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Updated 1/09 [M] I must thank you a million times as you have helped me to clear up my mind.... I am male, 24, married.... last week end as I licked my wife, she came and I since she was too hot, she didn't let me take my head off her vaginal area and and she made me drink her juices... later both of us regretted, my wife felt ashamed that she made me lick her "piss"..... she felt sorry !!!! But after reading your collection of letters of female ejaculation... now we are both convinced that it was her ejaculation and not piss that I drank the other day.
Now I have started to lick her and continue licking her till she gives me my favorite drink.... her juices..... and I am now so much addicted to her juices that sometimes she teels me she would piss while trying to ejaculate..... and I reply.... "I am ready to drink your piss too, if I get a chance to drink your ejaculation"
As one of your contributors said, females have natural gift and if men don't drink female ejaculation, they would repent what they missed/// so true, all men must drink as much female juices as possible.....
Updated 12/08 [F] (F) Since I have learned to ejaculate my cum, my husband and my sex lives have improved greatly. Even though we are older, we are enjoying sex more often with greater passion and taking a lot more time to do it. Oral sex has become just as important as intercourse.
My husband's attitude toward sex has changed
dramatically. We used to just fuck but now we make passionate love again. My
orgasms are more intense since I found out that a women needs to push out like
when trying to pee in order to squirt her cum. It made all the difference in
the world. I didn't know the urge to pee was my readiness to ejaculate. I can
ejaculate with intercourse but it's best for me when my husband eats me after
intercourse and my cunt is filled with a considerable amount of his cum. This
makes sucking and licking my clit very slippery and especially exciting for both
of us. It's easier for me to squirt large quantities of cum and with a greater
force. This is what excites my husband.
He loves drinking the sweet tasting ejaculate and will frequently, with my encouragement, continue eating my pussy getting me to orgasm
and squirt several more times. I don't have the multiple squirting orgasms with
intercourse like i do with oral sex. We enjoyed our squirting success for many
months now and have been very happy.
One time after a very long fucking and
sucking session we were lying there relaxing and I told him I had to get up to
pee like I usually do after sex. He said "do It here I want to taste it". I
did, it was pee and he not only tasted it, but drank some of it. I was very
surprised he would do that but I enjoyed it. He explained that drinking my pee
was taboo and very kinky for most people and for him to do it made what was
already an exciting experience even more exciting. He doesn't want to drink my
pee often but occasionally he will ask for a golden treat.
We have intercourse usually twice a week and usually one of those times my husband eats me out so I can squirt. I love the intensity of my squirting orgasms and my husband loves to drink whatever I squirt for him.
Updated 11/08 [F 47] I started to ejaculate about 3 yrs. ago. The first time like everyone else I thought I'd lost control of my bladder. My husband assured me there was no urine. A couple of days later while sitting on the edge of the couch with my husband fingering me and sucking on my clit the pressure from his fingers made me feel an incredible urge to push.....so I did Wow! I gushed so much I wet his entire face chest and stomach not to mention the floor. I ended up squirting twice more before having a clitoral orgasm. Through a lot of really fun research and internet research I've found that a squirting orgasm for me anyway is different from a clitoral orgasm. I have however had both happen at the same time, but, I don't ejaculate as much. That's my 2 cents.
Updated 10/08 [F 31] I'm a 31 year old woman who has sort of "accidentally" had a few squirting orgasms in the past, but recently they started occurring more frequently. I started reading up on it, and "practicing" and now I am able to squirt and gush massive quantities of clear liquid several feet fairly easily and pretty much at will at this point. I've read a lot of stupid comments about female ejaculation on the internet from people who don't understand their own bodies enough to believe this is plausible, let alone a fact, which it is. I use the Fertility Awareness Method (FAM) and am aware of my cycle intimately, and the way a woman's cervical fluid changes and becomes more abundant close to ovulation. A woman who uses her kegels can expel creamy fluid from her cervix around ovulation, but this is completely different from female ejaculation.
[M] I met a lady who I’ve been dating now for a year and half. Shortly after we started dating and before we even had sex, she referred me to your website and then told me that she squirted. I could hardly contain myself, but she warned me that her X-husband complained that her ejaculation was only pee. Well, this seems to be a half truth in that my quick research including your website, indicates that ‘pee’ is perhaps only part of FE in larger volumes. I for one especially love the taste of her enormous bursts of ecstasy, savoring every last drop. I’m talking about a volume the size of her bladder which I understand is about 16 fluid ounces. There is no doubt that a woman cannot produce that amount of ejaculate, but her bladder probably fills rapidly with clear fluid and mixes with her ‘cum’ in the anticipation of squirting with the intense pleasure it produces while she experiences orgasm. I compare the taste described one previous contributor of this forum, that the flavor is very similar to Captain Crunch cereal. Sometimes after she continues to squirt after I ejaculate my semen inside her, she sucks my balls and cock until I achieve multiple orgasms. She describes the combined taste of my semen and her ejaculate as ‘butter scotch’. Perhaps the most erotic pleasure we achieve is after I drink her dry, I’ll continue to lick her pussy, down her perineum and finally maneuver my tongue into her butt-hole while she then masturbates to orgasm, drenching my face and tongue with even more juice. I swear, her butt-hole tastes sweeter than a ‘tootsie roll’; hard to imagine, but it is really true in my experience!
Updated 6/08 [M 62] My wife and I have recently discovered female
ejaculation. She has learned to squirt a huge volume
of liquid and has the most success when I'm licking or
massaging her clit. It's a wonderful turn on for both
of us, but my wife worries that her expulsion is at
times urine. Most of the time her cum is colorless
and taste sweet and I eagerly drink as much as I can.
After we are done, she inspects the saturated towel
and at times the liquid is yellow with a faint smell
of urine. This is not a problem for me because even
if it is urine, with the excitement of our love
making, I enjoy whatever she squirts. He seems to be
a problem for her thinking I only do it to please her.
I do want to please her, but I'm having trouble
convincing her that if there is some urine in her
ejaculate it is fine with me and to relax and let
whatever she squirts come out and enjoy the orgasm.
She believes urine if swallowed can be harmful to me.
I've read that urine is sterile and in small amounts
isn't harmful.
[F 58] About a
year ago my husband and I learned about female
ejaculation, but more specifically squirting. My
husband loves it and it has improved our sex lives.
It took a lot of practice and coaching for me to learn
how to squirt my cum. Now i can produce a huge volume
of liquid but only if he is eating my pussy. The
first time I squirted was after he told me to try and
pee in his mouth. He assured me I wouldn't pee but if
I did that it was ok with him. What we do now is have
intercourse, he goes down on me and uses his cum to
lubricate my clit to make it real slippery. Then
after 10 min. or so I orgasm and to his delight squirt
my cum into his eager mouth. I started having a
fantasy to really pee in his mouth. I decided to try
and do so. I drank lots of water before having sex
and had to pee before we did it. It wasn't long
before I was squirting and gushing huge amounts of pee
into his mouth and all over the bed. I apologized for
what i did , but to my surprise, he was really turned
on by it. Now sometimes I cum and sometimes I pee.
My husband likes it either way and so do I.
Updated 11/07 [M] While reading the fabulous and the "tasty" comments by females I recollected one of m fantasies where I find my-self being used by lesbians to clean them off after they had played. I used to fantasize that a lesbian couple uses me to lick and clean all their juices (and at that time I had a myth that FE occurred only in lesbo sex.... reasons are unknown even to me why I had that notion).
[M] Let me tell you, my wife can squirt litres. It started about 10 months ago. We had been watching Family Business, a tv program about Seymour Butts and one episode showed squirting. My wife was intrigued, so we tried. It took a bit a first, but once both of us knew what to do, she squirts all the time. She squirts with intercourse, finger stimulation and even oral. We lay two beach towels on the bed covered with an absorbant mat, the kind they have in hospital. The mat weighs a few pounds after she's done. She loves going into the shower stall and lifting one leg and holding up against the wall as she masturbates and squirts all over the shower. Most sessions last about 2 hours and she'll come vaginally, clitorally and squirting.
Updated 10/07 [M 60s] I found this site showing female ejaculation pictures. Many are unbelievable showing women literally shooting this clear thick fluid out of there pussies. Many are masturbating and the pictures are very arousing with them laying back spread legged and showing everything beautifully. One of the things I most have a problem with believing is the amount they are ejaculating, if this is real. I have been with many women having different forms of sex during my years and have never seen anything like this. Of course, most I've been with certainly become very wet down there during foreplay as long as I give it enough time. My only problem with this was the times I'd be so dying to get my penis inside them that I'd rush things. If there are some women who do ejaculate like some in these pictures, all I know is they'd sure have to use some sort of mat under there business end every time they perform a sex act in there beds or they'll sure have one heck of a large wet area to lay in and sleep. In my experience, all I and my partners have had to lay in is some small wet areas and lots of this was my semen. Not her "cum", as this site calls it. I have always associated cum with semen as has the female partners I've had over the years. Just hoping some of the lady readers will write in and let me know. Also, male readers who have seen this. I'd sure like to know one way or the other.
Updated 8/07 [M] While surfing around recently I came upon a drawing of the female apparatus during four stages of orgasm.
Updated 7/07 [F 39] I recently found out I could have a squirting ejaculation. I was coached by a guy I talked to online. I was amazed and shocked. I had heard of it before but figured I was one who just didn't have it in me. He told me how to masturbate and stroking the g-spot would help so I did what he said and thankfully I was sitting on a towel because I squirted a lot. I was shocked and when I told him what happened he said good....we are going to do it again. I came 4 times in 40 minutes...squirting 3 times. It was a day of firsts for me...multiple orgasms, squirting. I don't think I will ever forget that day or that guy!!
[M 53] I just wanted to comment on and share my experience with female ejaculation. After reading many of the responses on your site it seems that most women are like my wife and did'nt seem to find out about it until they had been having sex for thirty or forty years. I think it should be one complete chapter in any sex ed class. Young women should be told that it is OK to let go when you feel the pressure of an orgasm building up. I have been married to my hot wife for thirty one years and we have been having sex for almost thirty two years. It was the third time I went down on my wife that she got so excited that she lost total control and her pussy explode all over my face. At first I pulled back but then after licking my lips I realized it wasn't pee it was incredibly sweet and to her amazement I went back for more. She kept saying she was sorry, I kept telling her to never apoligize for feeling that good.
updated 6/07 [M]I will have to agree with the writer of 5/7 in that the ejaculate coming from a female has to originate from the entire vagina. My wife ejaculates frequently (once she found out it wasn't urine) usually when I kiss her clit and at the same time finger the inside of her vagina. The amount of juice is impressive and flows rapidly. I almost always swallow her cum and I have to constantly and rapidly swallow to keep up with the amount she gives me. Any guy guy who has not tried this needs to. Female ejaculate tastes wonderful to me and I can never really get enough. It is not sticky and salty like a man's cum, but has it's own unique taste.
I cannot cum first myself until she does or she will get turned off and not be able to cum. After she comes, I will penetrate her, play with my cock inside of her and cum - this will make her orgasm again and again - she will frequently orgasm 4 to 5 times this way. I love it.
[M] In my previous comment, I mentioned that the vagina clearly expands (loosens) around the cock at the moment the gush starts. Even as I was writing that, altho
I know it to be true from personal experience, I realized it may trouble some
doubters - why should a tight cunt, especially those strenghtened with
Kegel training, suddenly loosen?
[M] In the early '70s my lady was a very strong gusher and was developing good Kegel talents. If that combination is heaven, I'll take it!
Updated 5/07 [M] I am distressed at the prevalence of the myth that all the ejaculate comes from the small Skene's gland which, like the bladder, can discharge through the urethra. As a man with experience, I am sure that most of the heavy quantity
comes from somewhere deep in the vaginal tract. Most of my EJ experience is with
fucking rather than oral or finger fun. I can attest that there is a feeling of
the vaginal walls loosening (probably they are actually spasmodically
expanding), and the discharge is felt first deep in the vagina. Then it can be
felt migrating the long distance along my shaft to the outlet (vulva). Only then
is the discharge felt on the testicles, inner legs etc. If the emanation was
from the urethra, there is no way it could first get deep into the vagina! In
fact, I doubt than any more than a few drops could make it 'swimming upstream'
into the vagina.
Updated 4/07 [M 50] Thanks you for the positive forum you provide on FE. I am a 50 year-old male who has recently divorced. During the last 2 of my 12-years of marriage, I made several suggestions to my wife about the concept of FE. What I found was absolutely no interest on her part and even though I was hopefully not just being selfish, thinking that FE was something just for me to experience, I really thought that this was something my wife had been holding back during years of lovemaking. Every time I would get her to the point of release, she would cut me off, so to speak, stopping me from oral or manual stimulation of her G-spot and clitoris.
Updated 1/07 [M] I have an absolute fetish about vaginal wetness. I once had a wife who got so wet that by the time she came (she was on top) she had soaked the bed. At first I thought she had peed but there was no urine. Those little clear droplets at the introitus are an unbelievable turn on for me. I am not free to meet any of these women now but reassure them that the wetness is terribly sexy.
Updated 12/06 [M] I am very interested in reading what others have to
say about female ejaculation, particularly the methods
writers have used to achieve ejaculation from their
partner. Most have specified either oral sex or
clitoral stimulation etc. My experience has been a bit
different. I am 58 years old and my wife is 50. We
have been married for 28 years and enjoy a full and
varied sex life. A few years ago, I started to read
about female ejaculation and found the idea
tremendously exciting.
Updated 7/06 [M 43]
My wife and I have been lovers for more than 20 years and for the last 2 years she has enjoyed ejaculating. Previously after one or two orgasms she would say stop I have to go to the toilet, however she has learned to keep going now and that the sensation was actually onset of ejaculation.
Updated 4/06 [M] I'm a very happily married man and I love to make my wife squirt.
Updated 3/06 [M 67] I am a male aged 67. Married for 44 years to a wonderful woman. I have been perusing your section on Female Ejaculation with great interest as it is a phenomenon that has only come to my attention in the last 6 months.
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A lot of comments I've read about women who think they have ejaculated sound more like cervical fluid discharge by the description of the substance that these women give. For me, I can ejaculate repeatedly, with increasing amounts of fluid, many many times and not have a typical "orgasm" at all sometimes, or sometimes it's all mixed up, with me cumming, then ejaculating, cumming again, ejaculating again, and sometimes cumming and ejaculating at the same time. I've done quite a bit of research on female ejaculation, and studies have shown that the fluid expelled during female ejaculation, which is very watery with a opaque creaminess dashed in sometimes (this can also vary depending on point in cycle from what I've observed), is not urine, as some people mistakenly believe. The chemical make-up of the fluid is closer to semen (without the sperm) than it is to urine.
When I first started squirting, I was squirting all over my bed, floor, walls, mirrors, chairs, in the shower... Okay, I still do it... I regularly drench everything I own, as the adrenaline of ejaculating is quite addictive. NEVER does it look like urine or smell like urine, it also dries essentially like water, no staining after it dries on sheets for example, although usually the sheets are too drenched to sleep in. I "discovered" the ability to squirt at will after drenching a partner's sheets to the point where only the tips of the corners of the bed were dry. I ejaculated repeatedly, and after researching the topic, figured out an important contributing factor to the whole thing... the clenching and releasing of the kegel muscles, which sort of "pump" the g-spot/prostate which fills with fluid. Extreme arousal also helps.
This night of the dry corners I was with a man who had a relatively thin cock, but he was uncut and had a lovely foreskin, which is my biggest turn on.
Now I can sort of "milk" my g-spot by clenching, filling myself up inside, and stimulate my clit. The more turned on I am (clitoral stimulation, the idea of a beautiful intact cock, etc) the easier it is for me to fill up, I can feel when there is something to release, and I just bare down a bit, and I will start squirting a huge stream of ejaculation. I've learned to aim this pretty well now.
I can achieve ejaculation several ways. One way is to just use my kegel muscles to fill myself up and stimulate my clit. Another way is to use a vibrator on my clit. One of the most effective and hottest ways I've found is to use a small mini vibrator, just a very small egg shaped one (mine has a little remote connected by wire). I "suck" this up into my vagina and move my kegels around it. I got the idea one day to try to "shoot" out the little vibrator with my muscles and it shot out forcefully and quite far along with a stream of ejaculation.
I also sometimes use a vibrator on my clit when doing this, then drop the vibrator, spread open my lips, shoot the egg out, and start streaming ejaculation. I've read some women can ejaculate up to 2 cups, and I have seen close to this come out (I just got the idea to try to shoot into something and measure it...!) The thing is, the fluid regenerates itself fairly quickly, so I can continue to do this over and over until I'm pretty much exhausted, then I usually decide to just have a "regular" orgasm, and that will usually satiate me for a while. If I just ejaculate though, I seem to want to keep going and going.
I've read that strong kegels are essential in squirting. I first started doing kegel exercises about ten years ago. I was young, and learning the isometric internal crunches took a lot of work, but now I do it all the time, just for the heck of it, or during sex, and it is very simple and natural for me. I think that a woman who cannot isolate her kegels will still be able to "ejaculate" but I think she will have to work on strengthening her muscles for any "squirting" (by that, I mean getting some distance and power behind her ejaculation).
I think there are several important factors in whether or not a woman can squirt. First of all, from my research, a woman needs to actually have "skene" glands, and apparently, not all women have them. So, a woman in fact may not be biologically able to squirt, or even orgasm 'regularly'. Sometimes these glands can also be blocked. Some women who cannot orgasm at all may be missing these glands also (or may not be able to cum for other reasons, psychological, etc). Personally, I had my first orgasm at 9 and have never had a problem reaching orgasm, so apparently my skene glands are quite frisky. Other important factors are health, stamina, kegel control and being comfortable enough to really let it fly...
And one day while my friend's wife was admitted in a hospital for her delivery , and I was there for any help with my friend's wife.(In India you need a person to attend to in such cases). At night my friend was with his wife and I was in the lounge reading the mags lying there. I was reading about FE and the lady doctor saw me, My face must be red as she guessed what I was thinking. It was a non-erotic article with diagrams.
I said that it was an impossible phenomena to occur. The doctor argued it was for real.
And soon the topic opened up and I said a female cannot even wet her panty fully and you talk of showering ejaculations. Doctor said her panty was dripping and I just remarked-show me.
She said feel it. I felt it with hands under her skirt and licked my fingers
She smiled.
And after five minutes, I found my self tasting her juices in her private rest room. And then a little later, I got a few squirts. She said it was her ejaculation, but I said i was her piss due to its little salty taste. She made me lick her back for a while and then her clitoris.
After fifteen minutes of my tongue tip and her clit-tip in an intense cross functional meeting that she widened her thighs....... And I tasted the first shot , a mouthful of her juices, I thought it was piss, but nah, it was odor less, without much saltiness and a bit lubricating type then another gush similar to plain water with a mild taste.
I drank about 2-3 tumblers of her ejaculation.
I dare say females are treasure of Naturally bestowed beautities. Every man must drink female ejaculation else man would repent for what they have not tasted in their life. It's very tasty and fulfilled and gives you a feeling of passionate bonding with the female.......
One or two of the stages includes a definite expansion of the vaginal
canal. This explains, exactly, what I used to feel when Lois was coming.
It also explains why the heavy quantity of ejaculate can get past an
imbedded penis. And it may very well hold a key to where most of the
ejaculate comes from. The expansion of the vaginal walls may cause them to
clench, releasing what in other parts of the body would be called mucosa -
fluid from the membranes.
BTW, Lois was the second lady friend I knew who was a gusher. The first was
Sandi, a pediatric nurse who was my first steady squeeze after my divorce.
Whereas Lois was already gushing when I met her, Sandi started during our
time together. I suspect she may have been coached by an older, very
knowledgeable nurse friend. She was my first experience with FE, and she
surely ruined a mattress.
Point of the above is that it is NOT necessary to induce FE by manipulation
of the G-spot, as recently said unless you excised that part. It just
requires an O of monstrous intensity, enough to make the vaginal walls
clench and give up their nectar. (Gordon's theory.)
But I indirectly taught them both how to constrict the PC muscle. This was
in the '60s when the G-spot was just being talked about. Most people,
including me, had no idea where it was or how it worked. There was an
excellent 'marriage manual' by some Minnesota Dr.; I think his name might
have been Eichenlaub but not sure. He gave very explicit instructions for
how to develop the PC without any external device. I first loaned the book
to Sandi. She made no comment, but about six weeks later she sprang the
trap! And I'm gonna tell you, it was STRONG! The Kegelmaster people say
it's impossible to develop a lot of strength without a 'load' to exercise
against, same as lifting weights. I would agree had I not had these two
lady friends. Sandi could squeeze and hold so hard it almost hurt! Later I
loaned the book to Lois and she got comparable results.
I would like to see how each of these women would do with the Kegelmaster.
Can you say crushed penis?
From that day on every time I would eat her pussy, which is at least once a week, I would do everything I could to please her and get her to squirt all over me. A year ago she read a couple of articles in magazines about female ejaculation and finally the embarrassment of squirting all over me is gone. After all these years of telling her it was completely natural and to just let herself go when she comes she has finally started to enjoy her orgasms rather then trying to repress them. Now she asks me to eat her pussy and rub her G-spot so she can give me all her sweet come over and over again. Now we have a cabinet full of G-spot vibrators, which for all you guys out there make wonderful prostrate stimulators, make sure to use a condom, I recommend ultra ribbed ones. We also had to go to the Libirator web site and get one of their water proof throws to protect the bed and floor. After two or three orgasms she is usually asking me to stop eating her for awhile and give her my cock which I'm more than happy to do. So after licking her clean I slide my cock into that wet pussy . If I'm lucky and can hit her G-spot long enough she will squirt all over me which in turn gets me so excited I cum in her, but it doesn't end there. I've learned something to. That my cum and her cum taste wonderful together and I can't get enough of the combination. So guys the next time you shot a load in your lover go down and eat that pussy it not only tastes and feels wonderful but I've learned that eating your own cum can revive your sexual energy in minutes. So ladies please let go,us guys like getting wet so please SQUIRT, SQUIRT, SQUIRT.
By chance I ran across this comment on another forum:"Even though my wife has been doing Kegel exercises since the late 70s (she used to teach workshops), after a good gush, her vaginal tightness goes from excellent to loose almost instantly."
That tends to support my theory (shared by a few others) that the bulk of FE
discharge is wrung from the vagina walls, just like wringing out a soaked towel.
I'm beginning to think that I am one of the few men who enjoys FE while
fucking. I read so much about mouth and finger work. For me, those things are
fine, but are only the hors d'ouvres - fucking, long and strong, is the main
course. Of course it's easy for me to say that because I have been endowed with
exceptional equipment which gives fucking an added dimension (pun intended)
which makes it a sublime pleasure for both partners.
At one O, when I felt the sweet fluid bathe my imbedded cock I exclaimed, "OH! It's HOT!"
Well, the usual few screams that usually announced a gushing O went on - and on
- and on. Every breath was a sharp scream, and they were coming machine-gun staccato. I
was congratulating myself for a direct hit on the most erogenous zone - the mind.
In the after-talk she did comment appreciatively on "what you said!" But that
was not the whole story. She went on to say that I had hit a 'nerve or something' that just
about drove her crazy, which was why her O was so long. I began trying
to help her figure it out, and was convinced the 'nerve' must have been her
clit. But she said no, it was inside at the top, and she couldn't understand it
because I was 'not in very far' when it happened.
Of course I now know it was her G. What had happened is that I had been teaching
her to be more active with her pelvic region - whip it around from side to side,
up and down etc. She was catching on very well and loved it, especially my most
appreciative reactions. (I love giving the lady a feeling that she is in
control; I love the power-sharing concept of sex.) She said it happened when she
was 'pulling back' on my cock. What she meant by that was that she had tilted
her pelvis hard upward, putting the cock in a delicious squeeze altho forcing
part of the length out. Since the insertion wasn't very deep, it put the head
right on the
G.
So she got perhaps her first G-spot O, even tho she was a prolific gusher. This
addresses the point that many think G-spot stimulation is essential for FE.
It is not. All that is essential is a very hard O in which the walls of the
vagina convulse; they actually harden, expelling the FE. Here is a lady who was a heavy
gusher, yet she had never discovered her G. And I was not any help at that time.
I may have heard of the G-spot, but had no idea where to find it, and
how powerful it is. There she was trying to figure out, with my help, what was
the 'nerve' that had been hit that forced her into an unusually fierce, hard O that
likely awakened all the neighbors for a block in every direction. I knew then
that we were safe - if that didn't bring the police to save the woman being killed,
I knew that nothing would.
It was the same situation with an earlier lady, who learned to gush during our
relationship. Even tho she was a nurse, neither of us had any idea what or where a G-spot was, and how it worked. Oh, if I only knew then what I know now! How much more fun we
could have had if I had known how to work that spot.
From experience in later years, I have found two great ways to hit the G with
the cock. In missionary, raise both the lady's legs high over the man's shoulders. Then he
goes in, not high and pointing down, as is the usual case, but from a very low angle,
pretty much horizontal. This forces the head in contact with the upper part of the cunt,
where the G is 'hiding.' Once I discovered that (with another lady), I could drive O's out
of her whenever and as long as I pleased. She literally had no defense in that position.
The other way is for the lady to lie face down, flat against the bed (not on her
knees). This time the cock goes in high, pointing downward. That angle forces the head
against the G in its hiding place at the top of the cunt, close to the front, partially hidden (and protected?) by the pubic bone. At least I think that's right. Works for me.
Secondly, there is no way a quantity such as the big gushers produce, often
around a cupful at each ejac and there can be several in a reasonably short
period of time. Indeed, really heavy gushers keep drinking water by the bed and
sometimes experience serious dehydration symptoms if 'replacement' water isn't
taken frequently. We're talking about moving a LOT of water through the system
here.
And someone is going to try to tell me that all this quantity comes from the
tiny Skene's gland ('female prostrate') out the urethra? Impossible.
For those, especially men, who have not had this supreme sexual experience,
there is porno. There are clips of FE all over the place - many on the 'net. OK,
now and again a squirt can be seen from the urethra. It is always a small one;
definitely a squirt, not a gush. But in the majority of cases, the FE can
clearly be seen coming from the center of the vulva, an inch or two below the
urethra, which can only mean from the vagina! How can people see this living
proof over and over and still say it all comes from the urethra?
So where is the faucet deep in the vagina? I'm surprised that medical science
has not yet determined that, or if so, the info hasn't been widely disseminated.
One theory (by a lady on your list, I think) is that it is fluid squeezed from
membranes under intense spasmodic pressure. This tracks exactly with the
observation that the vagina can be felt to expand. I believe this expansion is
actually spasmodic clenching, which is like wringing the tissues dry of their
latent moisture content. After all, where does natural lubrication in the vagina
come from?
This also explains why FE does not require GS stimulation. What is required is
an extremely strong, pelvic-clenching orgasm. That kind is produced most easily
by G spot work, but not necessarily. If the lady is capable of truly
pelvic-clenching orgasms by any means, they can produce FE. I knew this first
from a gf in the late '60s. Altho she was a nurse, neither of us even knew what
a G spot was. Yet she had bed soakers. The same with another lady from the early
'70s who was an equally prolific soaker.
It is discouraging that the 'experts' seem unanimous in adhering to this silly
myth about it all coming from the urethra. Some dismiss video evidence of the
heavy gushes from the vagina as 'special effects' of some kind. Oh? Perhaps they
would like to explain how a woman can retain a cup or more of clear liquid in
the vagina, then expel it violently at will.
Recently divorced, I have met a wonderful lady who has been more than caring in terms of letting me know that she believes she’s in the top 1% of all ‘squirters’ in terms of ability. Of course, my initial reaction was one of, I’m one lucky SOB. She has approached me with the negative aspects, even mentioning that her X was turned off by her squirting. She did tell me that she can completely control her abilities, so I’m not worried if this all exceeds my expectations. I will have to say that reading your forum has caused me to print out and high-light your entire blog of information. In sharing your information with her, since we have not had sex yet, I’ve been 100% positive and have used many of your respondent’s comments to spin the positive web. I also believe that FE is what you make. I don’t believe, in hind-sight, that this is just a case of “be careful what you wish for.” I do understand that preparing for the consequences both physically and psychologically, are important. I’m extremely turned on, while understanding that this is as much if not more of a turn-on for my lover.
My wife does not reach orgasm
through intercourse, but does through oral, which I am
more than glad to provide. She was a bit skeptical
when I suggested she could ejaculate, but agreed to
let me try to help her. I generally bring her to at
least one orgasm orally, so that she is well
lubricated. I then insert two fingers and hook them
upward onto the spongy area at the top of her vagina.
I then oscillate my fingers as if they were "running
in place". It usually takes only a short time before
she explodes into an orgasm that is more intense and
long lasting than her clitoral orgasms. This is also
accompanied by ejaculation of fluid.
The amount and
intensity of the ejaculate varies and I am not sure
why. The fluid is clear and has a faint "natural" odor
- most certainly not urine. She tells me that as she
builds toward orgasm, there is a sensation like she
has to pee. This was disconcerting for her at first,
but she is now used to it and doesn't worry. Since
this is usually spontaneous, I have to grab a t-shirt
or whatever is handy to absorb her ejaculate and save
the sheets. The whole thing is a huge turn on for me
and causes me to get rock hard, which naturally ends
in great intercourse. This is not something we do
every time we have sex, but it has added a new
dimension to our lovemaking. I hope this may be
helpful to other men (or women) who may be interested
in trying this with their partner.
The so called G spot stimulation does not work, she gets off in his manner best if we have long foreplay and then direct clitoral stimulation with a small high frequency vibrator.
When it starts there are copious amount of fluid, we have to use towels and plastic undersheet. Usually it occurs in waves and she can keep it up for 30 - 40 minutes.
I like nothing better then to be between her legs looking at her engorged pussy lips while her lower abdomen convulses in orgasm. She loves the sensations and the multiple orgasm, she has also learned this to be a very important part of her sexuality
Having read quite a bit about it we can confirm the fluid comes from the urethra, it is not urine as immediately after our sessions when she begins to unwind she has to rush and do the real pee.
Like most other people the 1st time it happened we both thought she had wee'd but it was stickier than wee. I had heard of FE so I searched the Internet to find lots of sites all giving different info on the subject then I found this site, which is brill.
Since the 1st time it only happens when we are alone (we have an 18 and 9 year old) and she can really let her hair down. I start by giving her lots of oral while she holds a vibrator against her clit. It's not long before she squirts over my face, I love her taste and will drink as much as she gives. As it subsides I will then get on top and start to fuck her. As we fuck I tell her I want her to squirt again but the only way she will now is when I kiss her, asking her can she taste herself on my mouth. This always makes her squirt and as she is so into our kiss she puts he hand down between her legs, gets her fingers wet and pushes them between our lips so we can both taste her sex.
Any other time she would not consider tasting here own juices so I always try to get us alone together so we can be really horny and make as much noise and mess as we like.
In 44 years I experienced it once when my wife started dribbling what appeared to be pee in my face whilst we were having "69" oral sex. I told her she was peeing on me and of course this occasioned great embarrassment on her part. I was worried that she may be becoming incontinent after her menopause.
Surfing the intermet gave me insight to the phenomenon and now with experimentation I can induce the ejaculation on almost every occasion. At this stage I do not believe I have adequately pleasured her unless I can induce a dribbling into my mouth and beard every time we have sex. Fortunately for us, she appears to have a very well mannered body that releases only sufficient "juice" to give us pleasure and to absorbed by a simple hand towel. Heaven forbid that she should gush like some of your correspondents or like the Interent sites portray.
I have a reasonably scientific turn of mind so I wonder about several aspects of the whole issue.
a) Why does this occur at all. What evolutionary benefits can be derived from it that would cause it to exist? Logic dictates that it would be in fact counter-productive in evolutionary terms as it would tend to reduce the chances of sperm reaching their destination. It also discourages males who are not aware of it and think they are being pissed upon.
b)Despite the rash of correspondence you have received on the subject it is obvious from a perusal of medical websites that Doctors and Scientists are still unsure as to what it really is and where it comes from. This indicates that it is for the vast majority of people something of which they are totally unaware or have never experienced. I am indebted to your site for settling doubts as one can easily be led astray by FE websites that may be faking those gushes so it is reassuring to learn that people really do experience this.
c) I drink the stuff every time my wife drizzles so I know that does have a taste. Sometimes pleasant, Sometimes not. It varies (as does piss). Furthermore my wife insists that I wash my beard after sex as she says it now smells like pee. So the jury is still out on that one.
d)I can observe from my vantage point (right at the coal face you might say) where the ejaculate emanates from. It all comes from the Urethra. This does not imply that other women may not ejaculate from other orifices just that I am not in a position to comment on them.
e)My wife reports that she does not know when this is occurring. All she feels is a warm and weird sensation spreading through her pussy. I have had to go to great lengths to assuage her embarrassment and assure her that it is normal and that I am deliberately inducing it.
f)Despite my best efforts I have been unable to solicit any response from her when working her "G" spot. The only way I can induce the drizzle is to lightly but vigorously rub her cunt all the way from her Clitoris to the end of her Vagina using all 4 fingertips. This causes her vaginal folds to extrude from the hole and the whole pussy to tighten up. She commences moaning and then (if I am lucky) dribbling pee or ejaculate over me. Clitoral stimulation or stimulation with my tongue whilst causing normal orgasm will not cause an ejaculation.
g)Whilst a male ejaculation promptly ends sex desire (in me at any rate), it takes a proper orgasm to end the female desire. This would indicate that FE whilst very pleasant is not really related to orgasm at all. This is probably why most women can go through their lives having great sex but never experiencing FE.
h)While I read that women are capable of multiple orgasms, this has NEVER been my experience. After my wife has "come" she will not let me her cunt again. Any attempt at a further lick is met by a firm rebuff. She says it is too tender to be touched.
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