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The original question was - How do women feel about being kissed by a man who tastes of her genitals?

Updated 2/08 [F] As far as kissing him after he's eaten my pussy I love it and consider it part of great oral sex. Neither my husband nor I are bi-sexual, even though he's expressed his desire to feel a real cock in his mouth and ass, jealous of me I think, thats something else to write about later, we both enjoy the taste of each others cum and of our own cum. Just a few years ago he finally convinced me that I wasn't peeing on him when I had a super Orgasm and lost control. I use to stop my orgasms because I thought I had to pee and would drenched everything. It was the best thing that ever happened to us, now when I cum I let go and enjoy squirting all over him. As soon as he can tear himself away from my cunt I grab him and give him a deep kiss sucking my cum out of his mouth and lick his whole face off, and sometimes his chest, his stomach, his cock and balls, well you get the idea I cum a lot I never realized how sweet my cum tasted when I squirt. I use to taste it before
I learned to let go, either off his face, his cock or my fingers, but it tasted bitter sometimes but when I have a squirting orgasm it's always sweet and I can't get enough. I love sucking my husbands cock after I cum all over it, he's always told me how wonderful my cunt tastes when it's full of his cum and then I cum too and he eats it up. After years of me kissing him after I sucked his cock and with a mouthful of his cum and him enjoying it so much I've finally found out how wonderful it is to squirt cum into his mouth and have him kiss me with a mouthful of my fabulous cum. For you ladies out there who have never tasted your own pussy give it a try especially if you can ejaculate its' great if you can't ejaculate there are plenty of movies and books out there to help you out, I can't imagine any women, once she knows how, not wanting to squirt every time she cums. And for you guys out there try eating your partners pussy once you've cum I it, my husband can't get enough of it and knowing what his cock covered in my cum taste like when he cums I totally understand why. Just like a cock and a cunt, a mouth and a cunt, and a mouth and a cock make extremely pleasureable combinations, so do a man and a woman's juices. So cook up a big batch tonight and enjoy.

[F] I absolutely love to taste myself on his lips, cock and fingers.... it's so erotic after he's made me come with his mouth & tongue, to lick his lips just as sexily as he has mine - he loves it too, turns him on even more that we share the pleasure. He would like to kiss me after he comes on my lips, so that's what we're going to share next!

Updated 10/07 [M 52] We have always kissed after oral....she loves the taste of her pussy on my tongue as much as I enjoy her sitting on my face after cumming in her........this is something we have engaged in for years...we've been married over 30 years and have always enjoyed this pleasure

Updated 10/06 [M 63] I just got through reading about kissing your partner after performing oral sex on her. Have I ever been there. In my case it is my going down on my wife over the years. I absolutely love doing this to her and get as much pleasure out of it as she does. We most often do this as part of our fore play and on these occasions I eat her pussy out until she is about to orgasm and she reach down and pull on my head wanting me to enter her. I'll make my way up on my hands and knees and she'll meet me with wide open legs. I get over her and slip my erect penis into her. At the same time we're passionately kissing. With the taste and smell of her pussy all over my face and mouth. Doesn't bother her at all. In the case of my wife there is absolutely no odor at all. Only a wonderful aroma. Just the aroma alone would arouse me to an erection. On times that I bring her to orgasm she is too tender for intercourse and on these times I lay besides her and again we passionately kiss. I'm really covered with her juices at these times. On these occasions she'll get me off using her hands and soft inner thighs to really stimulate me. This never takes long as I'm so aroused from the time I had with her pussy and the softness of her inner thighs. She'll be so covered with her juices plus my semen that she showers again. My wife has never been crazy about performing oral on me but with her other skills as I just wrote about I sure don't mind that much and I will admit that I have occasionally used the services of a massage masseuse to perform this on me and I always wear a condom for this the last 30 years.

Updated 7/06 [?] Many years ago, a friend of mine who had enjoyed oral sex ever since she was five years old was walking across a college campus where her husband was a student. She met him walking toward her with a female student. Not wanting to appear guilty, when they met he gave her a passionate kiss. She noticed the fresh taste of female genitals; too fresh to be hers, but about right to be the female student he was walking with. A divorce soon followed.

[F 43] I LOVE LOVE LOVE that taste!! To be sucking his dick, and him fuck me, then let me taste his dick again! As far as the tasting it on his kiss? Well, it's hard to experience that if your man won't go down on you. :(

Updated 5/06 [M] My wife loves receiving oral sex from me and fortunately for her I really enjoy eating her pussy. We almost always include this as part of our love-making. There have been times that I have been able to make her squirt/ejaculate and until it happened I was a bit skeptical but now I know for a fact that it is possible. Having said that, a lot of times after I've eaten her to several orgasms I'll climb up and kiss her deeply. She seems to have no problem with it as I can feel the passion in her kiss. I must say that I find it very sexy and exciting. I thought that I should also make this statement. Often times after I've come inside her I'll go back down on her and eat her. To say that she enjoys that is a huge understatement. I don't mind the taste of my own come, I guess I don't even consider it because she goes crazy when I eat her and I just do it to please her. So I agree with the others who have mentioned that it's unreasonable to expect your partner to taste your juices when you're unwilling to share the experience by sampling yourself now and then. In other words, don't ask someone to do something that you wouldn't do yourself.
I would also like to add that as a man there is not too much more exciting for me than to have a woman alternate between having my cock in her pussy and mouth, which of course means that she'll be tasting herself on my cock....totally hot. By the same token, my wife loves it when I alternate between being inside her and then eating her, she loves it! Just don't stop doing that because you've ejaculated, she'll be most pleased, I assure you that.

Updated 4/06 [F 47] I would like to add my 2 cents to the above subject. I very much enjoy giving my boyfriend "head" and would be very hurt if he didn't want to kiss me afterwards. Likewise, I'm sure he would feel the same way. How could you expect your partner to give you the pleasure of oral sex, and then turn around & act like they just ate dirt because they want to kiss you?? That doesn't make sense to me. If your man is doing it then he is enjoying it & enjoying the taste of you and the idea of being able to please you and the last thing on his mind is you being turned off by your own juices!! Come on ladies..we are beautiful, desirable creatures and we taste just fine! Keep acting like you're doing him a "favor"...and he's going to find someone who appreciates his thoughtfulness and let's him know it!

Updated 3/06 [M 38] My wife will not kiss me on the face after I please her, it really turns her off. She thinks of herself as being unclean. She doesn't understand why I enjoy giving her pleasure that way. But I find the scent and taste of a woman very enjoyable.

Updated 2/06 [F 33] I LOVE kissing my husband after he has gone down on me. It enhances my arousal and, in turn, enhances his. I was turned off by it for a long time, but after giving it a try, find that it is very erotic. Now, I actually look forward to tasting myself.

Updated 11/05 [F 39] Yes, I absolutely love kissing a man that has performed oral sex on me. It's a turn on for me to know how much he has turned me on but it's a turn on for him as well. To all woman, who are not comfortable with this, try it. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised. Very exciting.

Updated 10/05 [F] I love kissing after oral sex. I especially love to lick my husband's fingers after he has finger fucked me. I LOVE the way I taste!

Updated 9/05 [F] Of course I love when my husband kisses me after eating my pussy. It could be that I have a secret desire of course (another question of yours!) to have a lesbian experience so I guess getting a taste of even my own pussy is better than no pussy at all! My husband and I kiss even more passionately after he has eaten me.

[M] When making love there are many times when I am brought to climax before my female partner either through intercourse or orally. Virtually in all of these cases, I would prefer to continue giving pleasure to my lover and at least try to bring her to orgasm but have yet to find a woman who wants to either kiss after having given me oral pleasure or to let me go down on them to eat them to orgasm. I am not one to push or pressure a woman into continuing an activity they do not appear to be interested in.
My questions are centered around if a woman feels a man should not taste his own cum either in her mouth or from the combined juices in her vagina? Do women have a phobia about this or think men have a phobia or that a man will reject continuing with their love making? I’m not curious about tasting my own cum nor adverse to it and am just wanting to eliminate having to have an order of who reaches orgasm first when making love.
Personally, I find it exciting and erotic to have a woman taste herself off my lips, fingers, or penis when making love. I would think I would have come across a women who felt similar about having a man taste himself from her. The idea of a woman taking me orally and then following it by a passionate kiss and our continued love making would be a turn on just as having intercourse and if she hadn’t cum, for her to bring her pussy to my lips, basically telling me she isn’t yet satisfied, and have me eat her with our combined juices until she was satisfied.


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