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Would you Tell a Man his Fly was Open?
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Updated 2/08 [M] I find this a bit amusing. As a male, I have always told every man I saw with his fly open that he needed to "ZIP UP". Another way to put it was to quietly tell him "The horse is going to get out of the barn".
I have also informed women that "they were slipping" or if their seams were crooked, "you need to go into the restroom and straighten your stockings". Most of them were extremely grateful for being informed.
Updated 6/07 [M] I was just reading the open fly remarks. I and most people I know wear underwear under our pants anyway, so even if the fly were left open, no one would see any flesh, just a glimpse of underwear.
Updated 2/05 [F 32] I have a very amusing story about that very topic. I am 32 now but I was 20 at the time. One night while out on a date, my date was pulled over for a blown headlight. The very NICE officer came up to the window and as he bent to talk to my date I had a clear view of his fly and it was quite definitely down. It was impossible not to notice since it was about all I could see of the officer from my vantage point in the passengers seat. When the officer went back to his police car to write a warning I told my date and we had a furious discussion as to whether or not to tell the officer. I absolutely did not want to tell him but my date decided he would take a look when the officer came back and if it is still down he would tell him. When he came back to our vehicle it was still open so my date very politely says" Sir, I don't want to be disrespectful but your fly is open" The officer was very nice about it and even thanked us. We were his first stop of the night and he said it would have been much more embarrassing to discover it later and wondered how long it had been that way. After that night I figure most men would want to know so, I would tell them.
Updated 12/04 [F 70] If it's my husband's fly that is unzipped, I would tell him. HMMMMM, I don't think I would tell a strange man, though, as I just might like to see if anything peeks or pops out!
Updated 10/04 [F 53] I would not tell him if his fly was open. I would sit and watch and hope some sexy thing would walk by or talk and flirt with him so that it comes up and hopefully out. Of course the fresh air would let him know then.
