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Updated 8/08 [M 50] I'm 50 years old married and also have childhood girl friend aged 42 living in different town also married. We talk quite often on phone and even I went all the way to DC to spend couple of days with her when her hubby and son were away. Later we started fantasizing about having threesome with her husband. She talked to him about our plan. Initially he wanted o have foursome so that he can also taste another woman but since my wife did not agree he agreed. I went to DC and stayed at Marriott. My girl friend and her hubby both came in the afternoon at about 1.00 PM with a bottle of wine. I met her hubby for the first time and to break the ice poured wind in three glasses. I requested them to finish the first glass of wine in one gulp! After finishing the wine we all undressed and sat down on the couch she in the middle and we both men by her side.
The first step was introduction - I stood up came close to my girl friend Mona stark naked in front of her husband and introduce! d my self as Andy and about my cock being 8in and very thick. My cock was almost on her face and I believe she could smell the scent of my sex..I told her what I would like to do to her massage her back...lick..her ass..pussy...and would also expect her to suck my cock and lick my balls ..etc...she was just smiling...where as her husband was bit nervous......anyway later while standing I just asked her to smell my balls..which she did and later put myself in front of Chris, her hubby....telling him that I would like him to masturbate me..play with my peter..and suck it..I asked him if he is feeling excited about me having his wife in front of him...to which he said yes..due to the fact he is not able to screw her as much as she would like..so one by one everyone took turn to introduce...later the best possible position we all like was Mona stranding me with her back..
We both started making heavy movements while her hubby was being sucked by her..and once she was able to get enough juices in her pussy her hubby Chris bent down and started licking her clit and pussy while my cock was going up and down her tunnel....he could see his wife being fucked by her lover...later once she climaxed I took out my cock from her pussy all wraped up with her juices and asked Chris to suck it ..which he did ..oh boy we just played many games including fucking her doggie style while she sucked Chris....make her stand and raise one leg on the couch and me licking her pussy..while Chris kissed her all over...took her to the shower and poured Champanque all over her while Chris...licked her juices .....we spend at least 12 hrs fucking including taking rest in between but I believe it was the most memorable day for all of us...and we hope to spend more time together like this....

Updated 6/08 [M] While in our 40s, my wife and I ran across a website for meeting sex partners. We talked about it, and decided to do some exploring in this direction. Through this website, we met several people at assorted restaurants to get acquainted. Most of these we did not go further with, but did get together privately with a few of them. Some were single men, and others were M/F couples.
We were alone with one of the single men, and most of our clothing had come off, when my curiosity took over in a way I never expected. He and my wife were slow dancing nude, when I moved up behind him, reached around, and started stroking him. His half hard cock quickly stood at full attention, and she backed up a little to watch what was going on. At that point, I moved around him, knelt down, and started running my tongue up and down his shaft. She moved back more, sat on the edge of a chair, and laid back, playing with her clit, while watching me take his hard cock into my mouth. After a few minutes, she moved down beside me, and we worked together, licking and sucking him, kissing each other around the head of his erection. After this had gone on for a while, we moved into the bedroom. The sucking continued for only a short time, when she suddenly climbed on top of him. Before we left his house that night, she had fucked both of us twice. Later, she told me that she had been very turned on by watching me sucking another guy off, and she really enjoyed having 2 cocks twice each. Her only negative comment was that he was small, under 5" and skinny. That may well be what allowed me to try oral with a man for the first time. I might not have tried it on a big cock, but then felt ok with it.
In one session with a married couple, the 4 of us were in bed together for some time. At one point I was sucking his cock, while I finger banged his wife, and she was licking my wife's clit. All before moving on to other things.
With another single male, this time well endowed at 7"+, we again got going by working together licking and sucking his cock. After a little while positions changed to where I was laying on by back, while he was over me, pumping my mouth, while licking her. This went on for some time, but he began pushing hard and gagging me, and I moved away. At that point she pushed him onto his back, and we started sucking him and kissing each other around his cock again. Then she climbed on him, and slid her pussy down over his big cock. As they started fucking, I moved up behind her. At first, I had one hand on her breast, and the other on his balls, massaging with both hands. Then I moved closer, and started putting my cock into her ass. As I slowly worked deeper in, she began moaning louder and louder, feeling the double penetration. As we continued, we quickly got rhythm together, and she went ecstatic. He and I shot our loads at nearly the same time, and it took a couple minutes after that for us to want to move enough to separate. Unfortunately, we never got together with that one again, as he said he was getting back together with his girlfriend.
We have done other things with another couple, but he declined to have me go down on him. Still it was an interesting sensation to be in bed with his wife, with her on top of me and us pumping it up, and to look over and see my wife sucking his cock. Soon they were also in the same bed, and he wasted no time getting inside her. It seemed like we all spent a good deal of time watching each other, with particular attention to watching cocks going in and out of pussies. There is a picture around somewhere my wife took of the other couple fucking doggie style while she was sucking my cock.
Back to the MM oral. I hadn't realized, until the opportunity presented itself, how much curiosity I had in that direction. The down side is that I didn't get to see what it was like to complete the process. It always moved on to other things before the other guy shot into my mouth, which I would still like to experience. We moved away not long after the last couple I talked about, and fear of AIDS and other possibilities has prevented further sexual adventures.
I am still aware of my desire to suck a cock until I feel what it is like to get a mouthful of cum. Also, I discovered that I enjoy watching the expressions on a persons face as they are sexually stimulated, whether it is a man or a woman.
Maybe someday, but only if my wife was to go along with it. I will not do it without her being in agreement. To me, it doesn't matter who you are with, if you are having sex with anyone, male or female, without your spouse/partner knowing, it is cheating. No, I do not think it is cheating if they know, and say it is ok.

Updated 5/08 [F 29] I wanted to include a story about 3somes I experienced.
About 3 years ago, A HS friend admitted to me that while in HS she had always wanted to experience with me. Mind you we are both hetero and always have been. At this time in my life I had only made out with a hand full of some hottie friends of mine mostly to amuse the guys we were either with or dating...Anywho long story short I found myself at the apartment she shared with her fiance and small son. We were having a great time drinking and getting somewhat stoned when the topic of a porno came on ( you see where this is headed) They kept telling me I had to see this one where it was obviously fake this girl was ejaculating what looked like milk down her leg .....so on goes the porn. All the lights were off somehow also by this time. As I'm watching this really cheesy porn,, I could hear the sounds of them making out on the couch behind me I turned to make a comment about the porn to find my friend totally naked!
Her fiance made a comment about her being nude and before I knew it I was on the floor eating her pussy like I had done this a million times before! I could not believe how good it was and how skilled I appeared to be (to HIS delight)I ate her so good and she in turn licked me and fingered my pussy as well we both wanted to grind pussies badly but I could tell my friend was getting upset,, by all the comments and encouragement her fiance seemed to be giving me by "egging me/us on". Low and behold I went home to shortly after get stalked by her fiance and my friend who I have known since the age of 15! Never spoke to me again! Not even to this day.
We spoke a few times after our "experience " but I knew that would happen as she could not handle the fact that although her fiance never touched me, he saw me naked and going down on her. Very sad to have lost one of my best friends over that. Her fiance stopped harassing me with phone calls ( he kept begging me to sleep with him) after about 6 months.. I'm also engaged now and would love to have another experience with a really hot girl, since I missed out on the whole grinding pussy scene which seems so freakin' hot to me!I just don't know who or when that would be with.

[F] My husband David and I were traveling home from Quebec city thru Maine a few summers ago. After spending a romantic weekend at the Chateau Frontenec on The St. Lawrence River over looking the old city, we headed home early Monday morning. This time we drove a Jeep Wagoneer in case we had to sleep along the way.
David was feeling his horny self when we were talking about the great weekend and going to a few clubs. He teased me that I liked the french men talking in their sexy language to me, even though I could not understand a word they said. The french language is so smooth and sexy sounding, I had no problem reading their eyes looking me all over from top to bottom though. One little night spot had a disc jockey playing latin and french with a few English tunes mixed in. After a few drinks I was having a ball dancing with different french men. Most of them were much younger then I but they all wanted one thing and were very smooth in trying to get me to take them back to my room!
Two friends that spoke little English mostly French took turns dancing with me as the night got longer and late into the early morning. David sat at the table sipping his beer while these good friends tried to undress me on the dance floor. I think their names were Paul and Michael but I could barely understand half of the things they were saying. It got very dark in the corner and whenever a slow song played they would take turns the 3 of us on the dance floor together holding me tight while kissing my neck and ears and rubbing themselves against my legs. I wore big heels and had a micro miniskirt on with fishnet stockings and a tiny g-string that barely covered anything. My mini was pleated and of soft material so when I danced fast and was swung around it would fly out exposing under my skirt. A few times they tried reaching under my skirt while dancing and I had to pull their hands away. They would not take no and was so persistent.
They finally got me into the corner on a slow song with many couples dancing and David could not see me at all and Paul was behind me when he took his cock out of his pants and pushed it into my butt behind me, while Michael reached down and started rubbing my clit under my g-string. I was so tired but so horny and knowing that David couldn't see and if he did would probably enjoy immensely. I spread my legs slightly with my head over Michael's shoulder while Paul weasled his way between my legs slipping his very long and hard cock inside me from the rear. It felt so great and erotic. All I could do was stay bent over Michael kissing him while Paul pumped away into me. I started to have my first orgasm instantly and was so wet and my own juices were heavily flowing. I bit Michael on the neck to keep from screaming while he played with my tits and rubbed my little pubic mound. Paul came in me very quickly and before I knew what was happening Paul pulled out and grabbed me from the back hugging my neck while kissing my mouth and Michael slipped his cock in my front while he held me around my hips.
I was so wet but Michael managed to keep it in long enough for him to satisfy himself and cummed so much it was running down both my legs. It was only a matter of a few minutes and two strangers that I had just met an hour before had both fucked me in front of over 50 people and my husband had no idea until I walked back to his table with the juices running down the fronts and backs and all in between my thighs all over my fishnets and skirt. The two young men came up to David and I as we were starting to leave and thanked me in French for servicing them. David asked what that was all about and when I told him as we walked out and took his hand under my skirt to feel all the juices running out of me, he yelled over to the two guys and gave them a thumbs up.
David was so turned on thinking that I made love to two strangers in front of other people without him knowing. He wanted to go back to the room right away. Once we got back in the room, David pushed me down on the bed and pulled off my g-string panty and fishnets while rubbing my wet clit getting me turned on again. Before I could stop him he slid down my stomach and started licking my gooey clit. It was an absolute turn on for me and his erection was so big and ready to explode, I begged him to fuck me, and when he finally came inside, I reached orgasm after orgasm and I know I woke up our neighboring rooms! On the ride home David and I talked all about my experience as he wanted to know every little detail and what I liked best and so on. As we drove down this route that had hardly no traffic David stopped and started backing off the road into a dirt road. I asked what he was doing and he responded Sherry, I am going to fuck you like you have never been fucked before! I stripped down out of my sweat pants and shirt and we already had the blankets spread out in the back so we climbed in both of us naked.
David had the windows open and told me he wanted to hear me scream like the night before and to talk dirty to him. he wanted me to beg him for him to fuck me hard and harder. So we started and I begged him to fuck my hot pussy, I told him I was a slut and couldn't get enough cock and if he wouldn't fuck me I would find someone that would. It turned me on acting like a sex starved whore slut and David fucked me hard while I orgasmed I screamed as loud as I could in joy. After some 30 minutes of great fucking, I bent over and sucked David's cock dry. As David got dressed, I got out the back naked and with a tissue squatted to pee before I got dressed. Once I had finished and started wiping myself, David started laughing at me and I was shocked when about 6 men standing on top of a hill started clapping yelling to me the best lunch entertainment they ever had. David told me later that he saw them on top of the hill eating and he knew I didn't see them. he thought he would show them how a good wife treats her husband! The only thing I could think of in quick response to get even with David was to ask them if they wanted a turn! I quickly saw how dirty and sweaty they looked and jumped in the car as David was ready to drive away before I even got any clothes on. I stayed nude for the rest of the ride until I got to the toll booths in Maine and the first collector said did you lose something miss?

Updated 4/08 [F 44] I am 44 years old and my husband is 50. We have been married 25 years and have always had good sex. However, a few years ago my husband hurt his back at work and as a result got hooked on prescription pain meds. This in turn led to a huge decrease in his sex drive that left me out in the cold. I was always horny during that period, so I was very vulnerable to the charms of a gorgeous hunk of a tall, broad shouldered ex-marine who did business with the company I worked for at the time. Even though he was 16 yrs older than me, within six months of meeting him, I was having an extremely passionate affair. I loved the fact that, unlike my husband, he was totally macho/masculine. You could say my husband is somewhat 'sensitive', tho he works in a male dominated industry. He is not feminine, per se, just not an alpha male like my lover. I loved especially how my lover "Joe" dominated me during sex. He made me feel like a woman, ya know?
Well, to cut this short somewhat, my husband "Bob" found out about the affair and was so hurt I ended it out of guilt. But the cut was so deep, he wanted to separate for a while, so we did. I didn't go back to Joe, but we kept in touch. We continued to be very sexual toward each other, confessing our fantasies and some of the things we had done in the past. To my surprise, he told me that during Vietnam there was a guy who gave him regular blow jobs out in the jungle. He didn't think this was a bad thing or remotely gay since he was the recipient of the bj's, plus many others did the same to relieve the tension. Hearing this turned me on so much and I told him so. He asked if I would like to watch another man give him a bj, and without thinking I replied that I would love to watch Bob giving him a long, slow one and sucking up every drop of cum. He laughed and said 'well, if the opportunity ever comes up....'
After that, I became obsessed with the idea. My husband and I eventually got back together, but he was very sensitive on the subject of Joe, so I tread very lightly. But I did put a plan in motion. By this time, he had kicked his addiction, so sex was no longer a problem. One of the first things I did after we got back together is buy a very realistic, thick, veiny, skin toned dildo. At first, I only played with myself in front of him, but eventually I was able to ease it into his mouth during sex and this proved such a fiery turn on for him, ( and me, ha) that it seemed we never had sex without it. Needless to say, a strap-on harness followed soon after.
Anyway, that was how I 'greased the path' so to speak. To try and cut to the chase, I got him drunk one night and brought up my fantasy. He was resistant at first, but I said I knew it would be a turn on for him to watch another man fuck me. He had to agree. After that, I brought it up again several times, being very persuasive. I knew in his heart of hearts, he really wanted to suck a real cock. I contacted Joe again and he congratulated me on my skills and said he was willing if I could pull it off. Finally, I told Bob I had contacted Joe and I was going to set it up. He didn't protest. I asked him if there was anything he didn't want to happen, but he couldn't think of anything.
Our children are grown, so we have total privacy in our home, plus our house is somewhat isolated from civilization. It felt comfortable bringing Joe here, so I did. I plied us all with copious amounts of wine. I flirted outrageously with both of them. I sat in Joe's lap and kissed him and could feel the excitement radiating from Bob. I took Joe's hand and led him into the bedroom. Bob followed. I stripped off my clothes and lay on the bed. (just to get a picture in your head, I'm 5'9", 135 lbs, with full, natural C breasts, light brown hair, blue eyes) Joe was on me immediately, kissing me, then suckling my breasts. He loves my breasts, as does Bob. Then his head was between my legs, but to be honest, Bob is a much better pussy eater. I beckoned Bob over and gestured for him to lay on his back. I sat on his face and before I knew it, Joe was sliding his engorged cock into me. Bob was ecstatic, moaning and twisting beneath me. Joe leaned forward and whispered sexily into my ear "your husband is licking my cock"- he knew that would turn me on, and it did so much that I came immediately and hard, convulsing over and over. I leaned forward away from Bob's face out of exhaustion and without missing a beat, Bob was eating and sucking Joe's cock like a starving man grovelling at a buffet.
He pulled on it and crammed it into his mouth with both hands. Joe was straddling his face and urging him on-'go on, suck that cock, you know you love it, you know you've always wanted it, eat it up, lap it up, suck it down, all of it-you want it shoved down your throat?" he growled. When Bob replied by whimpering his assent, Joe leaned forward a little on his knees and thrust himself deep into Bob's throat, and pulling back, began to properly fuck Bob's mouth. Bob grabbed on to Joe's muscled ass cheeks, squeezing and kneading them lovingly as Joe fucked his face real good. Bob was breathing heavily, whimpering and moaning 'mmm, hmm' urging him on. Joe reached over and thrust three fingers into my pussy and fucked me until I came again. Then suddenly, Joe pulled his cock out of Bob's mouth. "Turn over" he commanded. Joe didn't protest. I got the k-y jelly out of the bedside table and smeared it on Bob's ass as Joe watched. Then Joe leaned forward and eased his throbbing cock into Bob's extremely eager and hungry ass, very slowly.
"This is what you've really been waiting for, isn't it" "yes" Bob gasped "fuck me, fuck me hard with that delicious cock, so delicious...." And boy did he. He reared back and grabbed Bob's hips and pulled his ass into his cock, then started thrusting with all his considerable might. Joe can thrust mightily, like a battering ram. Bob was almost literally screaming with pleasure, 'fuck me, fuck my ass,' he begged, over and over.. I maneuvered myself around Bob's head until he could plunge his tongue into my pussy. This was the last straw for him. He started coming so hard I actually feared for him. I had never heard such primal expressions of pleasure before and I have no words to describe them. Joe pulled out and commanded Bob to turn around. Bob opened his eager mouth and Joe shot a hot stream of cum into it I thought would never end. Bob ate every drop, sucking and sucking until Joe was dry and spent.
All that happened a few months ago, and we've all been together regularly since then. The thing that turns me on more than anything is how Joe has come to dominate both of us. Sometimes when he comes over, he will command Bob to suck him off the minute he comes in the door. Bob always drops to his knees, pulls out that wonderful cock and Joe allows him to suck it and eat it till his heart is content. Bob especially loves to lick Joe's enormous balls. He would lick them all night if Joe would let him.Some times, Joe will fuck me on the couch while Bob watches tv. But the best is when we are all together. I like for Bob to get under us when Joe fucks me doggy style so he can hungrily lick, tongue, and passionately kiss Joe's ass. Bob loves worshipping Joe's ass like that because it shows Joe that he is the master and commander of our little triangle. I love it because it drives Joe to fuck me like a wild animal. We hope to convince him to move in with us so we can always be giving Joe what he wants and commands.

Updated 3/08 [M 71] I'm 71 and my wife a great looking 64. My wife and I share the fantasy of having another man join us in sex. One of the things that really gets me hot is to imagine our guy has a big cock. I'm the average 6" and the idea of her pussy receiving a thick 7 or 8 inches gets me so hot I start to tremble. I can just imagine her excitement and anticipation on first seeing his big cock. She loves the idea of my sucking his cock to get it ready and hard to enter her. And, she tells me she would love to have me guide his big cock into her as it would be a gift of love from me.
I imagine her having a climax the moment she feels the big, silky head of her lover's cock begin nudging the lips of her pussy apart. And then hearing her sighs and moans of joy as his very long, thick cock penetrates deeper and deeper into her. Soon his cock will be deeper into her than mine has been able to go and she'll have sensatons never before experienced. I imagine her twisting and trembling in ecstasy as her lover's big cock skewers her body.
Then I imagine him begin to ride her withdrawing his cock almost all the way and then sliding deep into her again and again until she loses her senses. I have told her I'd love to embrace her and kiss her open mouth to feel her breath escape into my mouth with every plunge of his big cock into her pussy. And I'd breathe into her mouth, "I love you Sweetheart," as her lover is fucking her. I' d love feeling her body rock in my arms as her lover's cock thrusts in and out of her and then hold her tight as his cock erupts and spurts its hot, pearly treasure deep inside of her.
And so, giving my wife the gift of a long, thick cock is, to me, an ultimate expression of love.

[M 65] I have what seems to be many a man's fantasy of watching his wife enjoying herself sexually with another, much younger, man - I am 65 and she is 64. I have had this fantasy for many years but have not yet summoned the courage to tell her. I would like to hear other readers experiences of realising such a fantasy - especially the mature ones and especially from the female viewpoint.

Updated 11/07 [F] Foursome? How about a fivesome to liven up your evening.
I’m getting old, but not so old I can’t enjoy sex. After I recovered from the death of my husband, I started dating once or twice a week. I had known the men I was dating for some time as they had worked for my husband. All were several years younger than me. I was having sex with most of them, after all, what’s the use of going out on a date if I’m not going to get fucked. It seems the more sex I had, the more I wanted. I decided to see just what my limit could be. After thinking about it for awhile, I selected four of my dates that had the biggest and longest cocks and had given me the most sexual satisfaction and invited them over one evening for a casual dinner. After dinner, I brought up the subject of threesomes. When I saw smiles on their faces, I knew I had four winners. We talked about when and where for awhile, and couldn’t get away from here and now.
I told everyone to undress and help me with the kitchen table and some chairs. It was fun to see everyone running around naked. I got four thick quilts and we stacked them on the table for me to lie on. I got some nice smiles and lip licking when I laid across the table with my head hanging down over one side of the table and my butt at the edge of the other side. One of the guys put a chair under each foot with my legs spread wide. I looked at each of them for a minute or two, then told them what I wanted them to do. I had four blank cards on the table beside me. I had written tit on the back of two, cunt on one, and throat on the fourth. Each guy picked up a card and turned it over. I don’t think I needed to explain much to them, but I described what I wanted each of them to do in detail just in case.
The tit guys were to stand, one on each side of my head, ready to give his tit a good massaging and nipple sucking. The cunt guy was to spread a dab of K Y on his cock, ease it part way into my cunt and get ready to fuck me deep, hard, and fast. The throat guy was to spread a dab of honey on his cock for lubrication, put it in my mouth as far as he could without interfering with my breathing, and get ready to throat fuck me deep and hard. I told him I wanted to feel his pubis gently pressing my lips against my teeth on each stroke with the strokes timed with my breathing. When he started to cum, I wanted the head of his cock to be in my mouth so I could feel it pulsing and suck each spurt out and swallow it. I also wanted them to enter me together for a few strokes, sort of squeezing me between them, then alternate to sort of slide me back and forth across the table between them a few times, then back to squeezing me between them.
Here’s where some of the fun came in. As soon as one of the fuckers lost his hard, he was to swap places with a tit guy until he got hard again. If he had been in my cunt, I wanted him to fuck my throat next. If he had been in my throat, fuck my cunt next. This way, I got to have four guys fuck my cunt, my throat and make love to my tits until we got so tired we had to stop.
I think each guy must have cum at least five times with me getting fifteen or so mouthful’s of semen. I was enjoying the sex so much I lost count of how many orgasms I had, at least ten, maybe fifteen because all that tit and nipple attention was giving me some too. Having one guy massaging each tit with both hands while he was sucking on it’s nipple was so relaxing I think I could have gone to sleep if it hadn’t been for the thrill of the orgasms and the pleasure of big long cocks thrusting in and out of my throat and cunt at the same time. I can tell you one thing though, having an orgasm with a throat full of thrusting cock is a wonderful experience.
Two of them spent the night in bed with me, one on either side.
We’ve done this two more times so far, and any minor irritation of my throat or cunt was completely gone before the next weekend. Not surprising though as my husband and I usually went to bed early and had sex two or three different ways, sort of fucking and sucking and eating ourselves to sleep. I don’t see anyone, especially me, dropping out of our weekends of pure pleasure so far.

Updated 10/07 [M] I once met a fairly high ranking telecom exec based in Atl, but whom travelled to Dal at least twice per month. On occassion, his wife would travel with him to shop and just hang out. 40ish and very cute with a short, sassy hair cut, very nice tight bod.
We met at their hotel for drinks and appetizers. I greet his wife with a soft, but firm hand shake plus a little kiss on her cheek. We seemed to hit it off from the start as this was the first time that I had met her. As it very often is in hotels, the temp was a bit cold, so talk of the hot tube came up and before I knew it we closed out the tab and proceeded upstairs to their suite, where more drinks awaited as they had a private bar, and it was already open and flowing, I guess from earlier. Totally unexpected by me to be now sitting in their hotel suite, but I went with the flow. She went into the bathroom to change and came out in her bikini -- oh my!, I felt myself begin to stiffen right away, but I maintained my composure. As I am also a big lover of butts on pretty ladies, I just could not keep my gaze away from her bottom as I took note of how her bikini bottom were cutting and draped over her ass crack, omg, I love ass crack on a gorgeous woman so! Any way, we proceeded to the roof of the hotel which is where the hot tub and sauna were. She played and froliced for about an hour, then we returned to the room where she moved to take a shower and cleanup.
At this time, hubby whispered to me that when his wife was done, he was going to also take a shower(he also got into the hot tub, I did not - I just watched) and that this would allow for some time to be alone with his wife. She came out of the bathroom with just a towel wrapped around her and came and sat in my lap. In know time, we begin to kiss. Sitting in the chair kissing is how hubby found us when he finished his shower. I then peeled her towel off, while hubby watched, pick her up and carried her to the bed. I positioned her on all fours and licked her butt real good, again, as hubby look on. Then I slide deeply into her hot honey box, while hubby sat in the corner taking pics. Some hubby's are watchers, some liked to participate, some like to just clean up -- This gent enjoyed all phases. Well, I want bore u with anymore details, but I will say that i serviced his wife for some 3hrs straight and made multiple deposits in her cunny, all of which hubby slurped up.
I have included a couple of pics from the encounter, taken by hubby and a pic of hubby cleaning me up, taken by wifey. It was a wonderful evening spent with great friends!

Updated 7/07 [M] I read your article on men with strap ons and couldn't agree more. I had a few threesomes and enjoyed when one of them wore a strap on. I have a fantasy where I am doing oral sex on one while the other is using the strap on on me. I'm married now and my wife is able to give me anal stimulation during oral sex and the orgasm is fantastic. We both have our own egg vibrators and we both enjoy using them.

[F] We have been married many years and both of us have always fantasized about a threesome. My husband is also a bit of a voyeur and has always enjoyed the thought of watching me have sex with another man. We just recently returned from a vacation in Las Vegas and while there we finally decided to act upon our fantasy. We called and made an appointment with a male escort service. Honestly I was quite nervous the night of our meeting and we decided to sit in the hotel bar and have a couple of cocktails before our rendezvous. It was not long before our escort showed up, handsome, young and gregarious. After one drink together, just to break the ice, we all went up to our room. I must say, as a 60 year old woman, this was one of the most incredible sexual encounters I have ever experienced. My escort, as was my husband, was kind and gentle and and very sensual. My final orgasm, of which I experienced two that evening, had me kneeling face down on the bed, my very well endowed escort standing behind me, hands squeezing my hips, pumping into me hard, while I satisfied my husband orally. We probably won't do this again anytime soon, it was expensive, but it sure will give us a night to remember and one to fantasize about for a long long time. For any other women out there thinking about doing this, make sure you know what you are getting into, have total agreement with your spouse, make sure you use protection, and remember this really is pure sexual gratification, don't confuse it with love or any other emotional feelings.

Updated 8/06 [M 55] We are a lifestyle couple and have regular blood test and stuff run and I guess the others in the dr office see our records and know what we enjoy..Don't have a clue but I'm sure I'm right.
Well,I simply went to the dr to get a rx renewal and this male nurse we've seen there for years happen to be the one to weigh me and go to the examining room..OH,maybe I forgot to mention I'm a male,55..Well,he sits down and ask me what I'm there for and I told him for a renewal.He said I'll write the renewal but I'll go get some free samples..He gets up and turns the door knob,changes his mind and sit's back down..He said,I know I'm putting my job on the line here so please don't tell anyone I ask you this...Is your wife bi sexual?
I almost passed out and dumb founded....I told him yes if the woman is attractive and shaved or clipped and she likes the woman...He said my wife has been talking about the bi thing so I just wanted to ask... I told him no problem..He said where do y'all go out and I told him and he said we may see y'all sometimes..I figured he was blowing smoke at me but that night we went out and at exactly eight thirty who walks in the club but he and his cute wife..They were so hot we only stayed another hour and we came to the house and stopped at 6 in the morning. His wife is not curious any more for sure...and I certainly enjoyed his wife myself and he enjoyed mine...True story,Honest.

Updated 3/06 [M 61] I have had several threesomes and they have always involved a woman and a bi male. They are so hot. I love to suck cock while my own is in a woman. I have begged my wife to have a threesome with me and a bi male, but she will have none of it. She does not have a clue that I have ever sucked a cock.

Updated 5/05 [F 60] I have been married for 40 yrs. I read the f 56 letter on threesomes and was amazed at how similar an experience I had. My husband always wanted a threesome and I figured that I was now 60 and might as well give it a shot. Our neighbor is a widower and good friends with us. He is in his sixties and we asked him if he would like to play around with us. He agreed and we went over there to try our fantasy out. Well, Joan, it was unbelievable. We started by petting and eventually took our clothes off and proceeded to the bedroom. I was so turned on and our neighbor began by fucking me doggy style. After about two minutes, my husband joined in and I was fucking and sucking at the same time. The rush was unbelievable. But, the big surprise came when I began to 69 with our neighbor and to my great surprise, my hubby came down by our neighbor and began joining me and licking his cock. I told him to try it out and before I knew it he was going crazy sucking our neighbors cock. I just sat back and could not believe how he devoured it. My husband is straight as an arrow and now he has become cock crazy. I guess the old motto is true, " once you get the taste, you are hooked" and now when we do a threesome, I get off by our neighbor and my husband goes cock crazy. I would like to know if other married women have had the same experience.

Updated 4/05 [F 56] I have been married for 34 yrs and recently had the greatest sexual experience of my life. I have never cheated on my husband, but he has always wanted to see me with another man. I told him that I would have sex with another man for his 60th birthday present. Well, last month, he brought his friend, who is also married, over to watch the ballgame. After a few drinks, we started to chat and my husband told me that his friend's wife never has sex anymore and that he suggested that I might want fulfill his birthday present. I was nervous, but said that I would be glad to do it. Well, it was really awkward at first. His friend, who is 66, stripped and I was shocked at how hot I became when I saw a different man nude. I was so turned on. The three of us went into the bedroom and I immediately had the man stand up, next to the bed and I got down on my knees and began to give him the hottest blowjob imaginable. His cock was very large and I was soaked between my legs. The next thing I knew, my hubby was also nude, and we all got in the bed and I was getting my pussy devoured by this man and blowing my hubby at the same time. After a few minutes, my hubby fucked me , while I was orally pleasing his friend. But, the biggest surprise to me was when my hubby stopped fucking me and began giving his friend a blowjob along side me. Joan, I cannot tell you how hot I was, and I had at least three orgasms that night. We had so much fun and I loved it. I would love to have him bring his wife over. This has provided a new spark for our marriage and I feel young again. I recommend this for all older couples. Threesomes are the best, I will even be looking to include his wife.

Updated 12/04 [M 59] My niece and her husband visited me they are in there mid 30's --both beautiful body,s while swimming at beach i really noticed him looking at guys and seeing him bulging at his trunks.
The next day we were bar-b q at my house pool and kim asked if it was ok to swim nude --of course i said yay--she dropped her top and bottom right in front of me --WOW--beautiful woman---then Jeff did the same and said come on --what a cock un cut and sweet looking---i,m un cut also i dropped my suit letting them gaze at me -- they started clapping and saying yes-yes-yes--i got in water with them the first thing kim did was kiss me on the lips and grabbed my cock and said your gonna have fun today.
We swam around for awhile then Kim asked me if i ever sucked a cock i was dumb founded for a moment then said yes i have once---then she said how would you like to make it twice i was already half hard and growing --i said maybe--then she said Jeff wants you bad are you willing --i went yay and looked at him and said lets do it-- i grabbed his cock and he started kissing me---amazing feeling.
We got out of pool i lay on lounge and Jeff gave me best blow job i ever had swallowing everybit of cum and licking me clean then Kim said your gonna have me now and straddled my face with her pussy. while i was lying there she was dripping with hot juice i took her in my mouth so sweet tasting she was oozing cum my face mouth was soaked with her juices it was running out of her pussy like a river then Jeff started jerking off nd shot his load all over her pussy and my face --the next 3 days you can only imagine what happened --it was heaven---
Jeff and i fucked several times while Kim watched -- something wonderful.

Updated 11/04 [M] I have no idea if most men have gay fantasies, but in my deepest secrets, I have had them more times than I care to admit. They always focus around my wife having sex with another man and myself. I've even fantasized about it while actually having sex with my wife. My climaxes during these fantasies are extremely strong and my wife always asks me what special thing she did to make me cum so hard. My fantasies are always the same. My wife and I have invited a male partner into our bed. We focus on her, sucking her nipples, caressing her body. One or another between her legs sucking her clitoris while the other sucks her nipples. She jerking us both off, sucking us both off. One of us fucking her while the other receives a blow job from her. Then as the sex positions change and the scenes get hotter, my fantasy takes a turn. I picture him standing behind my wife, fucking her pussy, she on her knees, begging for more of his large hard cock. I sit closely by and watch as he fucks her, his cock pushing deep into her pussy, spreading her lips wide and I listen to her moan with pleasure. My excitement mounts as I see his cock, now soaked with her cum fucking her harder and faster. I slide up underneath her in a 69 position and ask her to suck me off while I began to suck furiously on her clitoris, his hard cock now inches from my face, occasionally rubbing against me as he drives deep into her pussy. Shes sucking my cock and begging for both of us to get her off. She explodes on his cock, her cum running down over it into my mouth as I suck her clitoris. He continues to fuck her hard after she cums, his hands pulling on her hips, driving into her. Still in my 69 position underneath her, I reach up with a hand and began squeezing his balls. He slows his thrusting and drives himself deep into her pussy with each stroke. She's moaning loudly from the pleasure of his large hard cock pounding into her. She begs for more, it makes him slow down again, than he pushes hard and deep into her. He makes her beg for every thrust. She's telling him how big it feels in her pussy, how hard it is. The more she screams for cock, the slower and harder his thrusts become. From squeezing his balls I sense he's ready to cum. His cock begans to jerk slightly as he fucks her. I can tell his load is soon to shoot into her hot pussy. One more hard thrust of his cock deep into her cunt and then I pull him out just as he readies himself for a last cumming drive into her. I wrap my lips around his cock. It's feels massive in my mouth. I suck as hard as I can, taking him as deep into my throat as possible without gagging. His hot cum shoots between my lips, I can't swallow it fast enough. His cock is jerking in my mouth and he cums and cums. Still squeezing his balls, I suck for all I'm worth. His hot cum is oozing out between my lips. I'm surpised by the quantity of his cum. Now with only the only head of his cock in my mouth I suck him dry, swallowing as much cum and I can. His cock is so hot in my mouth. I love the taste of both his cock and his cum. I can't get enough of him, I wish it would last forever. He's still hard when I finish. I give one final long lick to the underneath of his cock's head, then put my hand around this massive cock and push the head of it between my wife's wet pussy lips. I tell her to push back into him and I watch as his cock once again disappears deep into her pussy. She groans loudly as he buries himself once again into her cunt. I slide out from beneath my wife and postion myself in front of her face as he begins fucking her one more time. I ask her to suck me off as I have yet to climax and am very close to cumming. She strokes my cock with one hand as she starts sucking me.
I ask her not to swallow my cum when I explode, but rather hold as much of it in her mouth as she can until I finish cumming. It doesn't take much and soon my cock explodes, hot cum shooting into her mouth. It oozes between her lips in her attempt not to swallow. Once I finish, I hold her face in my hands and immediately began to french kiss her. Still tasting remnants of both her and his cum in my mouth, I now taste my own hot cum. Our tongues swirl and lick the cum from mouth to mouth as his cock continues to fuck her pussy. Our kiss is passionate and long as we both share and swallow all of the cum. He's fucking her hard again. She's almost passed out from so much fucking. On her knees, her face buried in her pillow, her legs spread, her moans almost inaudible, he tells her he's cumming in her pussy. He pounds into her as he shoots his load of hot cum. With his final spurt his cock slips from between her pussy lips and he falls back onto the bed. She can't move, she's still on her knees, face in her pillow. Her pussy is swollen and red. You can almost see the heat exuding from it.
With her cunt's opening still spread wide from the girth of his just removed cock I can readily see a large pool of both her's and his cum in her love canal. It drips slowly down over her pussy lips and her clitoris. My last act of the night is to move behind her and slowly and gently lick and suck her hot pussy until every drop of cum is cleaned from her. I push my tongue deep into her pussy and lick it starting from the inside to the outside. It amazes me how much cum is in her and my digging tongue and incessant sucking gives her one final orgasmic shudder as she collapses onto the bed. I have had this fantasy many times. If someday we could find the right person for both of us I know that I would fulfill it. The thoughts of a large hard cock cumming in my mouth and of me licking my wife's pussy clean of the same hot cum always gets me hard and the fantasy always gives me extraordinary orgasms. I'm not gay and I'm not bi, but I would very much love to have this one sexual experience.

[F] In answer to the question of threesomes and bisexuality.. My husband Tony is a lot older than me, I am 35 he’s 50 and yet he has the stamina of a man of 20. I met him 7 years ago working with him and had only slept with men my own age or near-enough. We had swapped sex-stories continually and while I found it fascinating that he had about 6 women on the go when I met him (3 of them married!) he was equally excited that I lived in a flat share with 4 other men and had sex parties in which I was the only woman and often they would bring their male friends for extra fun! It was only a matter of time before we slept together and I get on with him so well that we married. He is my love and best friend and when I confessed that I had been naughty since our marriage with a few of my old flatmates and when I had told him I was visiting my father or cousin I was actually being screwed silly by various couples, rather than him getting mad at me he told me that he was very excited and confessed that he too had slept with old girlfriends and a married couple he'd met socially . We had never up to then, slept with anyone together but it was only a matter of time.
A friend of my husband's from work, came to our house quite a few times. I always thought Larry was gorgeous – tall, dark hair, very handsome, slim – very straight and clean cut, the total opposite of my husband who is stocky, long haired and more the creative rock-n-rolly type (but still as nice looking!). Larry and his wife Jean became good friends with us. As he is a mechanic he would often come round to our house on his own and do things on my husband’s car – sometimes staying over. I used to tease Larry with sex stories and he told us how he and his wife had had a threesome with a young 19 year old male teenage friend of his, which got me wet just thinking of that lucky woman getting Larry and another male ‘stuffing’ her! Larry is always going on about how huge his penis is and how he puts other men to shame - so much that me and Tony used to joke that one day we would call his bluff and look at it to see if it was that big – but the idea of ever having sex with him though, me and my husband totally vetoed, as we believe you should never screw with mates of work colleagues and that it might not work out with him.
As I have very large breasts unlike Larry’s wife, Larry would occasionally make some remark about how he would love to touch them and one day, the nerve took me to (on Tony’s encouragement) to lift my top to show my tits off to him. He was extremely complimentary and begged to touch them. He touched then put his head between them and breathed in like a man possessed! Then he asked if he could kiss me. I agreed and as he was pressing against me so hard I could feel his quickly erect dick. I asked Tony if I could touch it and see if it really was as big as Larry’s boast said! Tony agreed and I reached down, pulled it out and was overcome with lust. He is twice the man of my husband. He was much thicker and tapers, Tony’s is curved and circumcised. I had to have it inside me and Tony must have known not to get in the way of two people who were dying to fuck. We went into the bedroom, discarding clothes on the way. Naked, I lay on the bed and he just rammed into me. Although I always use condoms when I have had sex outside of marriage I am afraid that they never entered the equation. I was so excited that I was getting fucked in front of my man. Tony was pretty quickly out of his clothes too and put his dick into my mouth. Larry said he had always wanted to screw me and he quickly shot into me, then kept going on and on! After we all fucked like rabbits, at one point having anal with Larry while tony was in my fanny, then reversing – we had a truth or dare confessions. Larry told us that when he and his wife went with the young man Larry sucked him, and he had had anal sex with a couple of men before he was married. Tony was amazed by that and confessed to me that he had at orgies and swinging parties, had had oral sex with quite a few men (something he had previously always strenuously denied). The next obvious step was for them to put on a show for me – which they did - of simply sublime male 69'ing, culminating in Tony gently fucking Larry’s bottom – I have never been so aroused.
Since that time we have slept with Larry lots of times and he sometimes sees me in private. The naughtiness of that is that he thinks Tony doesn’t know, but I tell Tony everything. Occasionally, he and Larry have a scene together as well, Larry doesn’t think I know about that but Tony tells me everything too - like something from the film "Dangerous Liaisons"!.
Unfortunately Jean doesn’t want to play with anyone else, and no way on Earth does she know her husband is boffing me and fucking my husband too! Since then me and Tony have had some very good swings with some nice couples and have bi-weekly threesomes with Larry (when he's not seeing me privately!).. I believe I am more in love with my husband than ever before – to have a man who allows me to get screwed by another and not get all jealous…. but as he says, no-one else cuddles up to me in bed!
So..threesomes and a little swinging can be useful and fun and not marriage wreckers.. but not for everyone..

[Couple] Hello, we’re Sue and Dave and we met our mutual friends Cathrine and Tony - like they say, at a house ‘party’ in Richmond. We are in our late ‘20s, and have been married for about 6 years (but have known each other longer – since our teens). My husband is a keen Bowie fan and we met at a David Bowie Convention and I liked him immediately as he is a bit like Bowie to look at, about 5’10” with blond dyed hair, ..whereas I am 5.4 with short black and red hair. When we started going out together Dave confessed to me that he liked ‘boys’ and asked if it bothered me. As a long-term Bowie fan, the idea of having a boyfriend who swung both ways really excited me I’m afraid! I shared him initially with a gorgeously, pretty, feminine Anglo-Indian male-friend of his and was so turned on watching Dave fuck Peter’s tight brown bum. Then they both took turns screwing me, both anally and vaginally, ending in me being fucked by both of them at the same time.. a real first for me.
For the first couple of years after we married we didn’t really do any extra-sex with anyone…Dave let me have a couple of girl’s nights out which ended with me with my knickers on someone else's floor, but nothing much (I told him about this and he encouraged me to play if the mood took me). He asked if I would like to put an ad in a contact mag’ for like minded people, and I agreed willingly. Unfortunately the entire male population of the magazine seemed to be made of the ugliest men in Britain! So.. NOO!! But we went on the internet and found someone who did low-key, very discrete bisexual parties in London. We applied, were vetted, and ended up at the first one, where we met our new friends Cathy and Tony – and slept with them there and then! I was very wet watching my husband being fucked by an older man and me and Cathrine went at each other like lesbians possessed. Dave thinks that although Tony is much older than he normally goes for, he is very fanciable and enjoys being the passive partner for a change. They have told me about their married friend Larry and we are looking forward to having a 5-some with him! Especially as I (like most women) love very big dicks and I have watched a video of Tony and Cath and Larry in action..Dave wants both of the other men in his mouth...now that would be a turn-on!!!.e would love (as a married couple) to meet a proper, gorgeous, committed gay couple, with me pinching the active partner and Dave the passive boy.. I would like to watch him screwing the queen and he could watch me being fucked by the ‘man’. I agree with Cathrine about threesomes and I find it a real turn on watching my husband in action, but I would not like him to have an affair. As we both have really high sex drives, I know that one of us would be unfaithful fairly easily but this way we can have fun and frolics without the stupidity of divorce,,,,someone I work with said she would divorce instantly her husband if she caught him in bed with another woman and when she asked me would I not do the same she was outraged when I said that it depended on what the other woman looked like! DAVID AND SUE

Updated 10/03 [F] David is quite unique and even to this day, I get surprised by some things he does. I will share more with you.
After high school, I attended Florida University and was a cheerleader. David was a year older and also was on the cheerleading team. It was wild times back then and quite honestly the sex scene was very open and free. I loved flashing and teasing the guys with some of my girlfriends and David was very wild also. It was almost like a dare to out do the others. I am just very lucky that I never got pregnant or caught any diseases. For extra money, I worked at a striptease nightclub and was not your best little girl that you would want to introduce to your family. Since I was in high school, I always liked older guys by at least 3-4 years and once in college, I started liking guys even up to their 50's. I also did modeling gigs on the side sometimes earning over $100.00 an hour for 5-6 hours of wearing lingerie and sexy outfits for lingerie magazines.
David and I became a steady throughout college but David never stopped me from doing anything I wanted to. He actually encouraged me to once in awhile sleep with one of his friends that had never had a girl before.
In my senior year, David and I rented an apartment while he was taking graduate courses and I was finishing up my bachelors degree. I still worked both modeling and at the strip bar. One night a good friend of David's visited us from David's home town in Ohio. His name was Kevin and he was very shy and had such a low self esteem. David asked me to be nice to him and possibly go out on a date while he had a few night classes. I agreed and he was staying with us for 2 weeks. Kevin was very well off and was so polite and well mannered. He wasn't to bad looking but because of his lack of confidence didn't say much. David asked me to try and build his confidence and give him an experience, so that he would want to meet a nice woman after.
It was a Friday night and David was studying and recommended the 2 of us go out and enjoy each other. So I took Kevin to a typical nightclub with a DJ playing and taught him a few dances and how to hold me on the slow dances. He was to rigid and didn't know how to relax and would not dance any fast songs. I finally slowly pulled him to a corner of the dance floor and got real close to him with my cheek to his and squeezed my body tight to his rubbing my thigh between his and started rocking a little whispering in his ear how cute he is and that he was turning me on so much!
Kevin slowly loosened up and actually started dancing very well. On the slow dances I would kiss his ear and neck and when I started licking inside his ear with my tongue going in and out the way a guy would fuck a woman, Kevin couldn't take it and kept turning to the other side. I knew he loved it because he started holding me tight as if we were one pushing his now erect cock into my legs.
Once the song was over, I took Kevin by the hand and dragged him outside, kissing him in the mouth wildly while rubbing his cock thru his pants with my hips. Kevin soon had his arms around my waist and was feeling my butt and tummy then my breasts and trying to reach inside my skirt. I took Kevin to my car and continued kissing him while he started feeling under my skirt and inside my panties. Kevin was turning into an animal kissing and sucking on my neck and I had a very difficult time believing I was his first girl. I stopped him and we drove to a remote area on the way back to our apartment and I suggested we climb into the back seat. Kevin was feeling guilty and hesitated but once I reached in his pants and felt his throbbing cock very hard and ready to explode, he climbed in. I undid his belt and zipper pulling his pants down and proceeded to go down on him straight taking his whole cock in my mouth while cupping his balls and rubbing between them. Kevin started cumming within 30 seconds and was moaning so loud while I kept rubbing his balls sucking his cock to the very last drop! On our way back to the apartment he was very nervous and begged me not to tell David about the night and once back, David was waiting with a thousand and one questions. Kevin evaded almost all the questions with a nonchalant answers but told David he was the luckiest guy in the world to have me. When we all went to bed, David asked me blunt out, is he still a virgin? My answer to David was not quite but he has a little more way to go. I told David how we danced and how turned on he was but I wouldn't let him fuck me without a condom. Instead I proceeded to suck him off eating all his sweet cum. That drove David wild and we had great loving that night to the wee hours of the morning.
That weekend, we fixed Kevin up with different girlfriends of mine and took him dancing and I had the girls seduce Kevin and play with him but not have intercourse. That Monday night David suggested that he had alot of studying to do at the library and that Kevin and I had the apartment to ourselves. I knew what David had in mind when he left 3 packages of different type condoms on the night stand.
After dinner, David left and told Kevin to take good care of me, while Kevin and I were sitting in the kitchen talking. I asked him if he has enjoyed the trip yet and he was so happy and started talking about the great feeling touching girls and being touched. I excused myself and slipped into the shower while Kevin watched Tv, when I come out I told Kevin I would get something on comfortable and be right out. I asked him to dry my back first so he came in and pampered my back with the towel then I asked him to powder me. I knew he was already getting turned on. When he left, I put on one of David's favorite sexy outfits that he loves me to wear when we have sex. I put on a black chiffon teddy that ends at the waist with a black garter belt and black seamed stockings and crotchless black chiffon matching panties with a pair of 5inch black heels with bright red lipstick and silver earrings and necklace, almost as if we were going out to dinner.
Kevin was watching when I opened the door and stood there. He was speechless when I slowly walked across the room taking him by the hand back to my bedroom where I left soft music and 2 candles burning. I told Kevin that he was in for the night of his life! I kneeled in front of him slipping off his shoes, pants and underwear. Then I boldly took his half hard cock and put it deep inside my mouth while rubbing his balls with one hand and squeezing his butt with the other. Kevin came again within a minute and I slowly kept sucking every drop until he was starting to get real hard again. I had him remove his shirt and we laid on the bed while I let him play with my body for almost an hour. He was scared that David would walk in but I reassured him it was ok. I finally mounted Kevin, after slipping a condom over his moist cock and I mounted him with his cock so hard and already throbbing inside me. We fucked for almost 5 minutes when he came again. I kept rocking on top of him picking my pussy up and down on him while tightening my muscles around the tip of his cock but Kevin was plainly to scared to get it up again. I let him go to the bathroom while I cleaned up a little and then David walked in while Kevin was washing.
David reached between my legs and felt my moist ready pussy and told me thanks honey, I knew you would come thru Kevin walked out seeing David and I embraced lying on the bed with David starting to rub my clit. Kevin slowly walked by and out of the room when David called him back in and continued fingering me while talking and asking Kevin if he had a great night. Kevin again said how great I was and when David unzipped his pants and started fucking me in front of Kevin, I went wild and told Kevin to come over next to me. He was still nude and had taken off the condom. He was starting to get turned on and I reached down pulling his cock to my mouth while David told him he was the lucky guy! That was one of the first nights I experienced 2 men, one in my mouth and the other in my pussy. I had multi-orgasms and David knows how much I love exhibition while we love each other.

Updated 11/03 [M 37] I love watching my wife make love to another man, although I have only seen her with one other man it did happen on several occasions. The first time happened when Mia and I were still dating, we were in my apartment watching a porn when the action started to get hot between us while we were watching a hot lesbian scene. After having some of the hottest sex we'd had up to that point in the relationship, I asked her what she thought of the scene we had just watched in the video. She told me thought it was really hot and that the two girls in the porno reminded her of two college friends that she felt had fooled around together but never told anyone. I asked her if she had felt left out and she said she did. I then asked if she wanted to try it, and she just looked at me like she wasn't sure what to say, I said I can arrange it if you want me to. She smiled and said get outta here, I said, really I know a couple that likes to swing.
Well after some more talking and some more hot sex over the next week I made a call to my friends Valerie and Peter and arranged a dinner date. Mia and I couldn't stop talking about the date, we discussed rules if someone felt uncomfortable, she said she wanted to always be in the same room with me, we agreed on everything. We met Valerie and Peter at a nice restaurant and although they were already friends of mine, and I had already had sex with Valerie, I was nervous as to how Mia would react or hit it off with them. Well everyone hit it off immediately, and after 2 glasses of wine Mia said "so when are we gonna get this party started." With that we paid our bill and left to go back to Val and Peter's. When we got back to their place the tension was very high, Peter opened a botte of wine. Mia spilled a little bit of wine on her sweater top, and that's when it all happened. Peter asked Mia to go with him and he would show her the wash room and left Val and I in the Kitchen. Well Val and I were talking and flirting for about 10 minutes when we realized that Peter and Mia had not returned yet, Val said wait here a second and she left the kitchen. She returned in about 10 seconds and said "well it looks like this night is going to be a success, it seems Peter has Mia's sweater off and he's making out with her on top of the washing machine." I could feel my dick immediately start to get hard and I immediately started to kiss Val. I had just taken off Val's shirt when Mia and Peter walked in on us making out. I looked at Mia who was still wearing her bra and smiling and said "are you alright", still concerned about her first time experiencing something like this. She giggled and said "oh yes, very fine" Val then approached her and they started to kiss, they moved over into the living room and Peter and I watched for the next half hour as our two girls made love to one another, it was amazing seeing Mia go down on a woman for the first time. After they both came Val got up off of the sofa and sat on top of me, Peter went over to Mia on the sofa.
What would happen next would bring me to a level of excitement I had never felt before. As things moved along Val was on her knees licking my cock up down the shaft as I had a view of Mia on her knees sucking Peter's cock. I couldn't actually see his cock in her mouth because Mia's back was to me but I could see that here head was going up and down pretty good. Not wanting to come just yet I had Val get up into the chair I was in and I started to go down and lick her wet pussy. After giving Val a pretty good licking she whispered that she had to have my cock in her now. Val got on top of me, facing away and started to fuck me slow and hard. At this point I could hear Mia across the room grunting and moaning (she's not usually a moaner, so it definitely got my attention), I looked over Val's shoulder and I could see Mia on all four's, back arched, ass high, and Peter slamming his hard cock in and out of my woman. In about 5 minutes I could sense that Mia was about to cum and I couldn't hold back any longer, as she came, I blew my load inside Val. another 30 seconds later Peter came all over Mia's beautiful ass and back, and with that Val came too. We then took a little break and went upstairs to their bedroom, we were all in their bed fooling around when Val and I moved down to the floor. l will never forget looking up a few minutes later seeing Mia straddling Peter's face, rubbing her pussy on his mouth. When we finished with that round Mia and I went to the guest bedroom, I asked her if she was OK with everything and she was. We then had some of the most intense sex ever, I came inside her and it was then I knew this was going to be my wife.
Mia and I got married about two years later and have had several other happy meetings (before and after ther wedding)with Val and Peter who have become our best friends .

Updated 2/03 [M 49] recently, i found a woman that wanted to experience sex in different ways. both she and i are former lovers and we both had fantasies of sex with partners that normally would not happen. Since we both wanted to have sex with other people and had been either turned down on previous attempts or we knew better to try to ask them to have sex with us, we decided there was an easier way. she and i wrote down some names of people, both male and female, of people we wanted to have sex with but didn't know how to ask them for fear of ridicule. since it was her idea initially, i agreed to let her go first. one of the names was this hot gal i used to date and my girlfriend wanted to go down on her but knew that my former lover was very straight. i called my former lover and asked her if we could meet one more time for old times sake and thankfully, she readily agreed. as soon as she arrived, my new girlfriend was hiding in the closet. i sat her down and explained to her how much i missed her and how much i missed going down on her too. she loved to be eaten and knew that i could do her for hours if she desired. i then explained to her that i wanted to try something different and told her that i'd like to tie her up while she is sitting in a chair and blindfold her. she was adamant at first and then she got to thinking about it and agreed. as soon as i blindfolded her, i started to remove her clothes slowly...teasing her mostly in preparation of what was to cum.
as usual, she was dripping profusely and was begging for me to get on with it. as i sat her in a chair, i told her to scoot forward so that he pussy was right on the edge of the chair and then i tied her up to that chair. silently, i walked over to the closet and opened it and whispered to my new girlfriend that she was ready but she had to be silent and no noises. as my new girlfriend saw my former lover sitting there, she stared at her hot dripping pussy and smiled. i watched as she slowly began to eat my former lover's pussy. while she was eating her, i got down behind her and licked both her pussy and her ass. i quickly thought of something and whispered into her ear that she only touch her with her tongue..no touching her nipples, no touching her inner thighs with her fingers, and no letting her hair slide down onto her body. as she ate my former lover, her pussy dripped so much that i saw puddles of her juices on my floor. my former lover was soon cumming all over her face as she greedily licked up her sweet tangy juices. i thought we'd been caught one time when my girlfriend moaned a little bit as she too began to cum but i reminded her to be silent. this went on for nearly 45 minutes. my former lover was getting eaten out by her best friend and didn't know it.
as my girlfriend finally decided enough was enough, she stood up and then kissed me very passionately and then hid inside the closet again. slowly, i removed my former lover's binds and as soon as she was free, she jumped on top of me..pinning me to the floor as she her hot juicy cunt over my cock..telling me to fill her pussy with my cum. i was so turned on that i shot my cum within minutes and as she rolled off of me, i went down and ate my cum out of her. she was still cumming as my tongue slid up inside her. shortly thereafter, she dressed and before leaving, she told me that she had a wonderful time and that she'd love to do it again soon. as soon as she left, my girlfriend literally jumped me as she ran out of the closet. we had the hottest sex of all times right then. wow..she was wettttt.
several nights later, she agreed it was my turn as i told her of a guy that she knew that i'd always wanted to suck. i told her that i'd asked him several times if i could suck him off but he always told me that he wasn't into guys for any reason. my girlfriend then put the plan into action.
I went over to my girlfriend's house a few days later and while i just started to lick her pussy, we heard a knock on her door. she looked out the spyhole in the door and quickly told me to hide in the closet since my dream was about to cum true as it did for her previously. nervously, i hid in her closet as i heard her letting him into her house. i waited impatiently as i heard her explaining to him how she wanted to suck him off first and then fuck him silly. they knew each other but according to her, they had never approached each other for sex but i knew that this guy had always wanted to have sex with my girlfriend. he was not real happy about being tied up and blindfolded as he was begging with her not to. then, i heard him moaning as i heard her removing his clothes. she loved to tease and soon had him agreeing to her plan. within minutes, she came and got me out of the closet and reminded me too that i could not touch him..no moaning..and that i could only suck him off. silently and quickly, i walked towards him. i was in awe as i saw his hot young body sitting there naked..sporting at least an 8" cock. it was dripping precum and shaking as he asked where she was. swiftly, i knelt before him and began to lick his hot throbbing cock. his precum was very sweet tasting as i greedily swallowed it.
while i was licking his cock, i saw my girlfriend sitting on a couch..fingering her pussy..waiting impatiently. he started moaning that he was about to cum and that he wanted to cum in her mouth. slowly, i backed off and let him calm down since i wanted to suck him off a little while longer. he was begging to cum as i slowly engulfed his hot pulsating cock into my mouth. his hips were bucking my mouth as i sucked his hot sweet tool. i almost touched his cock but my girlfriend noticed this and stopped me. we were both grinning as she knew that i was about to taste his sweet cum. his cock was dripping precum heavily as i licked it clean. his moans turned into begging as i slid my mouth all the way down onto his throbbing cock. i almost gagged as i felt his first wad of sweet cum blasting into my throat. knowing that he was cumming, i backed off a bit but kept sucking the tip of his cock..tasting his sweet cum as it blasted forcefully into my mouth. shortly thereafter, i stood up and kissed my girlfriend..giving her a taste of his cum. sadly, i was pointed towards the closet and as soon as i had it closed, i heard her talking to him..telling him that she needed his hot meat inside her pussy. i heard him fucking her for nearly 30 minutes as i heard her cumming over and over again. i kept hearing her telling him to fill her pussy with his cum again and again.
finally, i heard her telling him that he must leave since she was expecting me to come over very soon since we had a date planned for that day. i heard him telling her that her bj was out-of-this-world and that he'd love to cum back again if at all possible. as i heard her telling him that this meeting must be kept a secret, i heard her yelling back to me that he was driving away. quickly, i ran and jumped her as she had jumped me several days ago. she was dripping with sweat..she looked so invitingly delicious as we got into a hot 69. his cum was beginning to drip out of her pussy as i buried my tongue all the way inside her..eating his cum out of her. i was so turned on that i ate my girlfriend's asshole and pussy for about an hour and then we made love.

Updated 1/03 [M 32] When I was younger, I was very fortunate to have become involved sexually with an older woman. This woman was divorced, and was spending her vacation in a cottage near to where I was working for the summer. She was very liberated, and took it upon herself to teach me to be a good lover. About a week after she'd begun my 'lessons', she was joined at her cottage by her girlfriend. Apparently, she and her girlfriend had maintained a sexual relationship that dated back to when she was married, which had no doubt contributed to its ultimate failure. Anyhow, at the tender age of seventeen, I was allowed to first observe, and then participate in, the sexual activities that these two beautiful women shared. Being allowed to watch how they touched and pleasured one another was so fulfilling, not to mention highly exciting to a teen who'd barely even seen a live woman nude before then. Being able to participate was mind-blowing! I've only had two other multi-partner experiences since - once in college a few months after my summer at the cottage, and once just last year with my wife and an acquaintance.
The episode in college happened quite by chance. I'd gone home with a girl from one of my classes who I'd befriended several weeks before. I pleasured her orally in her room, and apparently this was the first time that anyone had. After recovering from her orgasm, she asked if I'd be willing to do the same for her roommate, who she reported had also never had oral sex before. Being now an eighteen year old with a belly full of beer and the experiences of the previous summer behind me, I agreed without any reservation. I thought that the roommate might find the situation initially awkward, but she'd apparently been listening to her girlfriend getting off, and was quite aroused upon entering the room. While I went down on her, the first girl I'd pleasured stroked my erection while rubbing my balls. I came in her hand a few minutes before her roommate got off, but I made sure to finish my task with gusto, as I'd been taught that previous summer.
The experience that my wife and I had last summer was a bit different. For one thing, my wife had never expressed any desire toward intimacy with another woman, let alone bringing another person into our bed. We were away at a friend's wedding, and met up with a woman who we'd met previously through our friend who was getting married. As we mingled over drinks at the reception late after the wedding, I noticed my wife chatting with this woman on a couple of occasions, and thought nothing of it. At the end of the night, my wife informed me that we'd be sharing a cab back to the Inn with this woman, which again seemed unremarkable to me. Upon our arrival at the Inn, my wife invited the woman back to our room for drinks, once again, fairly benign I thought.
After a glass of wine or two, I excused myself to go to the washroom, and returned to find my wife and the woman kissing quite passionately and fondling one another at the edge of the bed. Once the shock of what I was seeing wore off, I found myself extremely aroused. I wanted to join in more than anything, but resisted in fear of interruption. Instead, I decided to settle into a comfortable viewing position, and watch as things unfolded. The two continued to kiss and play with each other for a while before beginning to remove one another's clothes. As they began stripping each other, my wife took her new lover by the hand, and led her to where I was seated in the opposite corner of the room. She sat on my lap, facing away from me, and continued to remove the other woman's clothing, then began to fondle and lick the woman's ample breasts. As she did so, she began to grind against my erection, and grabbed my hands from the arms of the chair in which I was seated, and brought them to her breasts. It was so erotic to play with my wife while she pleasured another woman that I felt like I was going to cream my pants.
Moments later, the woman pulled my wife from my lap, and led her back to the bed, motioning my wife to kneel at the edge. She flopped onto her back and brought her knees up over my wife's shoulders, pulling her head to her crotch. I quickly removed my pants, and knelt behind my kneeling wife, fondling her between her legs for a moment before impaling her on my erect penis. Fearing that I'd have no ejaculatory control if I began thrusting, I kept myself rather still once inside her, electing instead to focus on stimulating her clit and breasts with my hand. I knew that I'd be coming right along with my wife, what with the view I had of her and her lesbian lover coupled with her contractions around my cock. Surprisingly, the woman lying on the bed was the first to go, followed soon after by my wife and I.
I must say that the moments afterward felt slightly awkward, but the woman did stay for a while afterward, and we've kept in touch with her quite regularly since. Talking about it both the next day and often since then, my wife has stated that she'd be open to the idea of something like that happening again, but only if the conditions were right. We haven't explored yet what those conditions might be, but I'd bet my life's savings that they'd include the same woman, as well as an element of spontaneity. She has thanked me since for only focusing on her while the other woman was with us, which is something that I'd learned from my erotic teachers many years ago. They'd told me that if I was ever fortunate enough to find a woman who was open to bringing a second woman into the relationship, it would be imperative that the experience be about her desires and pleasure, not my own.
That lesson stuck with me, and echoed in my head that night last summer. Thankfully it did, for my wife would not be at all open to such an experience again if it hadn't.

Updated 11/02 [M] I am very interested in orgies and/or threesomes. My girl friend and I have had several threesomes in the past with both men and women. I myself do not touch or get involved with a man, but I enjoy penetrating her while she his sucking another man, or vise versa. Usually, we will take turns penetrating her and being sucked, and then we will both ejaculate on her face. She does not like to have it in her mouth, but does not mind it on her face and tits.
We also get involved with other girls on occasion. I usually have sex with both of them and come inside my girl friend. I have only came in the other girl on two occasions, because we both knew her very well and thought it was safe. I did find it an incredible turn-on. I also love receiving oral sex by two girls at the same time. On several occasions, I have had the opportunity to come on both of their faces at the same time. I have never felt so incredible turned-on by that.

Updated 10/02 [F]I was involved with these 2 men and 1 woman. This woman had no kids and wanted to experience the labor process. Well, we decided to show her what it was like, so me and my friends decided to use me as the start of where and how and etc. Well the men where very big and took my breath away. One of the guys penetrated me with the penis and the other in the anus and then they stuck a dildo in with the real penis. Well this stimulated me to want to push like I was in labor, let me tell you this was an UNREAL experience. There was a lot of screaming etc., trying to get the both out of me. I had a great time and the lady wanted to try and she had been there for 3 hours and boy was she exhausted.

Updated 8/02 [M]just a short note on threesomes,iv;e been down that road it was fun, mine started on a Friday afternoon&went the weekend but was i sore for weeks after, we where sitting around having a few glasses of wine (it was in the summer time) every one was in a jovial mood, this is the different part no one had marriage commitments, so we where free agents (so to speak).I am married know so it is very different set of circimstances&older(woud'nt have the stamina),plus one guy can't service 3 women quickly enough to satisfy. It is proven women have more staying power than men&can have multiple orgasims(as was in my case),i was soaking wet& i found that I'm no weakling, 3 women are more powerfull&situations at times where a little scary for me any way. Sounds strange but its true it was an experience you won't forget in a hurray. Ages of women 29.38,47&i was31& considered myself fit, as i mentioned i was sore for weeks i have a meaty penis i thought it had shrunk for a while but alls well. So ladies&guys there is a lot to think of before you take the leap, i had no wife to get jelous so no repercussions.

Updated 5/02 [M] I would like to tell you what hapened when my wife who at the time was celebrating her 27th birthday.
We enjoyed going to a small neighborhood bar where I enjoy playing pool and drinking a few beers. this is where it all started one of the bar tenders is a man in his early 40ies. My wife liked to sit at the bar and she and the bar tender would cary on a conversation and tell jokes. I thought that they were geting very friendly but because he was so old I didnt really worry about it. I did notice that several evening he would go to a back room and bring cases of beer out to restock the coolers at closing time. I also noticed that on some of these ocasinons my wife would make trips to the rest room that lasted for some time the other bar tended the bar by his self.
One night i walked back by the store roomand saw my wife and the bar tender in a deep kiss he had her skirt hiked up and I am sure he had his hand in her panties. When we got home I confronted her about what I had seen. she confessed it had been going on for some time and that she intended to have intercourse with him . he had asked her and she had told him he could.
Well it hapened the night of her 27th birthday. He wanted to take her out to a nother big club for a celebration he had took the night off from his job. He and my wife spent the evening dancing and being very romantic. I nursed a few beers and tryed to be act as if I didnt know what was going on. When we left the club in the car on the way home they kissed and her dress was pulled up past the crotch of her thong panties as he felt of her.
When we got home I was some what turned on thinking I was in some way going to be involved in sex with my wife. we all got undressed he and my wife undressing each other. we got on the bed my wife in the midle. I reached for my wife but she pushed me away and turned to him. She told me if I was going to be on the bed to give them some space as it is a big bed. He went down on her pussy and my wife went wild I was in a daze as I watched my wife sucking his cock also .then he mounted her I was numb with passion and also with jelousey as he fucked my beautiful wife. They lay in each others arms fucking and making love my wife telling hin what a happy birthday party she was having.
I got up and nursed three stiff shots of whiskey to help get over the hurt feelings of being regected by my wife. I drifted off to sleep early in the the morning I woke up to the moans and squeals and the violent shaking of the bed as he was again fucking my wife. I got up made some coffee and in a while I heard them in the shower and later they came in and had coffee my wife was naked. When he left he kissed and fondled her. They told each other how wonderful and exciting it had been.
I voiced my feeling to my wife and she said it had only been sex and that she didn love him she loved me . she has been trying to maket it up to me for regecting me and i will admit she is giving me more loving and sex then befor it still hurts to know she turned me down and fucked him.

Updated 6/01 [F 34] I am a 34 year old school teacher and my husband and I read your column each month when the new posts come out. We have used some of the info in our own lives. Thanks to your column, we now enjoy oral and anal sex very much.
My husband is one who is turned on by watching other people have sex. When he was young, living in Reading, Pennsylvania, he watched his step-father having sex with his mother several times a week and he wouldmasturbate after he got old enough to do so. He loves to watch me bring myself to climax too.
About two years ago he started to bring XXX porno flicks home from a video store near us and we would both lay in bed and watch them on our TV. I found I also enjoyed them and seeing a woman with more than one man left me breathless and very aroused. We normally had sex one time when we coupled but he started to come back for seconds after viewing the movies. I was delighted as many times before he would climax before I did and I would be left hanging.
He began to ask me questions about being with another man and if I had ever had feelings of lust for another man since marrying him. I didn't lie and told him that most women have these feelings once in awhile but they usually just go away. He asked me who the guy was and I told him about another teacher in our school that all the females are talking about. He is unmarried and a very handsome guy and being human I have noticed him too. The subject dropped until one day my husband told me we were having a guest for supper and to fix a good meal and he would bring the wine. I had no idea who it was and so I fixed a great supper and dressed accordingly. My husband is in business for himself and often entertains clients away from home. I heard the doorbell ring and when I opened it I almost dropped my teeth! It was the young, handsome teacher from school! I stuttered for a minute and then asked him in. My husband arrived shortly thereafter with two bottles of good wine. I was still a little speechless and my husband and my co-worker did most of the talking. I did notice that our guest kept watching me all through the meal. Little did I know that my husband had informed him of my attraction to him.
We had a glass of wine with our meal and then another shortly afterwards while we sat in our living area. I am not one to drink much but that night I felt I needed it and soon I had reached that point where everything is rosy and you like everyone. I only smiled sheepishly when our guest moved to my side on the couch and lay his arm around my shoulder. I just lay my head back to try to get the room to stop spinning. I opened my eyes when I felt my blouse being unbuttoned and I just sat there watching him undress me. It was like I was watching from another world as the wine had done it's job. He soon had me stripped to my panties and thigh high stockings and my bra was laying beside me. My husband had told him our secrets and he knew how sensitive my breasts are and he was paying them homage. In my mind I knew it was not normal but try as I might I was dimly aware of my arousal and I knew I wanted this man.
He picked my 117 pound body up like it was nothing and carried me to or spare bedroom where unknowing to me my husband had set up our video camera to film the entire episode. As I lay wih my eyes closed to the blaring over-head light I felt hands pulling my panties down and off. I was now nude except for my stockings. Through the haze I saw or friend removing his clothes as my husband worked the camera. I felt the bed move and creak as the guy joined me. My lips opened almost voluntarily as the tip of his penis pressed against my lips and soon I was giving him oral sex. This went on for quite awhile and then I felt his penis slide from between my lips as he changed positions. I felt my legs opened and held that way for a minute and then he rolled my knees backup on my chest and moved into position to penetrate me. He was larger than my husband and I felt stretched as he sank to his full length inside me.
I had never had another man to compare to my husband but I liked what I was feeling as this guy took it slow and easy only speeding up occasionally. I had the best sex of my life and also had a double climax for the first time. I had felt a little guilty at first but as I sobered up a little I relaxed and gave in to the moment and the pure bliss I was feeling as he breached me time and time again. Readers may think this is just another fantasy story but later when my husband and I watched it on our TV it made me so horny I couldn't believe it. This man had unbelievable staying power and he took me anally twice and I fellated him several times too. I was the first woman he had ever taken anally and he was fascinated by it. At school when we talk he never mentions that night but as we pass in the hallway he gives me that knowing grin. We agreed that this would be our first and last time for this but I will always remember the joy that this man brought me on that night ad how much watching it on TV inspires our love-making. I hope your readers enjoy this if you decide to post it. Natalie

Updated 4/01 [M 42-F 35] I understand your feelings about 3-somes and swinging and agree with you to a certain extent. Bringing another lover into your marriage/relationship can be dangerous. But it can also be an enhancement to your relationship and strengthen it. My wife and I have been married for 17 years and have enjoyed the swinging lifestyle for almost 16 of those years. We have gone through periods of more and less activity, depending on our personal circumstances and desires at the time.
We have also opereated a swingers club and assisted in the operation of others. We have spent many hours talking to couples who have wanted to join the swinging lifestyle. In these chats we have probably spent as much time talking people out of the lifestyle as into it. It takes a special relationship to be successful and happy in this. A couple has to be secure in each other and more importantly in themselves personally in order to accept another "lover" into their marriage. If there is even the slightest bit of self doubt in your ability to please your spouse physically and mentally you have a recipe for disaster. Many couples have come to see us hoping to "fix" something in their relationship. This will not happen. You need to be stable and secure before you can introduce another person or couple into your life. But if you have the right ingredients, introducing new people into your bedroom can be very erotic and a great enhancement to your life and relationship. After several years together you tend to lose some of the romance. Seeing your spouse being treated as a sexually desireable person by another person can open your eyes and bring some of it back, also he/she will regain or reinforce their confidence in themselves.
Just the simple act of flirting and foreplay can heighten your sexual pleasure together, opening your eyes to your spouses true desireability and sexual attraction. If you make it to the next step and actually move into the bedroom there are so many things you can gain from this experience if you approach it in the proper manner. During the act of lovemaking when your involved it is hard to detach and look at it from a distance. While watching your spouse have sex with another person you can see their reaction to different stimulations and tecniques and use this to enhance your own ability to please them. Plus there is nothing more erotic than seeing your lover use things you have learned together to please someone else. And seeing them learn new things that they will use to please is also very erotic. You tend to become comfortable with each other and lose some of your adventureous nature after several years together. A new partner can expand your horizons and make your realize that while your able to turn your partner on, there are still some new things you can try. Even after 16 years of trying almost anyhting possible we are still surprised at the new possibilities that can be opened up.
Durng our escapades we have both discovered many new things about ourselves and our sexuality. My wife discovered her bisexuality and has had many an erotic encounter with other women now. We have many close friends that we have met through the years and remain close friends even after several years. We do not form "exclusive" relationships and are always together in our encounters. We are not searching for somehting missing from our lives but we are looking to enhance our already wonderful sex life.Plus there is a physical limit to the things 2 people can do together that limits some of the pleasures you can experience. There is nothing more erotic than having 2 or even more sets of hands and lips caressing your body at the same time. The sensory overload can be explosive at times. We have had some very wonderfully erotic times with another couple or couples expanding horizons and boundries both sexually and socially. We plan on continuing for many more years to follow.
It is impossible to convey the true feelings in an e-mail but i hope I have explained some of what the swinging lifestyle is to us. If you have any questions or comments please feel free to ask away. We do not offend easily if you ask questions that pry into the lifestyle.

Updated 3/01 [F] I'm about to share my story with you that only a few close people know about. My husband being included of course. You see, I am in love with two wonderful men, both of whom know about the other. Always have. So let me start from the beginning for you.
Five years ago, the internet was new and AOL was the leading place to use for "newbies" to the net. I carefully picked my screen name, and went "surfing" around the chat rooms.
One afternoon, I received an instant message from a very interesting screen name ( it referred to how much this person loved the art of kissing ) ( mine referred to the art of flirting. ) and we began to flirt, tease, trade vital statistics, and so forth.
At this time, I was married, with a 2 year old child, and my husband had agreed for me to have a relationship with our close friend, for which at the moment was very much going on, and he practically lived with us on the weekends, but the extra relationship was becoming very demanding and to be honest, I was his "first" and found his nervousness beginning to irritate me and I was becoming bored with his lack of experience and upset with his demanding nature in bed.
So, after chatting with my new friend on line for a few weeks, he finally invited me to meet him in person, in public, at his very public job. I can't say where, or what it details, because he is well known in his field and actually holds a high position. I will tell you he is in the public eye daily and is in the entertainment field.
Well I gathered my courage and became very excited about meeting this wonderful man I have been flirting with and sharing sexual passes all these weeks. We had exchanged photos and in an instant I was mesmerized by his sky blue eyes, and caring face. I also took great notice that his lips were perfect for his screen name he chose.
Anyways, I call my husband at work and got the go ahead to meet this person, from him. Off I went to meet this face, and put typed words to a voice.
When I arrived, I stayed in the crowd, and had walked past his work station more then a few times. In my walking through this establishment I was hoping he would noticed and pick me out of the crowd. However, my time was running out, as I had to be home soon, and I had someone deliver a brief note to his work station. In it I said, "I have to leave soon. Come find me".
I watched him walk through the crowd, passing me twice. My heart was about to be crushed, or so I thought, but then all of a sudden I hear, "There you are!" and I heard his voice for the first time. I melted between my legs, and I watched his lips speak and I hung on every word he spoke.
After a brief chat, I had to say my good-byes. Before leaving though he asked if he could kiss me. My heart raced and I could almost hear my sexual energy scream as his lips touch my cheek with my most sensual kiss I have ever received!
I in turn asked if he would mind if I returned the kiss, as he was at work. He said he would be honored. So I leaned in, my blouse falling away from my large breast and kissed him delicately on the side of his neck. ( A "spot" that we talked about that drove him wild with lust. )
We agreed to meet up at a local bar near my house that evening so that he could formally meet my husband, and I could see how the two felt around each other. That evening was great and I got tipsy, and flirted openly and honestly with both my husband and my new found friend.
When I walked him to his car after the evening was over, I gave him a hug and he got into his car. He rolled down his window and asked for my hand. Holding it gently yet firmly he took his free hand and with his finger tip placed it at the bottom on my palm and said "imagine this is the bottom of your pussy," I shivered as he placed his finger on the tip of my middle finger and continued, " and this is the tip of your clit". He lowered his deliciously warm tongue onto my palm and licked me from the base of my palm to the tip of my middle finger. After I was almost unable to stand he said, " Hopefully I'll be able to show you exactly how wonderfully skilled I am at this, but consider it a preview."
Ok, so I creamed my panties, and took hubby home for a serious night of screwing till we were sore, but after that I night I began seeing this man. I dumped our friend, even though the way I did it was mean, it had to be done. My boyfriend is now 36 and I am 28. We have been together almost 5 years now, and we have been through rough times, even a period of 4 months that we parted ways because our emotions were so strong for each other that we couldn't handle them.
Our sex life is outstanding, and he is extremely an unselfish lover and pleases me from here to the heavens. Hell, just a touch of his fingers on my pussy send me screaming with joy!
This amazing man has even enhanced my marriage with my husband, as when I see my boyfriend, after wards I have to HAVE my husband. My sexual desire is on over drive and the hunger for passion is started by my boyfriend.
I am not the "typical" woman out there, I know. However, I am blessed beyond this life with a wonderful, understanding, amazing husband, and with a just as wonderful and understanding boyfriend, both of whom are the loves of my life.
To those that think this is easy, having two men in my life, it's not. I tread delicately in this life, trying to not hurt either emotions or feelings. I live almost a duel life, although they do know of each other and get along great. I am blessed/cursed with being able to love both men equally and giving them each the attention they deserve, but you see, love is never truly easy, and who said just one person had to be the end all to be all for you?
May all those who think they can do this, good luck, to all those that think I am wrong or insane, I'm glad I'm wrong, and I'll handle being insane. What makes me happy and those I love happy, is all that I am concerned with.

[M] I have never been close to a threesome sex act before but have always dreamed of it. Last weekend I ran right into one without planning it.
One of the girls I go out with had three basketball tickets for a local college game and she brought her girlfriend and we all three watched the game together. After the game I suggested a hot-tub and they agreed. The girls didnt have swim suits so they asked to borrow a t-shirt and they got into the tub wearing panties and t-shirts. I had a bathing suit on but we all took the clothes off after it began to get hot inside the tub. I could see the girls breasts bobbing around on the water and it was sexy to watch this, but not as sexy as when I felt a foot on my genitals, and I could feel someones toes rubbing my penis and balls. I soon figured out who was doing it because of the look on her face, and she smiled as my penis got stiff from the stimulation she was giving me with her toes. I then put my foot into her crotch and could feel her pubic hair and pussy lips with my toes. She then came over to my side of the tub and began stroking my penis with her hand. The other gal knew what was happening and said she wanted to get some too. She then came over to the other side of me and I began playing with her breasts as she put her head back and put her arms on the tub side. I could not believe what was happening. And the clincher came when the woman who was playng with my penis asked me to sit on the edge of the tub and she took my penis into her mouth and began sucking me off in front of the other girl. I then watched as the second woman sat up on the edge also and began masturbating as I was getting my penis sucked. As soon as I saw this I ejaculated, then watched as the two woman now played with each other until one had an orgasm by having her clitoris rubbed back and forth by her friend. I can die happy now.

Posted 2/01 [M] I met Amy at a bar and we began dating. After a month or so she told me that she had another man and said that she wanted both of us and asked me to accept the threesome. She had already told the other guy (Marco, an italian guy) about me. I told her that I would accept it for a while. Then, all of us, I, Amy and Marco, got together at a bar and had a nice time, and later on that day, we two decided to make love to her, and we did like this: we arrived at her apartment and just took her to her bedroom, undressed her and began sucking her all over. Then, we undressed and she sucked our cocks and we fucked her in all possible ways, and ended up making a double penetration. From that day on we fucked her almost everyday and it was just wonderful. It was great to see Marco and Amy fucking like crazy. And it was a delight to see his cock going into and out of her wonderful asshole. She was just nuts for sex. Actually, all of us. Today I am in Brazil and I continue to be nuts for sex. I have a wife and also a lover who is a job colleague.

Posted 1/2/01 [M] I loved your page on sex. It's wonderful. I have an experience to tell you. When I lived in the US I had a girlfriend who also had another boyfriend. In the beginning I found it very strange but with time I got used to it. Actually, we three got used to it. Once we two tried to make love to Amy at the same time and it was wonderful and since that day we went on fucking her all the time, and she loved anal sex and had many orgasms, especially being penetrated by both of us. It was a great time. We spent 6 years together.

[F] I have been reading your letters and the readers comments for quite awhile and I decided to post this account of my husband's and my life. We have been married five years and we are both twenty-seven years old. I became sexually active at age 13 and he was nineteen when he had his first woman. We went together for about six months before we were married.
My husband has a very small penis (5 inches) and I really did not climax from his penetration but he performed oral sex so well that it satisfied me for quite awhile but soon I started to want more. I love my husband very much and I didn't want to loose or embarrass him. I fretted for several weeks over this but could not think of a way to approach him. Men are very touchy about these things.
I know a lot people say that a large penis is not necessary but I don't feel that way. My first lover was very large and even though it was painful at first I grew to love his size. I had a little trouble with oral sex but soon adjusted to that too. The next guy I dated was much smaller and I just couldn't get that "filled up" feeling. When I have sex I like to feel like I am being "taken" and I just don't get that feeling from a small penis. Through school I slept with quite a few guys and I always went back to the heavily endowed ones.
My husband and I met and it was love at first sight and even with the small penis he was very sexy and on our first date he performed the greatest oral sex I had ever experienced. Later his small penis felt strange in my mouth after having so many large ones but I put it out of my mind and we were later married.
I told my closest female friend about my delema and she made a suggestion that made sense if it worked. She confessed to me that her husband and she had been swinging for a long time and her husband was blessed with a ten inch penis. She even brought me a nude picture of him and he was enormous! I had never seen a penis that large and I must admit my heart did have a flutter or two when I saw it.
She mentioned that her husband liked me very much and was interested in me sexually. He was a handsome guy and I was flattered . The thought of having him and his magnificent member began to occupy my mind more and more and after a night of frustrating sex with my husband I called my friend at work. We discussed the details and she suggested that I try a meeting first before we approached my husband. I agreed to meet them at their house on the night my husband attends his bowling league meeting.
For the next few days many things went through my mind including guilt but I just pushed them out and prepared for my rendevous. After my husband left on the night planned I spent awhile making myelf pretty and getting into my most sexy lingerie. I am not a beauty queen but I am attractive with a good body. My best features are my large but fairly firm breasts. On this night I donned garter-belt, stockings and very transparent sexy panties and bra, things that always turned my husband on. When I looked in the mirror I was saisfied that my friends husband (Don) would like what he saw. I jumped in my car and nervously headed to their home.
He was dressed in beautiful scarlet colored robe when he answered the door. I felt strange stirrings as he boldly looked me up and down. I had on four inch heels and it made me almost as tall as he was. We entered the living room where I was offered a drink which I needed badly as my knees were shaking a little. This man was more handsome than I thought and I was getting a little turned on by his nearness as he sat beside me on te couch. I have always liked neat men and good cologne and he had both. I noticed his nails were clean and neatly manicured and his small mustached was trimmed precisely. He was not pushy like some men I have met and he offered me a couple of drinks more just to relax me. Soon he moved to my side and let his arm fall gently around my shoulders. I was getting "mellow" by then and next I felt his hand move to my breast. It had been a long time since I had felt this aroused by a man and I just shut my eyes and let him have his way. As his wife watched he played me like a fine violin and soon had my blouse open to my waist and my front-hook bra off. After bathing my breasts with his tongue for several minutes he lifted me to my feet and we headed to their spare bedroom.
He helped me out of my skirt and soon I was standing there in high heeled shoes, panties and garter belt. He had removed his robe and was in his silk boxer shorts. I was a little embarrassed as he lay on the bed and looked me over slowly. He then said the words every woman loves"Your beautiful," With that he pulled me gently to the bed and took me in his arms. I can tell you this: At that moment he could have done anything to me he wanted to do as I was on fire! My husband and my home-life were forgotten and I just lay back as he raised my legs and removed my panties.
He kissed every inch of my body and soon I felt his tongue work it's magic on my vagina which was wet and very sensitive by now. My cltoris is small but he found it and I cliaxed almost instantly for the first of several times that night. My husband has performed oral sex on me so many times and my little button is very sensitive to a tongue. He continued for several minutes and I was ready for anything now. I lay back with my eyes closed as I felt him shift to remove his shorts. He lay back down and took my hand and placed it on his penis. I could not believe what I felt! I had only seen a penis like this in an old porno movie about John Holmes. the famous porno star. As he lay back I set up and just stared at this magnificent manhood. I shuddered a little at the thought of taking that monster inside me but then I thought of my small hung husband and my fears lessened. I just lay my head on his stomach and gently worked my hand up and down the 10 inch shaft. He moaned and gently pushed my head downward and knew what he wanted. I must admit that hs wife watching me was an arousing factor and as my lips parted I looked at her on the other bed and she was masturbating vigorously.
This scene was bringing emotions out that I had not felt since college and I knew I was never going to be happy with my sex life at home again. As I slowly worked my lips down this wonderful hot shaft I felt like a woman again.
After some intensive sucking he pulled from my mouth and mounted me like a young virgin. He was very gentle and with just a little pain he sank to my farthest depths and just let me relax and enjoy the beautiful feeling of being taken and being full for the first time in years. This man knew all the moves and soon I was having my seond orgasm as I literally screamed from the sensation of that giant inside me. He was thicker than any of the many men that I had slept with and my vagina had tightened from having my small-built husband, causing the friction to be greater as he sank into me time and time again. He continued to get more agressive as I streetched to accomadate him and soon I felt him tense and moan with his head thrown back as he filled the condom inside me with his fluid.
After we both came back to earth I heard his wife on the other bed as she reached one of her several climaxes that day. I was later introduced to the joys of being with a woman as my friend worked between my parted thighs, using her tongue and hands to bring me to bliss again. This was just the first of several visits and we have not yet told my husband but I am planning on initiating him into our plans soon. I hope my friend can seduce him and he can become a part of our fun but regardless of the outcome I plan to enjoy all that giant penis that I can.. Believe me girls there is nothing like a well endowed man!!!!!
Note - her husband's small penis is actually quite normal in size. JEL

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