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Updated 8/08 [F53] I have written a message to your site about my husbands fantasy in WS and now I would like to explore my most exciting sexual pleasure. It is extremely exciting to me to have my husband fuck me, shot his huge load, then eat my pussy. He does not object to eating his own cum and I orgasm 4 or 5 times in the process. I get very wet, and I have been trying to ejaculate but as of now have not been able squirt my cum. After I have been satisfied with multiple orgasms, I can usually give my husband a treat and pee in his mouth.

Updated 7/08 [M 49] Cleaning up after sex has been a huge turn on for me and my wife for about 10 years now. Prior to that, I had always wanted to eat my wife's pussy when it was filled with my cum and she wanted me to, but both of us were afraid to talk about our interest. On one occasion after I came, I could tell my wife hadn't had a chance to orgasm yet. I offered to go down on her so she could cum. She agree but said she would clean up first. On a chance she would think I was weird, told her we might lose the passion of the moment and I would go down on her as she was. She eagerly agreed and I ate my first cum filled pussy. I didn't like the taste at first, but I have learned to like it now. My wife absolutely loved it and says she likes how slippery it makes her clit feel and allows her to have a very intense orgasm. I love the sight, smell and taste of her pussy especially when her cum is mixed with mine.
After we were done we talked about how exciting it was and how each of us had thought about it before but was afraid what the other person would think. We decided right then and there that we needed to communicate our feelings and not be judgmental. As a result it improved our sex lives 100%. We are now experimenting with sexual pleasures we would not have ever done before.
Recently, last two years, apparently like many other people, have discovered female ejaculation.
It took some learning, reading about it and practice, but finally my wife has learned to gush and squirt her cum. Like many women she had to get over the fear of peeing instead of ejaculating and learn to relax and let it happen. We read that when a woman is sexually aroused, she's not able to pee in fact she should even try to pee. Let me tell you that isn't true with some women, my wife being one. The first time my wife squirted, it was definitely pee. I was prepared for that eventuality and just laughed it off and told her we needed more practice. I got better at my part and she started to ejaculate this wonderful tasting expulsion. Add one more sexual activity we participate in all because of that first occasion of me cleaning up my wife's pussy after I came.
His wife [F 48] wrote a few days later: (F48) my husband wrote to you about clean up and female ejaculation. His greatest turn-on of late has been eating my pussy and receiving as much fluid as my pussy can deliver. I drink 3 or 4 glasses of water about an hour before we have sex which really helps to give him a dousing. He eats my pussy until I feel I can deliver, then switches to a vibrator to stimulate my clit and puts his mouth over my pee hole. When I start to squirt, he drinks as much as he can as fast as he can. The rest squirts all over his face and drenches the bed.
He says its not pee, but I think because of all the water I drank, its a diluted version of pee and ejaculate mixed together. He loves it regardless of the content of my expulsion and I enjoy giving him what he craves. Maybe the biggest thrill for me however, is when I insist that he cums inside me before he goes down on me. He produces huge amounts of cum and I love the thought of him eating his own cum. I force his cum to ooze out of my pussy and get really excited when he laps it up from my anus up to my clit. It puts me in the right mood to orgasm and start squirting. He usually drinks up and goes back to eating my pussy. I can cum and squirt several more times before he gets tired.

Updated 6/08 [M 62] I really enjoy the section on cleaning up after sex. I have read that most men after climaxing loses all interest in any more immediate sexual activity especially eating their own cum. I'm wondering if this is really true and how other men feel about it. Several guys in the cleaning up section discount this theory. I for one get very excited when my wife asks me to eat her cum filled pussy. She lets me know when she wants me to by getting my cum out of her pussy with her fingers, puts her fingers under my nose for a smell, then in to my mouth for a taste. She then will straddle my face and watch as the cum flows out of her pussy and into my mouth. I have always ejaculated large amounts, so this is a significant quantity of cum. It's these times she usually wants me to tongue her clit until she has a squirting orgasm. I eagerly drink as much as I can swallow but most of the time the total volume is just too much. At first she didn't want me to drink her expulsion thinking it might be pee. I have almost convinced her it doesn't matter. I think that most of the time it isn't pee but other times it might have some pee mixed in. Whatever, I enjoy the experience and she is starting to relax and enjoy her orgasm(s) and not worry about what she is squirting.

Updated 11/07 [M] We have never cleaned up after sex. Many times after I have climaxed inside my wife I go down on her and suck her off. Tasting the mix of her juices and my cum has always excited me. After she orgasms with my mouth sucking her off, we french kiss deeply, giving each of us the opportunity to taste and swallow a mixture of both her and my cum. We find it adds greatly to our excitement and pleasure during and after sex.

Updated 9/07 [M] I liked the section cleaning up after sex. We are married now for over 25 years and do not clean up. We love to still enjoy the juices and the smell as well. i wake up in the morning and wash my wife's juices off my face and cock. Our bed always has sperm stains on the sheets - i love to see them as we make the bed - clear evidence of our randy love life. When she is on, i lie next to her and masturbate and just squirt the sperm everywhere.

[M 61] \Whenever my wife and I had sex and I ejaculated inside of her, she would always get up immediately, pee it out and then wipe herself dry. After a number of years of putting up with this, I decided to finally try to go down on her and lick all of my cum off her legs and suck the rest of it from inside her. I knew I didn't like the taste of cum from trying to lick it off her breasts when I would masturbate on her, but I decided to try it. Let me tell all the guys - I loved it. My cum mixed with her juices tasted wonderful and caused her to orgasm so much that she actually came herself. She now routinely cums with a quarter to one-half cup of her juices, which I willingly swallow in addition to my cum. This has actually turned out to be a wonderful experience for both of us. Since then I have found a way for men to get used to eating their own cum. What I have done is masturbate into a small dish (my wife likes to see the semen shooting out of my cock) and then set the dish aside for an hour. The semen will liquify in that time and you can just let it drip into your mouth. It tastes good and both can enjoy it.

Updated 8/07 [F 50s] my favorite way to clean up after sex is to have my man bury his face in me and lick me clean. It turns me on so much that I can come over and over again. In return, I very happily return the favor by licking his covered cock until not a drop of our juices remain .... very very tastey.
She continued in another letter:
I wanted to elaborate on the short e-mail I sent in response to the cleanup after sex issue. When I was younger, my partner had this habit of leaping out of bed after sex and scrubbing himself clean. I think it had something to so with time spent in the military with paid bar girls. After we were married, his habit never changed. Every time we made love, he never stayed and cuddled or even thought about more play, he just rolled over, hopped out of bed, and went to get clean. Even when I begged him to stay and snuggle, he refused. After years of marriage and several kids, he seemed to feel like sex wasn't important. I loved him and my kids, but I needed the physical part that was missing. I found a "friend with privileges." A few times a year we get together for the day and he makes me feel like a queen instead of something not quite clean. The first time we made love, I expected his behavior to mirror that of my husband. BUT, he stayed and held me close. When I explained how good he made me feel and told the way it had been for me all the years before, he told me to close my eyes and open them under no circumstances. Then he went down between my legs and kissed me, and licked me, and sucked out every bit of his juice and mine. Needless to say, I exploded over and over again. It was the most intimate thing I had ever experienced. He is married, and cannot leave his wife ... I am married and cannot leave my husband, but we love each other very much. I worship the way he makes me feel and I try all kinds of new things with him to show how special he is to me. Cleaning his cock after sex with my mouth is just one of those ways.

[M] The guy in this letter sounds like a lot of men out there that just get off and than roll over and go to sleep and leave their woman to clean up and only dream about orgasms. There are a lot of men who are missing out on a great treat when it comes to helping your lover clean up after sex. I'm talking about the smell, feel, and fantastic taste of a cum filled pussy. I first learned how wonderful my own cum tasted when my wife surprised me with a big kiss after one of her great blow-jobs and she still had a mouth ful of cum. At first it was a shock but then I took time to savor the taste, the saltyness, the mustiness, and the wonderful texture as it slid down my throat. At that moment all I could think of was if this tastes this good her cum and my cum together have to be great.
Luckily my cock was hard as a rock again from this new discovery and I shoved it in her wet cunt and fucked like crazy. As soon as I came I pulled out and immediately buried my face in her wet cum filled cunt. She started to pull away saying that she was full of my cum and I told her that was why I was down there. It was truly a fantastic moment our two juices mixed together tasted great but as I licked her cunt and her clit she exploded in a fantastic squirting orgasm and I had one big mouthful of her cum and my cum, it was the greatest taste I had ever experienced.
Needless to say my wife never has to take a shower to clean her pussy up after sex anymore, thats my job. If your wondering, she doesn't have to clean anything up. If I come on her tits, her face or any other part of her anatomy including my hands when I jackoff for her I lick up every last drop. I'm not totally greedy she gets her share of my cum, she totally enjoys sucking my cock after its been in her cunt so she can taste both of us too. So guys give it a try, if you don't want to just taste your own cum by itself go down and eat that pussy you just came in. If nothing else your lover will at least, hopefully get off too and weather you like it or not but trust me if you like the way her pussy tastes now your going to love it full of your own cum. And no were not gay or even bi-sexual we just love the we taste separately and together.

[F 54] I was amused to see that there is a question about removing love juices after sex. What a shame. I'm a 52 yr old woman and really revel in that wetness after a few mind blowing orgasms, mine and his.. I personally think that it is rather insulting to your man to jump up and wash all semblences of him off of you. But then again, I love the taste of semen and l really like the smell of our blended juices. Actually I just love intimacy. What is more intimate than laying in bed together, spent, with no ego walls between you and covered in physical expressions of your passions?
If one subscribes to popular culture, (which I don't) I guess you would jump up and douche, head for the shower, put on your makeup, brush your teeth and fix your hair so you would look sexy. My question is, if you don't like the aftermath of sex, which is intimacy, why in the world are you sleeping with each other in the first place?

Updated 7/07 [M 60s] I know this question is for the lady readers about cleaning up after a man ejaculates inside them or enjoying the added wetness. I just had to write about my experience with this involving my spouse over the years. Before we married and for a while afterwards, she was on the pill. So, I was ejaculating inside her and back then she'd just get dressed or go to sleep depending on when we "did it". Sometime after our marriage, she had a side effect from the pills and got off them. We then had to come up with a different birth control method. I then started pulling out of her just before I ejaculated and it would end up all over her belly. She then had to get up to clean up from this mess. Back then I'd only ejaculate inside her that first week or so after her periods. Then, after she went through the "change of life" thing, I was free to always go inside her. But, she must had gotten where she didn't like that added wetness in her any more. She'd get up and head for the shower where she'd use the shower head on a hose to rinse out as much semen as she could with warm water. Years later, she had female problems down there and intercourse became too painful for her. So, ever since, she has had to get up and clean the semen off her leg and the lube off her hand.

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