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Updated 5/08 [M] If I'd known then what I know now, I'd probably have a coupe more relationships under my belt and more sexual partners. There have been many time in my life that I could have had have a relationship or at the very least, a sexual encounter but never materialized either because I played it too safe or was totally clueless of what was happening. (I was kind of a nerdy guy in my much younger days)
[M 54] Yes if I'd only known then. That would be thirty-eight years ago during the Vietnam war when I was stationed in Thailand. Being a nineteen year-old horny GI on my day off I headed to town with a little money, a bottle of booze, and a hard cock,looking for a good time. Well after a few drinks I ended up going home with a very lovely young lady. She wasn't one of the regular girls I normally went home with, they weren't around and I thought what to heck, right now a pussy's a pussy. When we got to her place we went through the usual ritual, she undressed me and than herself and we went into the bathroom and she bathed both of us. She led my hard cock and I back to the bed and this is when it started to get weird, or at least I thought so at the time.
She didn't speak much English and my Thai wasn't that good but she had me sit in the middle of the bed and cross my ankles, then she sat in my lap facing me. At first I thought this was great until I realized my cock wasn't in her pussy and when I tried to reach down and put it in her she pulled my hand away. Then she tried to get me to stare into her eyes and breath the way she was. Well being the nice guy I was I played along but I could never get the breathing part right or at least good enough for her and I would laugh everytime she would stare into my eyes, probably because I was pretty tipsy at the time. After about half an hour she became frustrated with me and climbed off my lap and proceeded to jerk me off. After her sitting on my lap all that time it didn't take long and my cock turned into a cum geiser spewing cum all over both of us.
Acting disgusted she took me by the hand to the bathroom and cleaned us of again and then back to bed. Again she started trying to get me to breath funny and kept pressing on a spot between my balls and my ass hole, and kept saying no cum, no cum. All I could think of was no cum my butt I want to fuck and cum over and over again. Well she gave in again and sucked my cock but to my surprise instead of swallowing my cum or pulling my cock out of her mouth and shooting it on the bed she shot my load all over her face and then began rubbing it around on her face with her fingers. I lay there in amazement while she laid perfectly still for about five minutes or so.
At first I didn't know if she had passed out or was really enjoying my cum that much, but then she sat up, wiped my cum of her face and asked me to leave. I got up and got dressed and went back to the base thoroughly confused but very happy that I had just got off twice with a very beautiful woman and she never asked for any money.
You're probably wondering what I wished I would have know then that I know now. Well what she was trying to get me to learn were Taoist and Tantric methods of love making. The Lotus position she had us in is considered extremely close an intimate and if I would have been more open to new things and been more patient she would have eventually raised up and took my cock into her pussy. Now after years of reading about and trying to practice some of these methods I wished I would have listened to her and spent more time learning what she was trying to teach me. It would have made me a much better lover overall. When she wanted me too stare into her eyes and I thought it was weird I now understand that the eyes are the windows to the soul and open up a persons deepest feeling which can enhance the sexual experience. Matching your breathing to your partners helps you both get your sexual energy in sync which is important when you join together; she climbs on your cock, and begin exchanging sexual energy.
The most important part I should have paid attention to was when she pressed between my balls and ass, she was right if you squeeze your PC muscle or just press on that spot with your fingers you can stop yourself from cumming and still have a very pleasurable orgasm and not loose your hard-on and you can keep fucking as long as you want. I didn't learn these things until about seven years ago, what a waste. I not complaining about my sex life, my wifes hot as can be and we have enjoyed learning fantastic things together. The only reason I learn the Taoist and Tantric methods is I started having erection problems and found some exercises to help me get my cock hard in some books that taught the Taoist and Tantric methods of sex. They helped my erection problems and improved our love lives greatly; my wife Di loves me being multi-ogasmic like her now, but they also showed me how much I had missed out on all these years because I thought the girl in Thailand was wanting me to do weird things.
Updated 1/08 [M 35] My first experience was with my friend's eldest sister. At that time she was 25-26 and I was 14....
Well sticking to the topic , If I had known then, I would keep the details only about this aspect only. Had I known the taste, I would have never said NO when she pushed my face from her breast to her pleasure valley..... At that time I thought V-area was a bad thing...... had I known at that time, I would have loved to taste her down there and play with her clit and lips.
She also invited me to kiss her hips and the back area to which I again said NO.... but if I get a chance now, I would not only kiss there, I would lick and put my tongue IN there too..... I concentrated on her breasts and then on entering her and just because of my lck of knowledge missed the chance to tongue her heavenly holes.
[M] I guess I'd have had a lot more "experience" if you know what I mean. I may have had more women in my life and perhaps would have been better able to get along with and make more women friends. I was always shy and never really developed any kind of friendships, let alone intimate relations, w/ women prior to my twentys. I was kind of a geek I guess. I think I may even have lost my virginity earlier.
Updated 11/07 [M 33] If I'd known then? Personally I would not have changed a thing. I never wanted to "play the field" as it were and have a string perhaps of lovers/girls in tow. I wanted to meet the "right" girl and work on things from there, so I saved myself and waited my time, and I'm glad I did because the wait was worth it. I lost my virginity to the girl who lost hers to me, that was what I wanted, and as time passed we learned about one another as couples do sexually, together and at our pace, comfortable with one another's body. As a result of this we have in my opinion something to be proud of. I got my wish. And had I a chance to go back on it all, I'd do pretty much the same again to have what I do today. As the French say, "je ne regrette rien."
Updated 10/07 [F 42] If i had known than what i know now i would have become sexually active at a younger age and i would not have held out for head over heels love. To be truthful in the end i was 21 and tired of not being with any one so i jumped a close family friend's son. i knew that he was 'so called' safe with no worry about aids or anything else and i also knew that he had wanted me for a long time. in the end we both used each other and 2 days later i meet my husband through his sister - she was going to marry his bother. Talk about an odd world.
Updated 2/07 [M] (M) About if we had known then what we know now, oh yes! Would things had been different back then. I know now I would almost with certainty had lost my virginity at the age of 19 with a living doll named Peggy. Her and that fantastic body of hers was so hot and ready but I just didn't know what to do to "break the ice", so to speak. All I had on my mind was to get my hand up her skirt to her beautiful inner thighs for a good feel of this. But, knowing full well that for me to had shoved a hand up there would had probably got me a slap on the face. Didn't know it then but I do now. The breast were the key! If only I had eased my hands around and started caressing on her breast through her top things would had sure been different. As it turned out back then I'd always end up dropping her off at her house and leave with a raging erection in my pants and not in her hands or in her pussy. If only I had known about tits being the key to what I really wanted which was in my case being legs and eventually, pussy! If not for the girlfriend I had THREE years later making the first move on me, I might had never got to feel some soft female thighs and got my first pussy. It was this later girlfriend that made the first move which was rubbing on my very erect penis through my pants one night while we were laying down kissing. I then FINALLY got my hand up a skirt and between a girls legs. It was seventh heaven! Needless to say, I lost my load of semen right there in my pants. At least, the door was open and I must had tried to make up for all those years of doing without with this girl. I spent the weekend with her and how she kept from getting pregnant I'll never know. I can't even imagine how much semen she had pumped into her that weekend by me. I was almost constantly in her with my penis and was almost sore from all the screwing and was completely drained by that Sunday evening. I don't think I could had gone again. But, anyway, I've been doing my best to make up for those early years of doing without ever since. But, if only I'd known. I know that with Peggy I would had "broken in" with the best. Oh, this girl had one beautiful body and that HAD to be some kind of pussy to be in!
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