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Lots of folks have written about masturbation. I have referred the women to the hot how-to excerpt from Slow Dancing but it's still such an individual thing.
I've combined several overlapping feedback pages here. Questions like:
What makes masturbating feel good to you?
Do you think masturbation before marriage is beneficial?
How can you convince your partner to masturbate while you watch?
Do You Masturbate while caught in traffic?
There's a Yahoo group called Updated 5/08 [M] My boyfriend was having a shower after his workout the other day and told me this:
Updated 4/08 [M 60s] On the subject of masturbation, I'll never forget how mine started when I was a young boy. Things started happening to me back when I was in grade school (5th or 6th grade) when I'd set in class with a pretty girl setting in front of me and I'd end up with my hand rubbing my little hard penis through my pants. The sensations were fantastic and would compare to what we feel just before orgasm hits. I'm sure all know how good this feeling is. Then, I discovered standing on the bath tub rim by the window at night with the light on. I crack the blinds and to me I took it that people could see in while driving down the street. I'd stand there with my little hard on in my hands and I'd picture some girl in the car seeing me and my little hard pecker. This was when and how I experienced my first dry orgasm and what a sensation that was! Soon afterwards, I started squirting this white stuff out when those wonderful feeling hit me. I, at the time, had no idea what it was that I was squirting but it sure felt good squirting it out. I later learned about that slit girls had and why we were built like we were and I'd masturbate thinking about putting my little hard pecker into these girls I'd see at school. I'm sure, as boys, we all dreamed about that first time having a girl see our peckers and touching it. It didn't happen to me until I was 21 and in the military. It was a native girlfriend when I was overseas and the first time she didn't actually see it. Of course, by then, it wasn't a little pecker. It had grown considerably. Happened one night while laying in her bed making out when she reached down and started rubbing on it through my pants. When she did this, I reached under her dress feeling her there. This was all it took. I ejaculated like never before in my pants. It wasn't until the next evening that I finally ejaculated with out being masturbated. It happened when I was inside my very first pussy with this girlfriend. It wasn't until later on that I finally had her (during her period) masturbate me and seeing me ejaculate. Over the years, have had a lot of these.
Updated 4/07 [M 47] My sex drive seems to be considerably higher then my wife’s so masturbating has become part of our routine that gives me the sexual gratification I need. Knowing I’m being satisfied, she can choose to participate or not and there’s no pressure. I have several toys that I use from a pump to sleeves but have just purchased a Fleshlight and enthusiastically recommend it. I bought a Wonder Wave insert with a vagina entrance and it feels incredibly realistic when lubed. If you were limited to owning one toy, this is the one. I’ll even double up sometimes and use a silicone vibrating cock ring with the Fleshlight. The constriction provided makes me rock hard and cum in a volume and force I don’t otherwise see. Often my wife will join in and drive the cock rings multi-speed vibrator control while I’m bringing myself to climax.
[M] I was 18 when I was in Rome with my school companions for a school trip. I had my accomodation with three other boys in a bedroom. During the second night one of them masturbated. He stripped naked, sat down on the bed and started to touch his genitals. He was with his legs apart. We realized he felt like making sex. His penis became very thick and everybody couldn't help looking at it. After a while he ejaculated on the floor. He threw much sperm away. His name was Francis and he was a sturdy boy (he was part in a football team). What was our behavour like? We smiled; Mike laughed and applauded him.
Francis' erection lasted many minutes. He walked with his penis in erection and we smiled again.
[M 80] My story about masturbation happened a long time ago when I was just about 11 years old. I had been playing with my penis and balls for quite a while because it always felt so good. I had only been able to cum for a few months and had never felt anything so good as just before the juice would spurt from my cock. I would go to my room as soon as I got in from school and get out the pictures of naked women I had gotten from an older friend and slowly fondle my cock until it was hard and then stroke it until I would spurt my juice into a handkerchief. My oldest brother and his wife lived with us and I would often see her in just panties and bra so she was also another inspiration for my daily jacking off. She became pregnant and often nursed the baby with me watching, but that is another story I may write about later.
Updated 3/07 [M] After coming across some articles describing "prostate milking" and the seeming pleasure it provides, I recently purchased what I can best describe as an anal probe, basically a small curved dildo with a fairly bulbous head. My wife and I
have always enjoyed masturbating to orgasm, whether pleasuring each other or
ourselves while we watch one another. Toys have been part of our masturbation
sessions for quite awhile so when I told her about this idea of "prostate
milking" it intrigued both of us. Our first use of this anal dildo occured this
past weekend. We were both on the bed, my wife lying on her back, legs wide,
fingering her clit and pussy while I sat opposite her jerking off. We were both
pretty excited watching each other when I introduced a couple of toys, her
vibrator and my new anal probe. She immediately took her vibrator in hand and
began running it between her pussy lips and over her clit. It wasn't long
before she was moaning in pleasure and asking me to use the anal dildo on myself.
Updated 2/07 [M] I was 25 and I had been staying in London for ten days. I had been studying English and I had my accommodation in a college. One day I decided to have a shower . I reached the shower room and I had a shower. After having had my shower, I saw a Chinese boy masturbating close to me. He was naked and he was about to take a bath. He asked me where I was from and what was my name. His penis was long and thick: he ejaculated after a while. Afterwards we kept on speaking in English. I had no problem, I didn't feel embarrassed because I understood his need: he was young, manly and he couldn't stop himself making sex.
[M 63] (M - 63) On the subject of masturbation and doing this in front of your mate; girlfriend or wife and she doing this in front of me. This is something I've never desired nor something I've desired to see done by my mate for me. BUT, on the other hand, being masturbated by my mate and my masturbating her is another story altogether. I know, otherwise known as getting a hand job. This I've always loved to get from my mate. Wife, girlfriends, bar girls and massage parlor masseuses. Just enjoy this completely. The first sex act performed on me by a girl was masturbation. It was a girlfriend and we were intimately kissing one night when she went to rubbing on my erection thru my pants. I in turn went to feeling her legs. The combination of the two very soon brought me to a powerful orgasm as I ejaculated in my pants. Of course our next contact involved intercourse. Again, my first time. But, during her periods I once again got to experience her wonderful hand jobs. She wouldn't feel up to having intercourse but as a young man my sex drive was just as strong period or not. She knew it and she gratefully relieved me with her hand and feel of her thighs. I learned then the thrill and joy of having a girl see my erect penis real close and watch it ejaculate my semen. Showing her first hand what she does to me. I'm sure this lure comes into play when going into a massage parlor for this. The idea of letting the girl see my erect penis, her touching it and finally seeing it ejaculate semen. All the while getting to feel this strange girl's legs and ass. I think most men enjoy these things too. It was this first girlfriend that I was sexually active with that showed me how to pleasure her with my hand. I sure have also enjoyed this also. It is then that I can really get to see a pussy up close, feel it inside and out and watch what happens when she's having an orgasm and feeling it with my fingers. Of course it is even more enjoyable to have my penis feel this but seeing it and feeling it with my fingers is a close second. Goes to prove that masturbation does have its place
[M] I wanted to share a
couple of masturbation sessions that have really turned our sex life back on.
Updated 1/07 [M 60] When I am away from my wife, I usually enjoy leisurely, sensual
wanking, which while only second best, is still loads of fun. I will be
thinking of /_her_/ hands on /_her_/ body, as my prick stiffens. The
sensations are different, as my hand and fingers can never feel as good
as her juicy quim rippling around me, or her mouth and tongue on my
knob, or her hands coaxing orgasms from me - but as I lie naked on the
bed, thinking of our lust, my cock feels really good, well hard,
foreskin pulled right back to leave my knob bare, standing proud of my
shaft, so smooth and silky. Smooth lube over the whole length of my
shaft, get it really slick, then hand over hand, sliding from tip to balls.
Updated 12/06 [M] Given the choice, I'm sure that ALL of us would prefer to pleasure ourselves from a position of joy and peace. That, of course, yields the best results and the most satisfying feelings.
Updated 11/06 [M] When I was a teenager I often masturbated. I felt better after masturbating. Masturbation relaxed my sexual strain.
[M] I learned to jackoff when i was 14. Before that i only had wet dreams and wondered why. One day i was visiting my friend, Billy. We were in his clubhouse in his backyard. He showed me some girlie magazines with pictures of lovely naked girls in it. As we looked at the pictures both of us started getting hardons. Bill noticed my buldge and asked me if i ever played with myself. No was my instant reply. Want to have some fun, he asked. Okay, i said, what do we do? Just watch me and you'll find out about something good. Bill undid his fly and pulled his penis out. It was really big, long, fat and stiff with a pruple head awitha small drop of clear liquid oozing out of the end. He wrapped his hand around the shaft and moved it up and down the length. As he continued the stroking motion, his penis grew larger and the purple head turned red. After 2 or 3 minutes of stroking, he stiffened, groaned out loud and shot spurts of thick white creamy stuff out of his cock. OH ! that feels good he said, why don't you try it. My penis was already hard in my pants from looking at the pictures and watching Bill. I slowly opened my fly and pulled out my scrawny penis. It's not as big as yours, I told Bill. That's okay, he replied, it will get bigger when you wank it. I started moving my closed hand up and down the length and noticed a warm pleasureable feeling come over my body. The more i stroked the stronger the feeling became. Suddenly my back stiffened, I let out a groan and watched my cock spurt jets of thick white creamy stuff out of the end. Wow ! i said, that really feels nicer than anything i ever felt. Bill said, they call that jacking off, and i do it every day. After that i went over to Bill's place quite often to repeat the jacking off process with him. The more i did it, the bigger my cock grew and soon was as big as Bill's. I was a "Late Bloomer" but it's better late than never. Someday, i'll tell you about my first blowjob from a girl
[M 53] I am recently divorced and began dating a year ago. I began a new relationship with a wonderful woman, 46 y.o., over the past eight months. Wow! It has really been wonderful and spicy! We have a lot of variety in the sexual part of our relationship.
Updated 9/06 [M 63] On the subject of masturbation, something I've always loved. Much more so having this performed on me vs doing myself. Married over 30 years and the act of mutual masturbation has always been a part of our sex life. It has also been a real life saver when my wife was not in the mood or on her period or having a little problem with yeast. I've never had a problem at all with her using masturbation to satisfy me.
[M] My wife is an enthusiastic pillow humper who gets off all the more while masturbating knowing that I'm watching her. For my part, nothing is so sexually exciting as watching my wife lay face down in bed, her round hips and backside bobbing up and down as she has sex with the pillow under her pelvis. As she furiously humps her pillow faster and faster, making herself cum again and again, I've got my hand wrapped around my penis, stroking off like my very life depended on it! But I somehow manage to hold back my own orgasm (most of the time) because I know my wife wants to make love after she's sexed herself up on her pillow.
Updated 7/06 [M] My wife and I have been married for several years and we frequently masturbate in front of each other, or mutually maturbate one another. My first experience of watching my wife bring herself off was when she was on top and I was stimulating her clit and I had to move my hand away. She quickly replaced it with her own and proceeded to masturbate herself to orgasm. I found the sight of her cumming so exciting that I immediately reached orgasm myself. She also reaches down between her legs when I suck on her tits long enough to bring her to orgasm. She will then masturbate me until I cum. She uses the finger and thumb grip which is seriously exciting.
(M, 54)Talking about spicing up masturbation! I can’t help but to relate a couple of events that I recently learned about that really spiced up both my desire for and my method of masturbation. These events were nationally organized masturbation marathons of which I had no previous knowledge. The first one I’ll tell you about is an event that I learned of from a man with whom I had some interesting conversation. For the sake of simplicity I’ll call him Tom, which isn’t his real name. I’ll call his wife Melissa, which isn’t her real name.
[M] My wife and I absolutely love to masturbate together, and the thrill we get is sort of threefold. Obviously, its a total kick to share with your mate your most intimate habit, but when you add to this the concepts of exhibitionism and voyeurism (the two go hand in hand, don't they?), the arousal, excitement and eventual satisfaction just spiral right through the roof.
[F 34]Yes, my husband likes to watch me use my vibe. He'll get under the bed sheet with a flashlight(so not to disturb the children)and watch me have my fun. He say's he likes to see the way my cunt reacts to the vibe. This also let's me slip into my fantasy of having two guys make it with me at once. I get so excited,sometimes I squirt, and that gets him so excited. After I go,usually twice, he screws me like mad. He encourages me to "Jill off" when he is not there.Sometimes I do and always tell him,it just excites him so much to hear this. He wants to watch me with another man,but I'm too chicken.Is he special or what?
Updated 2/06 [M 28]I really enjoy your site for when I want to be alone and have solo sex. I get undressed and sit in front of my computer, get into your website, and read sexy stories. I usually get several wonderful erections of the penis while reading stories, and sometimes I get so aroused my penis bends back like a banana. I just keep reading while slowly rubbing my balls and pulling on the head of my penis. After about an hour the arousal level is too much to handle, I then rub my balls as I slowly stroke the penis until I ejaculate in wonderful spurts of semen that explode out of my dick. You have posted several stories that I return to that give me a wonderful erection as soon as I begin to read them. Masturbation while visiting your web page is one of my favorite things to do when I am alone.
Updated 1/06 [M] As to masturbation sites, there is one called DickFlash that is mostly about exhibitionism, but there are lots of very nice pictures. Then
there is the Masturbation Page with pictures and letters(stories). If
age is no problem, then there is Wankers Over 50 which includes lots of
old guys like me jacking off as well as stories. The last two are pay
sites, but DickFlash just requires registration if you want to do more
than look.
Updated 12/05 [M] I've been happily married to a very sexy woman for just over 35 years, and I'm proud to say that masturbation is as important a source of sexual pleasure as intercourse, oral, or any other shared sex. In fact, we masturbate both together and in private. We enjoy all aspects of our sexuality.
Updated 11/05 [M] About 6 years into our marriage, I was masturbating in the bathroom,having a good old time. My wife opened the door unexpectedly and caught me. She didn't say a word,but just smiled. I covered myself with a magazine I pretended I was reading. We talked as if nothing had happened and never discussed it. It opened the door to many things though. I got her a vibe and enjoy watching her use it. She also has asked to watch me jack off. I do it for her on occasion.
Updated 10/05 [M] I'm 83 and I still like to jerk off
Updated 8/05 [M] I like masturbation because afterwards I usually feel better: it's a relax for my sexual tension. I like being stimulated by my girlfriend and I love showing her my penis in erection. I want her to watch me while she's stimulating my genital organs.
[M 38] My parents own a cabin in the mountains and I drove up for the weekend with my girl friend. My girl friend went to bed early, and I took a shower and then put a towel around me and walked outside on the deck and sat down on the bench. It was very warm out, and no wind, very peaceful, and I just sat there looking out at the stars and listening to the crickets make their distinctive sounds. I realized that the nearest cabin was hundreds of yards away, and it was dark around the cabin with no street lights, and I knew that nobody could see me sitting out on the deck. I decided to take the towel away and sit naked, and it felt great being outside like this, so I leaned back, put my legs out and just stared up at the stars. I became aware that I was becoming aroused by the feeling of sitting outside nude, and I could feel a little movement in my penis as I sat there enjoying being alone.. All of a sudden I became very aroused, and my penis started to rise up in small jerks as I became fully erect in the night air.
Updated 7/05 [M] This is on the recurring theme of mutual masturbation. I think that this is one of the nicest things about our sex life. Both of us have sons (13/15) from prior marriages. On Fridays the boys often go to their respective Mom/ Dad's for the weekend. This leaves us to our own devices. My wife has a thing for scary movies that I would not watch alone. So we get our comfy clothes on and cuddle up with what ever chop'um up flick she rented and our dogs on the couch. About a third of the way she will take my hand and slide it under her shirt to her breasts. I love this because it is just like dating again. She will squeeze my hand to let me know what she wants. We will sit like this for the longest time. Me caressing her wonderful breasts while she kinda grinds her soft ass against my crotch. She will feel my hard on grow into her bottom to signal it's time for something new. Now the part I love. She will turn around and straddle me. I pull her sweats d! own to her hips and reach in to feel her wetness. She pulls my cock out of my skivvies and starts to stroke me. I can take her nipples into my mouth now and suck them hard. She loves it when I draw a mouthful of tit into my mouth and just suck it. She is such a cute girl to start with. Just watching her work on my cock while I finger her is such a major turn on. It reminds me of this girl I got to know in 4-H. After awhile I will start to make my faces and noises and she will work harder to bring me. Around now I sneak a finger up her behind. If she is into it she'll spread her legs a little to let me go deeper. As I start to cum she will hold my cock and let my cum go on her cheeks and mouth. Then she lays on top of me while I finish getting her off with both hands and at lest one of hers too.
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“I had soaped myself all over and was rinsing off the soap with quite a strong pressure in the water spray. I directed it at my penis from in front and as the water hit the head I had quite pleasureable sensations. They were nice enough that I kept the spray on the head and it started to grow. It was not long before my desire was quite marked. I turned the shower and sprayed between my legs, behind my balls and up to the head on the underside. My cock now reached full erection and the sensations were as good as having a woman handle me but, in some way, more delicate. I kept the spray going pointing at the underneath of the top end of the penis; my desire to come became incredibly strong so I just kept the water flowing and quite soon I came with amazing strength. It was a marvelous new way for me to masturbate without even touching myself.”
So guys, now you know to try something new!
And girls, I have since tried the same on me, spraying the water onto my pussy and clit and it’s brought me off too. Quite delightful, and recommended!
My favorite time to masturbate is when she is relaxing in a hot bath and I can sit naked on the commode along side her and stroke myself. I think of it as pleasing myself while giving her a show to enjoy. The sight of her pussy in the water, along with some sexy talk, only serves to heighten the experience and it allows me the opportunity to share my masturbation sessions with her.
If you’ve never soloed in front of your partner it’s a real turn on for both that you shouldn’t miss.
There were a group of six of us guys that would get together often to play or just hang out. One day we were in the basement of one of the guys home when one of the guys started talking about jacking off and we all joined in about when we did it and how often. Someone suggested we all take our cocks out and jerk off together. It took a little persuasion but eventually we all had our cocks in hand and were stroking them. One by one we all came and told each other how much we really enjoyed it and would have to do it again. Don't know about the rest of them but I was very much looking forward to the next time.
It was a few days later that we were all there again and before long a couple had their cocks out and were playing with them to make them hard. I pulled mine out and almost immediately the guy next to me wrapped his hand around my cock and started slowly stroking. It had always feel good with my hand working mine but to feel someone else jacking m e off felt better than ever. As a result I grabbed his and started jerking him off. We worked on each other until we both unloaded our balls.
It was the best cum I had ever had up to that point. The other guys were mostly watching us and later asked us how it felt and if we were (queer) gay. We were not but it just felt so good. Someone suggested we have a gang jerk the next time we got together, where anyone could be jacked off or jack off another guy. We did this quite often after that and really enjoyed it tremendously.
After that time I have had many occasions where women have jerked me off when it wasn't possible to fuck and my mind always goes back to those wonderful experiences. After the gang of guys sort of all went their own way I was never touched by a boy or man again and really didn't want to be
Slipping a lubricated condum over its shaft, I slowly inserted it into my
ass. After a little bit of adjusting I was able to place its head against my
prostate gland. With one hand I jerked off, with the other I moved the probe
back and forth, in and out, so that it stimulated my prostate. Within seconds a
white milky fluid began oozing out of my cock. The feeling was incredible. The
more I moved the dildo the more fluid oozed. I continued to jerk off, my cock
as hard as it has ever been. In fact, the stimulation the dildo was providing
against my prostate seemed to give me a hardon as stiff as I have ever
experienced. The oozing slippery fluid soon covered my cock's head and made my
jerking off seem like I was using baby oil as a lubricant.
My wife had gotten quite excited watching all this and had buried her vibrating cock deep inside her pussy, fucking herself with deep hard thrusts, the dial turned on high. As
I watched her humming vibrator move in and out of her pussy I started to cum. My ejaculations were extremely intense, with large spurts of cum shooting into
the air. I pushed the anal probe into my ass as far as it would go and
continued jerking off until I had no cum left. My cock stayed hard long after
my last ejaculation and I stroked myself for several more minutes knowing full
well I could climax no more, but revelling in the pleasure I was still enjoying,
hard cock in hand, dildo inside my ass.
Without doubt one of the best orgasms I had ever experienced. As I was cumming my wife experienced her own climax. She moaned and screamed, her ass bouncing off the bed as she fucked herself hard, her own cum oozing out around her vibrator as she pushed and pulled it in and out of her pussy. Watching her cum has always been extremely exciting for me.
Eyes closed, legs shaking, sweat dripping down her body, she cums with such
intensity it is a sight I can never get enough of. Seeing the full length of her thick vibrator penetrating her pussy as she slams it deep while she cums is simply intoxicating.
She always has long almost agonizing orgasms when she fucks herself with her vibrator, soaking the bed sheets in a puddle of cum.
I must admit when we finally had our senses about us after this incredible
masturbation session we both agreed, her as a viewer and me as a user, that my
new anal dildo was a toy we are going to use on a regular basis. The next time,
she wants to use it on me while she gives me oral. I can't wait.
One that always seems to provide us both with intense orgasms is for me to kneel
between my wife's spread legs while she lays on her back. I rub my cock between
her pussy lips paying special attention to her clitoris. While I rub against her
clit and up and down between her lips I stroke my cock. It does not take very
long and I am ejaculating all over her pussy. She alwasy orgasms within seconds
of my climax.
A second version of this is for her to get on her hands and knees while I stand
behind her and rub my cock between her ass cheeks while I jerk myself off. She
does not care for anal sex but loves the feel of my hot hard cock between her
cheeks. She either fingers her clit or uses her dildo while I masturbate in
this position. When I cum I place my cock's head against her opening and
ejaculate onto her. My hot cum shooting onto her ass hole always makes her orgasm.
Another favorite is for me to stand in front of her while she sits on our
bedside. She sucks the head of my cock while I stroke myself. As look down I
can see her legs spread and her fingers masturbating her pussy. I jerk myself
off while she sucks my cock's head and fingers herself. Again we almost always
cum within seconds of each other when masturbating like this.
Lastly, we both love to watch each other masturbate. Sitting on our couch naked
in front of each other we get a close up view that turns both of us on. She
will finger herself and fuck herself with a dildo while I jerk off. If I cum
first, which I most always do, she'll ask me to ejaculate on her, sometimes on
her breasts, sometimes on her pussy and sometimes in her mouth, whatever turns
her on most at the time. Once I start to cum she'll began her climax. Using
her dildo in front of me gives her very intense orgasms. She is somewhat of an
exhibitionist and loves her 9" toy.
Slowly come to the boil, stroking gently, then back off, take time,
prolong the pleasure. I like to lick the juicy, slippery pre-cum from my
fingers, or smooth it over my knob. It is so shiny, gleaming in the
light - it reminds me of how it looks when, after it has been deep in my
wife’s pussy, I’ve pulled it slowly out, still stiff, glittering and
shining with our juice. Finally, hard and fast, lying back, full hand
around my cock, spurt spunk over my belly, over my chest, up to my neck
or, with a really big cum, over my face or straight into my mouth if I
aim it right.
It wasn’t always like that, even though I must have got myself off every
single night, sometimes twice, from when I was 11 or 12 and first
learned how much fun there was to be had from caressing, fondling and
fast wanking my cock, until we were married - 10 years, at least 4000
orgasms! I learned about sex at boarding school, starting soon after I
got there aged 11. I couldn't believe what the older boys (12!) said
happened between men and women - no way would I ever do THAT! And seeing
the 'amazing' amount of spunk produced by an older kid was a real
eye-opener! Now that's what I call Sex Education! I soon discovered what
felt good, even on my small immature cock. As I developed, it grew into
a real handful, producing much bigger loads of cum, even though I was
wanking daily. From then on, every night it was lie back, knees bent and
spread tenting the bed clothes, using my spare hand to stop my spunk
flying everywhere.The easiest way to clean up was to massage it into my
belly to get dry. Some other boys mopped up with a ‘wankerchief’. At
home in the holidays, it was good to do it with the bedclothes pushed
back, seeing how far I could shoot into the air!
There was also occasional mutual groping, exploring and wanking - it was
a lot of fun holding someone else’s prick, different size, different
shape, different feel, - roundhead? - or a foreskin to smooth back and
fore? My prick stiff in his hand, a different touch on me, a different
grip, different strokes, different technique, finding out ‘first hand’
(!) how others do it. Which side was he? Was I wanking him with my right
hand or my left? Taking a big full hand grip, or delicate fingering?
Younger kid, not yet developed, little cock but still rock hard - do him
with finger tips, easing his foreskin gently back, with his smaller hand
feeling the girth of my nice big prick - his will soon be up there with
it! His prick stiff in my hand, twitching and jerking as he came, mine
pulsing in his hand as I joined him, each to a different rhythm. There
has always been something very exciting about somebody else’s hand
fondling my shaft - it certainly feels incredibly good when my wife does it!
On a camping trip, sharing a small tent with someone, tentatively reach
over - how will he react? Unzip sleeping bags, fumble around for his
pyjama fly, slip in to find an iron hard cock, feel his hand reaching
over feeling for mine, slide a bit closer, hand down his belly, through
his hair to grasp the base of his cock. Fingers wrapped right round,
slimmer shaft than mine, circumcised, not much loose skin to slide up
and down, so tease his knob, use his juice to get him slick, slide on
down to gently cup and squeeze his balls, then slowly up, slide over his
skin, squeeze some more juice from his slit, then spread it back down,
fingers now gliding down his slick and slippery rod. Feel him toying
with my prick working his own magic, feel him experimenting with my
foreskin, pulling it forward over my knob with nice long strokes, not a
technique I use much - feels pretty good, though. Keep it going as long
as possible, then cocks twitching, we speed up to finish off, spunk
shooting over hands and bellies. As always, the mess to clean up - and
then, tomorrow night, maybe?
I once shared a double bed at a B&B, and again it was easy to grope each
other, slide pjs down, throw back the bed clothes and wank each other to
orgasm, cleaning off sticky hands on each other’s belly
Great fun also! I almost miss it…! We never did try cock sucking - we
probably didn’t know it existed. Ah well, another missed opportunity!
Maybe, one day, Mr Right will come along…
Likewise at university - sharing a room, so a bit more tricky - no
ostentation, but tacit acceptance that in the dark you could just get on
with a wank, but no moaning or great fountains of spunk!
Up until I was about 15, I couldn’t get my foreskin back, though my
prick was growing nicely. Then on a family holiday in a London hotel,
one night I finally got my knob exposed. But with a lovely stiff prick
my foreskin was so tight I thought I’d do damage! I had managed to force
it back over my knob, and I was afraid it would just split, there and
then, but it just about survived, with my finger and thumb squeezed
tight round the groove, to stop the twitching of my shaft doing serious
damage! Never looked back after that moment - over a few weeks I kept
working on my foreskin while masturbating, stretching it gradually,
easing it back over my knob until got it nice and loose, which meant I
could slip it easily back, however leaving a VERY sensitive knob. This
caused me to change my wanking technique a bit and after a few years I
decided I would ‘wear’ it pulled back all the time. As the books say, it
reduces the sensitivity of my knob, and wanking is just great with all
that lovely soft skin to move around. Circumcised men miss so much! But
why wasn’t I told that foreskins HAVE to be retractable, for both
cleanliness and enjoyment! I could have got it back much easier when my
cock still had some growing to do! I certainly made sure our son, from
an early age, knew what needed to be done.
But what about those times when we're feeling blue, bummed-out, in physical discomfort or just out-of-sorts?
If masturbation is good when you're happy, shouldn't it also be good when you're unhappy?
Back in 1972, scientists discovered that the human brain's neurons had specific receptor sites for opiate drugs: opium, heroin, codeine and morphine. Why would nature put in our brains a receptor for a plant?
They soon figured out that the active ingredient in all these opiates - morphine - had a chemical structure similar to endorphins, a class of chemicals present in the brain . Endorphins are feel-good chemicals naturally-manufactured in the brain when the body experiences pain or stress. They are called the natural opiates of the body.
Note: sexual pleasure and orgasms release endorphins, making a person feel euphoric, warm and fuzzy.
Research has also shown that certain neurotransmitters are related to mental health problems – Dopamine, Serotonin, Norepinephrine, and GABA (Gamma Aminobutyric Acid). Too much or too little of these neurotransmitters are now felt to produce psychiatric conditions such as schizophrenia, depression, bi-polar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and ADHD.
So, there you have it; the body is its own chemical factory, and sometimes it malfunctions. But within each of us is a trigger that will release natural chemicals that MAKE US FEEL GOOD.
In the interest of good mental health, everyone ought to caress themselves a little each day, and that those of us who are in distress - for whatever reason - should consider doing it MORE. Some people go to a gym to "work out" for an hour a day in the interest of physical fitness. Do they also masturbate for an equal amount of time?
Before you get too concerned about health foods vs toxins, perhaps you should just go in the shower or bedroom and love yourself for an hour. Then you can have some yogurt and wheat germ as a reward.
When I was at university I had a roommate in my college. Once, at night, he masturbated , although I was inside the room. I realized that he felt better after ejaculating, so I said nothing. He confided me he often felt like masturbating, like me. He could relax his sexual strain. I couldn't help watching him while he was masturbating. He was naked and sat down on his bed. I saw him ejaculating.
One of the aspects of this relationship is she loves to look at, inspect and just hold my penis, while she strokes it and kisses it. She is exceptionally great at oral sex. But every now and then, after she has gotten me excited, achieving a nice hard erection, she will say, "Will you masturbate for me?" That's music to my ears. So I am always willing to show off my penis and ejaculate for her. She absolutely loves it. She stimulates me with her touch on my shaft and balls by telling me how hot I am, how she loves to see my penis up close - she puts her face within inches, initially, then moves back and whispers sweet nothings in my ear. As I get closer to ejaculation, she says, "I want you to come on me. I ask where, and she tells me to come on her pussy, her very hairy beautiful pussy. Wow! That is a major turn-on! She is moaning, while she watches my hard penis spew smooth white semen all over her. I have come on her 36C breasts, her pussy of course, and in her hand. She also has a beautiful head of hair, long hair. We have discussed me coming in her hair, while she jacks me off, by wrapping her soft gorgeous hair around my penis and stroking it. It is just one of the many aspects of a very satisfying and beautiful relationships, something that was missing in both of our previous relationships and so spicy!
I think a lot of middle aged men are deprived of having such a loving and giving sex partner with their significant other, especially this late in life. She is more than I ever could have hoped for in a partner. I encourage all women who want to keep their man, to be open in the bedroom or wherever you are, to have regular and varied types of sex. You will have a man who will do almost anything for you. Best wishes!
I have also performed masturbation on her over the years although I prefer performing oral sex on her. Over the years oral sex has usually been a foreplay thing with her but there are those times when I can take her all the way to orgasm. When we do this she has never been real crazy about performing this on me and what I'll do when she comes down from her orgasm is move up next to her and lay down on my side. She'll lay on her side also facing me. She'll extend her bed side leg out and prop up her other leg which allows me access to it. Admittedly, I'm a pure leg man. Second only to pussy nothing turns me on more than the feel of a woman's legs. Especially the softness of there inner thighs. She'll lube up her right hand and I'll lay my hard penis on her inner thigh that is laying on the bed. She then wrap her lubricated hand around it and stroke and rub my penis against the wonderful softness of her inner thigh. All the while I'll use my left hand to caress and squeeze in my palm and just plain FEEL this wonderful soft female flesh. It never takes me long and I then cover the wonderful thing that has brought me such pleasure with my love juice.
When my wife was pregnant with our daughter, she told me how sounds and sensations against her swollen belly would make the baby inside move and kick happily. Things like the sound of the shower, music (particularly Queen) played on ear phones against her tummy, or just the sound of my voice. But the one thing that got my daughter moving in the womb more than anything else was when my wife would hump her pillow. Each time my wife was ready to masturbate, she'd say to our baby inside her pregnant tummy, "Mommy's going to rock you now!" My wife would tell me how the baby would be squirming about as if in joy as my wife would jackhammer her pussy into her pillow. And I'm certain our baby could hear the sound of bedsprings creaking in the mattress beneath my wife's stomach, as she rode her pillow to orgasm.
Whenever my wife and I are at a novelty store, and we see that "Humphrey the humping dog" toy displayed outside of its' box, either my wife or I press the button on its' ear, and watch its' hips and loins pump fervently, all the while whining and howling till it reaches orgasm. My wife always has a little embarrassed grin while watching Humphrey, because that's exactly how she looks when she's humping!
An equal opportunity masturbator, my wife also masturbates against her stuffed animals, the bunched up blankets, and just the mattress of our bed. But her absolute favorite things to hump are her pillows. I can't think of anything sexier and just plain hotter to watch!
She will also sit astride me and bring me off while masturbating at the same time. I have suggested that she lets me wank over her belly but so far has declined the offer, although I have accidently cum between her tits a couple of times when I could no longer hold back!
When I know that she is waiting in bed for me to come and make love to her I will approach her while gently masturbating myself, on kneeling close to her she will lick my pre-cum and fondle my cock and balls as part of our fore-play. I keep my cock and balls shaved and she shaves pubic hair which makes oral sex that much more enjoyable. I enjoy kneeling between her legs and masturbating gently just before coming inside her.
Tom and Melissa are nudists who frequently attend a nudist resort where they can share their lifestyle with others of like mind. Contrary to what many may believe, nudists are not typically focused on sex. They simply like enjoying life without the necessity of wearing clothing. On one such occasion, they noticed a new couple in their midst. We’ll call them Joe and Sue. Wanting to make them feel welcome, Tom and Melissa struck up a conversation, found a lot of stuff in common, and started a new friendship. Just before the next Christmas season rolled around, Tom and Mellissa received what they thought was probably a Christmas card from their new friends. It ended up being an invitation to a masturbation marathon to be held at Joe and Sue’s house. Actually it was a triple invitation to three different masturbation events. The first one was a Jack party for men only. The second one was a Jill Party for women only. The third one was a Jack and Jill party for married couples only. These were all scheduled during the week leading up to Christmas. Since these couples had never before discussed anything of this nature, Tom and Melissa began to have second thoughts about their new friends. None the less Tom called Joe on the phone to get more details and to find out more about the event and what the purpose of it was. Tom and Melissa had no desire to get mixed up in any sort of sex orgy. It turns out that the event being celebrated was called Masturbate for Peace. This is a social movement that encourages all peoples everywhere to display their self-love through masturbation rather than through the destruction of other people. More can be learned about this at www.masturbateforpeace.com. This is not a porno site. To support this effort, couples are encouraged to hold masturbation marathons in their homes and charge an entry fee whereby the proceeds are donated to the masturbation for peace cause. Tom also learned that there were rules set for the three events in order to ensure that these parties would not simply turn into sex orgies. This set their minds at ease, so Tom and Melissa both decided to participate in all three parties as long as everything went as they were told they would.
The first event to be held was the Jack party which was for men only. Tom arrived at the designated time. He was required to pay an entry fee of $25, whereupon he was then required to remove all of his clothing. There were different rooms in the house designated for the masturbation activities. He was one of the last to arrive, and there were already several men walking about stroking their erections. There were also signs of some previous masturbation activity as he stepped over some globs of milky white semen on the floor that had not yet been cleaned up. There was lubricant and tissues provided at different areas throughout the designated rooms. Tom had also popped a Viagra about an hour before the party to ensure sufficient erectile function throughout the evening. The rules were that this event was for self-pleasuring only. There was to be no sexual contact of any kind between individuals including no mutual masturbation. Each man was only allowed to touch and stroke himself. There was to be no semen spilled on the furniture. The floor could be used as a repository for the spilled semen since men generally like to continue stroking themselves as the semen is being ejaculated. However, each individual was responsible for cleaning up his own semen as soon as possible in order to ensure proper hygiene. Cleaning materials were provided for this purpose. Different games and events took place throughout the evening in order to add life to the party. One of the first was to get all the men together and designate a nickname for everyone based on the appearance or abilities of their sexual organs. Tom’s nickname was Balls because he appeared to have the biggest testicles in the group. He remembered that another man was named Shooter because of the distance he was able to spurt his semen. In all, there were about 30 men. All were given a nickname. Other events included such things as who could produce the quickest ejaculation from the word ‘go’, who could shoot their semen for the longest distance, and such things as that. They would have included the most ejaculations, but the verification of that would have been hard to keep track of. After 5 hours, the event was over. Tom had ejaculated a total of 4 times. He was impressed with the event and was glad that he had decided to participate.
He went home and related this to his wife, Melissa. This made her excited about the upcoming Jill party which she attended a couple of nights later. I didn’t get any specific details about the Jill party, except that this gathering of women also gave each other nicknames and had various games involving masturbation. The rules were the same. Sex toys were allowed in this case. Any sexually-produced juices were to be cleaned up by the person producing the juices as soon as possible. Each woman was only allowed to touch and penetrate their own sexual organs. Again, there were about 30 women involved, and all had a fun and exhilarating evening.
Both Tom and Melissa could hardly wait for the grand finale – the Jack and Jill party. The evening arrived. They went to Joe and Sue’s house once again and paid their entry fees and removed all their clothing. Since this event involved married couples only, the rules were somewhat different. Mutual masturbation was allowed as long as it was between couples who were married to one another. Also sexual intercourse was allowed as long as it was between a man and woman who were married to one another. Sex toys were allowed. These were all individuals who had attended one of the previous two parties so the nicknames were already established. Again, there were various games that took place. One game involved the men masturbating their spouses to see could achieve the fastest orgasm. Another game involved the women masturbating their husbands to see who achieve the fastest ejaculation. There were also individual games to see who could give themselves the quickest orgasm or ejaculation. But then came the grand finale towards the end of the evening. This involved actual sexual intercourse between each of the married couples. The goal was to see who could maintain penetration for the longest period of time with actual ejaculation required in order to win the competition. Each man was given time to achieve a sufficient erection and the women doctored themselves up with any needed lubricants. When everyone was set, the signal was given to begin the competition and each man quickly penetrated his own wife. Since the winner was to be the couple who achieved penetration for the longest period of time, all movement was in relatively slow motion in order to prevent any premature ejaculation. At the same time, some stimulating movement had to be maintained in order to keep the erections from going soft. Premature ejaculation was not a big problem because of the multiple ejaculations that had already been experienced by most of the men. However, the excitement of seeing so many new friends having sexual intercourse in each others presence was enough to keep most of the men from losing their erectile function too quickly. Ultimately, the success of this competition involved the ability of the man to maintain his erection. Without that, penetration was not possible.
By the end of 45 minutes, all couples had completed their mission except for one. Tom and Melissa were still locked together and were determined to achieve ejaculation in order to win this ultimate competition. Viagra had allowed Tom to maintain his erection; however, his supply of semen was seriously depleted from multiple ejaculations earlier in the evening. Their friends were more than satisfied with how the event was turning out and were more than happy to lend encouragement. They all gathered in a circle around the remaining couple and chanted ‘cum, cum, cum, cum, cum ,cum’ over and over again. Tom was now going at it as hard as he could, When he became exhausted, they would turn over making sure to maintain penetration, and then Melissa would provide the movement as her juices flowed from the excitement of the moment. She didn’t care if this never ended. She was totally absorbed, never dreaming that her and Tom would end up as the center of attention and chanted encouragement at their first Jack and Jill masturbation marathon. After a total of one hour and ten minutes, Tom finally turned over off from Melissa as globs of hot white semen spurted from the end of his erection to the delighted cheers and enthusiastic applause of the surrounding audience. What an incredible experience this was for everyone involved – but especially for Tom and Melissa. They can hardly wait for next year when they get to masturbate for peace once again, and they get to prove their championship penetration efforts once again.
Another similar event has been held over the last few years on the Saturday before Memorial Day. This year’s event was on May 27th and is simply called masturbate-a-thon. The same type of parties as described above are held for this event. This event was developed for the purpose of promoting the sale of sex toys, and the proceeds go to an organization benefiting sex and culture in our society. With that being the case, the entry fee for these events is around the same as the masturbate-for-peace proponents.. I did tune into this website at www.masturbate-a-thon.com for this particular event on the day of the marathon. This also is not considered a porno site. There was live video feed of different individuals in the act of masturbation. I assume that the day was filled with live feed of different individuals in their acts of self-love since it was National masturbation day. The one that I saw was a man who used a method that appeared to be exceptionally sensual and well designed for viewing by an audience. This was a well-built slender man who appeared to be around 25 to 30 years of age. He was totally naked and positioned himself on his back on a bed with his butt on the edge of the bed, his upper body angled slightly towards the center of the bed, his left leg up on the mattress, and his right leg over the edge of the bed with his right foot resting on the floor. This allowed for full exposure of his entire genital area from the right side of his naked body. With the camera pointing down from the right side of his body, he used only his left hand to slowly stroke and caress himself so that his genital area was always fully exposed. Using his right hand would have blocked the view of the camera. Instead, he used his right hand to lightly caress his chest and stomach for added sensuality.
Instead of wrapping his left hand around his shaft and simply jacking off, he made sure that his entire erect penis and scrotum were in full view at all times. His method was designed to give maximum, prolonged pleasure with delayed ejaculation. This was a self-massage using the tips of his fingers up and down his shaft with a focus on caressing the head of his penis. At times he would remove his hand from the penis and run his hand and fingers over his scrotum in order to fully accentuate the involvement of his testicles in this procedure. He continued to do this for an extended period of time, slowing down every now and then in order to prevent ejaculation from happening too quickly. His body writhed in utter pleasure and the deep-throated sounds that exuded from his mouth were of utter and incredible pleasure as he slowly but surely guided himself to the point of no return. There was no movement of the skin of his penis back and forth as in a normal masturbation. It was just a slow and deliberate caress over the penis and testicles and scrotum as he brought himself to the brink of explosion many times. After he had fulfilled his appointed time for completing his timeslot, he put all the fingertips on his left hand over the head of his erection and caressed the rim of his ultra-sensitive glans until the explosion occurred. With screams of incredible pleasure, he ejaculated ribbons of milky white semen as it erupted in every direction from the end of his pulsing jerking erection. The sound and body language that accompanied this act of masturbation was captivating beyond description.
As I continued to watch, the live feed went to a different camera – this time with a young woman of about the same age coming on the scene. She walked in view of the camera while still in her clothing of shorts and a blouse, but she promptly removed everything for the benefit of the viewer. She then positioned herself in a sitting position on a brick ledge next to a fireplace and propped her feet up on some supports in front of her with her legs fully spread. She then produced a long handled sex toy which she used to begin caressing her vaginal area. I would have continued watching, but my own erection was calling. I departed to the comfort of my own bed where I made my own contribution to all the hot semen that was ejaculated on National masturbate-a-thon day 2006. I was so close to explosion myself that I just couldn’t wait to feel the pleasures of my own sperm and hot fluids that were produced by my own sexual organs erupting from the end of my throbbing penis. I simply wrapped my hand around my pulsing shaft and pumped as quickly and hard as I could. I was not disappointed. The eruption came and the pleasure was incredible. I had made my contribution.
However, I was intrigued by the method of masturbation used by the man who had performed on live video. It was new to me and was something that I just had to try. So the time came. I lathered up with plenty of lubrication and proceeded with the process of masturbation. It was good, and it produced the desired outcome when semen spurted from my erection, but it wasn’t sensational. Then it occurred to me that the man who performed for the camera had not used any lubrication. Could that be the secret? I was determined to find out, so next time I tried it without lubrication. Now things were smoking. As it turns out, this method produces no irritating friction and no movement of the skin which means no lubricant is needed. There is only totally naked skin with all of its little nerve endings exposed to the caressing movements of the finger tips. I caressed my shaft and head and scrotum slowly and deliberately with one hand as I used the other hand to caress parts of my chest and stomach and neck. I didn’t want to rush this one. I could feel every nerve in my penis emitting all the pleasure that they were capable of producing. My mind was begging me to just grab the shaft and get on with the ejaculation. Self-control was required to continue the soft gentle caress which prolonged the time of the final eruption. I gently and slowly moved my finger pads over, around, and up and down my genitals.. If the point of no return was approaching too quickly, I moved my caresses down to my scrotum and fondled my swollen testicles as they pulsated with the act of manufacturing millions of sperm cells that couldn’t wait for the ultimate point of pleasure that would expel them from my body.
After about 15 or 20 minutes of this, I decided I just couldn’t wait any longer. I looked at my erection. It was so engorged that the entire shaft had turned red with utter anticipation, and the head was purple with desire. Building up to this point had taken time, but I knew the incredible pleasure awaiting me would be worth it. Just like the man in the video. I gently placed all my fingertips around the rim of my head and just continued the slow caress of all these nerve endings for a short time longer until the ultimate point of no return had been reached. Pulse after pulse, spurt after spurt, of white hot semen erupted from my penis. As this amazing feeling overtook me, screams of pleasure rolled out of my mouth. Incredible amounts of hot semen lay on the front of my body. I looked down where I observed globs of semen continuing to pulsate from my erection as it was now depositing the white hot stuff at the very tip of my penis. I had found the secret of ultimate masturbation, as well as increased motivation for masturbating by watching the video and also by remembering Tom and Melissa’s first experience with a masturbation marathon. So it was through the event of masturbation marathons that my own masturbation activities have been spiced up and taken on new life. Oh yeah, I’ll still use the old method every now and then when I need a quickie, but when time permits, the new method that I have learned is definitely the way to go.
I've always loved watching her love herself, whether with just fingers or using a dildo or electric device. One of the things that rather amazed me was the vigor with which she would fuck herself. By watching my wife jam her favorite jelly dildo in and out her vagina, I can get a better feel for how intense she likes her lovemaking.
And of course, I've always enjoyed masturbating for her, posing and showing off my colorful, throbbing erection, and shooting my hot essence onto her waiting thigh or pussy.
So, for us, shared masturbation has this triple power; our own personal pleasure, watching our partner, and showing off for our partner. It can hardly get any better than that.
It was during the first year of our marriage that we "came out" to each other about masturbation. While we were still dating, I never hid my porn mags from her, so it should have been pretty obvious to her that I enjoyed getting myself off. Even after we became husband and wife, I still maintained subscriptions to a couple popular magazines, but never got myself off in her presence. Until one very special evening...
We had become quite intoxicated and were both horny, but not necessarily in any condition for quality intercourse. I got up the courage to ask her if she touched herself with regularity, and she replied that she did. That got my heart beating - as well as my cock - and I then asked if she would like to show me how she did it. She said she would, but only if I would reciprocate. Of course, I agreed.
Laying on the couch, she slid her jeans and panties off, spread her thighs, and began to whip her clit back and forth so quickly that her hand became a blur! I was awestruck. I watched with both a sense of arousal and education as she brought herself closer and closer to orgasm. Her body became rigid and her back arched as she reached climax. I was truly honored to have viewed such an intimate act. Now it was my turn.
I, too, dropped my jeans and underwear and began to stroke my youthful erection, displaying myself with excitement. Her eyes were riveted on my cock and hand. I would have gladly stroked for an hour, but being so aroused, there was no way that was going to happen. In only minutes, I shot several solid ropes of cum in her direction, feeling the wonderful, familiar feeling race through my body. She seemed very pleased to see how I got myself off.
Since that night, we have always made time for both shared and solo masturbation. I love to watch her fuck herself with a variety of dildos and I know she enjoys the effect it has on me, not to mention herself. While the larger, longer dongs are probably more for my entertainment, she does enjoy the feeling of those rotating, vibrating toys. She's already burned out two of them. Years ago, she rather fell in love with the Eroscillator, one of the best selling, best made sex tools for women. In fact, she almost always gives herself one more orgasm with it when we have sex, and I'm really speechless when I see just how powerfully she can come with it.
And when it comes to our individual private pleasure time, we give each other the space needed to totally enjoy ourselves. When she's out shopping, she calls ahead to let me know about what time she'll get home, knowing that I'm most likely at the computer browsing pics and masturbating. I prefer to masturbate after getting home from work, and relish the opportunity to take all the time i need to reach orgasm slowly. I know that she often gets herself off in the morning after dropping me off at work.
Life is so good together when couples recognize the fact that while together sex is good, no one can love you like yourself.
I looked down and saw my penis pointing straight up, almost begging to be touched, so I rewarded it by slowly fondling the shaft and penis head with my finger tips, and the fact that my girl friend might come out and catch me added to the excitement. After manipulating myself for awhile I then began to stroke the shaft of my penis while playing with my scrotum, balls, and even pulling on my nipples. As ejaculation neared, I was stroking my penis as fast as possible, and it was hard not to moan out loud as I moved my hand up and down the penis in rapid succession. I ejaculated in wonderful spurts of semen that spewed out several inches in the air as I rubbed my balls and continued to squeeze the shaft of my penis until the last few drops of fluid was expelled. I stood up and could not believe how good this all felt. I went back and took another shower, then went to bed to my girl friend, and as I slid into bed I could feel her naked body next to mine, and I for some reason sucked on her nipples a little before I turned over and slept.
Masturbating like this can be better than screwing. There seems to be a common goal. and I love to look at her work. At 42 she is still my little pixie. She makes the most wonderful little pet noises as she comes. Maurice Chevalier knew what he was singing about!
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