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Edging - Getting Close to Orgasm, then Pulling Back
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Updated 7/08 [M] Basically, "edging" is just extended masturbation; keeping oneself right at (or close to) the moment of orgasm/ejaculation. I've been a
devote of it for many years.
Masturbation, for most young males, is usually short and furtive;
more focused on quantity than quality.
Granted, there is no right or wrong way to enjoy self-pleasure;
that's the beauty of it. But, usually, as we mature we learn to take
the "long way home" when we masturbate.
In my 20s and 30s, my average "sessions" were maybe 30 minutes; about
the time it took me to page through a Penthouse, select just the
right photo, and ejaculate.
By my late 40s, though, I was learning that the more time I took to
arouse and tease myself, the better the orgasm.
I also learned to enjoy pre-cum releases. I've always been envious of
those men who produce copious amounts of pre-cum, and I discovered
that if I was patient and very excited, I would often be rewarded
with one to three nice surges of pre-cum. And that was usually a sign
that I was really "on the edge."
Now, in my 50s, if I can't devote about an hour to myself for some
proper self-pleasure, I postpone masturbation until I can take the
time for a "full journey." I've got to be pretty horny and desperate
to just do a quick wank anymore.
I prefer to set aside some "me time;" get naked, relax in front of
the computer, visit all my favorite adult sites and get into my
personal pleasure zone. It's both energizing and relaxing. After a
good hour of concentrated masturbation, the ejaculation is always
fantastic.
Updated 1/08 [M 36] I am a 36 year old male that has practiced "edging" while masturbating. I recently included my wife on this practice and she loves it. I have found that I can get right to the edge of ejaculation and get the muscular contractions of a full ejaculation but I only shoot out precum. At times, I can do this a few times before I go over the edge with a full ejaculation. My wife and I love to do this and share the precum that I shoot. By the way- the precum that I shoot seems to go much farther than my regular ejaculations and the sight of this is a big turn on for both of us!
Updated 11/07 [M] Great to see that others practice edging. I do this to my wife while giving her oral. I bring her to the "edge" a half dozen times before I let her climax. She loves it. Her eventual orgasms are incredible.
[M] Just thought I'd write on the subject of 'edging' - or at least something similar. That is 'twitching'.
I read about this before I had a girlfriend, so it's not my idea. But a couple of ladies have enjoyed it, so I thought I'd let you know.
What you do is quite simple. While you're making love, the man slows down and goes quite still, so that his penis doesn't move inside her pussy at all. He stays like this for a few moments - the first time she's probably wondering what's going on - and then just twitches his penis by the tiniest amount. He waits a short time and then does the same thing again, then again, perhaps slightly more strongly.
By now, the lady probably realises what it's all about, and realises that she can play the game too! So she responds with a vaginal squeeze of the man. Slowly, this builds up until the usual rhythm is resumed. You can try it to give your partner a rest, and to help you both come together.
Anyway, hope that's of interest! Love the site and comments!!!
Updated 10/07 [M 60s] Over the years my wife and I have used very many sexual techniques, and ‘edging’ during masturbation is just one of them. In fact, we find masturbating one another so fulfilling that we often prefer this to penetrative sex.
I would like to tell you about edging, since this is a fantastic technique of temporary denial that seems to work for both of us. Edging is the practice of bringing your partner to the brink of orgasm, and then stopping at the edge just before ‘the event’. This can be as good as a normal orgasm in itself, and we find it brings about a much intensified orgasm later on. For me, it vastly increases the amount of semen I make, and when we do allow it to come, the sperm shoots a great distance with an intense feeling right to the root of my penis (and perhaps my prostate) inside my body. My wife loves to see me shoot this way. Incidentally, we both shave our genitals, and this adds to the feeling of closeness and intimacy.
I start by kissing and caressing my wife and eventually begin to concentrate on her genitals. Lots of lubrication is needed, as I tease around her inner lips and repeatedly touch upon her clitoris until I can feel her raise her buttocks. Then I stop. She subsides back on to the bed, orgasm-less, and after a few minutes I repeat it all over again. If I’m feeling mean – and she can be just as mean to in return – I will stop altogether and leave her begging until the next night. Eventually she gives in, and her whole body rocks with an intense orgasm.
In my case, after kissing my wife begins to caress my penis. I am not circumcised, and I have a long foreskin which covers the end of my penis even when I am erect. My wife teases me to erection – if I am not hard already – and peels the skin back to concentrate on the sweet spot or frenum as it’s known. That feels wonderful. She then concentrates on very short up and down strokes of the foreskin, from just below the corona to the tip of the glans. After about twenty strokes she switches to my testicles and gives each egg maybe twenty to thirty rolls between her thumb and fingertips. This rolling has to be very firm, enough to give a feeling of stimulation with light discomfort, but not, repeat not, actual pain. Then she gives the other egg the same treatment, and returns to the penis. When I feel a tickling sensation inside – would this be the prostate ? – I give her a signal and she stops. I then return to giving her stimulation.
We can repeat this off and on for hours, and we have even performed it every evening for four or five days. The feelings we both achieve when we do allow ourselves to come are unbelievably intense.
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