Multiple Male Orgasms

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Women are capable of multiple orgasms during foreplay and intercourse, however if a man has an orgasm during foreplay, he looses his erection, sexual desire, and can't fulfill his partner's desire for sexual intercourse. My wife and I discovered that it doesn't have to be that way.

After sharing sex together for several years, we made an accidental discovery. One afternoon, I was aroused and approached her. "Now?" she asked. We closed the curtains, folded down the bedcovers, and enjoyed a long session of foreplay. Just prior to intercourse, I laid on my back while she lubricated my penis for the ensuing penetration.

Taking a tube of K-Y jelly from the night stand, she squeezed some onto her hand and then spread it on my penis. Next, using a plastic squeeze bottle, she squirted a tiny stream of water on my penis. The water mixed with the K-Y jelly and my cock really got slippery. She spread this slick mess around my penis by sliding her hand up the shaft and over head of my cock, and then back down again. My cock, still extremely sensitive from our foreplay, nearly exploded.

"Oh god stop!" I said as my cock jerked to her touch..

"Want me to bring it off?" she asked, still holding my cock.

I wanted to cum right then and there! But I said "Let it go!" hoping it wasn't too late. As we watched my cock, a small blob of milky white cum slowly oozed out and the jerking stopped. My orgasm subsided as the cum released.

Thinking it was too late, I relaxed feeling fulfilled. Except for the flow of the milky white cum, this incident was a normal foreplay occurrence of being brought close to orgasm. My wife straddled me and pushed my still erect cock into her pussy. It stayed hard as she squirmed around getting comfy. I told her that I just had my orgasm and would probably get soft.

She began fucking me, her cunt gliding up and down my super slick cock. To our amazement, we enjoyed over 10 minutes of continuous coitus, ending when I had another orgasm inside her. This second orgasm was normal. My ejaculate released in searing spurts, my erection softened, and we were done.

Can this experience be repeated? Absolutely! It took us a few tries to get the timing right and do it a second time, and then it got easier. Here's how you can do it. My instructions are directed to the woman. She provides the stimulus and seems to be the key in making this work. I've never achieved this using self masturbation.
1. LUBRICATE: Get your partner's cock super slick. Use a mixture of K-Y jelly and water. It can be premixed, but I think it's easiest to apply as described above. This is messy, so have a towel nearby to wipe your hands when you've finished stroking him. If you forget the towel, wipe your hands on him during intercourse. He wont notice.
2. HAND FUCK: Slide your hand up his shaft and over the head of his cock, and back down again. Continue stroking him like that. Have fun! It feels much like coitus to the male, but watching and feeling your hand sliding on his cock is extremely sensuous. If you use both hands, make sure one hand slides over the head. Add more water to keep his cock slick if necessary.
3. COMMUNICATE: Encourage your partner tell you exactly what he's feeling as you hand fuck him. I tell my wife things like: "Keep going. No feeling yet. Go a little faster. I'm starting feel it. Keep going. It's coming up. Better slow down down a little. Ooh my whole cock's feeling good. Get ready." Then when I'm ready to spurt, I tell her:
"I'm c o m i n g! I'm c o m i n g!
------------ now -------- Now --- NOW!"
and she takes it from there. Work out your own communication scheme, but learn to interpret how and what your partner is telling you, so you can sense the crucial moment when to release his cock.
4. RELEASE: Timing the release of his cock is the hard part. You need to release his cock just before his orgasm peaks. In my case that's about the first or second "NOW!". Without further stimulus, his orgasm begins to subside just as the first shot of cum is on its way up. With his orgasm in remission, his contraction is weak and the cum just barely oozes out. One or two oozes of cum is OK, resulting in a very pleasant, mini-orgasm.
When your partner tells you his cock feels good, it tingles, his cum is up, or some similar term meaning his orgasm is near, ease your grip on his cock and slow down a little. Limit your stroking to the area around the upper end of his shaft and the bottom of the head of his cock. When he tells you he's ready to come, release his cock and DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING. Then wait. If nothing happens, he needs more stimulation. Proceed with down strokes.
5. DOWN STROKES: Once his cock is almost ready, down strokes provide excellent stimulation and give you good stroke control. Start with your hand at the top of his cock. With a very gentle grip, slowly slide your hand down over the head of his cock onto the shaft just below it. Stop and maintain your grip, but don't squeeze. Ask him if he's OK for another stroke, it may take several. After each down stroke pause with your hand gently gripping the shaft of his cock. At this point his cock is so sensitive that the pressure of your grip may be the stimulation needed to trigger his orgasm. If you feel any sensation of cum moving up his cock, release it and DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING! His cock is super sensitive. Don't even breath on it. Any contact with his cock will bring it off.
WARNING: Your partner is so close to orgasm on the down strokes that the stimulation of any stroke can trigger it. If his cock starts jerking while your hand is sliding down, quickly release his cock and hope you weren't too late. Don't get your face to close watching what your doing. This is when fatal accidents occur and you may use that towel to wipe more than your hands.
6. THE ORGASM: One of three things will happen following the release.
(1) If you did it right, his cock will twitch and one or two little blobs of cum will ooze out. It's VERY IMPORTANT that a little bit of milky white cum (not clear precum) OOZES out. This release signals his mini-orgasm and relieves his sexual tension just as if he had a full orgasm. He still has more ejaculate stored so his cock remains erect, but it's no longer sensitive. As soon as the orgasmic feelings are over, he can begin coitus and sustain it for a long time.
(2) If no cum appeared, you released to soon. His orgasm will subside, but his cock will remain erect and sensitive. Resume hand fucking and his orgasm will be right back up. Then do down strokes to peak it. Guys -- Talk to your partner! Let her know what your feeling. With experience, she can sense when your going to cum and release your cock, but it's up to you to guide her to that point.
(3) If he's popping off like a Roman Candle, your release was too late. Grab his cock and finish jacking him off so he enjoys a full orgasm. Then use the towel to wipe up the mess and try again next time.

The big benefit of this technique, once perfected, is that after his mini-orgasm, the two of you will be able to sustain intercourse for a long time, possibly causing her to have multiple orgasms. Think of this as a new "position" to be used occasionally, adding variety and spice to your sex life.

I asked the writer of the essay whether he can do this all the time. He answered:
The truth is "no." I can't do it all the time.
Having said that, though, let me say that I'm on to something. It's intense, ecstatic, has peaked for at least as long as the entire curve of a typical orgasm.
It isn't easy. It's meditative. Do you ever meditate or do conscious breathing exercises, or something like that? Sometimes when I do those things, I reach a state of relaxation, calm, etc., then I notice I've been successful, and BAMMO, back to square one.
Same thing with MMO. Like I said in my first e-mail, I've gotten there twice. The first time may have lasted 10-20 seconds before I lost it. The second I was in and back out right away. It probably takes pretty exclusive focus to maintain it, and going "Hoo boy I finally did it" is distracting. Coordinating this with my wife will be a major step toward enlightenment.
I think impatience gets in the way of getting there, too. If I'm too eager, I don't get anywhere near. Jack Johnston says to go real light with the sexual stimulation, concentrate on breathing and vocalizing (my sense is that it's the breathing that does the work and you really don't have to make any sounds). If I use any of my usual masturbatory tricks, it just turns into a normal come-session.
It's non-ejaculatory, and Johnston says that what happens is part of a normal orgasm. So it's sort of counter intuitive, but this is way more intense than usual. I don't think that I'll have to make any trades, but if I did, I'd choose MMO. I think there's probably a stronger involvement of the endocrine system, and what I'm doing is learning conscious control of normally autonomic processes, but that's a just guess.
Try clicking to http://www.sexuality.org/l/tantra/mmo.html
This address is on the Sexuality.org site and contains Jack Johnston's essay on Male Multiple Orgasm Techniques. I hope that this wil be of some help to your dear readers and serve as a peace offering to you about this afternoon. I have gone over all of my communications between you and me and I honestly don't remember something about a session with a teacher. I apologize for my response.

This is a lesson well taught. Give it a try - what can you lose? JEL

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