, Cialis page. The problem is that there are so-called remedies available but they can be dangerous. For example, I have heard of sex workers using vaginal douches of chlorine based bleach/disinfectant (otherwise known as toilet cleaner) to wash themselves out. Apparently it does the trick but completely removes the vagina’s protective cloak. It also means that they are susceptible to vaginal lesions so there is double the risk of infection. There are also various powders available, via the Internet, but these can have very undesirable effects too, such as leaving the door open to yeast infections. I do think a good deal of caution is appropriate. OK, now to my letter.
I wrote to you recently about getting to a climax through thrusting. I have also seen a question, which I think might be related, from a lady who finds she gets so wet that there is not enough friction. I can readily identify with her. And, the excess wetness is not only a problem for me but also for my husband because he gets less sensation. Perhaps some of the contributions on thrusting might provide ideas which will help..
First though, I really think it is worth talking the problem over with a doctor or gynaecologist. I believe that some progestogen type contraceptives have been linked to excess vaginal wetness but this is something which only an expert can advise upon.
I couldn't agree with this last more - please, as I told the letter writer, see your doctor if you have such problems. JEL
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