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I've warned several of the letter writers of the danger of what the law calls indecent exposure. If you're inclined to behave as some of them do, please take care that no one stumbles onto you (especially children).

Updated 4/08 [M 60s] (M - 60s) On the subject of exhibitionism, I can't help but think about the effect some of this had on me during my life. What I'm referring to goes directly back to a form of exhibitionism. I'm referring to the women who sell there bodies (for sex, of course) and there way of getting potential "Johns" interested in them. Through exhibitionism, they can show off there "goodies" which will usually get a man to thinking about having sex with them where he can get to these "goodies". In my memory bank is a case of this that is perfect. I was in my upper twenties and single. I had to go downtown for jury duty and wasn't picked and was through for the day and the duty. While downtown, I decided to go to the former fair grounds and get something to eat. I got my meal and sat at a table outside the place. It was then that this nice looking Hispanic woman sat at a table across from me. She was wearing a fairly short skirt to start with but when she sat down she made sure that her skirt came up her legs even more. She then crossed her legs giving me one great view of these "goodies". All the while she kept looking at me to see the reaction she was having on me with her "show".
Anyway, it worked! I was already getting quite aroused from what I was seeing. Then, she put one of her hands on one of her thighs and started rubbing on it. I looked up at her face and she did a big O with her mouth as if to say "Oh; how good it feels". I had already figured out that she was a working girl (prostitute) and I motioned her over. She came over and sat by me. After a little small talk, she told me she lived across the street in this housing area and was home alone. We then discussed price. Luckily, I had cashed a check before leaving work the day before and had some money on me. She also told me she had some rubbers (condoms) on her. Without finishing my meal (I by then was hungry for something else other than food) I said let's go.
We walked to her apartment and went in. She put on a fantastic show for me taking off her clothes. She came up to me and started removing my clothes. All the while, I was getting my hands on those "goodies" she had used to get me in the mood. Once naked, she rolled a rubber on my penis and led me to her bed. I was soon between those soft thighs and in her. I didn't last very long and when my orgasm hit, I remember withdrawing and letting her see me fill the end of the rubber with a big load of semen. She wasn't in any hurry for me to leave and before too long she was setting besides me and I went to exploring her "goodies" again and got fully erect again.
This time, she rolled on another rubber then this time went down on me performing oral sex on me using both her mouth and hand on my penis. Again, it wasn't long and I pretty much half filled the end of the rubber with semen while in her mouth. After this, I was pretty much drained and got dressed and left. And, you better believe it. This all started because of exhibitionism on her part. She had what I wanted and let me see some of it to get things going in my mind and in the end she received what she was after. Money. And, I ended up getting what I wanted which was to get my hands on those "goodies" she was exhibiting to me.

Updated 3/08 [F] I was on a trip for work and arrived at my hotel late and went to the bar/restaurant I sat at a table working with my laptop computer wearing a suit with a semi short skirt and thigh highs. I was typing away sipping my drink waiting for my meal to arrive. A man came in, an apparent regular who went to take his regular seat at the bar. Upon seeing me he quickly changed his seat to get a view so to speak. I was a bit surprised but intrigued at the same time. I do not know what came over me but I went to the restroom and removed my panties and went back to my table. I proceeded to give him quite an "accidental show" making it as subtle as possible. He was very happy and I was so excited. I finished my dinner had an after dinner drink all while making sure he had a nice view. After that I was hooked so to speak. I go to the mall wearing a very sheer shirt with no bra wearing a jacket that falls perfectly to show one or both of my very large breasts with large nipples to match straining through the sheer fabric, depending on who is walking towards me. Older males love it and try to casually follow me. Warmer weather I include a short skirt thigh highs and no panties. I seem to get bolder each time. I have gone to dinner with my boyfriend in a skirt pantiless and he has no clue. Not that he would not like it but...Book stores are great weekday mornings as is home improvement stores. I can't wait for winter to be over.................................................................

Updated 1/08 [M 60s] On the subject of exhibitionism, this takes me back to when I was 17 and 18 years old in high school. I remember standing up front by the stage during pep rallies looking up at the cheer leaders doing there thing in there little short dresses and the reaction this had on me. Being a normal young man, my eyes would be trained on the beautiful pair of soft female thighs just a few feet in front of me and also the tights and what was inside those tights. Only problem was, this was not a time that I wanted to exhibit the big bulge in the front of my pants that the young women in front of me brought on. I'd use my books to cover the swelled up "problem" I had. But, later in life, I didn't mind having this "problem" seen. I remember the bar girls setting next to me in the night clubs running there hand up and down my thigh getting closer and closer to the top and then finally eventually actually touching my bulge and then looking down at what they had just felt and saying things like "Oh my"! Soon afterwards, we'd be somewhere private with the young lady bringing me to a messy orgasm with her hand or in a bed with my member deep inside her vagina. This is the exhibitionism that I experienced back when I was younger and how exciting it was. And, truest me. The way those cheer leaders were dressed back then and now is itself exhibitionism when one considers the effect it has on most normal men.

[M 40s] I was recently on a business trip to Germany. I stayed in a very nice hotel with a "wellness center" that had a pool, then a separate room off the pool area with a wet sauna, dry sauna, two open showers, two lounge chairs, and a circle of benches in the center of all this, it was coed.
When I first walked in the folks working there explained the services and asked if I wanted to sign up for a massage. I went ahead and said yes, knowing of course that it would be a legit massage in a place like this. They suggested coming back for the appt wearing the robe provided in the room, which I did, with nothing underneath. An attractive blond German woman led me into the massage room. She pointed at the massage table and motioned for me to lie down, and to my surprise did not leave the room like they would in the US, but held out her hand for the robe, so I got a brief flash as I took it off and slowly climbed onto the table. She put a cover on me and gave a nice normal massage. No more chance for exhibitionism there, but now I was relaxed and aroused.
Afterwards I was lounging around the pool, and saw that except for when they were swimming, people were just wearing just their robes and going in and out of the sauna area-both men and women.
I put my suit on in the dressing room, took a swim, and then decided to check out the sauna. There was a German couple on the lounge chairs, no one else inside. I went into the wet sauna, and noticed right away that the woman had a clear view of me through the glass door, but that the husband couldn't see me because of the angle and a wall. The couple was about 60 (I'm in my 40's), she was attractive.
I was sitting so she had a clear view of me, and decided to give her a show. I stood up, undid the drawstring on my suit, and pushed it down and off. I was standing naked now facing her through a glass door, and I placed a towel down and sat down, spreading my legs. Her eyes were glued on me the whole time. I started feeling excited, and my cock moved a little at first and then got hard. I saw her sit up a little, giving up any pretense of reading her magazine, and she was just watching me. Then I saw of to her side her husband get up to leave back to the pool, so I covered up my lap with a towel and closed my eyes as if I was unaware of them.
After he left I took the towel back off again for her. She then got up and walked across the room and stood by the bench right outside the glass door next to me! We were separated by maybe three feet. Then she undid her robe and removed it hanging it on a peg-now standing their totally nude, with her huge German breasts right there. She then started putting on her suit, and as she sat down she spread her legs completely, even lifting one leg up to put her foot through the suit-giving me a full-on beaver shot. I was totally hard, which she saw.
Then she left the room to go back out to the pool. I was dying of heat at this point, and got up and went to the shower. The shower was just a semi-circle of tile wall, so open to everyone. I was standing there naked, eyes closed as I washed my hair. I then took some soap and was washing (ok, and kind of stroking!) my semi-hard cock when I opened my eyes to see that she had come back in and was sitting right next to me, watching as she now removed her suit.
Now we are both nude, and only maybe two feet from each other. We both acted nonchalant about it, but I saw her looking at my cock and I didn't even try to be subtle as I looked between her legs and at her breasts.
She gave me a half-smile and went into the dry sauna. I thought about following her in, but then thought it would look too obvious, especially after showering, plus her husband could return. Not that I was going to do anything but sit there and let her look at me, but the erection is a little obvious. So I stood right in front of her glass window, and stalled as I wrung out my suit, dried my hair, etc.LOL. Finally I put my robe on and left. Her husband went in right after, so I made the right decision.
That's my kind of exhibitionism, where the woman is a willing participant, and there is that erotic intensity.
Laying on the lounge chair facing the pool after, I arranged the robe so that it just went down to my upper thighs, and it was pulled taught across my thighs. I was innocently reading a book, and the effect was that several women in their 60's (all German retirees I think) who were swimming laps could see right up my robe. I noticed that they were stopping where I was (mid-pool) and doing "exercises" like jogging in place, all the while glancing up my robe. I even got hard for them, so they got something to see!

Updated 11/07 [F 34] The last person who wrote on exhibitionism described exposing himself to a woman while in his car. He asked if this activity is dangerous. Answer: YES. If the woman seeing you does not like what she sees, all she has to do is write down your license number and you will soon get a visit from the police. Further if one person is seeing you in your car, you do not know who else may be looking. There are very few ways to safely expose oneself. Considering the cost to your life style if you’re arrested it’s likely cheaper to hire a willing partner to see you naked. Better yet stop exposing NOW before it becomes a fixed sexual disorder, an obsessive-compulsive problem that screws your life.

[M] When I was 23 an event happened to me in Summer. I had made up my mind to spend some hours on a free Italian beach to relax. I was naked like most of people who were on that beach . I had been there for two hours about when I began walking a little, but I suddenly came a young woman across. She saw me walking naked and stopped opposite me at fifty centimetres about, so she was very close to me. She looked at me and gazed at my genitals for a long time . She lowered her head twice in order to look at my scrotum under my penis. After a while my penis started becoming thicker and harder because I started getting excited: I understood that she appreciated my genitals. She was young and she was interested in seeing a boy's genitals : I think it's normal.
I felt pleasure and I was proud of my manliness. After some minutes, she moved and kept on walking. I can't help saying that I came back home very happy .

Updated 10/07 [M] For many years I have driven an SUV and I have always been a leg lover. I have admired many women in short skirts and revealing tops but never seen a woman masturbate for me while driving. This however did open up my thinking to being seen by women while driving. I do not want to expose myself to any women that might be offended or even scared by seeing me masturbate for them so that creates a dilemma. I thrill seeking was reinforced one time by a very cute delivery woman in a van. It was summer and I was wearing loose running shorts and a tee and no underwear. I pulled up to a stop light and she pulled up beside me. She looked over and into my car (driving a car at the time) and gave me one of those big wicked looking smiles. I did have my hand in my lap and was kinda slowly rubbing my shorts. Well that really turned me on and my penis grew instantly. As the light turned green I pulled it out of my shorts and began to stroke it. I had pulled ahead of her and slowed for her to ride by. As she pulled beside me she looked over and gave me an even bigger smile. I took that as the okay and we drove side by side for a mile or so until I shot my load. She smiled and I got nervous and immediately turned. Now I have been wanting to repeat that thrill but the thought of trouble prevents me from trying. Is this a dangerous idea and do you think I can enjoy my fantasy in a safe environment? (no porn shops for me)

[F] [No children around]. I ride a beach comber bike wearing a long button up the front dress. When I arrive, I position myself so my dress hides the seat [I am not wearing panties ] and then unbutton it just to the seat to start. Then I unbutton just past my breasts [40C's] and peddle on my way to the bike trail that follows along the river. The type of seat rubs me the right way as I peddle. Soon on the trail I peddle slowly at first my dress being tugged, my legs exposed.
There are 4 buttons holding the my dress closed. My breasts bounced with uneven road and as I roll down an incline my dress whips behind me. As my I expose more of my body the wetter I get. The rush of air as I ride opens the dress around my breasts giving anyone a view. A group of young men wearing competition ! gear were riding toward me and slowed down to take in the view and I allowed them as much as they wanted. The feeling was incredible knowing my body was barely covered. I stood on the pedals as if to pedal hard speed past and my dress was waving behind me like a flag and gave the young men a good view of my shaved crotch. As I past them I hear could pleased comments. My juices were flowing and was already horny and this was making me more so.
As another group of cyclists rode past, a couple of the females glanced over and smiled as the men hooted. What a great day.
Sometimes I have worn loose skirts without panties on windy days and act surprised the looks I get.

Updated 9/07 [M] I just wanted to write about an experience I had at a lake I went to that is at a county park. This park is the only park in my state that permits nudity in designated area's. I had gone here before because I enjoy the freedom of being nude and feeling the sun and breeze on my skin. I had picked a spot adjacent to a path or walk way that had some shade as I was getting a little hot on a summer day. I was laying out relaxing and noticed the park was slowly filling with people. I was so relaxed in the buff and at some points took short cat naps.
While napping I woke up to discover some people sitting on a rock a few feet away and that my penis was fully erect. The people seated near by were commenting on my erect cock as I kept my eyes closed pretending to still be asleep. This was very stimulating and exciting as these total strangers had a perfect view of my cock. The people there were men and women and they didn't seem to mind. I eventually got up and got a warm smile and compliment. Even a female park ranger walked by at some point and didn't seem to mind either as I caught her taking a glance at my erect penis. It was very arousing and my erection lasted for nearly 30 minutes or more with pre-cum oozing out the tip of my penis.

[M] I was just reading your page and was thrilled to find that someone besides me; both man and women like to share a view of their genitals with others. I wanted to share my favorite past time. I am almost 30 and starting to get a little more weight on than I'd like. So I tried exercising, but could not stay motivated because I cant find a work out partner. So anyway I have always liked being seen nude so I had this idea one day. I was in the store and there was a pair of really silky soft swimming trunks. The type with two layers of cloth and holes in each layer; just enough material so you can not see through. I though to my self to bad they had to put that second layer in.. Then I got an idea. I grabbed the shorts and a pair of scissors. Returning to the car I quickly cut out the inside. Got naked (hoping to be seen). Once I got the shorts on I was amazed how see-through they were. I was so turned on.
I went to an area where all the locals walk their dogs around on the side walks. I parked and started walking. When the sun shine hit my shorts you could not really see anything until you go up close. I expected to be shamed by the women, but I wan not. In fact the seemed to like it. I got more kind interaction that ever before. Several of them looked at me and the acted like they recognized me, but were in fact there recognized a cock and balls in my shorts. It was a very pleasant adventure. I got so used to it I did not change when I left. Getting some gas on the way home one sweet lady in her 30's was very very friendly and fumbling around dropping her stuff while talk to me. When on my way back to the pump I looked down and realized that my dick was still showing.. Thats why that lady was acting like that! I was embarrassed and pleased all at the same time. I never know ladies would react so positively to seeing my package. I was half expecting them to call the cops - My complements to women kind. Thanks!
Because of this I now have the motivation to go run and exercise several times a week because the secondary motivation is to show my genitals to as many women as possible. Its amazing how it changes to focus from how tired I am to being able to run that extra mile just to catch up with a good looking lady to say hey and share myself.

Updated 7/07 [M 60s] I just returned from the supermarket and just saw this woman shopper with her grocery cart in the store. She was in her early to mid thirties, I'd estimate, and was very beautiful. But, what stood out was how she was dressed. She was wearing a red tank top which was nice but no big deal. But, on the other end was a pair of fairly loose fitting brown short shorts. She had a beautiful tan and a pair of some of the most shapely sexy legs I've ever seen. Plus, this wasn't all. When she got in front of me, the bottoms of her butt cheeks showed through the leg openings. What a beautiful sight it was. Certainly, these woman who go around in public places dressed like this have got to know the effect they are having on men that see her and they must really enjoy it and get a kick out of it. Believe me, the men around her didn't have there eyes on the shelves or their shopping list. All eyes were on her lower end and all their minds were; well, you know. Yes; how they'd love to have their hands on what they're seeing. I would imagine a lot of the younger guys probably will have sex with their wives tonight with this woman in the store on their minds pretending it was her that they are feeling. I know there has got to be more than comfort on these women's minds when they go to public places dressed like this. I'd sure love to hear some comments about this from the lady readers.

Updated 6/07 [M] I wrestled with the whole idea when I was younger and often pushed the legal envelope which sooner or later will get every guy into embarrassing legal trouble. I used to wear shorts with no underwear with loose legs and let women "accidentally" see my penis. I always have some what of an erection but not a full raging one at first because it is too obvious. If it is more than one woman they almost always enjoy it and laugh and talk about it sometime within ear shot. If they didn't seem to enjoy I immediately stopped the behavior. I stopped this a while ago because I realized that the offensive part of the behavior so now I am pretty open with it when I meet new people and am surprised how many women totally love it. I recently had a group of 4 lesbian woman friends that when we discussed it the asked me to masturbate for them. It was the most incredible turn-on I have ever had. I am not sure why, but about a month later they asked me to do it for them again and it was nowhere near as cool. I am always looking for new ways to do this without hurting or offending anyone...would love to know what you think.

Updated 5/07 [M] i just noticed Your massive selection of items, but one i have done thru the years, teen on, is exhibitionism/flashing. It started with wearing really loose cut off shorts, so when sitting anyone watching could easily see either : No underwear, or, being a sub male, i'd often wear pink, red, purple panties; it was interesting to see the looks on others faces. (the humiliation was / is exciting). When gardening around others, i'd wear special panties that had lace tops. i made sure that just enough 'showed' above the top of the shorts. Got many an "oral service date" with Hot Moms wearing panties. Once, at a relatives really large house, i knew the maid came by when they were gone. i made sure to leave out some hot XXX pics & stories on the main table; i had a xxx video playing, and i was upstairs in a tee-shirt and pink panties, 'conveniently' walking down the stairs with laundry as she came in. (saw her arrive from upstairs). Of course i gave her enough time to check out the pics and video before i came down. = i love being "caught," both on purpose, and really Caught when i'm unaware. It is way more hot to get 'caught' when you think you're alone !!!

[M] to cut a long story short my wife and I took a holiday to one of the Greek islands, after a couple of days, my wife said she would prefer to hang around the pool but if I wanted to take the bike we had rented and go and explore that would be ok. We stayed at the hotel for a couple of hours then I set off, with the intention of seeing a little more of the island. I had gone a few miles, it was really hot and I decided to explore a track I found leading to the sea, I came across a rocky cove with no one in sight. I parked the bike, and found a nice smooth rock at the waters edge and striped off fully, there was no one around and slipped into the cool sea. I swam out a little and upon turning around I noticed a little along from where I put my things ,behind another rock was a lady sun bathing, and she looked to have the same idea as me and was totally nude.
I swam a little closer, for a closer look, and at that moment she stood up, reached for a colourful sarong and wrapped it around her waist before standing up, at that point she saw me and put her hand up to wave, I looked behind me but there was no one, she was waving at me, I waved back and turned and headed towards my spot.
Climbing up onto the rocks I noticed that she had come from behind her rock and was heading towards me, I grabbed my towel, wrapped it around my waist and stood against a large rock. As she approached I saw she was a lot older than me, I guessed around 50, she was actually 58 when we got chatting, she was German but spoke perfect English, she had a fantastic figure and just gorgeous pendulous breast that were completely free, there was a slight breeze too and the light, almost transparent sarong, with the split right at the front kept blowing apart to reveal a completely hair free pussy! I tried not to make it obvious sneeking a peek, but it dawned on me that she was actually quite enjoying flashing at me, and she half-heartedly giggled and tried to hold it down! I could feel a little stirring in my cock and tried hard not to keep looking at her,.... impossible!
She then said she must be getting back to her place, but then turned to me and asked me if I would care to join her for lunch, well that was the last thing on my mind, however she smiled and told me to come over when I was ready, she then added I looked fine like I was, and to come soon!
She went back along the rocks and I slipped back into the sea to cool off. When I came out, I had a quick rub down, slipped on my shorts, grabbed my bag and went to find her, upon coming around the rock, there she was laid out completely naked, she propped herself up on her elbows,quite aware I was admiring her naked form!
She smiled and patted the rock next to her for me to sit down, ''you got dressed '' she said, and laughing told me this was a 'clothing free zone' there was only one thing for it and I stood up and pulled down my shorts, the cold dip I had just had had helped to keep my previous erection in check, although I could see her eyes divert to look at me, and I must admit I was quite enjoying this older lady checking me out, she made some comment about not doing this too often, apparently her husband was working in Athens and she had flown out for a few days to get the sun and relax.
As I was a lot closer now I couldn't help noticing that she had a rather prominent labia, almost like folds on a flower, and one side was pierced with a small gold ring with a tiny diamond that sparkled in the sun, she caught me looking, ''so you like my diamond, my husband bought it for me some years ago, do you like piercings?' I had to admit, I liked that one, she smiled and thanked me!
She then reached down and pulled slightly on the ring, as one would toy with a necklace or other piece of jewelry, obviously I just had to look
Well as you can imaging this was having an effect on me and my cock started to stiffen and within seconds was fully erect and pointing skywards!
My first instinct was to cover up, and I tried to re adjust my towel, but then must have noticed, she smiled at me, ''that is better, to see a young man so firm and hard, you obviously like what you see, its nice for a lady like me to receive compliments like that!'' What could I say, I stood against the rock and let her look, we were both enjoying showing ourselves to each other, it was definitely a first time experience for me. We continued to eat lunch, she had brought lots of different specialties, quite bizzarre in a way, but quite natural too.
After lunch we swam, then back on land chatted about this and that, she explained that she had a great relationship with her husband and she hoped I appreciated that, me too with my wife,so basically nothing would go further, which I fully understood and appreciated her honesty.
She brought out the sun cream and slowly spread it around her breasts, I was transfixed and she smiled as she used both hands to rub the cream in, then she got a small bit and slightly opened her legs before rubbing it in to her exposed pussy,she offered me some saying I should really put some on ny most sensitive parts, I knew straight away where this was leading,she wanted to watch, and to be honest, I wanted to let her see me, I rubbed a small amount on my cock which instantly started to stiffen, she smiled and I rubbed a little more, pulling back my foreskin, which she seemed to like very much, I had to stop, or she may have got a little more than she bargained for, or maybe that was here idea? We chatted and shared the rest of the food and drink together and had a most amazing experience.
And that is how we ended it. It was getting a little late and I must get back to see my wife,we thanked each other for the pleasureable couple of hours, she was really a fantastic lady, I did make it back there a couple of days later, however it was totally deserted.

Updated 4/07 [M 49] My wife and I enjoy going to the local nude beach. I asked her once if going to a nude beach made us exhibitionists. Her response was no but I said I feel like it does and find it both a turn on and comfortable. When we go on our anniversary trip I don't mind making love to her with the blinds open and the TV on which provides somewhat of a a mood light. I remember asking her the first time about my interest in doing that and to my surprise she had no problem. We both are in good shape as we workout regularly and I guess I don't mind if people see us.

[M] I have always enjoyed having my wife nude (accidentally or otherwise) in front of other men. She is a beautiful blonde, 5'8", green eyes, a fantastic body, all over tan and very closely shaved. We have many stories to share, tame, to be sure, but we have a lot of fun. I do like to watch her nude, but from a distance, seeming as though she's alone. I look like just one of the perverts watching the nude women, but I'm really watching just one, and the men's reactions she gets. One time she went to a nudist resort, about 60 miles from where we live, on a "trial day," pretending to be single(if you are married, they won't let you go without a spouse.
I realize that a nudist resort is not exactly the place where one might find "exhibitionism," but it was a way for my wife to be seen nude by other men. Everything she does is done discreetly, but who would care if it weren't? She went through the presentation and the female employee told her the rules and said that since she was very attractive, she may find men approaching her but that rude behavior is not accepted and she should report any. I asked her beforehand to walk around as much as possible because I really enjoy it when she walks around with her breasts jiggling and men watching. She noticed one particular guy seemed to be following her as she walked around the resort.
She showered, along with another man who was already showering, making sure that she lathered up her breasts and between her legs, rinsed, and went into the pool, then lay on a lounge tanning for a while. She told me could hear breathing on the lawn above and behind her, so she put one leg down on the ground so that her legs would be slightly open. She would call me every once in a while to tell me what she was doing, and that a guy was following her. While I had her on the phone, I told her to find the exercise spa and have a workout. She did, and a couple of men came in and joined her.
My personal favorite (we practiced this one before she went) is when she gets down on her hands and knees, and extends and lifts one leg straight behind her and does a rear leg lift. The view is fantastic! From behind, as her leg raises and falls, her whole vagina moves, not to mention the fact that absolutely nothing is hidden from view. She noticed the same man who had been strolling behind her had taken up a seat behind her. Towards the end of the day, she went to the indoor pool. Another couple was there but they soon left. After a while guess who showed up? He sat down on the edge of the pool and my wife decided to swim around on her back so he could watch her breasts. She would climb out of the pool and dive in several times.
At some point, she noticed that he had one leg raised, and began to gently stroke his penis. She decided to be brave and stopped swimming and stood up in the waist high water and faced him from about ten feet away. She knew I would love this. She stood there for about a minute watching him watch her while he masturbated. She said she considered going over and masturbating him, but decided it might not be a good idea (I cannot tell you how disappointed I was!).
Finally, she decided to leave and walked toward the steps in his direction. He got into the pool, erection poking out of the water ever so slightly, which she purposely looked at so he could watch her watch him, and as she and him were passing he she said she could see a small stream of shoot about a foot high. She just continued to walk by and didn't look back. She was done for the day, got into the car nude and drove outside the park (she knew I would love that too). Not really very dangerous because the resort is somewhat secluded. She saved the pool story for me until she got home and what great sex followed! My wife exposed herself, was a voyeur AND was flashed and more.
They say these things don't happen at nudist resorts, that there is no sexual behavior at nudist resorts, that the nude body excites nobody. We can tell you they do, there is, and it does! I'm just hoping we can repeat the experience or do better.

Updated 3/07 [M] We have a middle aged woman divorcee as a neighbor, whose kitchen window faces our bedroom window, who we just cannot help but give a show to every now and than. The first time we noticed her looking was as we were undressing for bed one evening; it was summer, our window was open, the shade only half down, a warm breeze was coming in through the screen. We decided to leave the light on just to see if she would continue to watch. After some foreplay and kissing my wife laid back on our bed, legs spread and begin using her vibrator while I sat on the bed watching and jerking off. I glanced over to our neighbor's house, her kitchen light was now off, but I could see the outline of her face looking out her window into our bedroom. My wife gave her quite a show as she masturbated with her vibrator, rubbing it over her clit, between her pussy lips and eventually pushing it inside, fucking it as if it were a cock. It wasn't long before my wife started to cum. With her hips moving up off the bed she moaned loudly as she climaxed.
Our neighbor got quite the show, visually and verbally. After my wife's climax she got up on her knees as I stood behind her and we fucked until I orgasmed. The next afternoon my wife told me she bumped into our neighbor while going out to get the mail. Our neighbor greeted her with a big hello and a very big smile. From that night to today, we give our neighbor a show every couple of weeks. Summer time is our favorite as we can keep the window open so she can hear as well as see us. Trust me, as much as our neighbor likes to watch us, we get excited ten fold knowing she is there while we masturbate, suck each other off and or fuck. My wife gets wet before she hits the mattress the nights we are about to put on a show. Our neighbor has never mentionned a thing to us and we have never approached her on the subject, but the day after we always greet each other with smiles as broad as can be. We could not imagine sex without exhibitionism now, it has really given us some terrifically pleasureable evenings.

Updated 2/07 [M] On the subject of exhibitionism, I might title this as using exhibitionism. We all see this being used quite often. Referring to the use of exhibitionism by so called "ladies of the night". Just how often do we see them walking the street or in a bar or night club wearing the shortest, tightest little mini skirt one can imagine. They are advertising there "goodies" to attract men and get customers. And believe me, it works. It will often cause an instant "rise" in men, if you know what I mean. Men often immediately will be over come by the urge of getting there hands all over those legs and ass the women are showing off. Often times this is as far as it goes when doing business with them. Pick them up, pay her price, get your hand on those beautiful soft thighs she showed off to you and have her relieve you with her expert soft hand stroking that erect member that her exhibition caused to begin with. These women know exactly what dressing like this and showing off what there showing will do to men. Might say this is what exhibitionism is all about. [M 66] When I was about 35 I was a single guy working as a graphic artist and as I spent a lot of time over a drafting table I developed back tension so I began to get therapeutic massages. The masseuses I went to were professional as I wanted a good treatment for my back stress but they were clinical, had me undress alone, had me slip under a sheet before they started the massage, had my crotch and butt covered with a towel as they worked on me. I found I enjoyed the feeling of being naked under the towel, wished they would dispense with it and thought a massage therapist shouldn't be uncomfortable with a naked body male or female.
I found a new masseuse who did Swedish massage through her ad at a health store and made an appointment. Jessica was a slim, darkhaired New Yorker about 36 or so, relaxed and personable, worked from her loft downtown. She asked me about myself then she told me I could get undressed. As I began to strip off she remained seated next to me and kept her eyes on me as I shed my office rig. She asked me did I want some tea? I noted that she had waited till I was naked before she offered me tea which I accepted. I was enjoying being stark naked with my uncircumcised penis dangling on full view with an attractive clothed woman I had just met while I sipped my herbal tea.
After I'd had my tea she asked me did I want to shower as it was a hot summer day in New York and of course I said I did. She showed me to her bathroom and mentioned she had just gotten a shower massager I might want to try. I stood under the warm shower washing away the tension of work and the summer humidity. I turned the massager on my penis and balls and soon had a raging erection as much from the massager as from the situation. I thought why worry about confronting her with my hard-on as she was so comfortable with nudity. I stepped out of the bathroom drying myself with my towel careful to leave my erection exposed. Jessica was standing only a few feet away and said nothing to discourage my display only staring at my penis standing out firmly. Her candid appraisal only made me harder and I commented to her that I had enjoyed her massager. With her gaze riveted on my rod she said that she could see that. I brazenly toweled off my balls and wobbling penis now more excited than ever. I sat on her massage table directing her attention to my throbbing organ pointed at her ceiling. She asked me would I be uncomfortable laying on my penis in my condition? I assured her it would be ok.
As she worked on me we chatted and I found out some things about her. My erection had subsided but I enjoyed being naked under her therapuetic hands. She confided she had a relationship with an older guy but lived alone. She said she had been to the beach that day and that she hated bathing suits, thought they were "the most ridiculous things ever invented." I asked her had she ever been to a nude beach and she admitted she had but not on a regular basis. At the close of the massage I felt emboldened by her relaxed demeanor to mention that I wouldn't mind if she massaged the one thing she had missed meaning of course my penis. She smiled and said that I'd have to take care of that myself later on. Of course I made another appointment.
My next few sessions with Jessica were exactly the same as my first with me undressing in front of her, having tea while I stood naked in her kitchen, taking a shower and appearing with an erection. I told her that I had taken care of my penis as soon as I had gotten home from my last massage with her. She gave me a sly smile.
As she massaged me I would tell her about my masturbation sessions anticipating her massages. She listened attentively, then produced a vibrator that she said she used when she "had the need", told me where she'd gotten it so I could buy one to "use on your penis." She said that of course her vibrator was only for times when her boyfriend wasn't available as she "preferred the real thing." I really enjoyed talking to as she was so openminded about sex and nudity. I even told her about a session in an Asian spa where the Korean girl had teased me with her fingers to produce an erection then masturbated me. Clearly, that wasn't going to happen with Jessica but I didn't care as I so enjoyed being naked with her physically and personally. Unfortunately, shortly thereafter she told me she was relocating to Hawaii with her boyfriend. I told her I would really miss her and I did.

Updated 1/07 [M 40] I think there is a little exhibitionist and voyeur in all of us. the first time i was involved i was 14 at a fast food restraurant and a woman in her early 30s got my attention by slightly opening her legs. once she saw i was watching gave me my first wonderful experience.
After that i was always watching for her type. Being an adult and driving an over the road truck i've seen plenty some more obvious than others, mostly younger women giving a flash. Well, what man doesn't enjoy others checking out his wife especially out of state. It is a definite turn on when my wife accidently lets a delivery boy get a glimpse or tries on shoes in a skirt without panties. i sometime stand outside the store just to see the salesman blush.

Updated 12/06 [F 36] I'm a 36 year old woman who loves nothing better than to turn men young or old on. I'm not a "get em out for the boys" type exhibitionist but regularly wear clothes which may or may not give men the opportunity to see a little bit more than they would normally expect. In other words I'll bend over so that a view down my top is available to anyone who cares to look, I very rarely wear a bra. If I'm feeling particularly naughty I'm not adverse to allowing a view up my skirt, whether I'm wearing panties or not.
One ex boyfriend used to love me to exercise my passion for exhibitionism. He would regularly get me to allow myself to be caught naked or semi naked by complete strangers. His mates, the pizza delivery men, the hotels night porter, the meter reader from the electricity company, the postman and even the paper boy. Of course I was always willing and loved every minute of it.
Now that I'm "single" again I can still be tempted to relive some of these experiences but have also found other ways of accidentally displaying my charms. The local swimming pool can be fun if your bikini top is prone to slipping to one side. Changing cubicals in some shops and occasionally just a gust of wind lifting my skirt. I also find that stopping to ask for directions whilst out driving can give me the opportunity to show plenty of thigh and if for example one or two of the buttons on my blouse have popped open without me realising, well a good portion of my unfettered breast can be seen.

Updated 11/06 [M] (M - 63) After what I saw this last weekend I just had to send in a new comment on exhibitionism. Saturday afternoon I was in a convenience store picking up a six pack and when I was standing in line to check out I couldn't help be see her. In front of me was this middle age Filipino woman wearing a very short blue jean mini skirt exposing lots of her beautiful tan colored legs. This immediately took my mind back many years when I was a young man in her home land and the many pleasures I had back then between so many of those soft, tan colored legs. It might had been while lying between them engaging in some hot sexual intercourse or my setting next to a bar girl with my hand up under her skirt feeling her thighs. This was always highly arousing and would always end up in some sex act with the girl. It was sometimes a quick hand job in back the club or it may have ended up with an all night roll in the bed with the girl. Things always started with a feel of those beautiful soft tan colored legs of these beautiful Filipino women. What wonderful memories they are now and that woman in that line sure brought them back to me for a short while. I can't help but think that a woman dressing like this in public is doing some exhibiting herself in a sexual way being that exposed legs do definitely get men sexually aroused.

Updated 10/06 [M] Over the years, we've found that exhibitionism and voyeurism are inseperable. When we've had the opportunity to have sex in the company of another couple (commonly refered to as a "soft swing"), it's incredibly exciting to display one's sexual talents for the arousal of others, but it is equally arousing to view the other couples' reactions, and see how we affect their particular exhibition.
We've always enjoyed viewing adult videos, and seeing it all happen live right in front of you is an incredible experience. We like watching other couples having sex; seeing them enjoy performing for us.
We think the whole experience feeds off of itself and just spirals higher and higher, becoming hotter and hotter, as both couples work toward their eventual orgasms.

[F 36] i would like to tell you and your readers about my latest exhibitionist adventure !!!. the idea came from my friend sue. it was on a t.v. show like candid camera, or similar, where a lady comes out of a public toilet with her skirt tucked in to her panties!! you see her walking along a busy street aparently unaware that everone can see her underwear!!. when sue told me about it i knew that i just had to do it, although, this would be my most exciting exhibitionist dare !!! of course there was a lot planning to do, first, and most important, what underwear would i wear, as i knew a lot of people were going to see my panties i wanted to look my best. i tried on all my underwear, and i had sue and my fourteen year old son to help me choose. after about four hours, it was my son who helped me decide what underwear i would wear, by pure chance the underwear he had bought me for my birthday!!! the panties were pink with a white band around the waist and legs with the word"cutie" on the back in white, with a matching bra and suspender belt and i wore tan stockings. next the dress, i borrowed it from sue, it was a sky blue chiffon dress, just above the knee.
next, i had to try it a few times, i found it quite easy to tuck my dress in my panties, so i think it must happen quite a lot, it's bad enough doing it by accident, but i was doing it on purpose!! i must be nuts!! so, we were ready, we had also picked a public toilet, on a very busy street, also sue had a video cam !!! she would be waiting nearby for me to come from the toilet, and get it all on camera. on the day we were to do it i was not sure if i could go through with it or not, but sue and my son both said i looked so good and my underwear was very sweet, that made me feel a lot better. it was about 30 minutes on a bus to the street, when we got there i did have to go to the toilet!!! no really i did, i was sitting on the pan, my heart was pounding so much, and i was thinking what the hell am i doing, i'm going to tuck my dress in my knickers and walk along a busy street, i really must be nuts. but then i do get a real thrill from exposing my self to others, and i know that guys will love to see my panties and my suspenders and stockings so how can i refuse.
so now i was ready, i checked my rear with a little mirror, perfect, wanted to show the word "cutie" on my panties. i walked out the toilet and along the street, trying to act normal !! very difficult, then i saw sue with video cam, i smiled at the camera , then walked past her so she was behind me, so i knew she had me on tape, then of course someone told me, drat!!!! i was just starting to enjoy it!!!!. we went to another town nearby and did twice more, once coming out a toilet, and once coming from a toilet in a shop!!!. i really enjoyed that day it's so exciting knowing that so many people are looking you, at your underwear, and all the guys with a big hard cock in their trousers, it really is quite a special feeling to command so many people.

Updated 9/06 [M] I enjoyed myself so much last time I wore my see-through leggings, and let all those guys see my underwear, I had to do it again!!!! But this time, I planned it all in advance.
I was going to do it alone, but shortly before I left Sue (not her real name) popped in for a coffee. I told her I was going out for a run, and she asked if she could come as well. With a smile I said of course, and she asked if she could borrow some of my running clothes. That set my mind working. Maybe I could lend her my see through leggings!!! the one's I had worn last time!!! yes I could,!!!!
I didn't tell her they were see through -m why spoil my fun!!! In my bedroom I found some leggings and a little matching top for Sue to wear. What luck eh !!!
She asked if she could borrow a pair of my panties as well I offered her a pair of my ‘days of the week' panties. She said they were so cute and put them on, with the leggings and top. I should add that Sue has a perfect body, slim, all over tan, no white bits !!!! Also like me she has no body hair at all.
By this time I had also dressed I had white knee length leggings my lipstick panties (they are pink with red lips all over very sexy!!!) and a little matching top. I had to check my rear in the mirror before we left, and I was quite shocked as my leggings were very, very see through, much more so than Sue's outfit. Anyway, it was now or never and off we went. We ran along the same route as last time, and met loads of guys, and got a lot whistling and shouting from most of the guys as well, some guys wanting a kiss, and much more as well!!!!
Sue really enjoyed it too, once she knew what I had done. I think she knew her leggings were see through before we left although she said she didn't. Next time she wants to pick my clothes. I hate to think what she's got in mind for me!!!!!

[M] (M - 63) Over the years during the warm Summer months when I'd go to the super market and sometimes even in shopping malls I have occasionally run across women wearing cutoff shorts. It really makes no difference what there age is if they are sporting a truly fabulous pair of shapely legs. Admittedly, I'm a leg man. As those old ads use to sing; "nothing beats a great pair of legs" is so true. Thinking back a best case would probably be a woman in her 30s or 40s. If she were walking toward me the sight of seeing the muscles in her thighs working and the little jiggle that goes through them as her heels hit the ground. One would not have to put your hand on them to know just how soft they were as one could literally SEE how wonderfully soft they were. Walking away I've always got a view of the bottom of there beautiful ass cheeks showing at the leg openings. When I was a younger man this sight would always bring on an immediate erection in my pants. In a crowded super market this certainly wasn't funny as I'd have to do something to cover my crouch area. It would had been nice if it were only me and the woman that brought this on were alone as I would have sure loved to flatter her with a look at what she caused and did to me of course referring to the big bulge in my pants. I'd also always have the same instant thought go through my mind the instant I'd see this view which was, please excuse my French here, "man I'd like to fuck that". But, I know full well that if it would had ever truly come to this it would had been a case of having the woman be on all four on the edge of a bed with me behind her. I would first run my hands over her soft ass and then would wrap around her hips while bending over some to allow my hands a good feel of her inner thighs. By now I know I'd be feeling the first tingles of a pending orgasm stir inside me and with this I'd slip my very erect penis deep into her of course from behind. My excitement would heighten even more by the sound of my hips slapping against her ass and the sight of the ripples of soft female flesh moving across her ass. I know there would had been no way that I would had lasted any longer than around 10 seconds and I'd have a powerful orgasm giving her a large load of my semen deep in her vagina. I can't help but think that the sight of a beautiful leggy woman wearing these super short cutoffs has much the same effect on most men. I'm looking forward to reading some responses to this.

Updated 8/06 [F 37] Just read through your Exhibitionism section and was surprised to find out that I was one, kind of. I am married to a great guy who has always battled prickly heat rashes and his doctor in the army recommended not wearing underwear. Since then, he never has unless he knows he's going to the doctor (I guess so he doesn't end up waiting for the doctor while naked.) We married ten years ago and surprisingly this didn't bother me and I actually kind of liked it because his jeans would start to wear around his crotch and made playing quite fun sometimes. Especially when I decided the jeans were too old to keep and It got to tear them off| Well, I started gaining a few more pounds and started getting more severe heat rashes so hubby suggested I not wear panties and after a while, this has come commonplace. I'm not sure if anyone has really noticed the lack of panty lines but the freedom it gives me| It feels great. I have even started going without panties when wearing dresses. Now, when I want to dress sexy I add sexy lingerie instead of taking something off| :-) Actually gets my point across a lot easier and makes me feel special.

Updated 6/06 [F] When I was with my last partner, who incidentally got me into sort of exhibitionism, he would like me to wear no panties whenever we went out. Not to ''flash'' anyone, but just so he knew that there would be easy access when we got back home. Anyway, that relationship fizzled out, and since then, on the odd occasion, I have still gone out without any underwear, just for me. Bearing in mind I am on the chubby side and insecure, I would never raise my skirt. Anyway, one day I was wearing a long flowing skirt without any underwear and the wind blew my skirt right up and I knew there and then that my lower regions where on show. Now, I don't think anyone saw, but I totally loved it and confided to a friend (female) of mine and told her what happened. She thought it great and decided we both should go out without underwear and lift our skirts up whenever we felt bold enough. I know this sounds ridiculous for two forty-something women to do. Anyway, we did, and a few guys saw us in the car park of a supermarket and it gave us a huge thrill. Now, we don't plan to make a habit of it, but we are most certainly going to do it again, this time with shaved pubic hair, and you know what? I can't wait. Its harmless, and my private bit of fun.

[M 47] Being a Scot I wear kilts a lot. I try to be careful to maneuvre the kilt when sitting etc to avoid anyone seeing up between my legs and finding out my secret. Normally if Im going somewhere really public or if there are children around etc I always wear navy blue knickers underneath. We decided to throw a party for my sisters 30th birthday in the local village hall and 4 of us went along on the morning of the party to set up the hall with decorations etc. The only item missing was balloons so my sisters pal Paula volunteered to go and buy some and I agreed to go home, get dressed up in my kilt outfit then come back to the hall to give her a hand blowing the balloons up. In a moment of weakness I decided that since it was a family and friends night I would go regimental ie keep the knicks in my sporran. On entering the hall Paula, a well made busty girl, was busy blowing the balloons up. Before I knew it my sporran was at 45 degrees to my kilt and Paula noticed it too. She lifted the kilt right up and had a feel at what was there. I had a satisfied look on my face as she said...better pull on your navy knicks.....I dont want anyone else seeing what I'm getting later. I was 25 at the time and I married Paula 2 years later.

[M 40] In response to the letter below: It sounds delicious. I love the sheer panties. My wife likes to let her breasts hang open in her loose shirts all summer. She likes to turn guys on but as much as I get a kick out of it, some of these guys get the wrong message ... as if she is coming on to them ... she just thinks its a turn on to control them like that. But when we go out alone, I do encourage it. She can take her whole shirt off as far as I am concerned ... in the right places.

Updated 5/06 [F 36] I love to go running when the weather is good, I was out for a run about three weeks ago. It was a dry day not to warm, I was about three miles when I met another girl and we ran together for another two miles when we stopped for a break in this small village. I should tell you that I had my running gear on which was lemon colored leggings and a little crop top. So my running mate and I were sitting on this park bench chatting away like girls do, when suddenly she said, do you know your panties are showing through your leggings.
I stared at her, thinking she was having a laugh, but she said it again, so I thought I'd better check my rear in a shop window near by. It was true, my underwear was clear for all to see. I happened to be wearing my days of the week panties "Friday" although this was Sunday !!!! Anyway you could see the half inch high letters, in red, blue, pink, and orange, on a yellow background quite clearly. So I sat down quickly, hoping nobody had seen, but my friend had to go, so I was left there, on my own. but how was I to get home? I couldn't run home like this, with my knickers on show, could I?
But then I began to remember all the people, and guys!!!! who had seen me!!! and knowing how easily guys are turned on, I began to get turned on as well, thinking about all those guys, with a big hard cock in there trousers !!! Made me very wet indeed!!! So I just had to give the guys another thrill and run home with my undies on show. p.s. I've only done this once, maybe I'll do it again, watch out you guys!!!!!!!!!!

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