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Updated 2/08 [M 65] I am a straight 65 yr old married man. I have been happily married 41 yrs. My wife rarely does anything sexually and I am always hot and horny. I was eating at a restaurant and met another older married man about 70 yrs. old. We started talking and eventually ended up at the same table for dinner. He was in the exact same situation and we both never touched another man. I offered to give him a handjob and said that I needed nothing in return because I wanted to see what it felt like. We went up to his room and after some more conversation, I began feeling him over his pants. I was very hot and it felt so natural. He was a very nice older man and I wanted to take care of his needs. It seemed so natural. He went and showered and came out completely nude. I remained clothed and began to slowly play with his cock. He got very hard and I really felt comfortable. I began slowly fondling his balls and sucking and licking his cock. I was amazed at how natural and easy it was. I continued giving him a long blowjob while slowly playing with his balls. He told me he was ready to explode and I took my mouth off of his cock and placed his huge ball sack in my mouth while finishing him with my hand. He absolutely exploded and was totally satisfied. I needed nothing in return and left the room completely relaxed. Every older married man should try this at least once.

[M 71] I was at a local gym, rehabbing a knee operation, and I noticed a young man in his twenties, an obvious bodybuilder and he had enormous nipples that I couldn't take my eyes off of, and he caught me staring at them and began to smile every time he looked away and our eyes met again.
Later, we were in the shower together, and he noticed my nipples were large too, and I began to tremble in his presence, he reached for my hand and placed it on his own nipple, and I let out an almost unaudible moan. He told me to come to his place and we would explore each other, and I almost came on his toes, we were standing so close.
My heart was pounding like a sledge hammer as we toweled off for our rendevous. We got to his place, he grabbed me in his powerful grip, and kissed me unlike any other I ever had with a ,female, then led me to his bed, and I began to tremble in his embrace, I was finally able to lock my lips on his now rock hard nipples, I was in nipple heaven, as his erection began to beckon me to swallow as much as I could stuff into my salivating mouth. We actually positioned ourselves to 69, and slowly kissed and sucked our selves into orgasmic oblivion. The rest of the day was spent sucking on each others nipples and cocks, and culminated when I asked him to fuck me in the ass, and lacking the proper lube, he used a quarter pound stick of butter, and it worked! He pounded me silly as I begged for more!

Updated 1/08 [M 48] This is in reply to your letters about males performing oral sex on other males in midlife. To start, I've never done it, but I have had a situation or two where I very well might have.
Some years ago I dropped by a friend's small farm (really, a horse farm). It was a very hot day. During the summer, he would sometimes shower in his garden (vegetable and flower). Really, it was very accommodating, as he and his family lived on a dirt road that didn't get much traffic, and the garden was also secluded enough that there were no real exposure issues. Anyway, it was mid afternoon and, somewhat out of nowhere, he asked if I'd like to go for a shower. I figured sure, why not? I enjoyed being nude outdoors, anyway. So, we went over to the garden and showered down with the hose. Truth be told, I thoroughly enjoyed it. Not only being naked outdoors, one of life's great and simple pleasures, but that sense of bonding that such a situation brings.
This guy has been very much an older brother/mentor to me (we're also both pretty athletically built), so I can honestly say that I enjoyed being naked with him. If he had asked if I were interested in masturbating then, likely, I'd have said yes; if he had inquired into oral sex, I might have done that, too, and I don't think that I'd have regretted that for a moment. I'd like to think that he enjoyed it as much as I did. It was all so simple. It hasn't happened since, and I'm not expecting it to, so I'll just tuck it away as a fond memory. I'd be curious if anyone else (male or female) has ever had such a situation with whom they are close, with our without any kind of sex.

Updated 11/07 [M] i am a married cross dresser my wife enjoys and encourages my dressing playing mistress and sissy games,humiliation,whipping i do all tasks usually performed by most wife's housework,ironing,sewing..my wife leads a high maintenance pampered lifestyle.Over the years and with the help of the web reading about the lives and fantasy's of other like myself...like most Sissy's i craved humiliation and wanted real men to have sex with my wife as i watched and made to feel useless unable to satisfied my own wife.I disc used my fantasy with my wife who wasn't keen at first,then one night she asked about my best friend Andy,she asked how big his cock was i told her as i have seen it hard must be 8"..in comparison to my thin 4" i could sense her excitement,i told her he had a long foreskin that had a 1" tip this made her mind up as she never had a foreskin and her fantasy was to have one.
getting Andy to fuck her wouldn't be a problem he made no secret that he fancied her and he wouldn't have a problem with me being around he knew i dressed and we had on one occasion wanked in front of each other in the shower room after a workout.My wife arranged it i never knew when where or how,one night she told me to get dressed in my sexiest girls clothes and to get some housework done she was going out a while i thought maybe its going to happen to night as she dressed very sexy stockings,ultra mini skirt,tight blouse unbuttoned showing her resent 34DD implants.She returned with Andy's who had been obviously been well tutored by my wife as to what was to take place...i watched her suck him..i guided his cock into her cunt i was laughed at humiliated i was in sissy heaven..then came the ultimate humiliation after Andy had shot his third load in my wife's cunt my wife called me over i was told to kneel at the end of the bed Andy's cock was still up to the hilt in my wife she said okay you wanted it,remove Andy's cock from me lick clean his shaft inch by inch i didn't like the taste but i was so horny i cleaned his cock spotless as his helmet popped out my wife's spunk filled hole i eagerly polished his helmet with my tongue my wife ordered me to clean under his foreskin she watched as i rolled my tongue inside his skin i tasted three flavors my wife's juice Andy's spunk and a taste of piss,i then licked my wife clean i was instructed to wank in front of them into my hand i came lots forming a pool in my hand to my disgust i really did not enjoy this i was made to eat my own spunk...so that was my first cock sucking we have since had three more sessions the last i sucked Andy's cock as my wife wanked and thrust his cock down my throat talking my first load of shooting spunk,i dint think it will be long until he gives me my first cock in my ass.

Updated 10/07 [M 49] I saw on your site about guys who had their first bi experience later in life. I'm a 49 yr old M but my first time was about 5 years ago. I was in a bowling league and one of the guys on another team and I became good friends...we started doing things together...camping, etc. One time on a camping trip, we got to talking about sex and the lovers we had had. I was totally turned on with a major hardon and could see his hardon in his shorts. He mentioned about how he had experience with other guys and would love to again. I had been curious for awhile at that point and felt comfortable enough with him to tell him about it.
He asked me if I would like to suck his cock...I said I would love to. He stood up and took his shorts and undies off. I stared wide eyed at his hard cock, this was the first time I had ever seen a guy hard in person. He was about 6 ins long I guess and not too big around. The head of his cock was very wet and he was dripping precum. He walked over to me and I reached up and took his cock in my hand, stroking it. I was mesmerized by the feel and how wet he was...I don't produce much precum and never knew some guys did. I sat up and pulled him to me and took his cock inside my mouth. God what an incredible feeling. I had no idea what to do so I just did what I like. I guess he liked it too since he was moaning so loud...I was worried others nearby might wonder what was going on.
In just a couple of minutes I felt him tense up then the first spurt of cum hit my tongue. I wasn't crazy about the taste but that feeling of him filling my mouth was just incredible. I swallowed his cum, then he went back over to sit down...on shaky legs I might add. Later that night in our tent he returned the favor and I had what was one of the most intense orgasms i had ever had. We got together a couple of times after that but then he found this great lady and eventually got married. I am now in a relationship, and we have talked about possibly finding another bi guy for a 3some. Shes seen guys together in videos and is really turned on by it.

Updated 9/07 [M 46] I had my first experience with a man when I was 44. I meet a guy on a chat sight and we exchanged messages for a couple of weeks. He was married and not getting any from his wife. He said that he had had experimented as a teenager, I had not. He as coming to my town for work and wanted to try it again. We decided to meet. We were both very nervous and talked a little be for we did anything. We agreed to do 69. I never thought about asking how big he was but, It turned out he was very thick and large. Me being small and thin, but he never made a comment about my size, and seemed to enjoy it. On the other hand I was worried the hole time if he liked it. Being nervous both of us came within a couple of minutes. We both seemed to enjoyed ourselves, and I left fairly quickly. My only regret is that we never met again. If not to get know each other better, but know what each other really wanted from each other.

Updated 8/07 [M] I wrote to you about my first MM sex on 10/06 and you've posted it in the section about men having male/male sex in their later years. I concluded my piece by saying I've had more experiences in my later years "but that's another story." So, here's the other story.
After hiding and suppressing my bi side through two marriages, I decided I'd only marry a woman who accepted my bi side. Well, did I ever luck out! I met a woman when I was 55 who thought my sucking cock was sexy!
Since then, (I'm now 70) I have sucked the cocks of 16 different men. And she has been present on a number of occassions. I'd really prefer to have been with only one or two men for a long time, but guys just seem to want to have their cocks sucked a few times and then be gone. I don't know if it's guilt or the need for variety. But I have had three men who were "steadies." Those were the best experiences of all.
Soon after I revealed my bi side to the woman who became my wife, we agreed for me to find a guy whose cock I could suck. We found a married man and got to know him over dinner. Then we went to our house and my wife excused herself to get into something more comfortable. She appeared later dressed in emerald green panties, bra, stockings and spiked heel shoes.
I was astonished at how sexily my wife dressed for my first cock sucking session with her present. Soon our guest has naked from the waist down and my wife was fondling his cock. And, Wow! What a cock! He was about 7" long and very thick. My heart flipped as I watched my wife's little hand coaxing his big cock into full hardness. When she had him hard as a rock, she pointed his cock directly at me presenting it for sucking. I bowed my head and for the first time in my life, I took a man's cock into my mouth with the woman I love watching. What and incredibly erotic experience!
And, I'm sure our male guest loved having my wife watch as her husband took his cock into his mouth. And then I got another wonderful suprise. My wife continued stroking our friend's cock as I sucked it. She stroked his cock until he came and she pumped his load into my sucking mouth. What a wonderful wife I had found. Over the years she has done this a number of times and I remember each one in vivid detail.
But, she has to get to know the guy and trust him before she joins in. I often get qustioned by new guys I meet - 'Will your wife watch or get involved?" I tell them, "It depends on you. If you take time to get to know her and she trusts you." But 9 times out of 10, the dumbasses come for one blowjob and when she doesn't jump in bed with us - it's the last time I see them. If they only knew what they were missing.
The second guy we hosted was a retired Army officer who said he loved women in stockings and spiked heels. I thought, "Oh boy! That's a fetish of mine too. At last a guy I can share my fetish with with my wife." My wife liked the guy too. She was as hot as I have ever seen her. I was seated on our couch with my wife sitting to my right. Our guest was standing and my wife guided his big cock into my mouth and proceeded to jerk him off into mouth. When she knew he was about to shoot his load, my wife jerked his cock off like a jockey whipping his horse coming into the finish line.
She yelled at him to, "Shoot it down his throat!" and she kissed his naked thigh and hip as she jerked his cock off furiously into my mouth. What an awesome load he shot!
He said he would be back. It was the last time we ever saw him. No telling what he, and we missed.
There have been several others that were good. But this story has gone on long enough.

[M 62] I've read many letters from men who tried oral sex with men later in life. I see a pattern where most of them wouldn't have thought about sucking another man when they were younger but now that they are older find it delightful. When I was a young man, I had sex with women only and it was straight sex with me and her enjoying each other's bodies by fucking or occasionally oral sex. I really wasn't much on eating their pussies but sure did enjoy blowjobs so I did eat them just because they did me. Absolutely no kissing after a blowjob especially if they made me cum but a peck on the mouth wasn't out of the question.
Then I met a lovely girl who introduced me to more adventuresome sex. She loved to have me fuck her and cum in her and then would push me on my back and suck and lick my dick to get all the juices off it and keep me hard for some more fucking. I was amazed at her enjoyment of our juices. I had never met anyone who treated my cum like it was not poison to be avoided at all costs. Finally, after one great sex session, she had me on my back and was devouring my half hard penis so I reached under her hips and pulled her on top of me so I could pay her back for all the times she had pleased me. She spread her legs and placed her just fucked pussy right over my face. It was drenched with cum and her juices and while I looked at it, a large gob of cum started to ooze out of her and descend to my open mouth. I caught it on my tongue, put my hands over her ass and pulled her pussy down to my mouth and started licking and sucking and swallowing everything that ran into my mouth. I pushed my tongue as far into her vagina as it would go and got more delicious juices out of her before she came and rubbed her wet pussy all over my face. She turned around on the bed and slid down on my now hard dick and fuck me until I came again. Wow. I absolutely loved that experience. I was hooked on the taste of my cum from that moment on. She and I split up just after that and I didn't get a chance to repeat that experience for a long time.
I was young enough and limber enough to be able to suck just the head of my dick with my mouth but I never was able to make myself cum that way. It seemed too "gay" doing it by myself but I did taste it when I was with a lover and that seemed OK. Most of my lovers weren't too long term so I didn't reveal my fetish to any of them until I met my to be wife. She was an absolute virgin when I married her and it wasn't long before she found out how wonderful sex was. I never made her cum from straight fucking at first so to get her off I would eat her first and then fuck her. She could cum from me eating her and then when I would enter her, she would cum several times while I was fucking her. She loved that and when we were first in bed, she would almost push my head down to her pussy so I could eat her and make her cum.
The first blowjob she gave me, she swallowed and made a funny face afterwards and told me "my stuff" tasted terrible. I told her she didn't have to swallow it but she said she wanted to find out for herself but did say she loved doing it but didn't want to swallow again. I told her that was fine and she would bring a small washcloth to bed to spit into after that. I would always kiss her afterwards and tell her how much I loved her for doing it for me. I could always get a slight taste of my cum when I kissed her and it satisfied my curiosity. One time, we were at a relatives house and spending the night. We were in separate beds in a guest bedroom and she got out of bed and came over to mine. She pulled back the covers and started playing with my soft dick until it was hard and then sucked it into her mouth. I asked her what she planned on doing and she told me she was going to suck me off if I didn't mind. I asked her what she was going to do when I came because she didn't have her little washrag with her and she told me she was going to swallow it. I told her to kiss me afterwards so I could taste some too. She just kept sucking and I soon emptied myself into her mouth. She sucked until she felt I was completely done and pulled her mouth off me and looked me in the eye and swallowed. I grabbed her and pulled her down to me and she kissed me with and open mouth, passionate kiss that surprised me. I felt a warm liquid in my mouth as I kissed her back and realized she had saved some for me. I held it in my mouth until we stopped our kiss and let her watch me swallow it down. I told her she had made one of my fantasies come true and I hoped she would do it again someday. She assured me she would do it again someday as it turned her on as much as me.
She had a hard time having orgasms from just straight sex from day one. She always liked me to eat her first and then have sex. I was always glad to do it as I loved eating her. She tasted wonderful and I always told her she tasted just like a ripe juicy peach. When she had a really hard orgasm and was extremely turned on, I would slide up her body and kiss her while my mouth and face were slick with her juices. As I slide into her, she would cum and devour my mouth so she could taste her pussy too. But, she had to be really turned on to enjoy it. She had a reluctance to taste her juices normally. Once, she just couldn't cum from our normal activities so she said just fuck me and I'll be satisfied. I did as she asked and came inside her delightful pussy after drawing it out as long as I could. She was close to having an orgasm when I couldn't hold out any longer. She was moving her hips on my still hard dick and had her eyes closed and mouth open like she was close. I told her I think I have a lover that needs to be eaten and slowly kissed my way down to her just fucked pussy, It was beautiful with a small stream of my cum leaking out of it and her lips all swollen and red from being fucked. Her scent was wonderful and I started licking and circling her swollen clit with my tongue. She grabbed my head in her hands and pulled my mouth closer to her I licked up between her lips and pushed my tongue up inside her vagina to get more of my cum into my mouth. All of my actions sent her over the edge and she came harder than I ever remembered. My upper lip got bruised between her pubic bone and my teeth when she bucked so hard. I kept gently sucking her pussy until she told me she couldn't take any more. We kissed and she told me I could do that anytime I wanted to. I assured her I would if it didn't turn her off by me tasting and swallowing everything that was in her pussy. She had told me several years before when I had suggested doing just what I had done that was disgusting but if I wanted to eat the nasty thing to go ahead. Of course I didn't do it but hoped I could get a chance later. I changed her mind.
I am older now and widowed and I still have my fetish for tasting my cum. I do things now I wouldn't have thought of doing when I was younger. I can almost cum while jacking off and catch a large amount of cum in a small cup and I can swallow it just like I did with her. I get that urge every 3-4 months just like I did with her. I read some of these stories and I think if the right situation (pretty slim) were to present itself, I might suck on another man's dick and have him cum in my mouth just to see what it's like. I've got a feeling I would like it. I know my late wife loved doing it and she told me it made her feel very feminine and wet between her legs to feel my dick swell and start shooting my cum across her tongue and taste it. She even got where she would suck under the head and let it shoot on her cheek and mouth and liked that. Of course, I got to kiss her afterwards so I liked it too.
It seems men lose their inhibitions as they grow older that they had as young men.

Updated 7/07 [M 75] I am 75 and have been married for 40 years. My wife and I decided several years ago to give up sex. Since then I have thought many times about other men, particularly crossdressers since I love the feel of silky lingerie. My ideal was to invite a crossdresser home, when the wife was away, and have a mutual dressing session in front of each other. I found someone quite near who responded to the idea. He/she arrived with a bundle of clothes in a suitcase and immediately stripped off and dressed. I did the same. He wore a black bra, black panties, fishnet stockings and a black mini dress. I got into a skirt, pink panties, garter belt and black stockings.We both lay down on the bed and he began to play with my cock though the panties. I sniffed his knickers and got a hard on right away. He began to take off the dress and I watched as his cock grew stiffer so I began to lick him through his panties. He began to rub himself and invited me to lick his purple tip. I ran my tongue up and down, making sure I licked his slit, and massaged his balls. His cock was then about 8in long and wet with pre-cum. After about five minutes he suddenly recoiled and shot his load into my mouth. It tasted wonderful so I swallowed the lot. Heavenly. He sat up and took my cock in his mouth and I came straight away. Can’t think of anything quite as good as this so must try it again and again.

Updated 5/07 [M 64] I am a 64 yr old man and have been married for 34 years. I am amazed at how many letters about trying sex with another man are exactly like my situation. I never cheated on my wife. But, I finally got so horny that I needed something. I met another older married man at Starbucks and I was amazed at how our situations were identical. We both were tired of begging our wives and being rejected or told that THEY WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU LATER, and of course it never happens. Well, we both agreed to go and rent a hotel room and watch a porn movie together and see what happens. One thing led to another and before we knew it, we were doing a 69. I cannot begin to tell you how hot I got. It was so good and I loved every minute of it. It was my first time and his also. Maybe something happens to older married men, but pussy never tasted as good. After an unbelievable amount of cum was devoured, I sat back like I was drugged. We did it two more times before we had to leave to go home for dinner. He was seventy two years old and had a cock harder than a twenty year old. I have not done it again and felt guilty and embarrassed. But, it was better than any pussy I have ever tasted and that is all I think about now.

[M 67] I'm married to a wonderful wife (45 years). But, my wife gave up sex long ago, and I am horny all the time. I was sexually in need, and after some thought, I turned to other men -- I felt my cheating would not be as bad with another man, as it would be with another woman (I still believe that's true). Anyway, I got on a gay search site and found a man I felt comfortable with, and we met to get acquainted. It took a couple of preliminary meetings for me to build up the courage. But, finally the day came, and we met at my place. I was so excited that when he arrived, I was already completely naked (of course, my wife was gone). We hugged and kissed and finally he went down on me (he was so sweet, gentle and kind), and brought me to the most wonderful orgasm I have ever experienced in my life. Like the gentleman wrote last month, it seemed totally natural and when I went down on him the same was true for me. It was a wonderfully pleasant and natural experience (it wasn't the last one either, and there have been other men since then). Afterward there was complete contentment. It may not be the same for you, but this was my experience.

Updated 4/07 [M 64] I am 64 yrs old and have been married 40 years. My wife rarely wants sex and I am always horny. Last month I was working out at the gym and met an older man, around 70, who was in the exact same position. We both never touched another man and were talking about finding some sex outside of marriage. I told him that the next time his wife visits their daughter that I would come over and take care of his needs, just to see what it is like. To my surprise, he agreed. I went over there and while he was in the shower I washed his back and slowly cleaned his cock and balls. That really got me hot and ready to try it. He laid down on the bed and I started playing with his cock and began licking and caressing his penis. I was really turned on. finally I got into a full blow job mold and really enjoyed it. He was real hard and when he came it was like a volcano. I recommend this to every older horny married man. It definitely hit the spot.

Updated 3/07 [M 61] I am 61 yrs old and have been faithfully married for 37 yrs. My wife rarely wants sex, since menopause and lately I have be so horny that I am going crazy. Well, of course, I met an older married man in the exact same situation. I am completely straight and never fooled with a man. He invited me over for coffee and we began talking about our wives and how tough it is to get sex. One thing led to another and before I knew it, we were undressed and rock hard. I told him that I did not need anything but wanted to satisfy him. I started by playing with his cock and then moved on to licking and sucking. WOW, DID I GET HOT. Joan, I spent almost twenty five minutes giving him the blowjob of his life. I cannot believe how natural and great it was.

updated 1/07 [M 53] I read with interest your page on midlife oral male experiences. It was encouraging to read that other men who's wives were less than satisfying had found my outlet also. As our sexual frequency abated, my visits to the local xxx book store became more frequent. I discovered the video arcade and the private booths. The locking doors made me feel more secure as I would get really turned on jacking off, watching gay vids and peeping through the holes to the next booth. A note was passed to me saying if I wanted a blow job to unlock my door. Mutual masturbation, getting sucked and finally taking a cock in my own mouth evolved over a period of time. That was the start of my bi experiences. I began chatting online and found a widower who lived nearby. I was hesitant to accept his invitation to share his hot tub, but ever so glad I did. Sex in the arcade was just quickies, but here we were able to relax and enjoy each other. He really loved to suck my cock and I found his penis felt great in my mouth. We have shared more than one afternoon locked in a 69 position. I don't get many chances to male bond but look forward to my next secret encounter. Meanwhile I'll stick it in the wife when I can.

[M] I am a 61 year old divorced male. I have come to realize, that in time, I've become completely enamored with the penis. I want to suck on one badly. I've never done that except on my own penis when I was a teenager. That is one of the fondest memories imaginable... I used to hurry home, and if my parents weren't there, I'd strip nude, get in bed, and curl up with my completely shaved penis lying on a little pillow pointing toward my mouth getting harder and harder. For a while, I'd just look at it and play with it... I liked how it would be springy. It would strain to reach my mouth, but I liked to tease it and watch it grow into the most perfect nipple for delivering penis milk that there could ever be.
Finally, for fear of missing any of the precum that would begin to flow, I'd close the circle and slide it's head and shaft in over my tongue. Even before beginning the rhythmic sucking, the feeling was unbelievable. It wanted to feed me as much as I wanted it's milk. It strained and strained for me to start nursing, but I tried hard to stretch out the experience for as long as I could bear it. Sometimes that wasn't very long at all. But, if I was careful, I could play with it a while before starting the kind of sucking that showed how hungry I actually was for it's warm milk. Usually, in the time since the last feeding, I was unimaginably hungry and eager to suck.
I always dreamed of going to sleep while nursing, but my back could not tolerate much more than a modestly long suck. It got somewhat easier in time, with practice. Usually, just the feeling of my lips sliding along the shaft was enough to take it right to the edge. I could feel it get super hard on my tongue. I could also create a bit of a vacuum with my sucking. Then too, I could add the milk pumping motion of my stroking hand. All these in varying degrees at the same time almost assured the milk's release. After a while of sucking, that would be fine. But in most cases, I just wanted to have the warm serene experience of suckling my nurser. The TLC of it all was reassuring. Finally, it would become more than was bearable and the milk would start to pump out to the little milk hole that was carefully positioned over the taste buds in the front of my tongue. Then the milk would emerge in electrified spurts and ooze out all thick and wonderfully warm. The feel of warm fresh milk is as good or better than the taste. The sight of it flowing out of the milk hole would send shivers up my spine. When I was able to see that, it was unforgettable in it's breathtaking beauty. I would enjoy the taste and feel as long as I could, before swallowing. And I was careful to pull down all the last drops from my now shrinking nurser. All the suckling left it all wet and shiny and a pretty pink color. It was as good as it gets.
Now, no longer being able to do that, I want to nurse at a penis that can be reached by my mouth. I want to experience the wonder of warm milk again. The path to this is not clear. But there should be a penis out there for me somewhere. Does anyone have any ideas ?

[M 60s] I saw my first penis up close when I was 56yrs old I got very excited and I found myself going down on it it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I have been gay ever since that happened.

Updated 10/06 [M] My very first experience was when two neighbor guys came up and one introduced the other as his cousin. He told me his cousin liked to suck cock. I had never experienced such a thing. He then asked me if I would like for his cousin to suck mine. In a moment I was lying on my back in the tall grass in the morning sun and my cock was being treated to the most exquisite pleasure ever.
Talk about a life changing experience! From then on I tried to find other guys to suck my cock. I finally realized I had to offer to suck other guys in order to get them to return the favor. Over the next several years I had sucked and been sucked by no less than a dozen guys.
I loved having my cock sucked but just sucked other guys to get my pleasure. Then that all changed one fall afternoon. I had a buddy who became my favorite cock sucking mate. His name was Pete. Pete had a gorgeous 7 thick inches and I noticed when he had his climax that he filled my mouth more and more each time with his cum. But I still was just sucking him off to have him do my cock.
On this one fall day, Pete and I went to a cabin in the woods. Pete took his big cock out of his jeans and I sank to my knees in front of him. His cock looked so sexy. It was thicker at the base and had a slight taper toward the head. I thought it looked like a wedge designed to pry my mouth wider as he shoved it into my mouth. His cock looked like none other I have every seen since. It was a rosey white and so smooth it looked like an alabaster sculpture. I got a hardon just from looking at his cock.
I took him into my mouth and swooned in sexual rapture. His cock filled my mouth so completely and he helped by shoving my head down on it until the head punched the back of my throat. I gagged and choked but loved the feeling. Tears of strain blurred my vision as his big cock reduced me to its cock sucking slave. Then Pete did something that changed my life. He shed his jeans and laid me on my back. He straddled my chest so his big cock swayed above my face like a heavy boom. I stared at his cock like it was the monolith in the movie 2001. Then he leaned forward and plunged his cock into my mouth pinning me to the floor. Pete proceeded to fuck my mouth and I thought I would climax without touching myself.
When Pete climaxed he shot an incredible load down into my mouth and I can only say that it was one of the most erotic experiences of my life. For the next many days all I could think about was Pete's big cock plunging in and out of my mouth and shooting its hot load into me. My cock was always hard. My underwear always wet with pre-cum. I was desperate to have Pete's cock in my mouth again.
From then until I moved away I sucked Pete's big cock whenever I got the chance all while dating the girls and trying to get into their panties.
After i moved away, Pete and I went separate ways and I was married and divorced twice and hid my bi side from my wives. I'm now married to a wonderful woman whom I told I was bi before getting married and she thinks my sucking cock is sexy. We've had some very sexy experiences with my male guests. But that is another story.

[M 56] I have been married 34 yrs. to the same woman. In the last four years my wife rarely wants any sex and I have stopped begging. I have been super horny, everyday for years. I never cheated on my wife or had sex with a man. But, last month I was hornier than I have ever been and met an older married man, also in his fifties who was in exactly the same situation. We talked in a hotel lounge where we were staying on business. After a few drinks we decided to go to his room and watch some porn together. Well, I got so hot that I offered to give him a blow job and wanted nothing in return. He said that would be all right with him, but he never touched another man, either. We were both nervous and feeling guilty, but decided to go through with it. He removed all his clothes and I kept my clothes on. I was stunned to see a monster sized cock, at least nine inches and as thick as a cucumber. I was so hot I almost came in my pants. I started fondling it and he got super hard while looking at the women in the porn film. I finally began giving him a blow job and it was absolutely the hottest I have ever been in my life. After at least 20 minutes of sucking and licking he exploded. I have never enjoyed sex more in my life. I would like to know if any other older men have ever done the same thing. I have not done it again, but it was a thousand times better than anything I ever experienced.

[M 62] I have been married 34 yrs and have always been completely straight. My wife has recently lost her desire for sex and we rarely have sex anymore. I have been super horny and recently would have conversations with another older married man, also in his 60's who is in the same situation. Well, I figured that since I have never cheated or tried anything with a man before, that I would take a chance. This man and his wife have been our friends for many years. I finally told him that I would take care of his needs and required nothing in return. Well, we were alone at his house and decided to try it. He got completely naked and llaid on his bed. I started playing with his cock and slowly licking it to see what it was like. I could not believe how natural and great it was. Finally, I just got so hot that I gave him a big time blow job. I have never been so hot in all my life. It was like I was drugged. After about twenty minutes he was as hard as a rock and exploded in my mouth and all over my face. I loved it and could not believe how great I felt when it was over. When I got home, I fucked my wife and she commented that I never was as hard or sexed up in our entire marriage. Sucking his cock was an aphrodisiac. I wonder if others have had the same experience.

[M 54] It was a lazy Sunday afternoon in the summertime back before I got married when one of my male friends invited me over to his place for an afternoon of shooting pool and just shooting the breeze. As planned, we spent considerable time shooting pool and just engaging in normal guy conversation – nothing hot or juicy – I wasn’t that type. We eventually got tired of the pool table and decided to go up to his bedroom. He did show me some Playboys that he had stashed away. I wasn’t really into that sort of thing, so I just glanced at a couple of pictures and asked where he had gotten the magazines. After answering my question, he put them back in their hiding place. Then we proceeded to lie on the bed side by side because we were both beginning to get tired from the afternoon’s activities, and I was beginning to contemplate going home since it was getting late. We laid there in silence and relaxation for a few minutes, when I inexplicably reached over and put my hand down the front of his pants and began fondling his penis and scrotum. This was way out of character for me. It was a spur of the moment action, and I don’t know what came over me to do a thing like this. With both of us being totally straight, my thought was that he would immediately remove my hand from his genitals and put it back where it belonged.
However, my fondling had stirred up his youthful hormones and he instantly grew rock hard in my hand. He did reach down where my hand entered the top of his jeans, but instead of removing my hand, he undone his belt and the front of his jeans and pushed them down around his knees and pulled off his shirt. I had already become extremely aroused during the time when I first began fondling his genitals. Now I didn’t know what I was getting myself into, but I soon found out. He reached over and put his hand down the front of my pants and fondled my hardness for a short time, and then he reached down and unbuckled my belt and undone the front of my pants. Sexual feelings abounded so I obliged him by pushing my pants down around my knees and removing my shirt. We were both on the thin, muscular side so access to each other’s erection was easy. We lustfully stroked and explored one another’s hard penis and pulsing scrotum while tracing the outline of each other’s testicles. Those amazing little factories went into high production for both of us – manufacturing gobs of sperm cells that our bodies would combine with other seminal fluids and hormones that would eventually need to be expelled from the orifice at the end of each of our shafts. Feeling another man’s sexual organs was new territory for both of us.
To my surprise he positioned himself over me and laid down on top of me face to face and began to pump with his pelvis so that the side of his erect penis was rubbing against the side of my erection and against my lower abdomen – first on one side of my penis and then the other and occasionally our penises met bottom to bottom. My thought was that he would get his thrill, and when he was done getting sufficient excitement we would both get up, put on our clothes, and I would be on my way. So when he finished pumping, I was about to get up. Instead, he wrapped his arms around me, turned over, and pulled me on top of him and asked me to move my hardened penis against him in the same way as he had just done to me, but not go all the way. No problem there. I had no intention of ejaculating on top of another guy. But I did go ahead and perform the same sexual act as he had just done. My body just trembled at the feeling of me moving my naked erection back and forth against his naked erection. As instructed, I pumped against his nakedness until my aroused penis came to a throbbing head and then stopped just short of ejaculation.
Now it was time to go. No. Once again, he turned over on top of me. After several excited thrusts of his penis against mine, his breathing came in short gasps as he neared the point of no return, but then he relaxed and laid still - holding his breath for a bit to prevent that from happening. Once again he urged me to do the same on top of him and once again stop just short of ejaculation. As I pumped against his nakedness, my thoughts were that this would surely be the end of it. I did as instructed. Again, I continued the caressing of our two penises together until the inevitable throbbing head just begged for the release of its contents, but again I relaxed to prevent the expulsion of my increasing load of semen that was gathering in its storage area. Instead of calling it quits, lo and behold, once again my friend turned over on top of me and, ever so passionately, our two rock-hard erections continued to caress one another. His breathing became shallow once again, his body stiffened, and then he lay still. After a few seconds, he turned me over on top of him once again. This time I objected weakly, but he insisted. One part of me wanted this to end, but the other part did not.
As I once again began pumping and rubbing our nakedness together in the usual fashion, this time I could feel something different. There was creamy warm stuff between us, and I came to the realization that he had unloaded all of his stored semen on our lower abdomens. This time he did not instruct me to stop before the point of no return. I now understood that I was expected to continue my act of sexual pleasure until I reached the point of total expulsion of my own semen.
With the anticipation of that ultimate moment of relief for my sexual tension, my hormones now took over, and I became fully engaged in the passion of the moment. I totally immersed every molecule of my genital region in the warm, creamy, bodily fluids that now existed between us. I closed my eyes and envisioned what was taking place between our two centers of sensuality as I moved my wet, slippery genitals on top of his –penis to penis, scrotum to scrotum, testicles to testicles – until everything was covered in his abundant bodily fluids that now lubricated every stroke of my pelvis. His erection had begun to go limp, but was now totally engorged once again as I poured my sexual passions out on him Each pump, every movement, was absolute, total sexual enjoyment. The moment of ultimate pleasure arrived with my own gasp as the hot juices began to ejaculate from the innermost recesses of my sexual organs.
I continued to rub our organs together in order to totally lubricate everything with the juices of my own pleasure. The abundant sexual fluid that had built up during this whole ordeal was sent pulsing out of my erection. This went on for an extended period of time. The contractions came forcefully and powerfully as huge globs of seminal fluids ejaculated from my engorged sexual organs. When it finally stopped, my friend let me lay there while my body managed to relax once again. I finally rolled off from him to find our genitals, lower abdomens, and stomach area totally covered with a mixture of our fresh, hot bodily fluids. In my passion as a young man, I had tasted the forbidden fruit, and simply decided it wasn’t for me.
My next person-to- person sexual experience didn’t come until several years later with my wife on our wedding night. She is also the only person who I ever told about this early homosexual experience with my friend. Now – after 26 years of marriage – my wife and I remain devoted to one another, but now you, too, share this secret passionate experience of my youth with me and my wife after all this time.

Updated 9/06 [M 71] I am 71 years old, and no longer to 'get it up' in any hurry. Also I have been without a woman to have sex with since about 1990. That is when my wife became ill, and has since died. I contacted a man for sex on the internet, went to has house and sucked him off. I enjoyed sucking on his penis, but had no recent experience and it was not pleasant for him. So there was no repeat. When I was 12 of 13 my 30 something relative picked me up after church, took me to his house while his wife was visiting my parents, and sucked me off. This was every week. Later, when I was about twenty I sucked a stranger off in Grand Forks ND. These are my only experiences with male to male sex. I wouldn't mind having a men to let me get experience on sucking him off, since I cannot have normal sex due to a prostate problem.

Updated 7/06 [M 63] I am straight and have a sex-loving lady friend. I am not turned on by men or gay relationships, but I've always had an erotic fascination with men's genitals. I have never felt odd or uncomfortable about this. My sex life has been with women (and myself, of course) but my old side interest persisted. When I play with myself, my erotic thoughts are as likely to be about male genitals as on women and their bodies. I simply get turned on by both. In love making with a woman I am in a relationship with, I am caring and giving, as I was brought up to be, and to mutual satisfaction. Giving oral pleasure is a big part of that, and is both erotic and satisfying in the love making sense.
And then, in midlife, my side fascination with male genitals combined with love of giving oral pleasure.
In the late 1970's when I was 36 and my then-wife was openly taking lovers as a supplement to our fine sex life, I felt OK about expanding on my own experiences too. But I didn't want to risk my affections as a caring husband or get mixed up with another woman's emotions. So I visited the local co-ed steam baths a few times, rather timidly, to see what might happen. The baths and sauna alone were worth it, and the nudity no challenge. On my second visit I was chatting idly in the steam room with a cheerful man about my age and size when suddenly he said, "So when are you going to let me suck your cock?"
I gulped in surprise, but realized his offer and my reciprocation were included in what I had gone there hoping for, and gamely answered, "How about now?" He found us an unoccupied, dimly lit cubicle and we proceeded to fondle each other all over. My cock was straight out and rock hard. So was his. My way of responding and arousing him was easy and felt natural to me, and compatible with his ways. Pretty soon he had us move so we were on our sides in a sixty-nine position on the padded bench, our rigid cocks bobbing in each other's faces. This was it!
I felt his mouth surround my cock and begin to suck. I drew his cock into my mouth the same way and began doing to it what I knew felt good to me. His was a circumcised cock of ordinary size like mine. We did much the same mutual pleasure-giving treatment to each other.
Our orgasmic build-up increased at about the same pace for each of us, intensifying until we both shuddered, moaned, and came in each other's mouths at the same time. The pulsing arrival of his semen was welcome and pleasant in every way. We swallowed down each other's loads as we knowingly eased off pressure on the other fellow's glans. This was a new experience in two ways for me, as no woman had yet sucked me all the way off, let alone swallowed. And I was happy to oblige him the same way. It must have been fine for him too, as he pressed his phone number into my hand as we left the booth.
The next day I had a big, satisfied smile on my face all day long, just like at age 21 when I was unexpectedly seduced by a young married woman and it went wonderfully with her. Now I'd lost my second virginity almost as memorably.
I never went back for more though, and the AIDS crisis soon came along, ending the prudent possibility. If not for that, since willingness still returns from time to time, I might have continued. I think my occasional inclination to orally perform on a like-minded man is a natural adjunct to enjoying doing it with a woman, same as a right-handed man also using his left hand. I agree completely with the man who wrote in 6/06, "It’s a sexual thrill quite apart from a desire for the man."

[M 57] I'm a 57 year old man who generally abhors labels. I realize that as a society, we relate to labels (whether political, religious or sexual) as a way to simplify our lives and our though processes. But I know that there are many of us who simply prefer to live life to the fullest, as if it were a big juicy orange we're biting into, as we let the juice run down our chins, unconcerned about what others may think. It is to those I offer the following story.
A friend of mine and I are naturists/nudists, and I don't say that as if it were some kind of cult or organization. We just love being nude, whether indoors during the colder months or outdoors during the prime summer months. When it's anywhere above 70 degrees and high humidity, why would anyone want to be outdoors with clothing, anyway? But, I digress.
As a result of our love of nudity, we are both quite comfortable with our bodies, whether alone or in the company of others - friends or strangers. And being comfortable with nudity, it's not unusual that we would be uninhibited regarding sexual topics. Let me emphasize that nudism is not, in its essence, sexual. When friends and families get together, their conversation does not automatically turn sexual. On the contrary, most nudists would prefer to keep sexual themes sublimated, so that they can enjoy their nakedness without erotic overtones. That being said, those who are comfortable with their sexual identity have little problem sharing sexual themes with others - nudists or non. Now to the main part of the story.
My male friend had been fantasizing about his first male-male encounter, and we had corresponded about it. I told him that if we were total strangers in a public restroom or bathhouse, I would not think of seducing or soliciting him, but if he had fantasies he would like to realize, I would be most happy to assist him. This, perhaps is where labels enter the story.
Some people are proud to announce that they are bi or gay, and that's fine.
Other people make an absolute point of announcing that they are heterosexual and most definitely NOT bi or gay, and that's also fine.
Some of us just don't give a damn, and would prefer to smell the roses along the road of life. That's what this story is all about.
My friend arrived at my place, anxious to explore sexual contact between two healthy male companions. Being nudists (and since it was one of the first warm days of June), we quickly got naked, opened a bottle of wine, and put an adult video on the TV.
As the video played, we both began stroking, bringing ourselves slowly to full size. I could hardly take my eyes off his thick, handsome erection, and I know he was watching me as well.
I could sense his unsureness and hesitation, and knew that he wanted me to be the aggressor, as it were. What was important to me was the fact that he desired to pursue his fantasies and desires.
I told him that his fat cock looked very "suckable," and he responded that I should follow my hunger.
In a heartbeat, I was on the floor, between his legs, sucking on one of the thickest, hardest cocks I'd ever experienced. As an added bonus, he was one of those men who produced a lot of pre-cum, and it was a delicious treat to sample his nectar as I worked on his glans and shaft.
My friend was in heaven as I sucked and teased his handsome cock, and he did his best to ride the wave of pleasure, not wanting to climax too soon.
As fate would have it, I was the first one to reach the point of no return. I raised up and placed my cock alongside his, stroking us both with my large hand. Then, taking him in my left and my own cock in my right, I proceeded to pump off a big, hot load of semen, right onto his big, throbbing bone.
I could tell that my orgasm and my choice of release had a profound effect on him, and that he was very close to climax himself. I used my cum to lubricate my hand as I jacked him closer and closer to orgasm.
He gasped, arched his back, and soared right into his own pleasure zone, and I couldn't have been happier.
This was a special moment between two men; two friends. All that mattered was the pleasure.
We both collapsed, panting, hearts beating. I was most delighted to play the Teacher to his Student. After we both came down from the high, I could see that he was comfortable with where we had gone. And if he wants to go there again, I'll be more than happy to take him.
That's what friends are for...

Updated 6/06 [M 59] My first gay experience occured when I was 33. I was working in a remote area and had to share an unfurnished one room accommodation with a 23 year old young man.
Early on in our living together in that room, I smelled that he too likes to experiment with males, like me. . One evening, I pretended to go to sleep at an early hour. He came and lied down next to me on the mat on the floor. We usually sleep bare chested in India, due to the heat. He snuggled up to me, bared his member and pressed it against the small of my back. He had an erection. As if moving in sleep, I turned my head and placed my right ear near his lips. He entered the ear with his tongue and spent a lot of time exploring it. To see how far he would go, I turned my head, while still pretending sleep, faced him with closed eyes. He kissed me on the forehead, on the eyes, on the cheeks and on my mouth. With his lips on my mouth pressed hard, he jacked off and went to sleep for that night. Next morning, I complained of an ear ache. He took my head into his lap, examined my ears and all the while was having an erection. When I turned to turn up my left ear for his inspection, my face pressed against his erection. I unzipped him, took out his cock and fellated him. While I was doing that, he took mine into his hand and masturbated me. It was a very happy, very eventful three months we spent together in that remote, forested area. I had not met him since.

[M] I'm straight. I became sexually active around the age of 10, masturbating and working to find increasingly sophisticated masturbation techniques. I remember age 10 in the bathroom working the underside of my balls against the icy cold corner of the sink and feeling the intense pleasure of an orgasm made more intense by the cold and the pressure on the prostate. I give this background to illustrate how sexual I was...and my fantasies were complex and very broad in scope, even by age 14 when I lost my virginity.
Sexual contact with a man was one fantasy among thousands. I love the idea of being fucked but don't find men physically appealing so this has only happened once. In my relationship with women (I've had over 150 partners and keep a list) I really adore watching oral. Women who understand how to give great head are rare and I hang on to them when I find them.
So you'll understand my fixation with performing fellatio myself. I love to watch it, just love it. I always wish I could do it for myself, I would be so good and perform such subtle variations and sophisticated techniques...I know I would blow my own mind, if you excuse the pun.
Needless to say at age 21 I finally had the chance. My best friend of 8 years and I used t hang out each Sunday, chat about girls, sex, play music watch films. Sometimes we'd put porn on and clearly we were aroused. This became quite frequent and I guessed he'd had some fantasies the same as mine. But who knows, you never know...and asking is a nightmare that could kill a friendship and perhaps alienate you from a whole group of people.
Suffice to say this night we clearly wanted the same thing and were sharing the same thoughts. I didn't find him attractive, it was the thought of a nice cock between my lips and being able to try out all the things I wanted to see done to me. He started the whole thing, by surprise. He said cock sucking looked such fun, had I ever thought about it, and was it a fantasy of mine? I jumped at the question and quickly said it was a huge fantasy of mine, but never had the chance to do it and hoped one day I would get a chance. He then straight out asked me if I wanted to suck him. WILD. I was nervous as hell, and I shake a little retyping this, the nervous energy is such a rush in these first encounters, and I'm sure your readers will agree.
I couldn't have him watch me...he was my best mate, too weird. So we struck and agreement for him to read Playboy and have the magazine between us. I sat at his feet, he opened the mag and I took enormous delight in unleashing his cock. I hadn't seen it before; he was a good length, probably 7". I was surprised by this for some reason. I held it, stroked it and took it in my mouth to as I wanted to make him hard with my mouth. I began to work him and pull back his foreskin, he tasted clean and fresh and his cock soon grew to be fully erect and I went to work. On my knees, my mate reading his mag and just once in a while peeking over the top at me working. I closed my eyes most of the time, savoring the moment, so he may have seen more than I know. But I didn’t care once we were into it.
I sucked his balls gently, masturbated him as I took his end in my mouth and hoped above all he would let me finish and not stop through embarrassment. He loved every second of it; I had him close to coming several times and eased back, driving him insane. The noise of porn was in the background for me. But he could see it and his mag too…I can only imagine how wild and sensually overwhelming it was for him. His jeans turned me on, open and just cock and balls out of the crotch. I was sucking a man, and loving it. This wouldn’t be the same with a condom and so today I fear I’ll never do it again with the risks involved. But this day I had it all…I brought him to a peak, pushed my fingers under my balls adding pressure to his mounting orgasm and let him blow a full and thick load directly into my mouth, taking him deep as I could into my throat as he emptied into me. The tingly taste was different to mine, exotic and perfumed and just so thick I remember. I didn’t waste a drop and held his cock in my hand as long as he would allow before running off with shame and guilt running through his brain no doubt.
The next week he asked to do it for me…I wasn’t in a mood and refused. I asked him several times after to perform for him again, but he looked at me as though I was weird and refused or ignored the suggestions. I had his cock one more time as he shared a 3some with my girl friend at the time…and she took his cock from her mouth and put it into mine for a while.
It wasn’t about the guy, it was about the cock. It’s a sexual thrill quite apart from a desire for the man. I wouldn’t mind being Bi if that was the point…but men are unattractive to me…what I love is what we can do with our bodies. If only women had a cock too…now that’s the way evolution should go. Maybe in the next life.

Updated 5/06 [M] I am a 35 year old male who is married and I wanted to share my first time experience with a man. I was always curious what it was like to perform oral sex on a man and keep my mouth around his penis while it was cumming-the thought of feeling the head spasm and the balls tighten in my hand and then feel the thick semen squirting on my tongue was very intoxicating.
When I was about 29 I met a man through a chat line who was about 45. He was gay and had been with men before. The first time I went over his house I put my mouth around his penis but chickened out of going further so instead I stroked him off with my hand. Just watching his penis swell and then ejaculate was exciting. I then went over there the next week and asked him what would be the easiest way for him to hav an orgasm and he told me standing. I put a pillow under my knees and took him into my mouth. I really sucked firmly and used my hand to knead his testicles. This went on for no more than five minutes.
I felt his breathing get heavier and his muscles tighten up. I could feel his testicles tighten up and his penis got really hard. I could taste the faint hint of precum this entire time. He told me he was going to cum so I just kept my mouth around it to feel the experience. Wow. I just felt the tube on the underside of his shaft pulsate and then it happened-three or four heavy blasts of hot semen in my mouth-I had to swallow a little and then I took my mouth off to catch my breath-it just kept squirting-when it was done, I had semen on my chin, lips, cheek, the front of my shirt and in my mouth. I asked him where all that came from and he told me he did not ejaculate for two weeks! Anyway, it was very fun and erotic-it did not taste bad-a little salty but mild. I think it smells stronger than it tastes.
Anyway, I went back about five or six more times to try different positions to give him blow jobs-the best was on my back with him straddling me-this was the best since I could masturbate while giving him head. I also let him masturbate and cum on my face and he let me do the same to him. I enjoy sex with my wife but these were the hottest experiences. They are 100 percent true and were fun.

Updated 4/06 [M 48] I first tried giving another man oral sex when I was 35. I loved it and would recommend it to anyone especially if you can do it with another woman. I was still single and trying different things to find other people for sex or relationships. I was contacting singles and couples. This couple I met through a swingers ad. We exchanged letters but didn't get together for a while since they were in another state. When they traveled, they came through my city and called me. We met at a cafe, talked, then went to their RV to play. In our letters, we had discussed things we were interested in. One of them was that the man was bi. I had considered trying a bi experience for a while having been in contact with some others that were interested. The couple was in their mid 50's so it was very much like being with the couple next door. I had sex with the woman first, while her husband watched and masturbated. Then he asked if I was interested in playing with him. I said yes and go down and took his cock in my mouth. For all the hype and fear that goes around about such an act, it really felt natural and I enjoyed it immediately. I played around with his cock with my fingers. I licked around his shaft and licked his balls. His wife soon joined my and we were sharing the cock, taking turns putting it in our mouths. Our tongues and lips would meet sometimes. As much as I enjoyed just the cock sucking, I was really enjoying the extra part with the woman's help. Also since I was enjoying both people, I didn't get any feeling that I was homosexual, but rather bisexual like I had thought. When the man came, he was in his wife's mouth but she turned it over to me and I tasted his cum. After that experience, I met two other couples were the husband was bisexual. I also had a few experiences with just men alone. Then I got into relationships with women where it wasn't something they were accepting of so it has been a few years now since the last experience. I told my wife before we married about having had some threesomes. She was curious. I haven't totally given up that she could be convinced to watch me with another man some day. I would also love to watch her with another man. She isn't ready for those things and may never be.

[M 43] I had my first male oral sex not too long ago. I suppose curiosity got the best of me and I met a man online. We met a couple of times for beers before finally getting together. I had been curious as to touching and orally enjoying another man. I had not planned on sucking him that night, just mutual jerking off but things progressed and he sucked my cock for a while (not his first time!) and then I went down on him. It was pretty exciting and his cock felt good in my mouth, until it seemed to be taking forever and my jaw began to get sore. I then used my hand more on his shaft while sucking and he finally came. I had not planned on allowing him to come in my mouth but ended up letting him. He didn't come nearly as much as I normally do and the taste was alright and I swallowed his load. He then returned the favor and I came a huge amount in his mouth. We keep in touch via e-mail but haven't gotten together since. I would have to say that my curiosity has been satisfied and I don't really have a strong desire to do it again. I don't regret finally trying it and suppose that I am not nearly as "bi-curious" as I once thought!

[M 61] I sucked my first one when I was 55. After getting past the tabboo, I discovered that a cock in my mouth feels wonderful, something I could not have dealt with when I was a young man.
Incidentally, I would never have tried it if my wife had been taking care of my needs. She actually told me to get "it" elsewhere, but to leave her friends alone. She also told me to not tell her about it. I haven't told her a thing,
I began looking for women online, but kept seeing ads for men. Eventually I began to respond to the men's ads as well as the women's. As it turned out, I made contact with a male before I made contact with a female. I have since had about two dozen women and the same number of men. With the men, all anal sex has been safe sex. Oral has not, though I am careful in my choice of partners.
BTW, my wife's reaction to my cumming in her mouth has almost made it impossible for me to cum in anyone's mouth. So quite often, I don't cum at all when having sex with a male. I learned, though, that having a cock squirting in my mouth is not bad at all. If it is deep in my mouth, I hardly taste it. I would love to tell my wife that. lol

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