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Updated 11/07 [F 60] I'm a 60 year old married woman and I have had fantasies of loving women for at least the past ten years. It all started when my husband and I watched porno movies together and every once in awhile we would run across a movie or section within a movie with two or more women making love to each other. I was always fascinated and incredibly turned on during these scenes. My husband loves watching women on women movies and once I realized I liked them as much as he, I began to encourage him to rent pure lesbian videos. It has come to the point now where only these type of porno movies turn me on. I can't tell you how many times I've asked my husband to give me oral while I watch a couple of lesbians make love to each other. At these times, when he's between my legs, I actually fantasize that he is a woman. I've asked him more than once if he would enjoy seeing me with another woman, his response is always YES and it never fails to get him very sexually excited, however I have never had the nerve to instigate a tryst of this type. Lately my desires to make love with another woman have increased substantially, maybe it's my age. I feel if I don't do something now I never will. I've gone as far as joining an adult friend online chat group and have searched out other women who have the same fantasy, emailing some of them about my desire. I would be very curious if and how some of your other readers have turned their lesbian fantasy into reality.

Updated 10/07 [F] Women (of age) with large breasts that I can kiss, suckle, rub against my clitoris. I have fantasies of wow.. like 10 or more women with these very LARGE breasts.. sometimes rubbing on my clitoris, on my mouth, and I just am in heaven. I also think of one or two men at the same time putting themselves into me, but the women are mine. I'm hot.

Updated 8/07 [F] I was so happy to see your site... I have fantasies about women often -- I think about them touching me -- kissing me... enjoying our mouths together -- just being under the covers with her -- i fantasize about beautiful women -- i am a girlie girl -- and that i what i think about -- full lips, full breasts -- gentle -- that is important -- gentle and soft -- and for a long period of time -- to massage her body -- to have her rub me -- and to enjoy each others body -- it would be our private personal time together -- we would have separate lives -- but would get together, have coffee -- and enjoy each other... sometimes i think she could be my friend -- we could be best friends -- but we could also get physical when we wanted to... when i think about these things i get aroused... in my life -- i have had i think 2 men who understood my body -- who enjoyed waiting for me to have an orgasm... i think a woman would be good...

Updated 6/07 [F 37] I am a married woman and have never been with a woman but regularly have sexual fantasies about making love with a hot sexy lady.I would like her to lick my pussy until I cum and then wear a very large strap on dildo that is much bigger than any dick I have ridden. I would then sit on the strap on and would ride until I cum, afterwards I would do the same to her. Then we would sleep together in each others arms.I would never do this whilst married but it is a wonderful fantasy to have.

Updated 5/06 [F 23] I have to answer with a huge YES! I'm 23 and I've never been with a female, but the thought of being naked with another woman turns me on. I always like to sneak a peek at some porn girl-on-girl videos, and even pictures, I get so hot and ready to take off my clothes. What woman wouldn't want a huge breasted beauty caressing them, holding them, and soaping them in a hot shower?

Updated 4/06 [F 38] I do not consider myself a lesbian... I just know that when watching porn with a boyfriend, I prefer the girl on girl scenes. There is something about it - the naughtiness perhaps, the sexiness... the thrill of seeing a woman touch another woman's body... lick another woman, play with another woman.
I have had a couple of encounters in threesome situations, although it has been years. I have licked a woman once and she accused me of having done it before because I did it so well. I think it is just because I know how I liked it.
I am 38 now and maybe I am hitting my prime because I am more sexual than ever. I love men... but I crave a woman occasionally. I don't know if it is something I ! could just go out and do... it would have to be spontaneous. I just know I want it to happen again.
I love watching women.
I want to read about other women's lesbian fantasies in detail so that I can masturbate to it and fantasise more myself... Please tell me where I can get this.
I want a woman to come on to me... soon.

Updated 3/05 [F 40] i am a 40 year old woman and i regularly masturbate to pictures of naked women. it is such a turn on for me. i also love reading erotic stories involving lesbian fantasies. i have never made love to another woman, and dont know if i ever will. the phone sex sounds interesting, and i would love to maybe try that with somebody if i could. i regularly fantasize about another woman sucking on my twat until i just gush out in orgasm.

Updated 12/04 [F36] Regarding your question on women having lesbian fantasies - I not only fantasize about making love to other women, but I act on it occasionally as well.
I think that it dates back to my adolescence. As a young teenager, I'd always known that it felt good to touch myself, but had not discovered masturbating to orgasm until I was introduced to it by some of my girl friends at a sleep over. The site of my friend's playing with themselves, combined with the pleasureable sensations that I was receiving from my own body that first time is something that I'll never forget. And though we all knew that it was taboo, masturbating together was something that we did quite regularly throughout our high school years.
During my first year of university, I divulged my little secret to a team-mate in the varsity swimming program one night over drinks. She was intrigued, and asked if I would show her how. She was obviously interested in more than just mutual masturbation, for the second that I began, she started rubbing my thigh and touching my breasts. Before too long, we were kissing one another, and playing with each other rather than ourselves. It felt a bit strange at first, but it was so exciting that I couldn't stop. The orgasm I experienced that night was my first that was not self-induced, and it felt wonderful. She and I continued our secret affair, mostly between boyfriends, but fairly regularly until she left for medical school after her third year.
I haven't been involved sexually with another woman since, but that certainly doesn't mean that the desire is not still there. I fantasize about being with other women quite frequently, and when my husband and I rent porn on pay-per-view, I'm always voting for the girl-girl genre. I don't for one second consider myself a lesbian, or even bi-curious for that matter, but there is something about the intimacy shared by two women that just is not there in a heterosexual relationship. My husband knows that I'd experimented in college, and he understands that I fantasize about it still. He also knows that I would never betray his trust, and that for me to act on my urges would mean bringing a third person into our relationship, which we're just not comfortable with at this stage in our still young marriage.

[M] My wife does for sure. She especially likes watching lesbian xxx videos.
Our sex play during and after her watching a lesbian movie is always incredible. Her desire to both give and receive oral from another woman has been extremely heightened from watching these videos and she says at times just the thought of being with another woman can make her wet. Her ultimate fantasy is to experience orgasm in a 69 position with another woman.

Updated 10/04 [F 22] I am 22 year old Jamaican that I can always remember having fantasies about being with another woman. I find myself reading lesbian experiences and looking at pictures with them licking each other is a major tun on. My boyfriend asked me once if they turn me on and I told him no. Lesbianism isn't accepted in my culture and so there really isn't room or opportunity for exploration of those fantasies.

Updated 5/03 [F 41] Although I am a very sexual person, I had never experienced any lesbian fantasies. That has changed. Over the past year, I have been involved in a long distance relationship that has provided an environment for lots and lots of phone sex. During one of our many phone conversations, my boyfriend inquired if I would like to have sex with a woman. For whatever reason, I responded with a "no" for an answer, but immediately told him how I would love to hold and suck a pair a big tits! Funny how I had never really thought about it before and how much it appealed to me at that time. Anyway, since that time, he has told me of his many fantasies about me with other women in which I have been able to also enjoy with him while we talk on the phone. He has an amazing way with words so that I can picture these events easily. Each and every one of these delicious and naughty stories sends me into climax while I listen to him and masturbate along the way. Lesbian fantasies can be wonderful and fulfilling, if you allow yourself to enjoy them freely.

Updated 3/03 [F 33] I was so surprized to find the question you posted about whether women fantasized about sucking lactating breast. I do! And I have no idea why. I have never had a lesbian sexual experience, and sometimes did introduce the idea of me sucking another lady's breasts as a fantasy with my previous boyfriend. But I have always been fascinated by women's breasts, although only when I am aroused already does the idea really turn me on. I have not admitted this turn-on to my new boyfriend. He is a quiet man, sexually, and getting him to even talk during sex has been a patient process: he makes up for it, though, as his actions speak much more loudly than words!
Sometimes when I am alone I surf the net to find pictures of women who are lactating. The idea of putting my mouth over their nipples, and feeling the softness of them under my tongue, is an unbearable turn-on. The best breasts to look at are big, ripe ones which look as though they're going to explode. I masturbate just looking at their complete fuckability.
People see me as a very proper person, though men have always found me sexy. If they had any idea what sometimes goes though my head their jaws would drop.

Updated 1/03 [F 24] Yes, I've fantasized about being with another woman, and breast-sucking was involved, though never when the other woman was lactating.

[F 42] Absolutely I have had fantasies about being with a woman. That's what lead me to this site. I was surfing and found you. I am 42 YO and married woman and have been thinking about this subject often. I haven't had any experiences since I was a girl of about 11. My friend and I explored each other one night when she spent the night with me. I can remember the taste and feel of her when I went down on her clean little pussy, and how it felt when her tongue moved over mine.
And now, I keep fantasizing about burying my face in a warm moist pussy, and sucking on a hard nipple. In turn, feeling the juice run out of me when she does me.
I love being with my husband, and he really knows what I like. He also probably wouldn't understand this desire I have. I also don't have anyone in mind to be with, especially since I have 42 YO body that has had 3 kids!

[F 39] I am straight but I have had sexual fantasies of women from time to time. They are very sensual and hot. These have been on my mind so much lately. I am not involved in a relationship currently and I haven't had sex with anyone in well over 7 months. So needless to say my hormones are raging and I am finding that I am wanting to explore the bi-curious fantasies and thoughts that have been running around in my mind. The thought of making passionate love to a woman is a total turn on...The more that I think of it the more that I want it to happen...

Updated 11/02 [F 28] Lesbian fantasies? Sometimes. If you allow yourself to actually try the act then your fantasies might subside or even grow. It comes up, especially when watching those rated X films, but it's not an every day thing.

[F 31] Yes, straight women have lesbian fantasies; I think there's a bit of BI curiosity in all of us. As for fantasy of sucking breasts.....ABSOLUTELY! I've so wanted to taste a lactating friends breasts and do fantasize about all sorts of breast sucking, both lactating or not.

[F 22]I am responding to the question submitted asking if whether straight women have lesbian fantasies. I am a straight women and I do fantasize about being with a woman. I feel as though one time would be enough (unless I enjoy it greatly). Women know what please them. If I know what I like and what places to touch on my body which get me excited, then there is a 90% chance that the woman I am with will also feel excited if I touch her in the same places I enjoy.. Women are mostly gentle and soft patient, so making love with a woman would be a very wonderful, gentle experience.. I also fantasize a lot about being with a couple, (male and female). This may be the starting point for me.. Once I do this, I may get build up enough courage to be with one woman and wonder if my fantasy feelings are true.

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