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Continuous Male Orgasm

I received this article from a man who wants to share this information with you. There is already an article on the same topic and comments too but I thought this was worth a read.

And the author would love to hear from you so drop Benders20@aol.com a note, and copy me so I can post it for others to share. JEL

Several years ago I learned that by getting extremely close to the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability, then relaxing my sex organ muscles and halting all stimulation, then getting "close" again repeatedly, I would achieve a continuous plateau stage with frequent emissions orgasms without ejaculating. The resultant intensity of pleasure is possibly one half that felt in a full ejaculatory orgasm but potentially unending. Furthermore, the associated sexual organs exercise, and the learned ability to better control those organs mentally, has greatly increased the scope and depth my sexual pleasure. It is my opinion that I have learned to enhance and maintain indefinitely the physical events and associated pleasure of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm. Feelings of pleasure are augmented by intense loin vasocongestion, and sexual organ fluid fullness and pressure. The following discussion attempts to teach men how to achieve this continuous orgasm, and to explain the physiological basis of this phenomenon.

My discovery of the continuous orgasm was accidental, but recounting the event may help others separate their emissions orgasm and ejaculatory experiences. The first time I experienced the potential of this technique I was masturbating while stoned on pot. Stimulation to my penis felt somewhat dulled. I got very close to cumming but sensed that my orgasm was going to be weak; so I stopped all stimulation, knowing that I could build up to a better orgasm. When I was able to resume penile stimulation I noticed the pleasure of touching my penis was greater...so I came close to cumming again and again...and it felt better and better. Possibly five "close calls" later, my prostate had swollen and my seminal vesicles hardened and discharged but no semen flowed into my urethra. Pot seems to broaden the threshold between my orgasm emissions phase and the ejaculatory reflex response. Orgasm pleasure emanated from my testes, which were swollen and drawn under the tissue aside my penis. Possibly thirty minutes into this routine my loin muscles began to ache, so I proceeded to the most intensely pleasurable orgasm and high quantity ejaculation I had ever had. Long afterward my sexual organs continued to radiate an enjoyable ache. I had given these muscles a hearty exercising! I eagerly anticipated my next masturbation session, with delay dictated by my need to reload with semen.

I no longer use, nor do I advocate the use of pot because of its damaging effect on the lungs. A marijuana brownie could do the trick, or possibly another serotonin reuptake inhibitor (Prozac?) would produce the same effect. Anyway, pot use helped me control and broaden the threshold of ejaculatory inevitability, thus facilitating the learning of the continuous orgasm. Pot use also has a strong aphrodisiac effect when I entertained myself in this pre-ejaculation orgasm stage. Feelings of pleasure (sex munchies) are enhanced. For several months, without pot, I rarely achieved intense orgasm feelings without eliciting a few spasmodic pumping throbs and ejaculating small amounts of seminal fluid. With practice though, use of pot is not necessary to enjoy orgasms without ejaculation. Practice results in discoveries of higher degrees of sexual pleasure and sensations.

At this point I would like to discuss the physiology of the male ejaculatory orgasm. Reference books describe the event in stages involving sexual organ vasocongestion, rising to the plateau stage, then the orgasm which consists of internal sexual organ emissions and the ejaculation reflex response. Events beyond the plateau phase can be broken into many additional stages. My first orgasm pleasure sensations come from my testes, which draw up into my body. When men first sense the arrival of an orgasm, those feelings emanate from the epididymis and the spermatic cords which contract and spasm to move sperm up the ductus (vas) deferns into the ampullary gland or ampulla. The ampulla filling with sperm accentuates sexual stimulation pleasure. Continued penile stimulation soon triggers a hardening of the seminal vesicles which also discharge fluid. The sperm and seminal fluid in the ampulla then flows into the ejaculatory ducts. Sufficient pressure quickly builds in the ejaculatory ducts to trigger a hardening of the prostate, which discharges directly into the urethra. Ejaculation is inevitable once the prostate hardens. Finally, the valves at the ends of the ejaculatory ducts open and fluids pressure triggers the ejaculation reflex. Semen discharged from the penis comes in a distinct sequence of partially mixed emissions: 1. prostatic fluid (10%); 2. sperm (2%) and ampullary gland fluid (6%); 3. seminal fluid (70%) and again; 4. prostatic fluid (12%).

Note that there are valves at the ends of the ejaculatory ducts and that fluids pressure triggers the ejaculation reflex. I evidently orgasm and discharge sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal vesicle fluid into the ejaculatory ducts without triggering ejaculation or the opening those valves. I have trained myself to lock the ejaculatory duct valves closed during these emissions. The key is WHEN YOU GET VERY CLOSE TO EJACULATORY INEVITABILITY COMPLETELY RELAX ALL SEXUAL ORGAN MUSCLES, AND CEASE STIMULATION TO THE PENIS. The best way to portray this relaxation is to visualize the feeling you create trying to initiate urination. Urinary tract muscle relaxation locks the ejaculatory ducts valves closed, even as the seminal vesicles proceed to harden and discharge. Ampullary gland fluid, sperm and seminal fluid pressure builds behind the duct valves. Stopping stimulation to the penis and relaxation halts the emissions pressure driven progression to the hardening of the prostate and the ejaculatory reflex. Sexual organ muscle contractions, and seminal fluid movement and pressure produce the feelings of an orgasm, and give rise to greatly heightened penis stimulation pleasure. Getting "close" to the point of seminal vesicle hardening and emissions orgasm at least ten times, involving roughly fifteen minutes of pre-ejaculatory pleasure results in the state of continuous orgasm.

With experience and exercise, I have raised the pressure (and pleasure) level required to trigger the ejaculation reflex response. I sense exactly how much more pressure can build before crossing the threshold to ejaculatory inevitability. My emissions orgasms are stronger and ultimately continuous without triggering ejaculation. My seminal vesicles harden right after I have nearly cum; hence they are almost constantly hard and discharging. My prostate swells without hardening, currently to about just half as large as during a full ejaculatory orgasm. Emissions increase the amount of fluid held in the ampulla and ejaculatory ducts, with an associated increase in pleasure and passion of sexual readiness.

The presence of sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluid in my ejaculatory ducts is evidenced by sensations I can produce after nearly cumming. Shortly after ceasing stimulation I can contract my bulbospongiosus muscle and thereby press on my prostate and feel the fluids being pushed back up into the ampulla and seminal vesicles. This feeling of fluid movement and fullness is very pleasurable. I can stop masturbating, and hours (days) later still feel the semen in my loins eager for release. My testes also feel full and are slightly sensitive to jostling.

Notice my descriptions of the physical changes to internal sexual organs that occur during an orgasm and ejaculation. By placing a middle finger into your rectum the hardening of the seminal vesicles, ampullary gland, and prostate can be palpitated digitally. Softly massaging the prostate and ampulla when they are gorged from orgasmic filling is pleasurable. The ampullary gland is felt during an ejaculatory orgasm as a hard triangular organ, point facing downward, that lies just above the prostate.

Additional observations:

1. It seems that enhanced and prolonged orgasms elicit increased semen production. I easily cum twice daily, and after just 48 hours of abstinence fluids build up to a sense of fullness that demands release. That sense of fullness comes from my testes and seminal vesicles.
2. I can generate a strong feeling of sexual excitement mentally at will. I am able to elicit a feeling of sexual rush at will by mentally inducing contractions in my seminal vesicles, and in my epididymis and spermatic cord. I drive sperm movement up my ductus (vas) deferens. The sperm rising to my ampullary gland raises my level of sexual excitement. My scrotum and spermatic cords move my testes around when I generate these pleasure sensations.
3. I can maintain emissions orgasms without stimulation to my penis. Once a high degree of fluid pressure has accumulated behind the ejaculatory ducts valves, I can mentally induce contractions in my epididymis and spermatic cords thereby generate sexual stimulation. This stimulation maintains my continuous orgasm, and can trigger the ejaculatory reflex.
4. My testes are a source of sexual stimulation. I wrap a one inch foam bandcord around my testes, just barely tight enough to prevent their retraction up into my body. When my scrotum muscles contract, they put a pleasurable pressure on the testes. Also, the orgasmic feelings emanating from my ductus (vas) deferns is greatly enhanced when my testes are held down in the scrotum, and I can produce sexual pleasure similar to light penile stimulation by gently rocking my testes slightly from side to side.
5. Applying pressure and rubbing the sides around and above the base of my penile shaft generates sexual pleasure, and tightening my stomach muscles as in a partial situp enhances this pleasure. I believe this stimulation mimics groin press of our instictive thrust into our partner at climax.
6. I can maintain an emission orgasm by gently rubbing my prostate and seminal vesicles after they have started to harden.
7. The ability to enjoy orgasms while delaying ejaculation may enhance a sexual relationship. I am in no hurry, and my level of readiness and periodic dry penile throbs excites my partner.

PRACTICE GUIDE TO THE CONTINUOUS MALE ORGASM

Learn to maintain indefinitely the physiological events and associated pleasure of the emissions phase of an absolutely imminent ejaculatory orgasm! Practice at least half an hour, once a day, for probably two months and you will likely gain the ability to enjoy an endless orgasm! Put on your favorite porno and follow this step-by-step practice guide:

I. "STOP AND GO" MASTURBATING
When you begin to feel an orgasm approach cease all penile stimulation. Let your level of excitement drop slightly, and then approach another orgasm. Repeat this "stop and go" approach to an orgasm at least ten times. Notice that stimulation to your penis feels better and better. On the tenth orgasm approach bear down hard with your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle but slow down your stroking as you reach the point of no return. The reduced stimulation to the penis permits the pleasure of sexual organ emissions drive you to the full ejaculatory orgasm. Notice the increased volume and intensity of your orgasm.

GOALS:
1. Learn to resist the temptation of the orgasm; just as your penis feels really great to stroke...stop. You will discover that the avoidance of immediate pleasure will bring greater pleasure.
2. Strengthen your sexual organ muscles.
3. Increase your mental control over orgasms.
4. Learn to measure the approach of your orgasm.
5. Feel the emissions phase as separate from the ejaculatory phase of an orgasm.

II. RECTAL MONITOR
Practice the Stop and Go technique. When you are ready to orgasm lube up your middle finger and stick it up your butt! Feel around your prostate (walnut sized organ one to two inches past your anus) then put your finger all the way in, past the prostate. With your finger probing above the prostate proceed to an ejaculatory orgasm.

GOALS:
1. Learn how good it feels to massage your prostate and ampullary gland.
2. Feel how your internal sex organs harden during an ejaculatory orgasm. The ampullary gland is felt when hard as triangular just above the prostate. The seminal vesicles are the firm cords running down into the ampullary gland.

III. RELAXATION WHEN CLOSE:
Practice Stop and Go approaches to an orgasm, but try to get a little closer to the point of no return. When you get real close, stop stroking your penis and completely relax all sex muscles. Concentrate especially on relaxing your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle, by creating the feeling you produce when trying to start to take a piss. Let your level of excitement drop, but less so, before resuming the approach to another orgasm. Relax completely each time you are near an orgasm and stop sexual stimulation. Notice that relaxation helps to extinguish the feelings associated with an emissions orgasm.

GOALS:
1. Learn to resist the lure of an ejaculatory orgasm that is now closer. You must relax just when your piss stopper muscle would naturally bear down, and stop stroking just when it feels really good.
2. Learn to more quickly resume penile stimulation after stopping.
3. Learn to get closer and closer to ejaculatory inevitability without passing that reflex threshold.

IV. CLOSE RELAX CLOSE RELAX SO CLOSE
Build up your level of sexual excitement first with at least five stop and go sessions, then try to get REAL CLOSE to an orgasm and RELAX all sex organ muscles. Get so close that you would have triggered an ejaculatory orgasm if you had not become fully relaxed. Your mission is continue to feel the orgasms approach for a few seconds even though you are not stimulating your penis. The lure to stroke yourself is very strong at this point but resist! With practice you will briefly enter the sex organs' emissions phase without ejaculating. Relaxing will suppress your ejaculatory reflex response and help keep semen retained behind the ejaculatory ducts valves. Semen pressure will build in the ampullary gland. A soft finger massage of the prostate and ampullary gland once they are gorged from emissions is pleasurable.

GOALS:
1. Learn to resist the lure of an orgasm you have actually begun. The temptation to continue stroking yourself is very strong at this point.
2. Practice this exercise until you enter the emissions phase fully relaxed. Your seminal vesicles will harden and discharge into your ampullary gland, but no fluid should leak into your urethra.
3. Observe how much better penile stimulation feels when your loins are gorged with sperm, ampullary gland, and seminal fluids.
4. Learn to vary penile stimulation by site, and by intensity.
5. Expand your mental control over previously autonomic responses. You are increasing the number of brain cells you devote to sex.

V. SEMINAL VESICLES HARD FIVE-TEN TIMES
Build up sexual tension with several close "stop and go's", then proceed to approach the threshold of the ejaculatory reflex. Be careful to cease stimulation and relax fully just as you begin to enter the emissions phase of your orgasm. Sometimes at this point your seminal vesicles will harden. Let your excitement wane, then come close to the point of no return again. Practice reaching the ejaculatory reflex threshold so that you harden your seminal vesicles at least five times. Semen will accumulate each time the seminal vesicles harden. Now contract your bulbospongiosus (piss stopper) muscle and feel semen push back up into the ampullary gland...FEELS GOOD! Notice the increased quantity of semen ejaculated when you finally cum.

GOALS:
1. Build up semen pressure behind your ejaculatory ducts valves.
2. Manipulate the fluid in your internal sexual organs.
3. Learn to harden your seminal vesicle without causing ejaculatory contractions or leaking semen.

VI. RESIST THE ULTIMATE TEMPTATION
Gorge your internal sex organs with semen, reaching seminal vesicle hardening at least five times then stop...take out the trash or something. Be careful to protect your tender balls. Let your level of excitement drop completely, then resume the seminal vesicle hardening. Be very careful to build up your excitement slowly with a few stop and go's before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening. Proceeding too fast can cause uncomfortable leakage of semen.

GOALS:
1. Learn how much excitement is required before attempting a seminal vesicle hardening.
2. Stop your masturbation session for at least two hours. You will be totally horny. Resist the lure! Try to spend one night with your sex organs gorged.
3. Gain complete control of when you have an ejaculatory orgasm.

VII. SO CLOSE CONTINUOUSLY
Build up to five seminal vesicle hardenings, relax and fill your ejaculatory ducts, then contract your piss stopper muscle and push the semen up into your ampullary gland. Get as close to your ejaculatory orgasm as you can without crossing the reflex response threshold. Now practice close-relax-harden-contract, and again close-relax-harden-contract repeatedly, in rapid succession. Ultimately, you will enter a state of nearly continuous orgasm emission phases. Your swollen testes and throbbing spermatic cords will orgasm. Orgasm emission pleasures from your ampullary gland are amplified by the accumulating fluid and especially fluid pressure in your ejaculatory ducts. The rapid succession of emissions orgasms becomes a continuous orgasm without ejaculation.

GOALS:
1. Learn to harden your seminal vesicles at will.
2. Learn to harden your seminal vesicles in rapid succession.
3. Practice staying very close to an ejaculatory orgasm, almost continuously feeling a hardening of your seminal vesicles.
4. Hold your orgasm at the continuous emissions phase endlessly.
5. Learn to maintain your emissions orgasm mentally; by concentrating on producing emissions, enough semen pressure can be generated to perpetuate those emissions...without penile stimulation!

Updated 4/7/00 [F] I read with interest an article at your sight about continuous male orgasm by Benders20@aol.com. Near the end of the article, perhaps in the comment section, there was a reference to wanting similar information on women's orgasms. Unlike the author, I do not need more information on it, I want to know how "normal" or "atypical" I am. I am trying to find other women to talk with who have, for lack of a better phrase, expanded sexual capacities.
You do not know me and you have no reason to believe me, but I have the largest sexual capacity of any woman I know -- or, I should say, that I can find. I can experience a single 5-minute-long orgasm, ejaculate anywhere from 1 to 4 times, and orgasm up to 120 times (so far) in one 4-hour lovemaking session. I can experience endorphin or hormonal rushes during lovemaking that cause euphoria and aid in an experience I call an all-body orgasm. When my lover talks to me (in person or on the phone) he can bring me to orgasm without any bodily contact by him or me. And I can bring myself to orgasm by fantasy alone, again with no physical contact. On one occasion he sucked my tongue until I came, and if my nipples are treated just right, I will cum -- both without any other physical contact. I can also experience 4 different kinds of genital orgasms: clirotal, vaginal, G-spot, and anal. Then I can have any number of combinations of these - 2, 3, or all 4 at the same time. And finally, all of the above can happen in one lovemaking session.
Before I go further, let me clear up something: I do NOT contend to be the world's best lover; I am NOT soliciting for partners; I do NOT sleep around; I do NOT smoke and rarely drink alcohol; and I do NOT take any mind/body altering drugs of any kind (except one cup of coffee in the morning). Now, this "gift" has not always made me feel "normal" (except in the arms of my lover), and I am anxious to talk with women like me to see if and how they cope with their abilities as well as what they experience. My lover is so secure that he is thrilled for me and is in no way threatened by this. (In fact, he wants me to expand my limits further.) However, other women may have the "talent" but do not currently have a lover that is supportive.
For me it is obvious that a large part of my "success" is due to the ability of my lover to cue into what I desire, what I enjoy. He is VERY attentive to my every need and has some incredible talents of his own. No other lover, male or female, has ever been able to make me respond so intensely. But it is my body that is responding to his touch, and it is my body that can be pushed beyond what I had previously thought was my ultimate boundary.
So, do you have any information, do you know any women like this, do you know of a chatroom or website where I can communicate with other women with similar experiences? I have not had a chance to look through your entire website, so I apologize if this kind of information is already out there.
You said to write you about anything, so here you have it!

A visitor [M 50] writes (12/5/99):
Here's a note I wrote to Benders2@aol.com. To tell the truth, I wrote the second paragraph to you. I'd really like to see it posted for reaction.

Thanks for the amazing article on "Continuous Male Orgasm." It was clearly written, direct and specific. Your experience has been similar to mine, although you seem to have managed greater control and taken things further. Thanks for filling me in on the physiology I'd always hoped I'd learn somewhere, someday, somehow.

Is there a woman who can write a parallel piece about women's orgasm? I've never seen anything that focuses on women the way this piece focuses on me. Discussion of multiple orgasm, female ejaculation, etc. says that women's capacity for pleasure dwarfs my considerable capacity, but stays pretty short on the how-to. Some of what I read contradicts my and my wife's experience. And frankly, as I understand them, my arousal rhythm and my wife's are intrinsically out of sync.

(The site mentioned below seems to have disappeared but the information in the article is still relevant) Your piece jibes nicely with other info from another interesting website, http://www.kundalinitantra.com. The writer there thinks that intense, prolonged sexual arousal causes the body to manufacture extra hormones and neurotransmitters which enhance physical and psychological health, contributing to longevity and progress toward enlightenment. One of his recommended exercises is 6-10 hours of masturbation without coming. Without commenting on the difficulty of blocking out six hours to jack off, let me say that those pesky orgasms have kept me from getting much past the one-hour barrier.

Maybe the multi-hour stroke session raises one reason that there isn't corresponding information about women's orgasms. Few women (middle class mothers anyway) would appropriate the time it takes to experiment extensively with masturbation. But I have to say I don't think masturbation is trivial. Certainly sex isn't. Partly driven by information spread online, we're starting to realize how deep and consuming arousal can be (you mentioned pot; I'll see that and raise you acid). It's intensity and detachment from reproduction give it meaning that questions a lot of what religion and tradition have said about it (I mean, have you ever read some of the dorky things doctors of the church like Jerome and Augustine said about sex?). And if the tantric people are right, masturbation can raise energy that could be channeled into athletics, wealth, sainthood. Instead of "no sex before a fight," Mick'll supervise while Rocky boxes the clown.

Thanks! You're doing the Lord's work.
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