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Updated 11/07 [M] I think it a good idea to keep the past to ones self unless there is a STD's involved. Otherwise let the past sleep. I never told my wife the whole story about my past and never will. Past is past as well as hers. We devote ourselves to our relationship now. My wife knows some of my experience I brought to our bedroom [or outdoors in the car at a party in the powder room] I had and she lacked is from past experiences and doesn't care at all because we are for each other. Anything new we learn we learn together.

Updated 10/07 [M] On the subject of telling about past sexual experiences to my wife is something that I have been very tight lipped about. I stated this several months ago when writing on the subject. But, this got me to thinking and I have since brought up some of them to her. So far, I have told her about some of my girl friends before she came along. I started with telling her about my first sexual experience with a girl friend back in my early 20's and how it went. I was overseas and it was with a native girl and how when it occurred I was not wearing a condom. What I remember the most was how many times I and this girl "did it" that first night and about all the semen that was running out of her that next morning when she got up. I haven't said anything to her about all the bar girls and other prostitutes and all the condoms I did use with them. Nor have I mentioned to her about all the "happy endings" I've received in massage parlors of course referring to the numerous hand jobs I received there while feeling up the masseuse giving me the hand jobs. I'm still not sure I'm going to go there with her. I will probably leave it at the ex girl friends. I probably will eventually tell her about some of the co workers I've had sex with before she came along. I'll let the readers know.

Updated 12/06 [M] You asked how much have we told our spouses about prior sexual experiences? My wife and I were each married before so we both had experiences, and from hints that I have picked up, I'm fairly sure that she had a rich and varied sex life, but I cannot get her to talk about it, and she says she doesn't want to hear about mine. Personally, I don't want to talk if she doesn't want to hear, but I would like to hear about her exploits, when she lost her virginity, how many lovers she's had before, all of it. I get excited thinking about her previous lovers.

[M 63] As for revealing my past to my wife about my sexual exploits before she came along I've always been very tight lipped. I use to joke with her that she was "my first" and that I was a virgin when she came along. Of course my wife has never believed this and would tell me "I know better than that as you sure knew what you were doing and what you wanted" referring to when our relationship first turned intimate. The most she ever had reveled to her was when she found an old letter in my old B-4 bag from my service days. I thought I'd gotten rid of everything but had missed this one letter. It was from my first Filipino girl friend. It was a very sweet and loving letter and didn't have anything sexual in its contents. Ended with I love you and miss you. I think my wife had heard from one of my sisters about this woman so it wasn't too big a shock. I sure wasn't at all interested in telling her about the bar girls and one night stands, etc. that I had back before she came along and rest assured not a thing was mentioned about all the condoms I had made deposits into.
I'm sure there are those who love sharing there sexual exploits with there mates with all the pussy they've had or all the hard penises they've had in them, etc. Just never been my thing.

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