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Updated 7/06 [M] I absolutely enjoy having my penis and balls spanked. When I was a kid, my mom was the one who administered the punishment. Spankings were always carried out with me completely naked, bent over holding onto a chair. My mom made sure to spank my ass and balls. If she felt I was particularly deserving, she would have me in the diaper position (laying on my back, knees held to my chest) this way she could really paddle my ass and balls.
When I got married, I shared my spanking experiences with my wife, who to this day loves having me strip naked and paddling my ass and balls. She went as far to tell both my mom and her mom that she spanks me regularly and has invited them over a number of times to witness my spankings. They absolutely enjoy watching and occasionally administering my spankings.

Updated 7/05 [M] Back when I was a 9 year old boy I developed a powerful urge to be spanked. Mom was spanking me occasionally for naughtiness but these thoughts just came onto me all of a sudden. Over the next week these initial thoughts of a simple spanking went to severe spankings to hard bare naked spankings. I started looking at females in terms of who I would like to spank me... So over the next week I started to plan on how to get spanked. Obviously the plan was to get mom to do it. What would work? Simple..play with matches. So on one Sunday morning wearing only pj's I lit some matches in the kitchen sink until the smoke detector went off...mom came charging into the kitchen and saw what I was doing and said "now your going to get it"

[M] I must have got 25 licks with her belt....the very worst ever. Hurt like hell but after 15 mintes of "sorry I did it" I was glad I did it. I looked at my butt about 100 times over the next day to admire the redness. Got intentionally spanked about 15 times over the next 3 years. ..until she stopped spanking...but like the memories of those spankings.....

Updated 6/05 [F 37] I saw the movie Secretary a while back and I can't get it out of my head. I was wondering if any of your reader's saw it and if they have any comments toward it. I was mostly curious if there were any women out there who could understand her need.
I asked my husband to incorporate spanking a few years ago and after he watched it he said he understood more that it wasn't a whim but more of a necessity with me. It is not the only thing that excites me although it is a definite exciting element.

Updated 3/05 [M] It had been a hot summers day, and even now in the late evening it was still pleasantly warm. My wife had gone to bed, and just before locking-up I took a stroll in our small garden. It was such a gorgeous evening that to ignore its invitation to enjoy it in the nude would have been a transgression. Why not, both neighbors were away and if the outside security light was turned off I would be virtually un-noticeable. Without a second thought, walked back to the lounge turned off the interior and exterior lights and very quickly undressed to total nudity. Stepped out into the garden and stretched my nude body to let the evening air caresses me all over, shuddering with ecstasy. Walked around the garden with the now cooling tiles stimulating my bare feet, and the sensual feeling of nudity as I strolled. Sitting down in a garden chair, the first contact with my bare bottom gave a shiver but was soon relaxed enjoying the scarce nude excursion outside of the house. With hands starting to explore my body, stopping to give the nipples a massage that caused movement to start "down below", it was then that another type of movement at the end of the garden caught my eye.
Oh shit, somebody has seen me and is coming to complain, will just have to apologize and make a hasty retreat indoors. Luckily I had not got too busy with myself! It was the way the person was leaning, head only in view, from behind the bushes that made me curious, perhaps not a complaint. With intrepidity, stood up still in the nude and approached. It was the neighbor from the adjoining end-garden; he eventually came into full view and was also fully naked. Phwee!, what a relief but suddenly it was exciting that there was somebody else also enjoying outdoor nudity. Explaining that they had heard a noise and as the lights were off thought to investigate. In the nude I questioned. It appeared that they had seen me occasionally from the bedroom windows in the nude and had a feeling that it was not really an intruder. After a short conversation about our mutual enjoyment of nudity, an invitation to join them was tendered and accepted. With exhilaration, went indoors wrote a quick note to my wife should she wake, collected the keys, locked-up and headed for the neighbor's, still nude thinking where do I put the keys!.
Our neighbor was waiting for me, still in the nude, and we went indoors to avoid any further surprises. His wife appeared wearing a short robe, short or not it was still a robe, and the idea was a nude gathering. The couple have children but they were not at home, so raising the subject of handling nudity at home with children, my hosts explained that they had overcome this problem, both children were now of age and accepted their parents quirks for nudity, sometimes teasing them "were they at it again?" and sometimes as the mood suited them joined in This was unlike my situation where only in the last years could nudity at home be re-enjoyed.
My host poured drinks and the hosts moved to the settee with me taking the easy chair opposite, still only us men in the nude. Without being too obvious the subject was approached and the wife was coaxed in to joining us in full nudity but not quite relaxed. Quite understandable reaction really I suppose when meeting your neighbor who is in the nude. With more beverages everybody began to relax and dispensed with sitting cross-legged. The couple being younger but were well into maturity. Sitting opposite, it was pleasing to see that she had only trimmed the edges of her bush for the summer and it was not totally shaved, being in the line of sight made it difficult to concentrate.
How or who mentioned the word "Spanking" was no longer of importance; from the flashing looks and slight colouring of the cheeks it was clear that here was another mutual pastime. They confessed to enjoying playful spanking, it had begun with playful smacks on bare bottoms but soon realising that feelings other than a sore bum were being aroused lead to playful spanking sessions that in turn lead to the bedroom. Quickly pointing out that they were not into SM, punishment or bondage nor using implements such as whips or canes, just playful spanking, my thoughts exactly. Suggesting that, as we are "dressed for it" why not engage in some playful spanking now. All agreed and the ground rules were set that it would be an over-the-knee position, with bare hands limited to ten spanks per person and that it would be on the settee. With lady and guest first we changed places. With sparkling eyes our hostess placed herself over my lap making sure that her bush was in contact with my cock. Holding her with one hand on the back and the other resting on her bare bum, asked her to spread her legs, for support you see! She didn't, just wriggled her bum, so whack over her bottom, obey I said, the legs were spread. Spanking commenced, with each delivered blow her body recoiled (deliberately?) which caused her bush to rub my cock. She sighed and groaned on reaching the agreed number of blows, leaving her with deep red buttocks. Still keeping a firm hand on her bare arse and wondering how I was going to let her up as by now my cock would stand up with her. Not to worry as noticing her husband busying with himself in the chair opposite. He stood up to help his wife back to the vertical, his cock as stiff and horizontal as a signpost. It was clear that no further spanking would take place this evening. We took place on the settee with our warm naked bodies touching. Without further adieu, each masturbated to final relaxation; enjoyment could be seen on everybody's faces and in their eyes. Pointing out that the men had not been spanked it was agreed that another nude-spanking session would be set-up soon. Giving each other an affectionate slap on the buttock cheeks I left for home.
Once inside, put on the security lights, picked up my clothes went upstairs and showered. Getting into bed still in the nude my wife asked sleepily where had I been, "with the neighbors at the back" I replied, "in the nude" she questioned "yes" I replied "oh yeah" was the response and we slid into sleep. The next morning resulted in being grilled in detail as to the events of the night before; apparently she had also noticed the neighbors in some sort of nudity. My defense was that she was already in bed asleep, it had started out as a private nude moon bathing session, it was only by chance that it turned into a nude party which lead to spanking but there was no sex, well not as a penetration, still I would have to be punished, the next time to consult with her first, so returned upstairs for a well-deserved spanking.
A couple of weeks passed before an e-mail invitation arrived to continue with the nude-spanking party. After this time consulting with my wife it was agreed that I could accept but she would not take part. In responding it was agreed that to add some excitement, I would arrive via the front door and that they would be already in the nude to receive me. Arriving at their front door my hostess opened the door in the all too familiar stance of only a head visible. Quickly entering and found with pleasure that her smile was all that she was wearing; being a good hostess she helped me swiftly out of my clothes. Her husband stood as agreed in the nude waiting to greet me and extended a hand; I started to respond but he avoided my hand and took hold of my cock to which I reciprocated. During coffee it was explained that we would go to the top floor for the spanking party, as it was out of the way in case anybody would call on them.
My neighbor led the way upstairs, his bare bottom, balls and swinging cock being at my eye level and noticing for the first time how beautiful his bottom was. Our hostess brought up the rear or to be more precise held up my rear; she could not keep her hands off. The attic room had been prepared for the occasion, but no settee just two high cushions, the seating arrangement became obvious later. Being my turn for the spanking, our host took position on one of the cushions and beckoned me to take place over his knees. As we mutually adjusted our cocks, our hostess shuffled her cushion so that my head was placed above her lap. Face down noticed that a lot of extra foliage had been trimmed from her bush but still leaving an attractive piece. Pushing my face into her bush and with shoulders' resting on her knees all was stabile to commence the spanking.
Deciding to follow the same tactics as the previous session, so on the command to spread my legs, no movement. Whack!, across my bare bum, spread your legs, this time obeying and noticing that the cushion arrangement gave move scope than the settee for spreading legs, what a good idea. After adjusting the position of my spread legs, he ran his hand along the back of my thighs and up through my butt crevice, a fantastic feeling. The spanking commenced and the recoil ruse was applied, except this time enjoying not only a cock rub but also that my face was pushed deeper into her bush. Each time as his hand crashed down on to my bare bottom the recoiling ritual would be performed with ecstatic groaning. Having completed the allotted blows and while waiting for me to compose myself he continued to stroke my bare butt working down the crevice and caressing my butt hole. Shivers run up my spine with exhilaration. This time as we changed positions we did not worry about stiff cocks as we both had them, just that sitting for me was more painful.
Same procedures as before, adjust cocks, wife shuffles the cushion into position and he goes down on her bush. Same tactics again; so giving the command to spread his legs, no movement. Whack!, across his bum, spread your legs, this time obeying. After adjusting the position of his spread legs, and running my hand along the back of my thighs and up through his butt crevice, his body shivered. The spanking commenced and the recoil ruse was again applied, not only enjoying a cock rub but also the pushing of his face deeper into his wife's bush. Each time as my hand crashed on to his bare bottom the recoiling ritual would be performed with ecstatic groaning. Having completed the allotted blows and while waiting for him to compose carried on stroking his bare butt, working down the crevice and caressing his butt hole. Put your finger in he groaned, No Stop! called his wife. This is the end I thought, but she carried on to say that she wanted to see the penetration. Ordering us to stand up like naughty boys, with our legs apart and hands behind our heads, she took position behind us, alternately rubbing her body on the one and delivering a hefty smack to the bare buttocks of the other, our throbbing cocks getting stiffer by the second. Sinking to her knees between and to the back of us she ordered us to bend over, and proceeded to work our bare bottoms before running her finger down our crevices to caress our butt holes, it was ecstasy, her husband pleaded for penetration again. Taking our hand in turn, she guided our fingers to the target area and helped them inside, keeping her nails free from entering. Quivering with elation and groaning with pleasure we took our free hand and applied it diligently to our throbbing and stiff cocks to shoot our load. Crashing on to the mattress, we watched as our hostess climaxed with her writhing body in front of us.
Lying together and relaxing on the mattress, movement was heard from downstairs. All my clothes are on the hall cloths stand, not to worry said my hosts it is one of the children. This is a little more than just being in the nude I thought. Knock, knock at the door the daughter peered round the door cajoling mum and dad for being at it again. On spotting me she said "hello", Cringing with embarrassment but realising that all I could do was to put on a bold face. She came politely forward to offer me her hand, clumsily declining indicating that it was still sticky, she understood and with a wiggle of her bottom departed downstairs. Ma and Pa were in hysterics and trying to console my embarrassment. After cleaning up, we went downstairs to the lounge for coffee, still in the nude. Daughter was sitting there stark naked. She sprang up as we entered, her breasts bouncing only as young breasts do. Holding out her hand she cheekily queried if was all right now. While shaking hands she drew me closer for the usual kiss on the cheeks, normally the participants of this ritual have textile protecting their bodies. She was taking advantage of the situation and rubbing her firm breasts across my chest. Just in time her father told her to stop teasing and sit down. She explained with a smile that as we were all in the nude it would be embarrassing for the visitor if she alone were clothed. Although the view was more than pleasant, her explanation had the adverse effect on me. Maybe it was how the introduction had been made upstairs that it still embarrassed me a little, perhaps in other circumstances it would have been more agreeable. Without obvious hast, I took my leave of them with the now usual pats on the bare bottoms. Helping me on with my cloths our hostess mentioned with sparkling eyes that next time she also wanted be spanked in the attic room as she had missed out on a mouthful and the boys had missed out viewing the delights that she had to offer with legs spread wider than the settee allowed. Waving me off with she called out that perhaps another time we could enlarge the circle. With wobbly knees made my way home to await the next invitation.

Updated 2/05 [M 63] Now lets move on to a strange cloths fetish, I absolutely hate wearing vests (t-shirts) this came for my early childhood with bronchitis and my mother made me wear some hideous vests, might have been good for my chest but scarred me for life. Now my wife being ever so loving brought me t-shits for Christmas to protect me from the cold. The rebel came to life, I went upstairs undressed and with only a t-shirt on paraded in front of the wife. So I got what I deserved and hoped for "a spanking", yes I am into spankings as well. It was fantastic my wife knows just how to spank and manages to create an air pressure over my butt hole, felt like an air fuck. With spanking, anal caressing and that I have a very sensitive right nipple, the Christmas present was enjoyed. The anal caressing is a relative new development, the subject was not on in my younger years, and combined with the spankings and ball massage it is fantastic, better than any pills. The only thing my wife refuses to penetrate my arse, I have to finger myself not the best solution but will have to do for the time being.
My two bits on spanking, a fantastic pastime, everybody to their own wants, fantasies and needs, but for me spanking means all parties being eventually totally naked. Spanking coming from the word smacking which translates the sound of a bare hand on a bare bottom. A warm up session clothed is ok, but spanking is best performed on a completely bare butt thus with no pulled up shorts/knickers or thongs. Genitals exposed with embarrassment or not form part of the spanking process, being naked means you have nowhere to go. My fantasy is being with another man and woman totally naked and a hand spanking party. Unfortunately although my wife spanks me she is not into being spanked, just the pat on the bottom.

Updated 1/05 [M 50s] We have read with interest all the letters in the spanking section on your site Joan. Never having done this, and reading about how many others enjoy it so much, we decided to give it a try last evening. After kissing and foreplay, I volunteered to go first. I tend to be submissive in our sexual play and we thought my going first would break the ice. both being quite excited from our foreplay, my wife had me get on my hands and knees on the bed. My cock was already hard and I was fairly excited to try spanking. She began smacking the backs of my thighs and ass with her hair brush, using the bristle side. It's a fairly large oval brush with medium to soft bristles. It did not take me long to develop some redness and to my surprise, the longer she did it the more I liked it. She told me to jerk myself off while she was smacking me, which I did immediately. She admitted that seeing me on my hands and knees jerking off while I was getting my ass smacked was making her pussy wet with desire and that she now wanted to feel what it was like. We switched positions, she now on her hands and knees, but before I began using the hair brush on her, I went down on her pussy and sucked her off for a bit. She was especially wet and hot and I decided it might be fun to brush her pussy (she does not shave it and is naturally hairy). I spread her legs some more and as I brushed it, I slowly ran the entire brush over her clit and pussy lips. My brushing made her beg for more, the bristles rubbing against her clit really made her hot. I told her it was time to be spanked, and began, bristle side to her ass, to smack her ass with some force. I concentrated on the soft area where her ass meets her thighs, occasionally (and a bit softer) hitting against her pussy. After a half dozen smacks, I stopped and asked her if she wanted me to continue. She said yes, and that believe it or not she was very close to an orgasm. I reached under and fingered her pussy, she was dripping wet, so I began smacking her again. Within two or three smacks she started to cum, her right hand went to her pussy and she began fingering her clit while I continued to smack her ass. She collapsed on the bed once she had finished cumming, rested a bit, me rubbing her now red and sore ass, and than asked if she could suck my cock. She sucked me to climax in a matter of a minute or two, my cum oozing out between her lips and I exploded in her mouth. Our first venture into the world of spanking was terrific for both of us and we are sure we will continue doing it.

Updated 3/04 [M] I have a real need for a spanking often. When my wife was alive we had a great procedure. Concentual spanking was our agreement. for discipline purposes we discuss what the reason was to get spanked. one example occurred when i was nasty to my secretary and it made her cry. i told her i would pay for my mistake and when i walked in the front door she could tell there was something and demanded to know what. I told her. My wife told me to go upstairs, disrobe, get the hair brush and wait in the bedroom for her. when she arrived after a few minutes i had time to realize what was coming. this was to be a real whipping and she knew how to give a good hard spanking. knowing it would be a severe punishment, i tried to console myself and my conscience would be cleared. over my knees was the next command, as she ran the heavy wooden brush over my bare backside i was told to explain why i was getting spanked. she commenced and ten minutes later. I had a really hot bottom. next day my girl was told what happened and all was forgiven. this procedure was also used when she asked me as a result all disagreements were quickly handled with the hair brush. we also had fun spanks before sex.

[M] I couldn't help but respond after seeing the note from the 61 year old guy who likes getting spanked on his penis and balls.
I discovered this by accident many years ago during a fraternity initiation, where among other things, our cock's were spanked with a paint mixing paddle. I was secretly hooked.
As married sex become more comfortable, my wife and I explored various kinks from time to time. Out of that, she has discovered how hot I get having my penis and balls slapped or gently whipped with a riding crop. Nothing heavy, nothing damaging or marking, just a nice sting. A couple of time, she has kept up a quick enough rhythm for several minutes, and I have had a tremendous orgasm just from the cock spanking.
Guys, don't rule it out - you'd be surprised how hot you can get.

[M 32] loved reading the feedback about spanking on your site! I'm lucky enough to have an understanding wife who now spanks me on a regular basis. My spankings make me feel so close to her its unbelievable.. I never thought I could enjoy such a thing, but one day I just decided to give it a try.. The emotional release, the sensation, and the vulnerability add up to an incredible experience every time!

Updated 1/04 [M] Back in the late 70's my sexy older teen sister (modeled for Macys, etc.) came in from the garden cottage our dad was constantly working on but never seemed to finish. She looked flushed and her eyes were glassy. She looked at me and smirked. Well a few weeks later part of my suspicions were confirmed. I peeked in the cottage window. My sister was across his lap with her skirt around her waist and her red panties on the dirty floor. Her shapely hips pumped his lap as he slapped her cheeks. I could her moaning daddy, daddy. I watched until she came. That was when I realized spanking could be a sex thing. I never viewed our family the same after that and I will never forget my sister's quivering body as she came.
I could never spank my daughter although she deserved it at times. She is spoiled rotten by my wife.
My dilemma is this.
My buddy at work spanks his wife and has spanking friends. She calls him daddy as he spanks her and then they fuck like kids. He wants my wife and I to come over and have a spanking good time with his friends as he puts it. The idea caused me to have a strange exciting feeling deep in my groin. Like lust. I thought of my sister's ass and exposed pussy, her moans, dads face as he spanked her. I wondered if they did more.
Since my wife is no prude (far from it) I am going to approach her with the idea. I believe there is some things from the 70's that need to be worked on. I belong to many spanking sites and can't wait too spank her in front of other people.

Updated 11/03 [M 61] I love to be spanked. But not only do I like to have my backside spanked, but also my front side. She doesn't do it as hard, but I love to have her spank both my penis and jewels. Do any other men like this, and do women like to do it?

Updated 8/03 [F]My beloved lover first introduced me to spanking by accident early in the relationship. A jealous mutual friend found it amusing to tell him I enjoyed it. In fact I had never tried it. At first i was terrified, horrified and secretly wondering if I could ever enjoy such a thing. (yes another of those) Over time I was able to discuss it with him as I try to do with everything sexual (since he requires it, bless him). As always, he said giving spankings was "fun" for him but it was really "no big deal" and if I didn't like it that was okay. He says that about many things we usually end up trying at a later date.
Word to the wise, take the pressure off your partner, it makes it exciting. Occasionally, in the heat of passion or in wrestling play, he would deliver me a swat that was not at all unpleasant. So, I read everything in your books I could find on spanking. I began to realize that spanking was a big turn on for him whether he knew it or not. I became aware of how my reaction to the occasional swat affected him. It really turned him on. That really turned me on.
Soon I began to want it just for his reaction. Later I began to want it for my own. One day he (who once professed to not liking sex games) produced his lovely leather belt from beside the bed to punish this naughty girl. He was careful and I was in ecstacy. He actually got me off just from carefully gauged, skillfully placed swats with belt and hands. Now I cannot imagine my sex life without the occasional spanking. Or not so occasional. :)

Updated 7/03 [M 47]I wanted to update my fellow readers on progress made with spanking as a spicy addition to my 20 year marriage. I remember writing to Joan a few years ago wondering how I could get this particular wrinkle into what was a satisfying but otherwise fairly non-adventurous sex life.
I decided on the "steady slow" approach though I must say there were times I wasn't sure where this would get us to. It's worked. I won't detail all of that today - I think you are all familiar with the concept as Joan has recommended it to us. It's just a question of believing it can happen. I had always had a sense (correctly) that my wife wished to remain the passive recipient of whatever I might think of to keep things "interesting". But I hesitated when it came to spanking - a longtime passion of mine. Because of her passivity I always suspected that she would find spanking enjoyable, but realized there was a calculated risk in introducing the idea. I also wondered how I'd do damage control if I was wrong. Well, what I'm about to describe may help you understand how far we've come.
Recently she was preparing to be away from home for several days. During a planned time together beforehand (call it my going away present) I asked her if she intended to "touch herself" while she was gone. I guess the tone of the question set the stage. She said she wouldn't but her tone of voice suggested she wasn't taking the question very seriously. I said that I thought she needed to - then got up from the bed, and came back with a hair brush from the chest of drawers. I told her to roll over on her stomach, and I placed two pillows beneath her hips. I then took the belt from my housecoat and tied her hands above her head, then straddled her thighs.
As I slowly drew the back of the brush across her bottom I quietly asked her if she didn't need some incentive to be a "good girl". Oh no, said she - again with a tone of voice that said she was playing along with this. I paused and asked her if she remembered the safe word - she didn't. We had agreed on a safe word when we had first began to explore, but rarely had things progressed to the point of needing it. I realized that the question was my way of signalling this could be quite a significant spanking unless she said otherwise. I added - You know how to tell me if you want me to stop.
Well she knew, but never used the word. Her sharp intakes of breath, her comments "ooh that stings", the pinky-red hue and heat of her skin - what turn ons. But the really teller for me was this -about half way through the 10 or 12 swats I planned on - I put the brush aside and placed my fingers against the hottest, wettest vagina. And I said on her behalf what I believe she shys away from saying herself - You really want this don't you? Your buttocks are elevated off the bed. You're squirming on the verge of orgasm, you can feel my hand where you want yours to be, and you want me to spank you more don't you? Then you want me to really give it to you right? Answer - Yes.
I don't know that I could have swatted her much harder or longer than I did before she would have spoken up. Perhaps that needs to be explored. Surely pleasure must have been competing with pain because I hit her as hard as I think I would have wanted to be hit myself. Interestingly, when I went to untie her hands before entering her from behind she said No, just give it to me. And so I did.
I feel so lucky. Happy are those couples who can grow over the years to realize such satisfactions. She comes home tonight. I wonder what she'll say when I ask her if she was good? We might need to discuss the safe word again.... Thanks for listening.

[M] Thought it worth mentioning that I wrote to you some time ago, trying to figure out just how to get spanking into our sex life. During the past year or so my wife and I have been able to gradually move in to spanking play. Temperament wise I am pretty sure she will never be much of an instigator - either to spank me [I'm not sure that power turns her on actually] or to ask for me to spank her.
Now when she's at the peak of orgasm - with her bottom hair brush reddened within the safe word limits - she's able to admit that the warmth of her buttocks contributes (pun intended again) to the heat between her legs.

[F 35] I am a 35 year old female who has been married for 18 years to the same wonderful man. About 2 years ago I was looking on the internet (you gotta love the internet!) and found people enjoyed to spank their spouses and the people receiving the spanking actually ENJOYED it!
It took some time to get up the nerve but I finally asked my husband to spank me. He is always willing to try new stuff so he tried it. At first it was okay but not what I imagined. I think he was more afraid of hurting me than anything else. I assured him I would let him know if I was being hurt.
Over time the spanking kept showing up but never like I had imagined it that is until the past few months. He now realizes that I really do enjoy to be spanked hard and that if he gives me this pleasure then he is in for a treat.
A few nights ago he wanted oral sex. I was okay with this but I wanted a spanking. I would suck for a few seconds then stop and finally he asked what I wanted and I told him a spanking. He did spank me! In return he said he got the most excellent blow job he had ever had! I am not one to swallow and had only done it once before but he got me so excited with the spanking that I just could not stop! Since that night he has spanked me several more times and I believe he has enjoyed it as well...if you get my meaning!

Updated 4/03 [M] Goddamn,Joan!. I just found out what all the fuss about spanking is. I have been wanting my wife to spank me to see if I liked it. We both are 51. Today she finally spanked me… and I came! I really fucking came!. I AM SO HAPPY! MY WIFE IS NOW ATRIPLE THREAT…SHE CAN FUCK ME,GIVE ME A HAND JOB AND NOW SPNK ME TO ORGASM. I AM SO FUCKING HAPPY. I just read about the 67 year old man who just got into spanking and I can totally agree.

Updated 2/03 [M 67] I am a 67 year old man, who all of his life has been interested, and stimulated by reading about spanking --more received from then given to a woman as a potent part of sexual expression- to be enjoyed by both partners,this has totally been a "head game" with me--my wife doesn't really get it(or want to get it,) no feeling for its importance to me, willing to give this a half hearted effort-but in all of our 39 years of marriage has Never volunteered to spank. I am not talking about domination, real pain or hard S and M stuff--more as a strong foreplay game. she is a rather submissive person, demands little sexual gratification for herself, seems happy to unselfishly give "hand Jobs" to me, which she is superb at doing. As I have aged the sexual functions erective ability , quantity of semen are all much reduced--prostate surgery, diabetes and high blood pressure meds have all taken there sexual toll.. My favorite sex play is gentle spanking- gentle caressing anal area and a superb hand job all combined. I do like to return the pleasure to my wife, Hand jobs too,. now because of mutual health problems ,intercourse is no longer an option-for us, she is very content with holding and cuddling and touching as being adequate for her sexual enjoyment-
My question,I guess is, how many men like this combination of gentle spanking, anal play and "soft luscious hand job, as the ultimate sexual experience.??

[M 65] Here's a good spanking website: Spanking, spanking, spanking.
And a good list of free spanking websites is: Spanking directory . Hope this helps.

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