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This is a continuation of the main page on female ejaculation. I had so many letters that i split it into several parts. To read from the most recent letters, click over to the first page.

Updated 2/06 [F] On this topic of female ejaculation... I am so glad to find these letters... I have experienced this phenomenon in spades for all my adult life...(I love sex, and have multiple orgasms.... seemingly endless orgasms...) and it can be so inconvenient... The laundry itself is such a pain, I have to make our bed with a fitted sheet, then a padded plastic sheet, and then another sheet. I have learned to do that to keep from sleeping in a pond...... after sex we just strip off the top two pieces of bedding and have a clean dry sheet to sleep on. I have to drink fluids before and after sex because I lose so much fluid, and from what I understand it is fluid squeezed from the muscle tissues during orgasm. (My orgasms are so strong and the fluid is expelled so forcefully that it pushes my husband's penis from my body at times, no matter how he tried to keep it in. He is military and in very good shape.) I have seen the fluid! shoot 8-10 feet across a room. I will wake up in the night with my eyes so dry I can barely blink after a longer session of sex. I have to drink a quart or so of water in the middle of the night. I have fainted before, I am a nurse and I think it produces symptoms much like heat stroke, which is basically loss of too much body fluid. I know that sometimes it becomes medically dangerous, fluid loss in the quantities I experience can throw the body into shock. Sometimes I hate that I experience this... my husband is very loving and supportive, seems to enjoy it, even though it is a pain. (We travel extensively and no matter how I try....towels...bringing my own plastic bedding... I sometimes leave a mess...) It is so embarrassing at times. But I cannot maintain enough control to avoid the event.... or I should say events... I experience 10-15 gushes in a single session many times..but I also have different kinds of orgasms, and like some others positions seem to influence the "gushing."

Updated 12/05 [M] When I was married my wife would run like a tap, I loved to lick her juices and have her rub her fanny in my face and all over my body, and when I was inside her and could feel her juice all over my crotch. Well, heaven. Far better than KY gel.

Updated 5/05 [F 24] I myself am a victim of this squirting talent.......... and at first discovery found it quite odd. I didn't really know what to make of it and was quite embarrassed especially when it came to sex with my husband. We are now exploring more in depth, and try to make it so it is amusing rather than awkward. First off ... we found out that if during intense orgasm if I continue to hold back on my peek ... then it ultimately causes me to squirt. (this is where I can squirt this so call "substance" )
Second and the way I prefer it ... is when in missionary position to place one leg either left or right over my husbands shoulder. Then his cock is deeper and penetrates more of the squirting method.

Updated 1/05 [F] Thank you SO MUCH for your pages posting about female ejaculation. If you read what the "experts" say about the subject it sounds like a) it may or may not be real and could be urinary incontinence, but if it's real it b) happens only at orgasm and c) only comes from the urethra. That's not my experience and it appears from your pages that there are other women for whom that's also not their experience. This is very reassuring to me.
When I first started to experience the gushing of fluid on sexual arousal, I experienced it as coming from high in my vagina during intercourse. I was in my mid 40s at the time and had a lifetime of sexual experience, so I knew it wasn't just "increased lubrication"; it was a distinct rushing gush of a clear fluid with the consistency of water, which my partner could feel pouring over his penis (which was inside me at the time, so it was definitely coming from inside). Over the years since then I have explored the phenomenon in my own body and I have found that there seem to be three places from which the fluid is generated; one very deep and high in the pelvis (which I discovered while having sex with a man with a 9-inch penis), one in the vagina in front of the cervix ("distal" in doctor-ese), and then the "usual" one that you hear about, at the urethra. I suspect it's all coming from that same paraurethral sponge but these are different sets of glands that specifically release it.
Nowadays I get most of my ejaculations from the paraurethral glands, but I still get the deep vaginal releases from time to time as well.
Anyway, I love hearing all the different variations on your site. It is so stupid that this isn't talked about more (but typical in our male-centered culture).
I'd like to add a couple of things to the conversation: First--dry mouth. Does anybody else have this happen to them? When I start cuddling with my lover and getting aroused, my mouth gets so dry I have to keep sipping water before I can even kiss him. And it pretty much stays that way until we're done. I generally squirt copiously (like in the cups to quarts range, over a couple of hours of lovemaking) and lots of times (like up to a dozen times over the same couple of hours), so I suspect this is happening because my body is, well, diverting fluid to a place that is not my mouth. I haven't read anybody else describe this, but there might be somebody else out there who would be relieved to know she isn't the only one who has added "water bottle" to her list of sex supplies.
The other thing: A tip regarding laundry. I have found that although my fluid is odorless and colorless when it first comes out, if left on the sheets for a couple of days it develops a pungent smell--not terribly unpleasant, but very pungent--so I don't like to leave the sheets to dry by themselves. Plus it's a little uncomfortable, when you want to fall into a relaxed and exhausted sleep after several hours of lovemaking, to find yourself sleeping in a puddle. So what I do is this: when I make the bed, I put regular comfortable bedding that I like on the bottom. Over that I put a waterproof mattress cover or cloth, then over that something soft and absorbent and easily washable (I like towels or old comforters). Then on top of that a fitted sheet and then a top sheet. THEN (since my lover and I don't get as many nights together as we'd like, and often make love a second time during the night after getting some rest) I do the whole thing again--another waterproof layer, another something soft and absorbent, and another set of sheets on top. Like layers of a cake. It sounds like a lot of work, but this way we don't have to stop and find towels or change the bed during the night--you can just pull off all the wet stuff and toss it to the side and then cuddle down into a nice dry, warm bed. (And if you double it up like I do, you can make love again during the night and toss THAT wet stuff and still have a nice dry bed to finish out the night in.)

Updated 7/04 [F 25] I'm 25 years old and have spent the last year practicing and trying to learn more about female ejaculations and orgasms. I've been pretty confused because one thing that I read seems to contradict another. Reading through your letters on your sight has made me feel so much better, just to know that other men and women have experienced this and that they enjoy it. Up until about one and a half years ago, I rarely reached orgasm. I wasn't even quite sure what a real orgasm felt like, because I really enjoyed sexual activities but never felt like a reached a definite peak. I was pretty determined to learn more about it, so I bought a vibrator. Best thing I ever did! One day I remember how much a gushed and wet my bed, and I was sure that I had urinated somehow. I was a bit embarrassed, but it was so fun and pleasureable that I did it again and again all the time and loved it. I always managed it with vibration on my clit, with hardly any penetration or g-spot stimulation.
When I started dating someone more seriously, though, I was unsure what he would think of it, and had a hard time letting go enough to let it happen. When I was able to, he was pretty excited about the whole thing, which made me feel way better, and finally let me relax and appreciate this. The other cool thing is that I often have serial multiple ejaculations, one after another, up until maybe 10 times so I'm almost exhausted! But a few things about it weren't as easy to deal with. I was very embarrassed about leaving such a wet spot, and I felt like a dumbass bringing a towel to bed or leaving a smelly and wet mess before it was time to go to sleep. (the smell, by the way, has changed for me from time to time, and sometimes it smells more like urine but other times it smells just like what sex or a man's cum might smell like?). We even joked about getting a water proof mattress cover.
The other thing that I think is strange is that I cannot accomplish this during vaginal penetration. If there is anything (a penis, dildo, or fingers) inside me then I push them out when I'm about to cum. So it doesn't work so well for my partner when I'm pushing his penis out of me! I would like to be able to work on this, so that we can both cum together. I definitely need clit stimulation for this... I don't think I've ever experienced an ejaculation from vaginal stimulation. Even the orgasm part of my experience I would say is different than the ejaculation part. I experience the total body peak and pleasure of an orgasm before I experience the ejaculation, and the orgasm part is still the best feeling. Still, I don't know if I feel quite as satisfied somehow until I've cum every little bit I can.
Now I have started dating someone new, and I must admit that I am embarrassed about letting go and having him discover this Niagara experience, because it is a bit messy and shocking, and I hope that he chooses to like it and helps me feel comfortable with it. I'm also really thankful to one of your writers who mentioned farting during sex, because this has happened to me (both a real fart from the anus and a different kind of fart from the vagina) and it's pretty embarrassing. I guess one way to know if you're in a great relationship with someone is whether or not you can really relax and be completely open with each other and love all these little things and laugh together about them.

[F] I just wanted to write and thank you for providing a place to read others experience with FE. I am a 29 year old, mother of five children, who recently experienced FE for the first time and loved it! I must admit to being somewhat shocked initially, but my lover thought it was fantastic and encouraged more......how many more I fail to remember! Our latest encounter was phenominal with me soaking him, myself, and the bed thru many layers of coverings. WOW! Thus far, I only achieve this sort of climax with his fingers inside me, pumping and pressing on what I imagine to be the "G-spot". I feel a warm rush building, then an explosion as the ejaculate escapes my body. The liquid is clear, odorless, and pleasant tasting (he's slurped up a mouthful and passed it on to me) I am greatful to him for bringing me this new sensation and looking forward to more!

Updated 5/04 [M 47] I want to comment on the young woman who feels very bad about her female ejaculation, or extreme wetness, even when just being kissed passionately. My wife was formerly engaged to another man before me, and he was so concerned (and offended) by her wetness that he insisted she go to the doctor. She was told that some women get wetter than others, and that there was nothing to worry about. Well, when we finally got together (and she got rid of the first fiance), I was very happy that she got so wet, and found it a major turn on. As you might imagine, she hasn't been concerned about it since.
I can't say what reaction the gentleman friend of the young woman who wrote last month will have to her or her wetness, except to say that I hope no one is so shallow as to hold it against her, and I encourage her to accept herself as she is, and perhaps, even enjoy it! If she has been to a doctor and is assured that there is no physical problem going on, who knows? She might just find a man who is excited my it as I am.

Updated 4/04 [F] I just learned on this site about female ejaculation. This has been happening to me since I was 25 but I'm too embarrassed to talk about it. So this is the fist time I am being open about it. I wet my bed during sexual intercourse, even if I masturbate. I am just not sure how men feel about it, just recently I met this guy but I think he doesn't like it and this might cause me to lose him. How can I stop this because it happens almost every time I have being touched. Whether it is having my nipples sucked or just rubbing on them. It happens if I am being kissed passionately as well.

Updated 3/04 [F] When you think of ejaculation, you think of a substance forceably shooting from a males' genitals. I have been unsure as to whether or not I just recently began to experience F.E. I started doing some reading on the net and from most of what I have read, female ejaculation is very similair to male ejaculation, except that it can be far more voluminous and obviously, doesn't contain sperm.
I'm not sure exactly where mine is coming from or to what degree it is being 'forced' out, but I do know that neither my husband or I can EVER remember anything like this happening before, in the entire 11 1/2 years we have been together, or with other past partners.
Thanks to your website and numerous letters from others who have experienced this wonderful phenonmenon, I am pretty sure that what I experienced and the gift my husband has given to me, IS in fact the ability to ejaculate,IF it is true that it doesn't have to hit the adjacent wall, that is. LOL!

Updated 11/03 [M 53] I was introduced to female ejaculation when I was in a long-distance relationship a few years ago with a woman that I grew to care deeply for. She revealed that she "gushed" the first time we were intimate,after I gave her a hand job (this was after several love-making sessions that day), and so I reached down between her legs and felt the wetness on her thighs and the wet bed sheets. It turned out that she was somewhat repressed about it, and mostly tried to avoid letting it occur with previous partners, as none of them turned out to be comfortable with her gushing.
However, I was fascinated, and told her how much I loved it when she gushed. This opened her up and we had fantastic sex repeatedly.
In subsequent trysts we never failed to leave wonderful wet spots all over the bed. The second time we were able to meet for a weekend, there a prelude of much discussion between us about this new thing (for me) and we emailed about me shaving her cunt and eating her until she gushed. And that's exactly what we did......with her kneeling over my mouth with her shaved lips right there for me. She rewarded me with a tremendous orgasm and gush that flowed all over my face and ears and wet the hair on the back of my head!
One time I was sucking and lightly biting on her wonderful nipples, and she breathlessly said that she was going to gush, and I just had time to put my hand on her cunt and feel the gush squirting through my fingers.
One of my favorite ways to make love would start with her laying on top of me and kissing for an extended period of time (our kissing was almost the most sensual part of our relationship). Then, I would move down underneath her and torture her nipples with my tongue for a while, and then finally would move down to her smooth cunt. I very much enjoyed her beautiful cunt hovering over my mouth and being able to reach up with my fingers and lightly (sometimes not so lighty) pinch her nipples. It wan't hard to make her gush, and she would ejaculate into my mouth and I would swallow as much as I could. It was a very pleasing nectar. I could always tell when she was about to cum, as she pushed out her stomach and her heavy breathing would be punctuated with moans of pleasure........and then gush! She could be brought to multiple gushes quite easily.
She was quite reciprocal in swallowing cum, as she loved to fellate me until I filled her mouth with mine. We joked how we both loved cum-eating.
Before this relationship with this special woman, I just had no idea about FE. I guess I had read about it, but had not given it much thought, as I had never experienced it. I also had no idea how special it is to pleasure a woman to that degree and to receive such irrefutable evidence of orgasm.

Updated 7/03 [F 33] I am so relieved that female ejaculation is now talked about and in 'out there' known as something different than urination. I am a 33 year old female, and have been experiencing female ejaculation since my first sexual experience, over 20 years ago now. I always felt embarrassed, and my partners unless very sexual beings themselves were shocked if not offended.
Furthermore, I always thought it was the most intense orgasm possible, and created my own ranking system of orgasm intensity. I never felt that my partner and I were achieving good sex unless I ejaculated. I always knew it wasn't urination because I could feel it came from another place altogether, and that there wasn't that much fluid to expel as during urination.
I ejaculate different amounts each time, there is no set amount of fluid. I have noticed I can loose weight easier if I am ejaculating daily however. I wanted to share that, as I suspect the creation of the ejaculate to be somewhat similar in the creation of mother's milk, in that the process burns up loads of calories.
Also, I believe that the ejaculate is created around the clock and not only when a woman is stimulated. I derive this idea based on my own observations of my amount of fluid. For example, if I haven't had sex in a week or so, I will ejaculate more than if I am having sex daily, etc...
Recently, an old college boyfriend asked me how I learned to do that presumably to teach his girlfriend. Since my first orgasm I ejaculated I have no helpful information for those less capable.
I with certainty believe the ability to ejaculate comes with embracing your own sexuality, sensuality, etc... I have always been a person who others can tell has great sex. Friends tell me , "you drip sex". For others wishing to partake in the great pleasure, I believe the road is to first communicate with your body and get to know what it is that gives them pleasure.

Updated 1/03 [F 23] Ha! Eureka even! This should be a good laugh for all of you, but... I'm reading all this with wide eyes. I have had this thing going ever since I had noteworthy sex and, as the naive girl that I was and apparently still am, I just assumed that I THOUGHT I had real orgasms before, but never did. I even interpreted the big-eyed surprise of later lovers as THEM being naive and never experiencing a woman having a real orgasm before! Basically, I went around thinking that just about all women were faking it all the time, probably even without realizing it (that feels kind of good that must be one OH AAAHH you're wonderful dear). This also explains how guys could possibly be buying those fake orgasms in the first place. And why no-one of my friends (more out-spoken then me) were ever complaining about the eternal fuss of the soaked bed. Wow, I used to think of myself as quite intelligent, but this explains so much that I definitely should have figured it out myself.
But... How? First I wet a finger in my mouth, then I very softly massage my clitoris and/or go back and forth over it, with the occasional dip down my vagina to keep everything nice 'n juicy. Might linger around a bit with my fingers and hand depending on what feels good at that time. Nothing special as far as I can tell, nothing to do with no G spot. Usually takes max 15 min.
But actually, when I'm in my bed, I often stop right before I feel I'm getting to the point of ejaculating - just because of the mess and the suspicious smells. (Yes it does smell in my case - not bad and certainly not like urine, but it does have a heavy odor to it. I would say it smells like sex but that might be wrong because I'm actually not so sure what 'normal' sex smells like.) Anyway, I can tell exactly when those juices are coming, and since 99% of the delightful feelings and orgasmic contractions are already there in the 'build-up', I just stop right there. Even though it's essentially one event for me, the right timing results in having this intense orgasmic feeling but not the niagara one.
Tip for niagara girls still living at their parents or sharing a room, or for niagara women who don't feel like telling their bedmates they're masturbating besides having sex with them.
If I feel like it, I might finish it off on the toilet (not too nice), in the shower, or with a towel pushed against my vagina - although it often splashes so much that my bed gets wet after all.. Reason to finish it off is not because the finale is so grand but to get rid of this bulgy feeling - something is filled up down there. Doesn't feel at all like it is my bladder. (LOOKS like urine, but I'm quite sure it's not. The smell is totally different, and the substance differs as well.) I figured it was fluid from my uterus, but judging from the other stories that's probably nonsense....
How To Do This In The Shower: I just point the shower head at full power at my clit - takes only a few secs before I start spraying, even if I haven't touched anything before. Again, no G spot involved. As a matter of fact, I do this nearly EVERY time I shower :) The harder the beam the better - if it's very hard I don't point it directly, but circle around the area, passing my clitoris occasionally. Takes longer but more intensity is build up... hmmmm.....
I'm not fond of one-night-stands and too independent and too much of a traveler to really go for this relationship thing, so I haven't had a lot of sex yet. For now, the mere realization of having someone there will almost set me off - if a guy touches me it may start sprouting out within five seconds. And if he then goes on... and on .... and on.... WOW .... sometimes my whole torso starts quivering. I'm not sure how many of these orgasms I can have in a row or in one night or day, but it's quite a lot. And they're always more and more intense if I'm with a guy. Actually, those occasions I do have sex it basically seems like I'm never quite done. Delightful times.
Never knew how lucky I am - if only because I was never embarrassed about this thing. Only about the occasional small fart if the sex gets even more exceptionally mindblowing. Happened twice. Now THERE'S a turn-off... But even that I don't worry about now - men tend to understand I get totally carried away, and feel more complimented than shocked. That's something I understand better as well now... Thanks people! May these mindblowing orgasms become as natural to you as they are to me.

Updated 8/02 [F 31] I just read the thread about female ejaculation and wanted to add a few things. I am a 31yr old woman who has been experiencing this for about 9 yrs now. This by the way is the age of my child which might be important since I read somewhere once that alot of times woman don't begin experiencing this till they have children and there body learns what it means to 'bear down'. I'm not sure if thats true or not but I do know that when I cum I do experience an uncontrollable urge to push. On more then one occasion I have had a dildo inside at the time and have shot it and the ejaculte out of my body where its gone past the foot board. One of the things nobody really talked about was having this type of orgasm from ONLY clit stimulation. There are only two ways for me to experience this orgasm, from very deep, hard thrusting in the vagina (usually with a dildo) or a vibrator of some type against my clit. If I use this type of stimulation on my clit nothing has to enter me at any point so its not from my g-spot. One last word on experiencing multiples. Last week on the phone my lover (for me my Dom) ordered me to keep going after the first, and the second, in fact kept me cumming over and over again till I begged to stop. I managed to cum 14 times in about 1 hr and each time there was still fluid avaliable. Needless to say the 3 towels and the bed were soaked. Hope this info helps someone out there understand a bit better.

[M] I always like to share new experience with you. My girlfriend and I have oral sex a new way that has made me discover something new. We get naked and I lie on my back while my girlfriend sits on her knees squatting over my mouth. Her pubic hair is shaved, and I get a god look at her vulva. Her labia (inner lips) are firm and start at her clitoris hood and go down around her vagina opening. I lick and suck her labia, put my tounge insde her vagina, and gently suck around her clitoris until it pokes out from beneath its hood. As I do this, she reaches back and plays with my penis and testicles. When her vagina is slippery and wet, I love the taste of her juices, and I move the fluid up to her clitoris as I lick and suck away. Here is the good part. When she has an orgasm, she reaches for her nipples and tugs on them as her lower body jerks in little movements. As this happens a good deal of fluid comes flowing out of her vagina, sometimes on my face, and sometimes I can rub her ! clitoris again and bring her around again. We can do this 69 too. Her on top, and I get a good look at the fluid oozing from the vagina as she comes. I think the contractions in her vagina cause this because her muscles are very strong, and hen we have intercourse, I can feel these contractions on the shaft of the penis.

Updated 3/02 [F 32] In response to the M32 who is trying to make his wife ejaculate, I think every woman is different and so what brings her to FE will be different as well. I am F32 who can be brought to it in a number of ways depending on my mood. When she is able to do it once, she will learn to do it again and pretty soon, with practice, you will be soaked nearly every time!

[F] Don't know why I am writing to you - it's a first!! Just like last week when I ejaculated for the first time. I am 50 years old and have been married for 28+ years. I have a colleague I have been seeing for about 11 years and for the last 2 we have been trying to have the occasional sexual experience. He is also married. It is with him that I experienced ejaculation. Like most women I was embarrassed but he thought is wonderful and so exciting. I am now desperate to experience this again. I am not sure about "letting myself go" with my husband in case he suspects that something different is up. What are your thoughts on this?
This is one of the problems of sex outside of a relationship. JEL

Updated 2/02 [M 42] My wife & I have been married 16 years. Before we'd started dating, I'd heard of females ejaclating in various magazine articles. Nothing turns me on more than watching a woman respond sexually to me, I was determined from the beginning to see if we could make it happen. As a result, she's been ejaculating regularly ever since our 6th month of dating. The time I remember most vividly was the 1st time it happened. We had figured out a real accessible position, where I would lie on my back, and she'd kneel to my right, with her torso across my chest. This put her left nipple in my mouth, her right nipple in my left hand, and my right hand against her vulva. When she'd kneel like that, her lips would open really wide, and her lubrication would flow down over her clit. As we developed our technique with this position, I'd usually work on her nipples real patiently for 20 minutes or so and tease her everywhere I could reach wi! th my right hand, but never touch her clitoris or enter her directly. I'd know it was time to move to her crotch when she'd grind her hips and pin my whole arm against the mattress. At that point, she was usually pretty close to coming. This particular time, however, as I teased her with my right hand, I could feel that her lubrication had already begun in earnest, and had dripped in a steady stream from her vagina to a small puddle she'd started on the mattress. God, what a rush!!! I carefully laid my right middle finger in her slit, spanning the distance from her clit to where my fingertip was just inside her vagina and moved it from side to side against the full length of her slit, soaking my finger. At that point, she spread her knees as wide as she could, and ground her hips against my hand until she'd pinned it against the mattress. Drenched with her vaginal lubrication, I felt her whole vulva swell against my hand and push! from the inside out. She relaxed a bit and brought her hips up, and I followed with my hand, rubbing my 2 fingers all the way up & down her drenched slit lightly but rapidly, and kept this up for maybe 30 seconds. It started happening again, only this time when her vulva started pushing out, I inserted my middle and ring fingers into her vagina. I'd never felt her do this before, her vagina was pushing out, and I could feel her cervix pushing WAY down to where it just inside her vaginal opening. As she pushed against my fingers, I straddled her cervix and worked up towards her G-spot, not really rubbing anything, but just being inside her, giving her something to feel. After about 5 seconds of this I felt a rush of hot fluid rush down my arm, pooling against my elbow. Lots of it. It didn't smell at all like pee, and at that point, I'd realized we'd finally arrived! She proceeded to soak the mattress with at least a hal! f cup over the next 10 minutes. I could tell it was coming from her urethra, and at times I could take my hand away, and she just couldn't stop coming. It was, at the time the best sexual experience either of us had ever had, and she handn't even touched me yet! Over the years, we've worked on this, and as you would imagine, have never gotten bored. We've learned that towels are required, and we keep a drawer full of them by the bed. We've learned that the taste & smell of her ejaculate varies, as does its volume. She can ejaculate sometimes by merely being touched, if properly turned on, and can ejaculate in the course of a 3-minute quickie. There's nothing really consistent in terms of G-spot, cervix, clit, nipples, urethral opening that will always trigger a flood. I just need to figure out what's going to bring her there on any particular night, and works probably 90% of the time. She can do it during oral sex! , as long as I'm playing with her nipples at the same time, and if I'm really careful not to stimulate her too intensely, my wife will come in my face & mouth for up to 30 minutes at a time. There's an enormous number of other outrageous times I can recall between my wife & me, the kind that leave you thinking "I can't believe we did that last night...", but few of them are as vivid as this memory. She's just awesome.

Updated 1/02 [M] I had some great new sex with a new girlfriend and I cant wait to tell you. The thing is I have never seen a woman get so excited before. As we started our sex play we began kissing and this woman stuck her tongue so far in my mouth I was a little shocked but it felt good and she was breathing very hard as we kissed. We undressed and she had great joy playing with my penis and balls as we kissed. She then kissed and sucked my penis and moaned as she did, and this was a turn on as well. The we got nude and I began to play with her nipples and breasts. I could not believe how hard her nipples got! And she got a reddish rash on her chest as I played with her breasts. The dark area behind her nipples were even swollen up as I rubbed them. When I went down on her the fluid just ran out of her vagina like I have never seen before, and her clitoris seemed to get erect like a small penis as it poked out from under its hood. I put my lips around it and gently sucked on it as she squirmed under me. When she had an orgasm she lost her breath and her whole body shook. We then inserted my penis and after only a few thrusts I ejaculated as she dug her nails into my back a little. I have never seen such swollen body parts under sexual stimulation, but this woman got aroused like I have never seen. We have another date on the 10th of this month and I can't wait!!!

Updated 9/01 [F 32] I am a 32 year old woman who has been lucky enough to enjoy the benefits of ejaculation since the age of 19.
The first time it happened (with my Now husband), it freaked me out a little. I thought I had urinated on him, I was so embarrased, but, he didn't mind at all. Afterwards, I did some research and realized I was NOT weird and this was NOT a bad thing.
Now, my husband uses my ejaculation as an indication to himself that he's "hit the spot"! I am very fortunate to have a loving man who wants ME to enjoy sex as much as he does.
If I DON'T leave a huge "wet spot" on the sheets, he is worried that he has failed.
Granted on those marathon nights where we are having a GREAT time...it gets a bit Messy...and more then once BOTH of us end up soaked...But, it's WORTH it!

Updated 6/01 [F] I recently became involved with a 36 year old man who introduced me to the "g-spot" but more importanly the joy of FE. I had never experienced it but have seen it in movies, and never thought I could. From reading other letters I was thrilled to know I am not alone. I was concerned about the amount of fluid and was curious to find out if it was urine. No one seems to know for sure but it does not have the scent or color of urine. In the last week I have experienced for the first time multiple orgasms, one right after the other as he manipulated the 'g-spot', it has been the greatest discovery of my life and I am glad that he found it for me. :) Some things I read said that it was a small amount of fluid. I have always been very lubricated even though recently I had a hystorectomy, I have never lost my ability to be "wet". The FE with each one produce much liquid, sometimes spraying several feet, and the bed ends up soaked most times. I cant get enough and think all women should know about this. I am lucky to have a man who takes the time for ME!

Updated 9/4/00 [M] My wife and I have been together for 15 years. Though we have a good sex life, she's very timid and doesn't trying many adventursome things.
Recently, our second child was born. Once we were able to engage in sex again, something happened that changed our lives. My wife rarely gets wet from manual stimulation, it's only after I put it in that she begins to lubricate. Well, on this night, I was in and she was lubricating. About 10 minutes in, her pussy opened like a tunnel swallowing a truck. I'd never felt her so open and wet. But that was just the start. Soon, I felt something warm just below my tummy. My wife was cumming, hard. She kept coming three or four times. All the time wetting me and the bed.
Now, whenever we have sustained sex, she cums like a bandit. It's great, and it's rejuvenated our sex lives.
Hope others can learn to enjoy this special treat.

Updated 7/1/00 [M 30?] I am a male in my mid 30's. Throughout the years I have had the pleasure of experiencing female ejaculation with a few lovers. 5 to be exact. 4 of which had no idea what it was or had even heard of it. The most recent is a beautiful woman in her 20's that I love very much. She has just left her husband and the very controlling issues that were in that marriage. She told me she didn't not know if she had ever had an orgasm let alone squirted. Within a few weeks of our first sexual encounter, she had an orgasm by me licking her clitoris and inserting a finger. About 2 months later, while doing the same thing, she finally squirted. I kept telling her to try to push my fingers (index and middle) out of her vagina and use a controlled breathing technique. It's the same thing that worked on previous women. Only this girl squirts better than the rest. She has now learned how to respond to what her body is feeling to where she can now squirt within in 5 minutes of initial penetration of my fingers. And she doesn't just squirt once! Usually there is a total of 3-5 squirts during one orgasm. And she can do this about 6-8 times. Then we have a brief rest, smoke a cigarette or whatever, and then I want to make her squirt again. It is an addiction. Sometimes she says she cant take anymore. That's the wrong thing to say to me. That just inspires me to try harder. That's usually when the biggest squirts occur. All of this works best in the missionary position, or her sitting on the edge of the bed with her legs spread wide open. Then after just a few squirts, I like to get up and slide my cock into her and watch her squirt all ove the top of my cock. It is the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced with the most beautiful woman I have ever met in my life. In closing I would like to say...Gentlemen, take the time to try some of my techniques and BE PATIENT! Ladies...relax, breathe and try to force his fingers out of your pussy and concentrate on the sensations your body giving you. It will all COME out in the end. Happy Squirting Everyone.

Updated 4/30/00 [M] Kat and I have had a long distance relationship for a little over a year now. We have been able to get together for two to three days almost once a month. From our first encounter (The Great April Fool Flood of 99), female ejaculation [FE] was part of our life together. In the beginning, the floods only occurred after G stimulation but with her now on top while leaning back to control the motion and angle. Although some floods continued to happen, nothing really came close to the volume that had occurred on the first encounter and also they were rather infrequently and unpredictably. It was an added and pleasing bonus for us, but not necessarily an important part of our truly sensational multi-orgasmic sexual activities. The important part was that we had begun to explore the subject on the Internet and had started to experiment and enjoy the possibilities.
The next phase just happened to include verification of the source of the FE. Since G stimulation had also been part of our original encounter with intense orgasmic results, it continued to be part of our activities. At some point the FE began to happen with just the G play and the "palm full" method verified that the urethra was definitely the origin. Amounts varied from just a few drops to several tablespoons. Again nothing was completely repeatable, but did start to occur much more often and with some predictability. She was beginning to FE with some regularity. FE even began to happen in some very interesting positions during intercourse. The wet spots were mostly quite small but some were quite significant. The importance part of this phase was that Kat had begun to explore, analyze, and fully experience the feelings and sensation that were happening in her body. She was beginning to know the feelings associated with the buildup period that was sometimes followed by the exhilaration of release.
FE had been an isolated event, occurring as single isolated events during very intense, exciting, and pleasurable encounters that lasted from two to four hours and was sometimes repeated several times in a day. Exploration, open and honest communication, and a sense of complete trust had also be part of our nature from the beginning. Kat is a very small lady, 5'2" at most 105#, but her state of trust and relaxation was so complete that we were able to do "fisting" on our final encounter of this last weekend. This was a very intense and surprising experience. As she was starting to come down from the high, she began to feel the buildup and then the release of FE. After the third wave of such of feeling, she spread her legs somewhat, while I spread the lips to watch. As I knelt between her legs, I did have the best seat in the house. For the next 45 minutes, about every 20 to 45 seconds, she allowed wave after wave after wave after wave to sweep over her. With such visibility, the source could never again be questioned. As I watched, transfixed, in complete awe and fascination, some ejaculations would get but a few inches while the next one would rise high in the air and reach maybe 18 inches. After a few minutes, the volume and distance of several ejaculations would increase dramatically. As I sat between her legs, I was also starting to be occasionally sprayed on the chest and abdomen by these more intense ejaculations. I mostly just knelt there and watched in utter amazement, but, YES, I did manage to lean forward, open my mouth, and occasionally catch a spray of this pure nectar. I think my most intelligent comment during this whole time, was something like "ooooooohhhhhhh my!!!" At one point, when I had moved aside, she laughed at seeing a particularly high one, and the laugh itself, caused the next one to nearly reach the far corner of the bed, about four feet away.
You have to realize this whole 45 minutes occurred with no sexual stimulation, other than that she would occasionally ask me to press with my hand on her lower abdomen. She was also not in an orgasmic state. She was somewhat euphoric, almost a blissful state with a look of pure pleasure and lots of satisfied smiling. Eventually I was beginning to be concerned for her, because of the volume of fluids that had been expelled. Needless to say, we were not prepared for this event, and over a third of this hotel king-size bed was thoroughly soaked and the wet spot spread had become enormous. (We did turn the mattress and strip the bed) At some point we both began to be wonder about how to end such a dramatic and totally unexpected display. She finally decided that getting up might allow her to break the cycle and change her focus. As strange as it seems, the first thing she did was go to the bathroom and PEE. Not surprisingly, several more FE's occurred while she was there. Please don't anyone assume that by now she doesn't know the difference.
I know that many will doubt or even suggest the impossibility of this event. I know, because I have doubted most of the reports I have seen this last year. One thing, I have come to understand is how much variation there is in this incredible experience of FE. Each experience is so unique for the woman involved. We have read many reports this last year and none have described our experience but many showed the possibilities. Even more surprising is that there is no real path to follow and no one can make a woman FE or should set goals for her. If that person is lucky enough, patient enough, and trusted enough, they may be fortunate enough to allow it to happen.

[M] I feel a tremendous boost of confidence, or ego boost if you will, when my partner ejaculates. Although some men find this disturbing, like men are the only ones that are supposed to ejaculate. To me this simply means that I am "DOING SOMETHING RIGHT." I for one have no problem with this, "I LOVE IT." For those males that have a problem "GROW-UP." I mean you expect the women to not only to accept and deal (swallow) your ejaculate, but you will not do the same, selfish-selfish-selfish is all I have to say.

Updated 3/3/00 [M] I have had the pleasure of meeting a woman of incredible beauty and passion who has the most exquisite Female Ejaculation's imaginable. We are both divorced, in our 40's and extremely sensual, sexual, and comfortable with each other from the beginning. The first time we were "intimate" with each other was eye opening for me. We were kissing, petting and becoming extremely aroused together. I penetrated her with my finger, circled her cervix for my bearings and then touched her G spot with a light touch of my index finger. She had a Female Ejaculation which astounded me...she "sprayed" with such intensity that my shirt sleeve, up to my shoulder was drenched. She had never had an Female Ejaculation before. I had never been privileged to share in such an event. I am an MD who had heard about the phenomena, but never experienced it first hand. She was somewhat shocked, perhaps embarrassed, but she said that she had never orgasmed like that before. Well....I felt pretty special and of course, I was very interested in the physiology...how did it work, what made it work, how often would it work etc....Not just "guy" mentality....but somewhat uncharted human sexual physiology (especially for me). More importantly, I wanted to learn as much as I could about how to make my love happy, contented and soaked!
I love to bring my love to orgasm...Female Ejaculation are not the only types of orgasms she experiences, but she says that they are special to her because I am the only person that could do it to her. I doubt that sincerely. However, I have found that stimulation of her Gspot is much more likely than anyother type of stimulation to cause her to Female Ejaculation. Interestingly, her G spot changes during sexual stimulation. I can tell when she is going to have an Female Ejaculation because the G spot becomes slightly raised....maybe an eighth of an inch in height and it becomes "bumpy" with small smooth raised areas which are maybe the size of rice krispies. When I rub on the G spot when it is raised, within a very short period of time, she will squirt. Sometimes, the "raised" G spot will stay that way and she will have another Female Ejaculation-orgasm, and maybe another etc. etc. I really have never counted the number of FE-orgasms in a row, or in a length of time, or in a night, but I do know that my love can have quite a few in a row....She may squirt a bit less on subsequent FE-orgasms after the first...but I have seen her have a string of Female Ejaculation-orgasms and then the final Female Ejaculation-orgasm had about a cup of ejaculate for a grand finale. I truly love to make her feel so good and have so much pleasure. I also know, that when her G spot isn't in the raised or "bumpy" state, that she will not have a Female Ejaculation-orgasm, although she can have non Female Ejaculation-orgasms. I have been trying to figure out how to make the G spot "raised" and "bumpy" when its not. Clearly, sexual excitement, foreplay, stimulation, oral attention etc can make it bumpy but once it goes flat, how can it be pumped up? I think that sometimes, it can be pumped up again by general vaginal stimulation and exploration with my fingers. I think that sometimes stimulation or pressure of the back wall of the vagina (directly in from of the anus) and stimulation of the front wall of the vagina at the top of the vagina (beyond the G spot and in front of the cervix) can make the G spot bumpy again.
For my love, clearly Female Ejaculation comes (no pun intended) most easily from G spot stimulation. The intensity and the volume of the Female Ejaculation varies considerably and doesn't seem to be directly related to the intensity of the orgasm. (I think)...but sometimes it is hard for me to gauge the intensity of my loves' orgasm.
I love to share in her Female Ejaculation-orgasms. I love to see how many "spots" we can make in the bed at night (and no...I never did count them)! I believe that the most impressive Female Ejaculation-orgasm that I was privileged to be party to occurred when we were in a 69 position (her on top and facing the foot of the bed). She had an Female Ejaculation from oral stimulation and finger G spot stimulation that squirted about 3 feet, hit the bedroom wall and left a large spot on the pillows, my face and drenched my hair. All I could say was WOW!

Updated 2/1/00 [M51] This is a topic that has long interested me. I divorced almost 20 years ago and never remarried. For the first 10 years following the divorce I was like a kid in a candy store. I dated and slept with a very large number of women. I had read about women who could ejaculate and even "saw it" in a couple of porno tapes, but I frankly thought that it was probably an oddity and that I would probably never see it.
Over the past ten years I have had two long term relationships. The first lasted 4 years, and the current one has now been going on for six years. I am pleased to say that both women are squirters. The first woman probably squirted the same volume as my current lover, but it did not really squirt out of her pussy, but really dribbled out. After a love making session you could see the fluid leaking from her pussy. Make no mistake, she literally flooded the bed. The term wet spot took on a whole new meaning. On many occassions I would bring her to orgasm by going down on her and then lap up the sweet juices that flowed from her pussy. I will tell you that it took a lot of work to bring her orgasm. And she only squirted when I either inserted my finger and vigorously rubbed her G-spot or in the missionary position with her knees up around her ears. Both methods required long, long sessions. But she could go all night if I could.
My current lover on the other hand is the most easily orgasmic woman I have ever known. I oftern have to slow her down or she can come with 30 seconds of intercourse. She is more fun to make love to than any woman that I know. She squirts copious amounts of fluids on about half of her orgasms. It is not always the same position or method of foreplay that gets this result. She really sprays her ejaculation. If I pull out before she comes when she is in the missionary position and I stay on my knees between her legs , she will actually spray on my chest and stomach. This usually makes me so excited that I shoot on her belly and breasts. Both of us get soaked. When she squirts it really seems to take it out of her. She is just exhausted. We can usually only make love once that night because she cannot take any additional stimulation to her pussy.
This is the most sexually satisfying and stimulating relationship that I have ever had.

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