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Updated 5/01 [M] Recently I did something different! I undressed, and shaved all my pubic hair off until I was as smooth and clean as a 10 year old boy. I then set up my video camera focused on my genital area and began filming myself masturbating up close. I rubbed my penis slowly and then fast until I was stiff and swollen up, then I would let my penis slowly go limp again before playing with it again until full erection. When playing the tape back, I got to see a different view of my penis as it was played with. I could see my balls turning and bouncing inside my scrotum as I stroked my penis, and I also slowed the tape down when I ejaculated, and is a turn on to see the semen stream and shoot from the penis in slow motion. I also played this for my girlfriend, and she masturbated to orgasm watching my solo sex movie.

Updated 4/01 [M 50] My wife and I are 50 and 51; happily married for 31 years. Let me tell you a bit about our sex life. When we were newlyweds, we had hot, steamy animal sex constantly, fucking and sucking, but we didn't broach the subject of masturbation. She must have suspected I jerked off - there was always a men's magazine lying around. I began masturbating in my pre-teens, having been instructed by a neighbor boy and I have fond memories of shared and mutual masturbation sessions with other young boys at the time. It had nothing to do with being gay, we just enjoyed each others' company and liked to jerk off together. I pleasured myself regularly and without shame.
Then one night we got fairly stoned and I made a nasty comment about jacking off on her. She said,"go ahead!" I agreed to, but only if she showed me how she did it. It was a done deal. Our hearts raced as I pulled down my jeans and briefs and began stroking my proud 6.75" erection to its full size. My glans was a beautiful shade of dusky purple as I caressed myself, shifting my gaze between my cock and her face. Being so excited, I was unable to take the "long road home" and shot a solid rope of cum across the couch, onto her thighs and stomach. She was very aroused by this display of self pleasure. "OK, your turn," I said. She shyly pulled down her jeans and panties, soaked with pussy juice, and began a rapid back-and-forth frigging on her clit and lips. Her pussy is very nice and meaty, with colorful lips and a prominent clitoris. It didn't take her long, either before she reached a screaming climax; her body first rigid with ecstasy, then collapsed in a heap.
Ever since that night's display, masturbation has been an integral part of our sexual activities. We have sex (intercourse & oral) at least one night a week and shared masturbation on another. We masturbate privately as well and enjoy telling each other hot tidbits of our solo playtime. We have our own "toy boxes" filled with a variety of delights; she has several dildos, her favorite being a pink jelly cock - normal size. She has a long black one with a "handle" which she uses when she really wants to show off for me. Her very favorite toy is her Eroscillator. I'm sure you know some women who own one. It moves back and forth instead of just vibrating and she likes to lay it on the right side of her clit and just groove until she explodes. She prefers the "grape cluster" attachment. My toy box has some pink jelly sleeve masturbators; a newer "tighter" one and a more broken-in "looser" one. I also enjoy some smaller butt plugs and slender anal vibrators occasionally.
My personal habits are to enjoy a few strokes daily - not necessarily to orgasm - and at least one good marathon session a week. I like to take at least an hour, sometimes up to three and take my time. I'll page through a new magazine,working myself up to the edge, then relaxing. After several trips to the Edge, it's time to let it explode! Once in a while our "sex schedule" works out to where my masturbation sessions form a three-day build up. The ejaculation and orgasm on the third day in unbelievable! We go through a fair amount of lube; ForPlay being our favorite; thick enough to stick to the genitals and it doesn't dry out as fast as other lubes that claim to be more slippery. We've filmed each other masturbating on stills and video. Occasionally we get to share these with special friends and they really get turned on.
We agree with other contributors on your site; couples should masturbate together. It's perhaps the most intimate thing you can share with another.

Updated 2/01 [M 39] Many men are reticent about performing auto-erotic acts in front of women. I believe this is because first, it is revealing something very intimate and private, normally never seen by anyone else. Second, only recently have we left the dark ages of sexuality whereby masturbation is now considered normal and not a perverted act.
But it is this very self-repression and concealment by us that may also create an incredible erotic opportunity. Joan, you've seen a web site with this story and photos, so you know it is real. My story involves a gathering at a beach on the west coast in which full nudity sometimes occurs. I met up with several girls, two of which I knew fairly well. Being the only guy was great. They saw a couple of guys walking down the beach nude and convinced me to take my bathing suit off also, although none of them ever removed even a top. Being completely naked with a group of four women while they are clothed creates an odd dynamic. I was naked and vulnerably exposed to them, every aspect of my physique all the way down to the length and thickness of my penis and freckles on my scrotum was on display for them to see.
After a while and a few beers, they became less inhibited and started to focus their humor and jokes on my nudity, and particularly my dick. The eroticism of it hit me, and I confided in them I was enjoying being naked and the focus of their attention as much as they enjoyed it. This liberated them from their last inhibitions and I found myself laying on my back between them completely naked with my legs spread as my penis and balls became a subject of their conversation. This caused me to become hard, and they delighted in watching my penis throb and stiffen to full erection. They joked about how horny I must be as one pointed out the precum on the tip of my penis, and suggested I should release all that pent-up sexual tension.
For brevity I'll skip the dialogue between us, but I ended up stroking my cock as they watched. We talked about male masturbation as I demonstrated to them how a man jacks off. I wanted them to witness if for real, exactly how I do it no differently than if I were alone in bed or in the shower. All eyes were focused on my erect cock and bouncing balls as they asked all types of intimate questions, such as how often I jacked off, what I thought about, etc. I was very open and honest and it was the most naked and vulnerable I've ever been.it was so damned erotic. As I came they watched me squirt my sperm all over myself laughing and applauding. They told me how much they enjoyed watching, and I told them how much I enjoyed their watching also. I've never done that again with them, but I encourage any guy reading this to try it as it is an incredibly sharing and erotic experience.

Updated 1/2/01[M] I have discovered that long periods of self stimulation is so gratifying that I almost would rather masturbate than have sex with my girlfriend. When you play with yourself, you dont have to worry about time limits, or anything else that might make the mood wrong with a partner. I love to have masturbation sessions that last 2 or more hours, and the final release is beyond description.
I begin by undressing and sitting nude at my computer while visiting sites that have erotic material, or I visit your page and read sexy stories. I have found new areas of pleasure on and around my genitals as I read and look at things that arouse me. I gently rub my testicles, rub the area between my anus and scrotum, pull on the head of my penis, rub my nipples, and play with my penis shaft. My erections are hard, and the pre-ejaculate flows out and forms a small pool on the floor as I stimulate myself. I look down and watch my balls turn in excitement inside my scrotum, and I get amazed at how swollen my penis is as I get more and more aroused. Sometimes I reach a point that when I touch any part of my genitals I cant help but moan out from the incredible soothing feeling of the level of pleasure. Right before ejaculation, my penis is so stiff that I feel like any further blood flow to my penis will cause it to explode. I look down and watch the head of my penis swell up and turn a shade of purple at the glans, and I stroke the shaft slow until a small amount of semen flows out of the head of my penis, then an explosion as the fluid shoots up several inches. My legs are shaking, Im moaning out and grasping my penis shaft and scrotum in spastic response to a wonderful orgasm. These orgasms are the most powerful I have ever felt, and I must say that nobody can say that self stimulation is second best to real sex with a partner because it depends on how you approach it. Making love to yourself can be the bomb!

Updated 9/4/00 [M] My girl I have dating for awhile suggested we masturbate in front of each other. I watched as she rubbed just above her clitoral hood, and I realized suddenly that I was touching her vulva all wrong during sex play. I always tried to expose her clitoris, and she always pulled back because it was sensitive for her too much. I played with myself in front of her and masturbated the way I do when Im alone. I pulled on the glans of my penis while gently rubbing my testicles, and she too discovered that her way of touching me was a little off. During foreplay now, I rub her genitals the way I saw her touch herself, and I can bring her to orgasm this way. It also feels so good to have her touching my penis and scrotum the way I do, and when I cum from her touching me this way I yell out sometimes it feels so good. Everyone should masturbate in front of their significant other.

Updated 5/30/00 [F 38] I love to watch a man perform self pleasure it makes me get so wet. I find it very exciting. Not sure why, maybe because self pleasure is viewed as tabu??? I don't know. When I ask my current lover to masturbate, I cuddle close to him, nibble on his neck and ears and whisper fantasies to him to heighten his pleasure. His cock gets so hard. Sometimes I will wear loose fitting boxers so that If I spread my legs he can see how wet my cunt is and will slip my fingers along my thighs to the split of my lips and fuck myself while he watches in excitement. By watching him pleasure himself, I have learned how to stroke his dick with my hands and I know what areas of his cock are sensitive and tease it with my tongue and mouth.

Updated 4/7/00 [F] My boyfriend and I like to watch each other while we masturbate, but we have never watched when the other didnt know they were being watched. My boyfriend came up with the hottest idea! He told me that he sometimes sits at the computer and plays with himself while looking at sex pictures or nude women.
We live together now, and he gets home 2 hours before me, and this is when he tells me he masturbates the most. He came up with the idea of me coming home each night and walking through the side of the house where the computer room is, and looking through the cracked blinds to see if he is playing with himself while sitting at the computer. He said this way he would be turned on thinking I might be watching, and I would be turned on by catching him without him really knowing. So each night on my way home I would be a little exited because of the prospect of catching him masturbating.
Two weeks went by, and I never caught him. I only saw him at the computer, but not much else. Then on a friday, I came home and walked up to the window and looked in and saw my boyfriend sitting with just a tee-shirt on but nude from the waist down. My heart rate jumped, and a wave of exitement came over me as I anticipated the show! For 10 minutes he sat there looking and surfing on the computer but no masturbation yet. Then I saw his penis rise up and bow back in full erection as he must have seen something good on the screen! He began to rub his scrotum and testicles and his stiff penis moved back and forth as the stimulation continued. Then he touched his penis head with his fingertips, and then went back to rubbing his balls. I was getting so hot and looked around to see if anyone was watching me look through the window! My boyfriend then wiped some pre-cum off the tip of his penis and tasted it!!!!! I could not help it anymore, I unzipped my pants a little and began rubbing the hood of my clitoris with the lubrication that was flowing freely out of my vagina. After about 10 minutes, my boyfriend removed his shirt and was fully naked as he then began to stroke his erect penis faster and faster. This was the treat because I have never seen this type of masturbation. He was rubbing his scrotum and stroking his penis until the cum came shooting up and out his stiff cock. It was then that I myself had a wonderful orgasm. I then came in through the back door and he looked a little surprised but said he hoped that this was the time I was watching. What a wonderful sexy experience watching someone masturbate while not knowing!!!!

[M] I have found that it is very stimulating to play with yourself while looking into a mirror. I like to take a shower and then stand nude in front of my full length mirror. I then look at my naked body as the exitement level rises. I dont touch myself yet, I watch as my genitals begin a wonderful transformation that leaves me exited as I can get. I watch as my testicles begin to move back and forth in my scrotum, turning in exitement. My penis in its semi-erect state moves from side to side as more blood flows into it. I just watch my genitals put on a show as I get more and more exited. As the stimulation continues, I watch as my penis becomes stiff and swollen, pointing upward, and I turn sideways to stare at how long it is as it angles away from my body. My testicles now are turning in exitement, faster than before, and my erect penis is moving in small jerks as though begging to be touched.
I then can feel the pre-ejaculate making its way through my urethra, and it is a wonderful turn on as the fluid seeps from the swollen head of my penis and drips to the floor. When I cant take it much more, I begin to stroke my penis with my fingertips, and as my foreskin is pulled backward, I see the skin on the head of my penis become tight, pulling the tip backward slightly.
The exitement level is unbelievable as I now rub my scrotum and stroke my stiff penis, and all while standing sideways in the mirror watching my hand move up and down the full length of my hard cock. As orgasm approaches, I stand close to the mirror so I can see the semen shoot from the hole in my penis. My legs are shaking as the ejaculate comes through the shaft of my penis, and a little fluid seeps from my penile opening before the wonderful contractions come that shoot the creamy, white, ejaculate onto the floor. I then let go of my throbbing penis as the last few contractions jerk my penis up and down and sqeeze the last few drops of cum out. Sometimes a drop of ejaculate dangles on the tip of my penis, then drops to the floor, and my masturbation session is over as I catch my breath.

[M] Just a note after finding your web site. I love masturbating even at my older age even in front of people. I have a beautiful cock about 7 1/2" and when sucked it gets around 8" long and quite thick. There are several things I like to do. I love to jerk off on a woman anywhere she wants it. I absolutely love oral sex, giving and receiving. I love to watch two women get it on and watch a woman play with her self. Phone sex is a must for me. I can get a woman off with out any problem.
When I was married I use to lay my wife cross ways on our 15" high mattress. She would pull her panties down about half way over her tight ass, lift her legs up and back, and begin to play with her self. I would then jerk off all over her pussy lips and she would scream as she came herself. It was a wonderful sight with my juice all over her cunt. Fucking a girl while on her knees is super not to mention anal sex.

[M] I was just thinking of what my ex wife Gloria and use to do. She loved for me to jerk off all over her. All through the week we would sort of torment each other for the week end ahead. She would grab my big dick many times during the week and suck it until I was almost ready to cum and then stop. She would even call me at work and sigh and moan, "How would you love to stick that big cock of yours in my hot pussy and fuck me to no end?" But when the week end came one of her favorites was for her to lay on her stomach full length on our bed. She would spread her legs and I would get on my knees between them and begin to jerk off. She loved it when I came all over her beautiful ass. After awhile as things began to come to a head she would part her legs even more and reach down to massage that lovely pussy of hers. She was dark skinned and her lovely hands with red long fingernails would begin to massage her cunt as I came closer to spewing that hot stuff all over her. She sensed my heavy breathing and would arch her hips up to me and begin to massage her pussy vigorously and then insert a finger as the first gushes of hot cum would shoot out. I would spray her hand, then her cunt and then all the way up her ass and then all over her ass. She would cum instantly with loud moans and jerky motions. Then while still hard I would take her cunt and shove my harder than ever cock into it for more fun. After a week end of this the shower was fun. I would get to wash that lovely brown body of hers and then lic her to my hearts content. Guess Ill have to jerk off right now just thinking about it.

Updated 3/3/00 [F 26] On masturbation, I am a 26 year old female in a 4 year relationship with a 40 year old man (who, incidentally is into spanking and some bondage). He is so sexy to me and has such an incredibly beautiful cock...not so much big as so proportionately perfect. Aside from paying close attention to my needs, nothing excites me more than to see him caressing and manipulating his own sweet package. I love the way he grabs his balls occasionally while stroking the shaft and head. It gives me great insight to the sensitive areas on his body and how I can actually touch his balls!!(men should realized the best way to teach their lover is to show them!) Being a cock worshiper and lover of oral sex (giving it almost more than receiving..).all my sexually active life I was kind of afraid to be too rough with a man's sack.. you know how just a simple flick in the wrong spot can render a man helpless... and all those times the boys in school would drop to their knees in pain from getting hit with a ball or something.. I was so afraid of turning a sensual situation into unwanted horrific pain, that until I saw a man handling himself, I really had no idea what or where was "okay" to go. Even watching porn you don't really see much more than the shaft getting attention. Me being the sensuous, massage oriented individual I am, like to see every part of the body getting some action.
It all started with the shaving..I love a shaved area on a man..you can see the lines of definition from an artistic point of view as well as admire the manliness of it all... create instant fantasies of my tongue going all over without interferance. He was reluctant, objective even, when I asked him if he ever thought of shaving that area. I guess all I had to do was plant the seed.. I was really just curious of what he thought... then I never brought it up again.. then one day, he came over with a present. He showed me his hairless area. From that moment, he loved it.. and continues to keep a close shave "for me" as he likes to point out. I am closely groomed as well and can say, for certain, sex is so much hotter with closely shorn areas!!
Around that time, I realized that it would be such a turn on to see him make himself cum. My most favorite moment of sex is to see that hot stream of jizz exploding all over me from his throbbing cock. So I asked him on occasion to make him self cum for me. At first, he was very embarrased to do himself in front of me.. he would say I did it better when ever I asked him to do it for me. It made me sad that he was too self conscious to do that but I would just let it go.
Then one nite, I was so horny. We were naked in bed. I was sitting next to him while he was laying on his back. We were just talking and I started to kiss him. I kissed him all the way down to his cock, lightly teasing him with my tongue.. then it welled up into me.. my clit started getting hot while I pictured him jerking off and cumming on me .. So I started to masturbate while I talked about how sexy he was and how I thought he would look so great just jerking off. His eyes really lit up when he saw how hot it got me.. eventually he pushed me onto my back, got up onto his knees and towered over me with his cock in his hand.. we masturbated together .. he watched me while i watched him.. it was sexier than I could have imagined.. and just as he told me he was going to cum... I had a fantastic orgasm... his hot jizz spewed all over my breasts and neck...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh......so good.
That was kind of the only time he full-on masturbated for me. I still ask him to get off like that but he's kind of reluctant.. I guess feels like he's being watched.. performance anxiety? (My observation: He's also quite dominant so maybe he's afraid that by letting himself go like that, he's losing the upper hand) Sometimes while I'm giving him oral pleasure, he'll take over at the end and do it while I talk to him .. such a sexy guy!!! but that's about it as far as his masturbating in front of me. I'm fairly confident, however, with gentle persuasion, anything is possible.

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