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Condoms - How to enjoy them

A visitor asked how to make using a condom seem less like a chore. Here are some suggestions.

Updated 5/07 [M] (M - 60's) Heck of a subject line with the "how to enjoy them". When one considers what they're doing with them, what on earth is there NOT to enjoy! I know when I was younger and in my twenties, I sure enjoyed them. After all, it meant I was getting ready to "get some"! What's a bit unusual with me, most my friends I've ever talked to about the subject of our first time used a condom. There first partner was either a girl friend and pregnancy prevention was foremost on there minds. In other cases, there first times were with prostitutes and VD prevention was foremost on there minds. In my case, I was overseas with a girl friend and I didn't use one on my first time and I ejaculated inside her. Of course, the same can be said for our second, third, fourth, etc. times as we had intercourse many times over that weekend. This girl friend wasn't a bar girl so I didn't worry about the VD thing and about the pregnancy thing I just took my chances. But, with my second girl friend still overseas but at a different place (same country, different base), things were different. This one did come out of a bar. We spent the night and next day together and went through quite a few condoms that night and day. I eventually ended up shacking up with her as boyfriend/girl friend and I was buying condoms by the dozens. Then, after being with her for over a month or better, I ended up not using one during an afternoon coupling. But, I did have the concern of pregnancy on my mind so just before I ejaculated, I pulled out real quick and ejaculated all over her belly. This then became our way of having sex with each other and she kept assuring me that she couldn't get pregnant and to go ahead and cum inside her. She told me that before me, she had shacked up with this Major who had two kids back home and that he always came inside her and she never got pregnant. So, on night, I finally took her at her word and when it hit, I left it in and pumped my load of semen inside her. From then on, I did this. And, I must say, there is a little something extra in doing this. This thing of cumming inside a woman's pussy and putting yourself inside her and leaving it in her when it's all done. Just adds a little more to the pleasure.

Updated 9/06 [M 63] Back when I was in my 20s we called them rubbers. Anyway, while stationed in the Philippines, it would be a bit stupid to get into one of the bar girl's pussies with out one on. Many of them carried dirty little surprises if you weren't careful. I found that using a condom while having intercourse had another advantage. A condom lessened the sensation of what the sides of a pussy does to a hard cock enough that I could last longer before I'd shoot my load. Needless to say this made the pleasure I was feeling being inside a pussy last just that much longer. A real plus. Another good reason to last a little longer was this extra time was sometimes the difference between the girl I was in having an orgasm also and not having one. Many if not most of these girls there enjoyed having sex and if the man would last long enough they'd also come off. And I'm sure as all of us know there is nothing quite like a couple coming off at the same time. It makes the orgasm just that much more stronger and I'm sure added a little more to that deposit I'd pump into that reservoir tip.

Updated 3/06 [M] When I was very young I learned babies were made when a man inserted his penis into a woman and fucked her. However I thought a man and woman "did it" once when they wanted a baby and that was that. Later when walking with an older more wordly friend I found what I thought was a balloon on the ground..I was totally dumb founded when I was told what it was and how a man would unroll the rubber on his cock so he and his woman could fuck and not make babies. I thought this was a terribily "naughty" thing to do and not done by nice people just for pleasure. When I grew up and fell in love with a very lovely lady we wanted badly to make love so we began using rubbers like even "nice" people do. I find them most erotic and enjoy using them so we can fuck and not make a babies. I have difficulty understanding some men and women not liking or enjoying fucking with them, as I find they don't detract from the pleasurer of sex one little bit.(She usually rolls it on my cock which adds to the pleasure) They turn me on and giving me a super erection just thinking about them, also my wife likes my using a rubber, freeing her from the worry of becoming pregnant. I do feel it is too bad to flush away such a wonderful device after sex that brought such pleasure.

Updated 1/01 [F] Try this one on your lover: A friend and I were making love, and as part of the process, he asked me to slip a condom on his shaft. I guess I was feeling pretty wicked and I wanted to tease him a bit.
I got a condom from my nightstand drawer and I got close up to his face and slowly opened the condom package and took it out--slow motion. [I usually poke the reservoir tip back into the condom, so when I unroll it it doesn't look like a hat when I'm finished.]
I took his cock in my mouth and started to tease him with my tongue around the head and then teasing his slit and then put the condom on the head, rolled it doen just 1 turn and then started licking the length of his cock-moving counter clock-wise. I could tell that he liked what I was doing, from the comments he was making. I then unrolled the condom one more turn and then teased his balls with my tongue. Then I unrolled the condom just 1 more turn, while I teased his cock by sucking on his uncovered shaft. I could tell he appreciated what I was doing by his comments so I unrolled the rubber 1 more turn.
I continued that action [teasing either his cock or balls], and then rolling the condom just 1 turn until I had gotten the condom completely unrolled. As one last 'cock teaser' I flicked my tongue around him at the base of his cock, while I feeling his balls. At this point he begged me to make love to him [he was actually screaming], so mounted and rode him to amutual orgasm. [It didn't take long!]

Updated 7/1/00 [M] I like having my wife condomize me and over our time together she has taught me different ways to wrap some latex over my cock.
Here's one story: We had been kissing and fondling each other when she asked me to change the CD on the stereo in our bedrom. I got up and changed the CD while Jill lit some candles and turned off the lights in the room. I was just getting ready to get in when she said, "Don't! Stay right there". With that she knelt down in front of me and began to play with my cock, cupping my balls with one hand as she ran her other hand up and down my cock. She then took my cock into her mouth, and went down on the shaft as far as possible. My cock which had been erect, was even more so now and it strained upward. "I want to make love with you", I said. She looked up at me; I could see her face reflected in the candlelight and smiled. She continued to play with my balls. Then she began to stroke my penis, running her hand up and down its length. I was in heaven, enjoying the sensations of her hands stroking my cock. She kept on stroking my cock, as if she were masturbating me, until I could stand it no longer. "I want you now", I said. "I want you too", Jill said, and got on our bed. As I moved onto the bed to enter her, I happened to look at my cock. She had managed to slip a condom on it and unroll it without my knowing it.

F [22] For some mysterious reason, birth control pills and injections play havic with my body. I just can't use them--at least right now, so my doctor says. So my husband and I had to make some serious choices about birth control. We decided to go back to using condoms. [We had used them before we got married and for about six months afterwards, when I tried to go on the pill to no avail.] Fortunately Logan, my husband, is very understanding. In fact, what he told me was that he "couldn't feel the condom when he's inside me anyway." [See why I love him so!]
But I realize that "putting on a condom" isn't very sexy, so to make that action seem "less of a chore" I keep a variety of condoms [colored [I love BLACK], rubbed, studded, even glow-in-the-dark ones] in my nightstand drawer There's also a stash in Logan's nightstand. Usually we make love in the bedroom, so they're readily available.
When we make love, one of the things I loooovvvvveeee to do is play with Logan's cock and balls, so once he's erect, I'll ask him to find a condom. He keeps his condoms in a "wooden box" his grandfather made, so he'll grab the box and we'll look select one together.
As I said, I love playing with his cock, so I take the condom package, open it, take out the condom and roll it down his shaft. Just the feel of the condom's coating and his cock underneath the latex, as I put it on his cockhead and roll it down to his pubic hair, gets me hot.
We'll continue to make love, licking, feeling, kissing, as I continue to play with his cock and balls. [As I play with him, I imagine him inside me, thrusting and thrusting until I feel him cum, his ejaculation-spurt by spurt-filling the reservoir tip and then coating his cock.}
The I know I want him. I want what I imagined to become reality. "I want you NOW", I tell him.

Updated 3/3/00 [F] I discovered this by accident, when I had gotten my nails done, and had nail tips added to my nails. Since I could not put them on by pinching the tip and putting it on the erect penis and sliding it down, without risking tearing the condom with my nails, I discovered a very rapid way of putting the condom on. Hold the tip of the condom between your thumb and first finger and put it on the top of the erect penis and you can quickly slide it down using the space in between your thumb and first finger. Very quick and no struggling for a long time to put the condom on.

Updated 9/3/99 [F] You can take some lubericant (Astroglide) and pour inside the condom before you roll in down on the man's erection. It gives a slippery feeling and is also good just for hand-jobs. It doesn't feel as rough and gives the sensation of the wet feel that women have and my husband loved it.

[F 27] I guess I don't understand all the negatives comments about condoms. My SO and I love sex, but we don't want any children right now, so condoms are a way of life for us. Some of the hottest sex experiences I've had with my him have involved condoms. We keep some in the glove compartment of his car because we like to take long drives in the country and play around. One night we were at a party and both flirted heavily. When we left, we were so hot and impatient that we didn’t want to drive all the way home before having sex, so we pulled off the road into a rest area. Luckily the rest stop was dimly lit and completely deserted. I grabbed a condom from the glove compartment and we got out of the car. He unzipped his pants and I slid a black condom on his penis. I took off my panties, lifted my skirt and got on the hood of the car. With the light I could see his cock--big and black. That sight made me so hot that I came almost before he entered me.

Updated 8/7/99 [F 24] You had a visitor who asked about making putting on a condom less of a chore, try this, use the womans mouth, it's not very easy, but sure fun trying.

[M] You were asking how to make their use not seem like a chore. We always had them opened before they were needed, then when the time came to put it on, that was my wife's job. I felt good because hae hands were on me, and she liked it, too.

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