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Updated 1/09 [M 35] A really nice "Hand job" consists of the following. As a foot fetishist,the look,taste,smell especially the following is my recipe. My sexy other half will lay on our bed,without panties and just taken off her shoes after a busy day at her office. Her feet will be sticky and smelly if bare,or nyloned and smelly,also damp if she,s had hosiery on of any kind. These lovely feet will be rubbed vigorously into my face,nose,and mouth,and we'll both masturbate one another whilst I inhale her smelly after work soles and suck her toes. As I have a growing interest in long toenails,we are keeping those long nowadays too.

updated 12/08 [M 60s] This takes me back to when I was in my late twenties. I hadn't been married very long at the time. I went to work at a motorcycle dealership working in the service department. Up front in the parts department was this young lady named Linda. She was a divorcee with three kids. And; trust me. Linda knew how to get a man turned on. One of her favorite things she did was come to work dressed in these short skirts showing off what she had real good. The guys at the store were always talking about her sexy legs while rubbing on themselves (you'll know where I'm referring to, I know).
Then, one day, I was up looking up some parts I needed for a job when Linda came up from behind me and put her head next to mine acting like she was helping me. Yea, she was helping me alright. Helping me get all aroused! She did this to me for several days and then it happened. I went back into the parts storage room one day to pull what I needed and she came with me. She was wearing one of her very revealing little skirts that day. We were alone deep back in the room and she came up next to me and started kissing on me. Remember, I was a newlywed and this was a very unplanned "meeting" and I wanted to push her away but was so enjoying it that I couldn't. Of course, Linda knew all there was when it came to turning on a man. She quickly slid a hand down my front down to my crouch. When it got there, she started rubbing on and playing with my quickly hardening penis. By then I was hooked and I reached down for the hem of her skirt and reached inside. My hand finally got to feel what it had been dying to feel since I started work there. I ran my hand up her inner thigh to her pussy. She was wearing panties and I rubbed my fingers over it through her panties. Then, I'd go back to feeling her legs again.
Linda then unzipped my pants and reached in pulling out my penis. She went to expertly making the right moves on it and I soon afterwards sent several long ropes of cum out onto a shelf of parts. After I came, we quickly put my penis back in and zipped up my pants as Linda straightened out her raised skirt. I remember her telling me to go on and that she'd take care of the cum. After this first encounter, Linda tried to get me to take her to lunch. As much as I wanted to, I didn't dare. I knew exactly where we'd go and what kind of "lunch" we'd have. We'd occasionally get in that parts room and have our masturbation fun with each other and that was it. I eventually ended up getting another job and that was the last I ever saw Linda. I was glad to get out of there. She was just way too tempting a woman to be around. I know that if I'd stayed, I'd end up with more than just a good ole hand job from her.

Updated 10/07 [M 63] As far as "good old" hand jobs go, I was reading this and just thinking back to some of the best ones I can remember and can't help but remember this tall thin Mexican woman I use to go to for this back in my late twenties. Admittedly, she was a prostitute that worked the street. She always wore a long dress and was always at the same corner. Her hand jobs felt so good that I quite often went back to her for more. I'd drive up to her corner and she'd jump into the front seat with me. She'd set right next to me and we'd talk a little bit and then I'd give her the money. I'd head for these back streets that were dark and no traffic. I'd undo my pants and pull them down a little to give her good access to my penis. She'd then set right next to me while looking down at my penis and start her wonderful feeling stroking. I'd stimulate myself by putting my hand under her dress and feeling her wonderful legs. It is often said that the closer the bone, the sweeter the meat. If this is true, she was a perfect example. I'd sometimes go up and run my fingers over her pussy although I never did have intercourse with her. All I knew was she sure felt good and I'd end up having terrific felling orgasms from her hand jobs and she'd just let the semen fly. My lap and her hand and arm would be covered with it. I'd always carry a towel with me when going to see her. We'd sure need it.

[M 33] This has a special place in most guy's hearts I think as its the very first experience probably that most of us has,of an overtly sexual nature. Possibly with the ladies too. I feel that it still has a definite place in the sexual repertoire as something else thats good to do between two people who love one another,besides just penetrative sex. My girl and me have such fun this way,she loves to kneel on the bed facing the headboard,indeed using it to support her,I kneel behind her with my left arm around her top feeling her ample 42b boobs, my other hand stimulates her vulva and vagina, internally and externally,pulling her clitoris down and rubbing it between my thumb and forefinger. Her orgasms are tremendous as a result.And I love to lick my fingers after. As I have a big fetish and fixation with smelly female feet,which gets stronger as I get older,my girl does this for me. As a finale to penetrative sex we always have our "foot session" by way of a finale I lie the opposite way to her and whilst she rubs my penis she flexes her toes and soles into my face (both) and I bury my nose in the underside of her toes and feet and she rubs and wiggles whilst I inhale my goddess. i love the site Joan and its realy nice to share with other adults,and read their bedtime exploits from which we all can learn I'm sure. Where dear reader is my left hand at this time? I'll leave that to your imagination.

Updated 7/07 [M 60s] I just wanting to share one of my more memorable ones I received years ago when I was in my mid twenties. It occurred in a night club over in South Vietnam while I was stationed there. As was often the case over there back then, I went into this club having not "gotten off" in a month or so. Needless to say, I was quite horny. This particular club was very dark inside and after entering I had to stand at the entrance a couple of minutes to let my eyes get accustomed to the darkness. After a couple of minutes, I could then make out the girls running around the club all very skimpily dressed. Then, one came up to me taking me by the hand and leading me in. We ended up setting side by side in a booth. These girls made there money by us buying them "tea". Little glasses of something and of course the more they got us to buy, the more money they'd make. Of course, they'd use their bodies and sex to keep us buying. We customers were free to let our hands roam over their bodies for a good feel while they'd have there hand between our legs playing with our erections.
Then, this particular girl ended up setting crosswise on my lap totally exposing her sweet little thighs. At the same time I was busy feeling them and just getting that much more aroused. She then reached between them and opened my pants and pulled out my penis. She put it between her thighs and closed them together on my penis. It was then surrounded by some of the softest flesh on the female body. Her upper inner thighs.The head of my penis and part of the shaft was sticking through her thighs and she had her thumb and fore finger wrapped around it just under the head as she gave a little bounce on my lap. As long as I'd been without anything and not ejaculating in such a long time I sure didn't last very long. Without any warning, my orgasm hit and did it ever.
My semen shot up and landed on her dress around breast high followed by a second one. Some ended up on top of the table and on her arm. She jumped up getting away from me and my ejaculating penis. She was cursing me in Vietnamese as she headed to the rest room to clean the semen off her dress and arm. I came down from my orgasm and put my penis away and headed out of there. I had some on my shirt and pants but the hot Vietnam sun quickly took care of it. I thought about what had just happened as I headed back to the barracks all sexually relieved for awhile. It might had been messy but it sure felt good as did the Vietnamese bar girl.

Updated 4/07 [M 36] I am a 36 year old male who loves handjobs. The feeling of a girls hand around my hard penis absolutely drives me mad. I love to watch her expression as I shoot my load. But one of my favorite things is to have a girl watch me while I wank off and I have found that the girl often gets as excited as me as the girl often brings herself off while watching me.
I really don't think that handjobs should ever be considered "old fashioned".

Updated 1/07 [M] When I was younger & single, I came upon a massage parlor. I knew some of what it was but just was too young & stupid. I went in, after having a massage I was given a hand job. I did not expect that to happen. I was laying there and she put baby oil on my penis and she started to stroke it. I thought I would go thru the roof! She then rubbed lightly up & down my shaft for a little. The going over the tip of my penis. She started to rub faster up and down and would take her fingers and tickle the head of my penis. She then rubbed her boobs against my penis. She got on top of me and then rubbed my penis between her breast. She got back off and rubbed me more, Then, I exploded! What a feeling the best thing I ever I had.

Posted 10/06 [M] I love hand jobs. But there is a particular scenario I want to be in before I feel I can perform to my fullest potential. It was about to happen to its fullest extent for me. I was in a relationship with a blonde haired blue eyed tempest in a tea bag named Crystal. Our relationship of two years was now stale stagnant and unhealthy. As much as I wanted to break it off, she kept me hanging in there! I believe she thought I didn't have the courage to walk out! I would prove her wrong! I had received a wedding invitation from a member of my family and Crystal told me she had no intent on going. I planned on going no matter what and I think she was calling my bluff or something. Anyway I worked in a bank at the time I became acquainted with a young lady named Mae-Ling who was of Korean background. She had beautiful brown eyes and shoulder length dark brown hair. She was always dressed nice and showed off her pretty legs that drew stares from not only me but other male customers constantly.
I simply asked her to accompany me to the wedding one afternoon and she enthusiastically accepted. I thought she may feel uncomfortable but such was not the case! She even said,Wait till you see how I dress for you! She was an aggressive woman, that I already knew but I love that in a female. She was going to be full of surprises by the end of this first date! We had a wonderful time at the wedding and many family members were surprised to see me there with some new blood, but Crystal's name never came up once. Mae-Ling had a great time too and mixed right in with her outgoing personality. She's a great dancer too, something Crystal had no talent for!
When I brought her home that evening she invited me in. She had worn a pretty blue low cut silk dress high above the knee (this was 1990). She had nylons and beautiful traditional 3" black high heels on. I was manufacturing up my own fantasies about what may occur once we were inside together. I was licking my chops and pondering how to make my first move! But nothing would compare to the way it played out.
She told me to get comfortable on the couch as she went to the kitchen to get us a couple of drinks. When she came in to the living room she was barefoot in her nylons and this really excited me because first of all I have a foot fetish and second of all to me it shows a sign of aggression. Just the way she walked in, she looked even yummier than when she had her heels on.The nylons were of a taupe color and had reinforced toe. JUST WHAT I LOVE! Nylons with reinforced toe! I was absolutely right. Mae-Ling sat beside me, handed me my drink, curled her legs and feet up on the couch, we clicked our glasses together in a toast and then she kissed me. Her agression was about to bloom! When this happened we placed our glasses down looked into each other's eyes and started kissing, lightly at first and it quickly intensified and the light kisses became deep and heavy.
From the moment we started kissing something clicked. She sent shivers right thru my spine and I sensed a strong compatible chemistry between us. Wow! Could this babe kiss, I thought. It sounds nasty but I almost wanted Crystal to witness this so I could say 'Sit down You might learn something! Mae Ling dominated the scenario. The more we kissed and smooched the deeper I sank down on the couch and my cock was throbbing and very excited. She was now high above me and I was her slave!
She made her move and unzipped my fly and pulled my erection and started jacking me off. I can't tell you how excited and pleased I was to have a sweet,beautiful and talented Asian female kissing me and pumping me simultaneously! She not only had talent but she had a great sense of rhythm.She was kneeling on her legs at this point,and she would rock and swivel her hips back and forth and then lean down and kiss me again and again! Good Lord! I didn;t want to blow right away because I was enjoying the kissing as much as the hand stroke and the show she was putting on!
After about an hour of this I was now laying down on the couch and Mae-Ling was on the floor. I told her I was going to blow and she smothered me in deep kisses.. I was so turned on because I actually felt the exhaling from her nostrils on my face. Not only that but also the fact she was barefoot in nylons and kissing me. A truly important sexual fantasy of mine. I blew a huge load which went all over my pants and Mae Lings's nylons.I was going nuts. She came into the room with paper towels to clean up the huge mess and after about 45 minutes to an hour of talking we started to kiss again. There was something special in Mae-Ling's kissing technique and I could tell how she felt about me. We were communicating our feelings for each other and it was like poetry in motion. Anyway she had me lay my head on her lap and she said 'I think you still have a lot of love in there to blow! You're still horny aren't you? I nodded yes as she said 'Let's do something about it!
She went to work on my throbbing woody and would lift up on her toes so her thighs would lift my head and she could lean down and kiss me. Whew what a creative idea this was. By this time there were so many things speeding thru my head that I'm sure I wasn't rational. But two things I was sure of was that I was in love with someone after one date and that I would be dumping Crystal like a hot potato tomorrow. After thirty minutes of pumping and deep kissing I told her I was going to ejaculate and this time as she smothered me with her sensuous lips I ejaculated and it flew all the way out to the coffee table some two feet away. It was an even bigger load of warm sperm than the first one. It went onto Mae-Ling's nylons again and she said that she considered keeping the nylons as a souvenir token of our expression of first date love and attraction we had and how I dumped two loads of sperm on them! I needed time to gain my composure and get my head together. The thing I remember is that she said to me 'Do you realize that I just gave you two hand jobs left handed? I am not left handed! But it seemed so easy! I agreed with her. She had just performed two hand jobs on me while she continuously kissed me and did all of this with barely a glitch. As I lay there on her lap again I just wanted her to kiss me some more which she did. I thought I had died and gone to heaven.
I didn't want to leave so Mae-Ling took out some photo albums she had and we looked at them and occasionally we would look at each other and just kiss,kiss,kiss and then break again.
All the time I sat there with her I was attempting to play out how I would break the news to Crystal that I had met someone better. As I attempted to leave Mae-Ling walked me to the door and we spent about fifteen minutes just kissing good night.She could kiss better than any good ole american girl I had ever been with. I was so tired I just had to go. I almost wanted to hear Crystal say that I couldn't go on without her.FAT CHANCE! When I broke the news to her she was so upset she started crying. For some reason she couldn't believe I met someone better than her.It almost made me feel superior. I didn't even care. I met someone I liked (I should say LOVED) better and too bad about ya.The relationship had to end. If I were with Crystal at all I would be miserable and just think about Mae-Ling constantly. Crystal (loser) Mae-Ling (winner).What I had experienced this night was so healthy for my body and my mind and this was something Crystal was incapable of. I felt like a man again! I was in love with Mae-Ling. I could not go thru a waking moment of my life for quite sometime without thinking about her. This is what it was like to be in love with someone special. It was a new, happier and healthier relationship for me! This is what it was all about!!!

[M 63] Reading these contributions sure gets me to thinking back when it comes to hand jobs. Over the years one of my most favorite things I've had. Way back in my twenties street prostitutes were much safer than they are now. I sure wouldn't have anything to do with them now days like I did way back then. Back then (the 60s) I had what they wanted (money) and they had what I wanted (there bodies). Also back then the police didn't bother with them like they do now days. I still remember my first contact with the first street prostitute. I was driving home when I saw her walking down the street. She was wearing a pair of black shorts and had one beautiful pair of legs extending down from those shorts. I just had to have another look so I went around the block.
When I came back on her she was crossing in front of me and I got my eyes full as she walked. She got to the curb and stopped and turned to face me. She then walked over to me smiling and said "good evening. Want a date"? I told her "sure" thinking a date was just a date. She got in and we introduced ourselves. I drove off and asked her where she wanted to go. She then asked me what I wanted. I was wondering what she meant and asked her this. She then said "well, do you want to fuck or suck"? I then knew she was a prostitute. I then told her "so this is what a 'date' is".
She then offered to get out if I wanted her to. I was now really aroused and had an instant erection in my pants. I told her no but was caught a bit off guard. I then told her I didn't have much money and all I'd be interested in is a "little play" pointing to my genitals. She then said "oh: a hand job! I can do this too". I had $3 on me and back then $3 was a lot more money than it is now. She took the money and moved over next to me and said "let's see it" looking down. I turned down a side street and opened my pants revealing a very hard penis. She wrapped her hand around it and I placed my right hand on her left thigh. She gave me a wonderful hand job while I got my fill of her wonderful soft flesh.
It felt so good. Wasn't long and talk about a mess! I quickly learned to carry a towel or box of tissue paper on these outings. I often did business with these wonderful creatures when I had the urge for some soft female flesh to go with a hand job. Later on the massage parlors came along and these became my source for getting a good hand job and also the much needed feel of some soft flesh. In them I also had exposed to me the sight of a woman's body and also the enjoyment of feeling there ass and breast. I could also "let fly" with my semen and they'd clean things up when it was all over.
Yes; the "hand job" certainly did play a big role in my early sex life during those times I didn't have a girl friend. With the girl friends while intercourse was the big thing I'd still occasionally ask for a nice hand job and always relied on this form of having sex during there periods.

Posted 4/05 [M 59] My wife and I are both 59. I guess that makes us adults, anyway with regard to the "Good Old Handjob" my sweetie is fantastic! We will usually do me in the shower. Most of the time she will suck my cock to get things going, then she will soap up my cock and work her magic. Sometimes she will bring one of her silicone anal dildos into the shower, soap it up and ease it in my butt while she jerks me off and let me tell you when she does that I cum so strong I get weak in the knees! Like I said she knows how to work her magic on me.

Posted 3/05 [M 60] I just wanted to relate a story about a handjob. My wife and I were on vacation at a resort in Ashville, Tn. We were staying in a condo with other older couples. One day my wife and I were in the condo with three other older men. They were talking about how their wives do not have sex anymore, etc. Well, I told them that I would ask my wife if she would give them handjobs. She never touched another man during our 35 yrs. of marriage, but always wondered what it would be like. She agreed to do it. This was the sexiest thing I ever saw. My wife had the three older men strip nude and stand up while she was in the middle of them, on her knees. She began slowly cupping their balls and playing with their cocks until they were all rock hard. She spent the next 30 minutes jacking them off while telling them how hot she was. All three men separately exploded and it was unbelievable how hot my wife was. She immediately took her clothes off and told me to fuck her in front of the three older men. This was the best sex we ever had and it will always remain a secret, but this was a fantasy that came true.

Posted 1/05 [M 35] My gf and I love to get each other off with hands.I was slow to bring it up at first,but glad I did.She strokes me alot,and I do her too.We have good sex to,but a hand job is special,She enjoys getting me off,teasing,stopping,making it last.Think she watches my facial expressions most of all while she strokes it.Rubs my head just right.Well the other day, she had a surprise for me.She stroked me good for about 30 min. stop and go's till I was screaming.She lubed me up good,rubbing the head good,and I'm ready to explode now.Says, be right back.knowing I'm ready to cum ,she comes back,starts again stroking me good.Well ,out of nowhere she starts fingering my butt with other hand .Wow,I say.Next thing I know,she had lubed a finger up good ,and is sticking it up my butt.30 seconds later I had a massive orgasm,shot farther than ever.She loved it,but not as much as me,,.That was the best hand job I ever had.

Posted 11/04 [F 44] I have loved giving handjobs since I was in high school. The first handjob I gave was in 10th grade and was kind of forced into it by this guys who was a senior, it was the first live penis I ever saw. Looking back it was actually small but I remember it being hard as a rock, I would say about 4 inches long and slender. He got me to pull up my tank top and show him my boobs which are very big with puffy nipples, well that was about it for him, he was actually jerking it off while I watched and then he guided my hand and showed me what to do, he only last about a minute and squirted like 8 ribbons of sperm over his head and on to the headboard of the bed, it took a while to clean that one up. After that I was hooked on giving handjobs and/or making my boyfriends jack off while I watched, I would love to masturbate at the same time but have not had the nerve to do that.

Posted 9/04 [M] My wife and I have been married over 30 years, are still very sexual.
Like many others who have written in to you regarding "hand jobs", I too was surprised and actually glad to see that so many other older men like myself enjoy getting jerked off by their wives. My wife and I have always had an exceptional sex life, but I must confess that the basic "hand job"continues to excite and give us both pleasure. Many times after kissing and foreplay, rather than proceeding to oral, or toys or intercourse itself my wife has brought me to orgasm with her wonderful touch.
Over the years she has truly developed a talent for getting me off in this fashion. My wife has always enjoyed the feel of my cock in her hand and has never been bashful about stroking me to orgasm. Our usual and to be honest mutually fovorite "hand job" method is for us to lay side by side. I'll slip my right arm under and behind her head, reaching around with my hand to caress her right breast and with my left hand I'll caress her left breast. She'll reach down with her left hand and began stroking me. It does not take long for both our breathing to become heavy. I'll ask her if "my cock feels good and hard in her hand"; if my hands and fingers "feel good caressing her breasts and and pulling on her (now hard and long) nipples".
I'll ask if her if her "pussy is wet yet". Her response to all my questions is always "yes", with her questioning me about how do I "want her to stroke" me and does her "hand feel good jerking me off". I ask her to touch her pussy with her right hand while she continues to jerk me off, she does. As a side note, she loves to finger herself, especially when I'm in bed with her. She caresses her clit with the middle finger of her right hand, all the while telling me how "hot and wet and swollen her pussy lips" are. Knowing she is touching her pussy and her telling me how good it feels when she does drives me crazy with excitement and desire. She'll slip a finger between her pussy lips, pushing it inside, reaching for her g-spot, than go back to rubbing her clit. I'll ask her to use two fingers, to "fuck herself with two fingers and jerk me off at the same time". We both love this play, and by this point in the action, we are both breathing hard and moaning from the excitement of it, with each of us begging for more "touching" or "jerking" or "pinching" or "pulling" or "fingers".
It never matters which one of us begins our climax first, as the other always follows within seconds. It's not long before the motion of her hand movng up and down my cock makes me orgasm, shooting my cum up and over both of us in several large, long spurts. Her own orgasm increases both the pressure of her hand on my cock and the rhythm of it jerking me off. Her legs spread out, her fingers work furiously on her pussy, her hips began moving up and down off the mattress in simulation of fucking. Her moans turn to screams, she yells she's "cumming" and how "hot and wet her pussy is" and how "good her fingers feel fucking her cunt".I'm screaming "jerk off my cock", "make me cum", "cum for me, finger fuck your pussy hard while I shoot my cum". Our "dirty" talk just prior to and during orgasm further excites us while her hands are getting us both off. It is always an incredible climax we both enjoy and it always leaves us exhausted.
After, we'll caress and kiss and talk about how 'hot" it was to get off this way. She always tells me how exciting it is for her to finger her pussy while she jerks me off. How good her own fingers feel on her clit and inside her pussy and how strong her orgasm is when she gets herself off like this. She tells me that fingering her own pussy with me lying next to her is about the hottest most sexual feeling she has ever experienced. She also likes the control of it, being able to finger her pussy, applying the pressure and caress to how, where and when she wants it and making herself cum when she wants too. She loves the feel of her swollen clit and pussy lips and her own finger(s) pushing inside of her. She loves my cock in her hand, feeling it hard and throbbing. She loves controlling my orgasm also, adjusting the pressure and speed of her stroke, keeping me on the edge and than letting me explode when she is ready. Me, I can't stop smiling, I just love it all and tell her how much I do and how hot she is for doing this.

Posted 8/03 [M 46] It was very interesting reading some of the comments about hand jobs on your site. I didn't realize that it was as popular among married couples as it appears to be. My wife has been jacking me off since before we were married. We have been married 26 years and I still enjoy it very much. My wife loves being in control and teasing my cock. She jacks me off in several positions with many different strokes. She wears a 38D bra and I love to rub the smooth cups while she strokes me. When she removes her bra and her tits spill out it drives me crazy. She slows up a little so I can play with her tits but it isn't long before my cock explodes. She enjoys stripping for me and playing with her own tits while I jack myself off. I must admit it is kind of erotic for me to jack off while she watches. I'm glad to know that other couples do this and I hope they enjoy it as much as we do. So nothing has happened to the good old fashioned hand job, it is alive and cumming.

Posted 6/03 [F 33] I love to masturbate my guy. The best method I have found is to pull his skin back and using my thumb and finger masturbate only the head of his penis. when I finish... there is sperm everywhere, he just explodes!

Posted 4/03 [M 57] I'm a 57 year old married man and I love a good hand-job. My wife will do me when ever I want her to. When we shower together, she will always soap me up and get me off. She will also give me a hand-job in bed or put on a show for me using one of her vibrators while I jack-off watching her getting off. My wife is an expert at giving hand-jobs and yes she is good at some other sex acts as well. The good old hand-job is alive and well at our house!

Posted 3/03 [M] My new girlfriend and i were in bed. She was generally playing with and caressing my cock and balls. Then she started to give me a slow sensual handjob. Now I absolutely love handjobs, they are so intimate and erotic and one of my favourite things to do sexually. I love feeling her hand around me and her watching my reactions and trying to please me. Anyway i digress. I was feeling completely exhausted from all the physical exercise i had been doing over the previous few days at work. To make matters worse the work was all in the heat of the hot sun too which made me feel even more exhausted. I was struggling to get as hard as i usually do because of this tiredness. I was erect but just not rock hard.
Then something happened. For the first time ever, a woman started talking dirty to me. She cautiously started telling me how wet i made her as she gripped and pumped my cock in her soft hand. Was i dreaming? I replied by saying that i loved what she was doing to me and how it felt soooo good. She must have felt me get rock hard instantly as i became incredibly turned on. This encouraged her further. We talked about how hot we both were and had made each other. Then we focused more on how big and hard i was, how good i felt in her hand, how she wanted to feel me sliding my big hard cock into her dripping wet pussy, how i wanted to push deep inside her and how wonderful her wet pussy lips felt around my cock, how much she wanted me to cum and how much we both wanted me to cum deep inside her and squirt my hot cum deep deep inside her gorgeous wet pussy. During all this she would look down to see the tip of my cock pushing in and out from between her hand too. All this talk and increased pumping had the desired result and i started heavy breathing and thrust my hips forward in ecstacy. I finally got that release and came hard in spasms.
When i opened my eyes she looked very pleased with herself and said god you come good! I followed her eyes and saw where my cum had landed. I had literally shot a huge blast of come all over her stomach and tits. She seemed to really enjoy that. I was still struggling to get my breath back after an amazing cum. That was probably one of my best orgasms and erotic experiences ever. It took me a few minutes to recover and come back down to earth. Unfortunately we split up later but i would dearly love to repeat that amazing experience with another woman. The brain is the best sex organ, you just need to stimulate it. I get rock hard everytime i think about it (including now). I highly recommend talking dirty too!

Posted 2/03 [M 48] I am a 48 year old male who loves to masturbate and also be masturbated by females. I have masturbated often since my teens, sometimes daily. My wife doesn't masturbate me but many past girl friends have done it for me. I used to regularly visit prostitutes and had them masturbate me. In more recent years i have been able to find lovely women who operate massage services. When i have been on their tables I always ask if they masturbate clients. Usually for just a few more dollars they are pleased to do that for me. Although I enjoy the sensation i always ask if they will let their breasts swing free over my face so that I can suck their nipples as they rub my cock. That is total satisfaction for me. The sensation of lying on a massage table, with breasts hovering above me so that I can squeeze them and suck them while she is rubbing my cock is wonderful. Then at the time that I cum, I usually take a nipple into my mouth as far as it will go and hold back on spurting for a s long as possible.
I used to visit an older woman who enjoyed allowing me to massage her and rub her pussy for a while. Then I would sit in an arm chair while she put an arm around my neck and held my head to her breasts. With her other hand she would lean forward and masturbate me. that was a fantastic sensation for me. Actually having a woman pull me to her breasts as well as masturbating me too. Wow. It was exceptional too sitting comfortably in an arms chair rather than lying on my back. I once saw a picture of a man sitting in a chair with his wife masturbating him and catching his cum in a tissue. Since that time I have fantasized about doing it too. There are many times that I prefer to be masturbated rather than have intercourse. I guess it has something to do with being told to lie still and have someone dominate you that appeals. But I still prefer to being able to suck on a breast while being masturbated.

[M 50] My wife and I both work at a large church in Southern California that presents a large Christmas play every year. For over a month we work till 10pm or later six or seven days a week. Since the hours required to put on the play can be quite demanding, we figured out how to ease the stress on the drive home. About halfway home, I turn down a quiet side street, unzip my pants and pull out my cock. The first time I did this, I wasn't sure how my wife would react, but she was delighted because she's always loved stroking me. She will start fondling my dick and balls till I get hard. Then, since she'll probably be wearing some loose slacks with elastic, I'll reach over and start fingering her clit and pussy. Since the street is quiet, I can drive a little slower and not worry about veering off. I'll keep rubbing her and occasionally licking and sniffing my fingers while she continues to stroke me and play with the head while I'm moaning and thrusting my cock in he! r hand. If I'm lucky, right before we turn into the driveway, I'll yell out and cum in her hand. She'll have just enough time to clean up her hand before opening the garage door. I may finish the night in bed by eating her out till she has a shivering orgasm so she doesn't feel left out after letting me shoot a load between her fingers. Its alway more erotic driving through our quaint old town neighborhood with our hands on each others sex organs thinking about what someone might see if they were to look inside the car at a stop sign and see my cock pointing straight up and her hand massaging it.

Posted 1/03 [F] My first initiation to sex was a hand job, which my b/f showed me how to do. I was 16 at the time and i loved it, today it is still one of my favorite things to do. I actually think I receive more pleasure from giving them as my partner does from receiving them.

[M 35]Handjobs - I love them! They are so intimate and i can just concentrate on really enjoying it. This is how my lady does me. It starts with the warm up. I love that feeling of her hand rubbing my cock through my trousers and rubbing it until it gets hard as she kisses me. Then as things progress she unzips me and removes my trousers and tight boxers, exposing my now hard cock and balls to the open and her view. I cant wait for her to touch it. She's in control and loves it. She touches and plays softly with my shaft by bouncing it around a little and pulling it away from my body enjoying its hardness.
That first touch is a great feeling and satisfies my urgent need. She takes her shirt and bra off to give me extra stimulation and looks into my eyes to see my horny reaction. Her wonderful tits are free now. She wraps her hand around my cock snuggly this time and starts to stroke it up and down slowly. She says she likes seeing her hand wrapped around it and making it hard. Sh! e loves to watch her hand do me. I'm also looking at her hand around me and looking into her eyes to see how much she's enjoying giving me pleasure. After some time she starts to increase the speed of her pumping. My balls are bouncing around. I'm watching her as much as i can in-between my heavy breathing and eye-closing ecstasy. She makes sure to rub that sensitive nerve area at the bottom of my cock head at the point nearest my body on every stroke.
It feels soooo good. Her breasts are jiggling around and turning me on even more. Now she starts talking to me as she continues to pump me. Oh… you are so hard, you're SO big, i'm getting so wet while i'm stroking your big hard cock... She can see and feel me getting really really turned on now, i'm as hard as i can get... oh your cock is getting harder and bigger... she maintains the same pumping speed rather than speeding up. She knows thats best for me. At this point we enter a new level of talk. She can see i'm at my peak as ! she looks up at me. I'm breathing hard and writhing around reveling in the feeling of her hand pumping up and down my hard cock.
God it feels so good, i cant describe how good... i want you to cum... i want you to spray your cum all over me... i want you to spray your hot white cum all over my tits and nipples... i want to taste you... i want you to cum all over my big tits... I can feel the cum starting to move from my balls. I cant speak to tell her but she knows. Come on give me your cum... i want you to spurt your hot love juice all over my tits... i go into spasm and push my cock forward and out. I'm in ecstasy and start to spurt my load... Ohhh... spray your hot cum over me... She directs my cock at her tits as she pumps. I open my eyes and see it spray like a hose... oh baby that’s it... give me it all… she slows her pumping right down as I relax from my spasms. She rubs it into her breasts with her free hand. I lay there basking in the afterglow of my amazing orgasm. I! cant catch my breath to speak yet. She licks my cock clean of my love juices. I feel warm and tingly all over my body and try to regain my breath. After about a minute i can finally pull her up and kiss her hard to show her how great that was. I can taste my cum in the kiss. God she’s wonderful. If you haven’t done this (or something similar using your mouth or hand or pussy) to your man. Do it soon. I cant tell you how much he’ll love it and remember it!

Posted 12/02 [M 40s]I am a male of late 40s and love great handjobs. If an attractive female with long slender fingers manicured painted nails were to offer me a handjob for free I would not hesitate too much but to ask where, when and is her boyfriend or husband is near. If the coast is clear and it's safe nearby then you bet! if at a eatery a girl is beside me with her hand on my lap I will not top her if she starts grazing my crotch which by now my cock would be partly hard before she even grazed it yet.

[M 32] A 'good old-fashioned hand job' is an integral component of my marriage, granted most times it would be a stretch to classify our hand-play as 'old-fashioned'. Beyond being one of the most reliable methods of ensuring my wife's climax, it also adds some nice, quick variation to our love-making.
One of my favorite things to do is get my wife off while we're driving in our car. Though not particularly well suited for short commutes, there's nothing like sliding my hand in between my lover's thighs on some endless stretch of highway. If she immediately jumps or laughs at my initial touch, I know that the time isn't right. But if my hand is welcomed by a subtle relaxation of her thighs, I know that my wife is wanting, and I'm more than happy to oblige.
Our first 'highway hand-job' experience was while driving to our honeymoon destination the morning after our wedding. It progressed out of some mutual 'heavy-petting' over top of each other's clothes, to my frigging my wife's swollen clit under her panties as she sat in the passenger's seat. I'll never forget spreading her engorged labia to gain access to her hard nubbin while she proceeded to grind her wet pussy against my fingers. The visual of her unbuttoning her top so she could pleasure her own breasts almost made me cream my jeans.
Some five years later, we never fail to take advantage of a lengthy drive without our children (which is unfortunately rare). If there are any tips that I could pass along to people interested in trying this, I'd leave you with two important points:
1) Nothing beats the ease of access afforded by a skirt;
2) Three words: Front Clasp Bra
Beware of distracted driving!!! As an EMT I've responded to too many accidents where the driver of a car was not devoting full attention to the road - including several as described above. Talk about embarrassing - and serious! JEL

[M 55] I don't think the "good old hand job?" has disappeared. It seems when I have the balls to ask for one, I usually get one. Even with my evil-ex-wife who kept sex from me, she would give me a hand job now and then and almost always when I asked. I prefer a hand job to a blow job, a woman's touch on my penis, with the alternating squeezing and softness drives me wild. Another benefit to the hand job, for me anyway, is when I start to cum, say while masturbating, I have to avoid my penis' head because the pleasure-pain is so intense. But, a woman while giving a hand job cannot feel this and keeps on squeezing, I once fell off of the bed when she wouldn't let go. Whew! Good stuff - hand jobs forever.

Posted 11/02 [M 57] I am 57 and my wife 45. We give hand jobs to one another at least once a week. Sometimes it's just the right thing to do, it feels good, not superior to anything else, just pleasantly different. She cums quickly,in less than a minute. I take about five minutes, but enjoy every second of it. She uses a hand lotion on me (well named I might add) while I use my bare hand on her. Her climaxes are a sight to behold as she thrashes about and screams w/delight.
I lay on my back and she leans over me and begins by spreading the lotion over by cock and balls. Sometimes the lotion is cold, but that just increases the pleasure for me. She often nudges my legs apart and plays w/my anal opening w/a lubed finger. She doesn't insert all the way, but rims the opening and teases w/ the tip.
When I do her she lays on her back too, but sometimes she comes by my easy chair in the living room as I watch TV and kneels on the floor w/ her ass up in the air and her arms and head on the carpet. That's my cue to work my hand in and out of her from behind - she cums almost instantly. She likes a finger inserted into her ass to about the first knuckle, it makes for a challenge during a Monday Night Football game.
She usually does me w/ her right hand, but switches once in awhile w/ her weaker left. It feels great when she uses her free hand to play w/ and massage my balls. She will stretch them out against my thigh and roll them around like a couple of hard boiled eggs in a lubed pouch. As I approach my climax she intensifies the pulling and aims the tip like a fire hose. My legs jiggle and my body squirms until I finally let go w/ several blasts of cum. She continues to milk me until I shrivel back to normal. We've learned to keep a towel to use as a target and to clean up afterward. Great way to relieve tension!

Posted 10/02 [M 62] Just like to add my thoughts on the 'good old hand job'. Like the other 99.999% of men on the planet I enjoyed frequent wanking sessions during my youth and early marriage. My wife was innocent in the ways of true erotica and still is (though she would have you believe otherwise!). In the 50's/60's Victorian ideas were prevalent and while she would fondle my cock during cuddles would not bring me off. Even now, and though she knows I like a good hand job, she gets it over with as quick as possible and always insists I wear a condom to catch the jizz. I have stayed with her (40 yrs) because of marriage vows but have enjoyed meeting with other ladies who enjoyed mutual masturbation as an aside to a dull married life.
So I entirely agree with the respondent (F32 Feb 02) who enjoys giving and taking hand jobs wherever and whenever the opportunity arises (pi!), but that penetrative sex being reserved for the married/serious partner, is quite appropriate for that situation. There should be no guilty feelings on either side; after all it is just a natural extension to self pleasure or reading/watching porn that we would be indulging in anyway - with much enhanced orgasams to boot!! May M&F Hand Jobs Go On For Ever!!

[M] I love hand jobs have been jerking off since I was 13. I am 63 now and still do it. I am married and have regular sex with my wife about 3 times a week, but there is a girl at work that jerks me off at lunch-time every day. We don,t fuck she just jerks me off - it feels so good.

Posted 8/02 [M 54] I am a male age 54 and I absolutley love to be jerked off. Of course, my wife is very good at it and well practiced. We have developed ways of doing it in public, in restaurants, movie theatrer, etc. My favorite is the restaurant with a fairly long table cloth. She sometimes will intermittently work on it for 20 or 30 minutes alternating between very delicate, very slow motions to all out jacking. She usually brings a small travel tube of KY Jelly, sometimes she suprises me with it. My favorite thoufgh is when she catches the spunk load in her free hand and then swallows it while smiling at me and taking a sip of her wine. This just blows my mind and my wad! It gets me so hot I am immediately ready to relaod and do it again.

Posted 5/02 [F 36] Masturbation is a big part of our sex life and is always used when we make love. I love stroking him and talking to him. I think its so sexy watching him cum, what really feels nice is using baby oil as a lubricant.

Posted 3/02 [M 52] One aspect that is missing from the discussion is the importance (perhaps "advantage" is a better word) of having a wife who is lefthanded. My wife does me in the car while I drive. There's no obvious need to "reach over" and it can easily be done in daylight or of course in complete darkness. Look out for those big tractor trailers, however. But she has done me in the back row of movie theaters and once in the very back row of the balcony in a small concert hall on a college campus. Now here's "the rub" (no pun intended). When we enter a theater or music hall or whatever, I always go in first - just out of habbit. Some may find me severely lacking in chivalry but the fact of the matter is that I always want her sitting on my right. And what is sort of funny is that whenever we see couples come into a public seating area and the husband goes in the row first so that his female partner is on his right, one of us always blurts out "she's a lefthander."
One more thing, many years ago as a high school teacher I was supervising study hall and saw a girl jerking off her boyfriend. So what was I supposed to do? Well, I did nothing except assume a position where I could watch as much as possible without being noticed by the busy bees until she was finished and he groaned. Then I told my colleaue that I had to go to the men's room and took care of myself. Was I acting irresponsible in that situation. Should I feel guilty?

[M 55] I just saw the posts on "whatever happened to the hand job?" Yeah, what? I took particular interest in the woman who said she liked to be creative and talk to her lover when she was stroking it. Wow!!! My most erotic fantasy is having a woman "talk me through it." Ask me questions, make me answer, make me concentrate, all the while driving me closer to the edge ... toying with me, teasing me. "Do you like strawberry pie?" "Um...yeah, I guess." "No, for real." "Yeah." "What other kind of pie?" A chat session in motion, so to speak. So, to the woman who wants to be creative, all is not lost. Post this if you wish. I offered it.

[F 25] I'm a female 25...... Last halloween I met up with a casual sex partner of mine. Due to location we weren't able to actually have sex....so I just began to stroke his penis while lightly massaging his balls. Throughout all this I would occassionally bend over and lick him lightly....just to spice things up. This went on for quite some time.......and just as he was about to climax, while I was still manually pleasing him, I leaned over, put the head of his penis in my mouth and let him climax in my mouth. He told me that it was the first time he climaxed while a female gave him a hand job. I find this a MAJOR turn on for me, I love the feel of the warmth, the hardness and the feeling of the penis throbbing in my hand just as he is about to climax. When I told him that, he was surprised. He said he has never met a female that was so confident and comfortable with that. So I guess the answer to the question is, there are women out there that still love to please a man manually.....guess you just haven't found the right one.

Posted 2/02 [F 37] Hand jobs are wonderful, absolutely one of the great pleasures.
I can give them anywhere - I gave one to a man friend on the back seat of a bus last week, and as a young schoolgirl I gave them regularly in the cinema (topless once!), in toilets, in parks, in phone boxes and even in the street! I would pull my skirt up and show some thigh to provide some extra excitement as the penis started to spray. I would never allow a boy intercourse unless I'd met him several times, so these first meetings led to hand jobs. The hand job keeps the boy interested but doesn't convey a sense of commitment. And after a hand job you know the size of the boy's penis, so you aren't disappointed later.
Hand jobs are wonderful if you're married but promiscuous by instinct. I reserve intercourse for my husband, but I don't feel any qualms about giving a man a hand job. It's emotionally lightweight. I know the penises of several male friends by touch: they come to me occasionally for a hand job but they know it won't lead to intercourse (I'd treat it as attempted rape if they tried); and unlike a penetrative affaire, the men feel that they're not being unfaithful.

Posted 1/02 [M 35] The way my wife knows how to use her hands, there are times that a good handjob is better than straight sex. She can rub me and I'll stay hard for 30 minutes.

Posted 12/01 [F 50] My partner and I are both 50, and he still enjoys hand jobs immensely. I love the feel of him in my hand, and the greater control and stamina I have with my hands more than with my mouth.
I couldn't help but notice the number of people who use hand lotion for giving or receiving hand jobs, so I wanted to add a helpful suggestion: By ALL means, try a water-based lubricant (I happen to be an enthusiastic fan of Astroglide). Your man will go WILD, I guarantee it! I use this product when I masturbate, as does my partner; I use only a small amount, but he prefers a very well-lubed hand, and for his penis to be held at about 90 degrees.
Happy stroking!

[M 50] I am a 50 year old man who still masturbates several times a week and also loves it when his wife jrks him off.i find it incredibly sexy to have her masturbate me.to know she is watching my face contort and body squirm in my most vulnerable state makes me hotter than actually fucking her.

[F 32] My new lover is a truck driver, so we are not together on a day to day basis, and we love to surprise each other with new ways, items, what have you... One week, I was able to take off work and go with him on an across country trip. We were riding in the truck when he began "fondling" himself, (he said he did that often as it helped keep him awake and alert) I looked over at him and said "Hey, you're doing my job!" Though, I do not recommend this, especially when someone is driving a 30 ton big rig, but I undid my seat belt and got on the floor between the seats. ! With the over sized steering wheel and the floor stick shift, I was not able to lean over to give him a blow job like I wanted to. So I helped him pull down his pants a little ways (it helps that he likes to wear sweat pants with no underwear ... big grin on that one) and I began playing with his balls and then stroking his penis. I told him just keep his eyes on the road and stay in-between the lines and we would be just fine. I didn't realize it at the time, but as my arm grew tired, I switched hands ... he was "right there" and I stopped. But began anew ... and had to switch back a few minutes later, as my right hand is stronger than my left and with the position that I was sitting in, it was very difficult to use my left hand...I brought him there, again, and stopped, switched hands and continued on ... he ended up having a very powerful orgasms! He loved it! And I loved it...knowing I did that to him. He did manage to keep the truck on the road, in-between the lines so th! ere were no problems ... he was not only surprised by my willingness to bring him pleasure without seeking my own in return, as he was by the fact that I pulled out a damp washcloth, in a plastic baggy, that I had packed in my duffel bag. I cleaned off my hand and warned him the cloth was cold before I used it to clean him up, also. He was so taken with this that when we finally did park the truck that night, he spent the first hour on me. And let me tell you ... he knows what to do when he is down there. He also had enough "energy" to not only bring me over the top many times with vaginal entry, but he also penetrated me through the back door, as that was something else I wanted to try. We were lying side by side, and he was very gentle, took his time and WOW! is all I can say. Needless to say, we had sex as much as we could that week, in as many ways as we could and I went back to work the following week as much happier divorcee. I will go out on the road with him as m! uch as I can now. And it is worth it! I gave him several "hand jobs" that week and I had no problems with it. I don't see why more women don't take the time to do that. I think they would, if their guy responded the way mine did. (very evil grin on that one).
There is one thing I have to include with this, I know you have said it many times, in many ways, but it can't be said enough ... communication is the key! Being that my guy is on the road for the better part of every week, and the fact that he lives over 50 miles away from me, we do a lot of communicating over the phone and on the web. He likes to look at dirty pictures and when we're in the mood, but not together, he will send different pictures to me ... saying something ... wouldn't that be nice to try ... would you like that done to you... I would like that done me ... etc. So that helps with the "surprises," we know what the other one will or will not go for. We also have total trust in each other to know when to stop, or by just saying our code word. I had never been with an older man, and like I said, I have been around the block a few times, but he has taught me things! And I walk around with a constant smile. By the way, I am ! 32 years old and he is 43.

Posted 9/01 [M 54] As a married (almost 31 years) man, I'd like to share with your readers information, that the good old fashioned hand job is alive and well, at least in my neck of the woods. Over the years, I have availed myself of the services of massage practioners. Non-sexual, but some of them do give sensual massages. One lady, in particular, is a master (mistress) in the art of giving the most sensual hand job, I've ever received. Her entire massage is of the light touch variety, by my choice. Her touches are as light as a feather, with some very casual touching of "those" areas. While I am on my stomach, her hand sometimes touches my scrotum, which sends chills up and down my entire body. Along with this feeling, she might run a finger, very lightly up and down my ass crack. This, too, is as erotic as can be. When I finally get to roll onto my back, I am usually fairly hard, already. As she rubs my legs, arms, torso, and forehead, this erection gets "brushed", touched, but is ignored, for the most part. Nearing the end of this magnificent session, she will reach for a bottle of a very good lotion. I know, from experience, what is coming (pun intended) next. Her touch is very gentle, yet firm, with the lotion, keeping the friction to a minimum. The pleasure derived from this is very difficult to describe, but it always ends in a very large orgasm, on my part. The secret to this, seems to be, the lotion she uses, and the enjoyment SHE gets from giving this service.

[M] My wife and I were married 23 years and we both considered hand jobs part of our regular sex lives. When we were on our honeymoon, I woke up one night to find my wife doing herself, and I immediately asked her if I could take over. This was after we had made love several times earlier that night, and I'm sure she had orgasmed, as she was always quite vocal when she did. But anyway, as we learned about each other, we routinely gave each other hand jobs, and it became an important part of our sex lives. Especially after we were married for a while, I had a hard time keeping up with her, and we loved for me to bring her off (frequently multiple times) and I'd just defer mine. Also, she got terrible cramps when we had sex if she had her period, so she would 'handle' my dick. Actually, she never got very good at it, so I'd get her to help me erect and get started, then I would almost always take over and finish. I've never enjoyed having my balls played with, or sucked.
As for lubrication, we always used hand lotion, whether she or I was receiving the hand job (also for penetration). She would usually make it more times from my hand jobs than she would from regular intercourse (with manual stimulation). We never made it to simultaneous orgasm. If we used penetration, I'd handle her clitty until she orgasmed several times, then would go ahead and finish myself, or sometimes I wouldn't finish myself. Usually if I didn't finish, I'd be ready again in an hour, or so then she'd get two or more lovemaking sessions in a day. Her vagina was very muscular, so when she came, the feeling of her gripping me was great!
We've never been able to bring her to orgasm without her clitty being stimulated, so every time we had sex this is an important element. For some reason, she never was multiorgasmic from cunnilingus, while she usually was from regular sex with digital stimulation of her clitty.

[M 59] A hand job takes me back, way back, to my youth. Some of my dates might be reluctant to "go all the way", or we might not have anyplace private enough to take our clothes off, so we let our fingers do the walking. I've been jerked off, and returned the favor, in the library stacks, the lobby of the girls dorm, a rooftop in the Bronx, and on a late-night subway. The risk of getting caught just increased the excitement.Its fun in bed too. Several women have said they enjoy watching me come, catching the semen in their hands or letting it splash on their tits. I like exotic Chinese food, but every once in a while, I feel like a plate of the Chow Mein I grew up on. Same with sex.

Posted 8/01 [M 55] I think a good hand job is a wonderful way for a lady to give pleasure to her man. And a man can do the same for his lover with a well-placed warm hand and fingers.
When my sweetheart is tired AND horny, we find that I can pleasure her to orgasm, let her sleep and rest, then wake up to take care of me. She enjoys my very soft, slow finger movement across her lips as they become wet. She sometimes begs for my tongue to find its way there, and even back to her rear for a good anal tongue job. She appreciates this so much, as she tells me, while she sucks me wet, then slowly moves up and down with a great hand job, finally ending in a geyser of pearl jam. More men need to encourage their lover to handle them this way. Hand jobs forever.

Posted 7/01 [M] A good hand job can be more intense for a man than intercourse. I think the reason is that he is not worrying about satisfying his lover. He just relaxes and lets it happen. Same can be said for good oral sex, which usually has hand assistance.
My wife of over 40 years always works my cock with her hands almost to climax. The pleasure is ongoing. Sometimes I do not make it to her pussy in time. Other times if she does not feel like sex or is tired, she will get me off by hand. I always ensure that she comes by hand and or mouth. I never tire of stroking and sucking her pussy.
Hand is good. It is another element of good loving.

Posted 6/01 [F 42] I give my man a hand job at least once a week. We both enjoy it very much! I use a hand and body lotion for lubrication. I begin by gently stroking his penis head at first, then proceed to the shaft and his balls, and later I include some anal manipulation as well. I stroke him all the way to climax. I'm surprised more people don't do it, I thought it was very common. He gives me hand jobs quite often, too. It's just supplemental to intercourse, that's all.

Posted 5/01 [F 32] a man asks "what happened to good old hand jobs?" i ask what happened to men wanting one? or being satisfied with one? a good hand job is a pleasure to give... it is personal and sensuous and i like to be creative and talk to my partner while doing it. but no one wants that anymore. sigh. but then again, i am newly single so what do i know.

[M 40] I think that women would be more willing to give a hand job if they used the right kind of lubricant that made the job easier. Any vegetable oil will work just fine. Another problem is that women become so excited that they don't want to let a hard one go to waste and can't resist the temptation to jump on top of it midway thru the job and put it to use for themselves.

[M] I think the "good old hand job" is alive & well and here to stay - forever. i think masturbation is becoming more popular than ever, those old taboos our parents tried to instill in us are fading fast. I've enjoyed a daily hand-job for as long as I can remember, since I was 12 or so. It's an awesome way to pleasure one's self and just the way you like it. Here's a couple of good websites: www.jackinworld.com provides good advice, interesting techniques, a Question of the Week, a Forum, and answers to questions that people may have about masturbation. Also, www.jackinchat.com provides a fun, easy to use chat room for folks with masturbation on their minds. Chatters can swap solo tales & techniques, or even have a private cyber-sex session which can be very, mmm, pleasant.

*** The original question ***

[M] What ever happened to the good, old-fashioned, hand job? I mean the kind where a woman fondles a man's balls while caressing and stroking is dick to sexual climax. Has a generation or two of younger women abandoned the art of s-called manual sex? I entered puberty in 1959. And during my high school years (`1960-64) rumors abounded of girs who would "do it," if they liked you. The "it" referred to did not mean intercourse or oral sex. Rather, it meant a "hand-job." Many of those acts were hurried parts of the teenage dating ritual--a quick "toss-offf," along with a goodnight kiss at the front door, or in the back seat of a car parked along lover's lane or a drive-in movie. The hand-job was a way of "relieving" a boyfriend, satisfying curiousity over male anantomy and avoiding pregnancy However, there were certain woman who had turned manually satisfying a man into an art form. They were slow and deliberate. They loved to watch a man "cum" and knowing they caused it. I encountered only three such women. All were in my undergraduate years or during military service. One liked to use baby oil as a lubricant. The second preferred talcum powder. It worked just fine. And the third liked it "dry," or to go-down to wet it. It all depended on her mood. Regardless of the method, there was one common desire--to make a man spirt and spread his gizz before either tasting it or just whiping it away. These woman would all be in their mid-to-late 50's. Each was a true erotic artist with here hands. And while there is lots of material in the popular culture on oral, anal, regular and just about any other kind of sex. I have encountered almost nothing on the good, old-fashioned, handjob. Do woman still like to look at, fondle and carress a man's penis to climax? Or, has that become passe?

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