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Updated 5/08 [M 62] I am the male (62) who wrote in march concerning wearing the aneros on a regular basis while engaging in routine activities. I want to thank the male (54) who wrote the reply with so much useful and helpful information. I have learned one thing about mine concerning the pressure/pain on the perineum – put a folded handkerchief flat on the perineum and let the arm of the aneros ride on that. I also have learned something about holding it and the handkerchief in place while working , (and having some fun in the meantime). I bought a very strong pair of women’s underpants which were of the control nature to hold in the tummy. Well, with the aneros inserted, and the handkerchief in place, the aneros is not going anywhere. Only problem is, I have not really had an orgasm from the experience – quite the contrary, my manhood stays very flaccid, but the feeling on the prostate is indeed very pleasurable. I wonder if I have simply not learned how to use it. I am preparing to order the Progasm in hopes that the larger size will help me experience an orgasm from prostate stimulation.

[M 59] I'm a 59 year old man that has in recent years discovered that I like anal stimulation. I became interested in the Aneros several years ago and purchased one. My experiences with it have been disappointing until today. I used the little syringe to make sure I was well lubricated internally and found it easier that I remembered to insert the Aneros. Then I rested on my side with my knees bent and breathed slowly and deeply for 15-20 minutes. At that point I started contracting and relaxing my PC muscle. After 5 minutes or so, I was starting to leak pre-cum. I continued the contractions a few minutes more and then started to gently stroke my penis. A short time later I felt the sensations of a VERY intense orgasm. A large quantity of semen flowed from my penis - it gently flowed, there was no sense of it spurting as it does in a normal ejaculation. Yesterday I had a sizable traditional ejaculation, so I was particularly surprised by how much cum I had today. I suppose this is a result of the direct stimulation of the prostate. Oh, and BTW I did not have even the slightest hint of an erection!
I was a bit disappointed with the Aneros when I first got it, but I'll be using it more frequently now. This was far and away my best experience with it. I had one of the most intense orgasms of my life and certainly the most unusual. I did need to touch my penis very lightly to make it happen, but perhaps someday I may be able to have the "hands-free" orgasm.
I don't know if what I had was the Super-O that the Aneros people talk about, but it was amazing! I'm going to try to do it again today

[M 59] I agree with the previous man that said to give the Aneros some time and practice. It gets better and even if you don't have the earthshaking orgasms that some have, your sensation and pleasure are greatly increased.
As far as using it for other activities, I have never used it for anything other than sexual activities. We do however, include it in a lot of our sex play and it greatly heightens my pleasure when I have it in while getting sucked off or getting a good old hand job. The way I like it best though, is to have it in my ass while thrusting in her ass or cunt. The muscle contractions involved with any kind of thrusting motion really work the Aneros against my prostate and I actually cum harder.
As for those men out there too uptight to explore prostate stimulation, you don't know what you are missing. I feel pressure on my prostate as intense pleasure right in the head of my cock immediately upon insertion. As with any anal play, make sure you use enough lube to require a change of sheets. Give it a try. You might be surprised and find that letting your honey stimulate your prostate will encourage her to let you play with her ass. It took us a while, but with patience and a lot of lube, she actually asks me to fuck her ass when she knows it's relaxed. But thats a whole nother comment. Lets hear your sex story. Joan is always discrete.

Updated 4/08 [M] (M 54)I've been using Aneros massagers for about five years now and every time I use one it"s a whole new experience. As for having one inserted while doing daily tasks well I have their latest model, and I have to admit, my favorite one, the Progasm in my ass as I'm sitting hear typing this letter. It's the largest one they make and has two arms with round balls on the ends, one for stimulating the peridium ( the spot between your balls and your anus) and the other for stimulating the area at the end of your spine called the cortex. I have to admit it works quite well, the precum oozing out of my cock right now is proof of that. I don't think I could wear this one all day long because the arms are quite large an would feel cumbersome and I think I would be continually stimulated which would be distracting.
I've probably gotten of the point so to answer his question I do occasionally wear a Aneros for continued lengths of time. It all started by accident when as he mentioned I found the p-tab on the Helix model I have was cutting into my P-spot and was uncomfortable. I tried to bend it and it broke. Well these things aren't cheap so I didn't want to throw it away. I took some sand paper and sanded the one inch piece that was left so it was smooth and the lubed it up and inserted it in my ass. To my surprise it worked quite well but with the curved handle on the back end it had a tendency to pull away from my prostate which reduced the stimulation.
Realizing that I couldn't mess it up any worse then it was now I cut the handle off and sanded it smooth leaving about an inch left on both arms for safety reasons. Again I lubed it up and put it in my ass and was again surprised at how good it felt. I began flexing my ass and immediately started feeling the same wonderful sensations I always feel when I use an Aneros. I didn't miss the p-tab one bit. It wasn't long and my cock was hard and precum was flowing from its head. It was so comfortable and without the p-tab and handle I realized there was nothing stopping me from slipping on my clothes and wearing it all day, except my hard cock. So I jacked-off until I had a handful of cum and my cock got soft and I slipped on my underwear, rigth after devouring all that beautiful cum.
I wear thongs and was surprised when the strap on my thong wrapped around the base that I left on the Aneros and snugged it nice and tight in my ass. So I finished dressing and I wore the Aneros all day. Luckily I'm retired and work around the house and farm so I really was'nt out in public so to speak, but I did mow the lawn which was very exciting with the vibes from the riding lawn mower going through my ass. As I said luckily I was at home because after about half an hour I started feeling damp in my jeans and I slipped a hand down them and came up with a hand full of precum which I quickly licked off my fingers and continued with my mowing.
Well about ten minutes later I had to stop because I started having a very familiar feeling, the one I get just before I cum. I tried as hard as I could to squeeze my PC muscle to stop myself from cumming and let the orgasm subside but all that did was slam the Aneros into my prostrate and I exploded in one hell of an orgasm filling my thong and jeans up with tons of cum. After walking back to the house with cum running down my legs I decided that this might not have been a good idea but after a little more thought about how people could have been driving by while I was cumming like craze and not have a clue how good I was feeling or even that I was having an orgasm I started to get really turned on. I knew I wanted to do this again but I also knew I couldn't stop every hour or so to clean up after cumming.
Here's the solution I came up with. If I'm going to be mowing the lawn or doing field work that takes a few hours; these are my favorite things to do while wearing the Aneros, I think it has something to do with the vibration from the mower and tractor, I make sure to slip on a condom before I head out. You would be surprised at how much cum one of those things can hold. I've had up to three orgasms in one before I had to change it. I've worn it while being naked and puttering around the house from time to time; the helix is the only model I found I could do this with because it's neck is the smallest and it tends to stay in place where as the other three models I own tend to try and slip out because my ass can't close as tightly around their bases. If your a new Aneros user please don't get discouraged like I've read that a lot of new users do. If you don't have what they call a super-O keep working on it, it took me a couple of months and some help from my fantastic wife maniplulating the Aneros before I experienced a total body orgasms and it was definately worth the effort and time.
I will admit that wearing The Aneros during daily activities is exciting but nothing can replace the tremendous feeling you have during a full body orgasm. I've only been able to have full body orgasms while using the Aneros while in bed and having my wife wiggle it for some super stimulation on my prostrate and the best part is I very rarely cum during these sessions which allows me to have numerous orgasms, the most being six so far. Don't get me wrong I also us it solo alot. The orgasms aren't as strong but are very enjoyable. I've heard some rumors about someone developing a harness to hold the Aneros in place so it could be worn all the time.
I hope there's some truth to this because I'd love to have the progasm in my ass all the time, my thongs just aren't up to the task of keeping anything but the helix in place. I know I probably gave you more story than helpful advice but once I get going I hate to stop so if this didn't help you out try going to Aneros.com . They have a wonderful forum and there are a few people who talk about wearing it while you sleep; I still have to try that, and wearing it all the time. The forum and the entire site is full of good info and don't forget to register so you can participate in the forum. Oh and in case your wondering, yes I still have the Aneros Progasm in my ass and it's fluttering like crazy. I've had two orgasms while I've been typing, luckily non-cummers so now I think I quit and go stroke my hard cock and see what cums of it. Keep enjoying that Aneros until you find your own style, trust me when you do your going to love it.

Updated 3/08 [M] I am wondering if any of your readers have had any experience with using the Aneros while pursuing daily activities – just insert and go about your daily routine. I have just received mine and am getting accustomed to using it. I am finding that it is very pleasureable to insert and go about your business. The only downside is the end that goes against your perineum sometimes hurts while sitting down but never while standing or walking. Comments? Drop me a note.

Updated 2/07 [M] Last night I tried something new. While I've had a Aneros prostate massager for over two years now, I've never been able to experience a full body orgasm while using it. And I've practiced much! I recently purchased a Hitachi Magic Wand with a prostate attachment. I lubed the attachment and penetrate my anus, attached the magic wand, turned it on and wholla. After turning the wand on/off several times to prevent ejaculation, I, for the first time ever,experienced a full body orgasm, from head to toe. It was incredible! My wife says all her orgasms are this way. Wow can't wait for more!

Updated 1/07 [M] I recently purchased an Aneros device with great expectations. I have always enjoyed anal play, though my current wife does not. Nonetheless I have used the Aneros during sex with my wife (which she agreed to willingly) and while masterbating. Though it is pleasurable, I have not had the intense sensations others report. I am very disappointed in the product.

Updated 9/06 [F 46] I just found your website and I was pleased to find a letter about a new toy I just bought for my husband, a prostate massager called Aneros. We used it the first time while I was going down on him. The love making after with it still inserted was one of the best times for both of us. I feel funny using it on him but the benefits are sooo worth it. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this as well as any other women out there who have had experience with it.

Updated 2/05 [M 62] I bought an Aneros after reading about it and reading the website. The first time or two I tried it, I thought I had wasted my money -- a lot of money for a bit of cast plastic. I gave it a few more tries. It takes some getting used. I am now using it regularly in both solo sex and with my wife. I love the sensation it gives and I do think it increases the intensity of my orgasms. I would recommend people try it, use a thick lube, and give it a chance. My wife has commented that I must really like this new toy. Now we need to get into some experimentation with other forms of anal stimulation on my part -- any men have any experiences with strap-on use? This is a fantacy I may want to try.

Updated 7/04 [M] I purchased the prostate stimulator at an adult store. New users should not expect instant results especially if they are unfamiliar with prostate massage. My first two episodes were pretty much non events.
The third episode was a two part session. The first part was another non-event, but I read the testimonials again on the web site and used plenty of lubricant and that was the key. The orgasm was from my knees to my armpits. The semen production was about double. This is not a "gay" adult toy. Heterosexual men may be able to experience more pleasure than they anticipated, but their mind set must be receptive. The largest sex organ is still the brain. If you plan to use the Aneros with your wife I would suggest becoming proficient with it alone first. Cleansing the rectum before insertion is not mandatory, but probably a good idea, especially with a woman. I was not into prostate massage a month ago, but I am now. If you think it might be worthwhile but are turned off by the price, try a less expensive stimulator to see what your reaction is.
Adult store price $48.00.

Updated 10/03 [M] Re: enemagra. This seems to be the British name for the prostate stimulator. It is sold in the USA as "Aneros". The main distributor is to be High Island Health www.highisland.com, although it is available through a number of erotic toy distributors which can be found with a websearch. Some stores also seem to be carrying it. The pricing is not consistent, and these other outlets only offer one model, the PS New. High Island Health has three main products. My first purchase 10 months ago was the "PS New". Delivery was quick and their order tracking is first rate. A few months ago I bought the PS2 model. There are differences.
The PS New is bigger and more intrusive and probably better for solo experiences. The PS2 is much better during intercourse. The product requires a settling-in period. The best instructions are on High Island's website, as well as www.aneros.com and which takes you directly to the forum at www.aneros.com.
The aneros should be inserted while lying on one's side, knees up high. For solo experiences, this is the best position. It took me about a month of intermittent use to be able to sense when the aneros was properly in place. If you don't seem to be "getting there", pull back and up on the loop so the product points more toward a line under your navel. Injecting a small amount of lube-gel into the rectum first definitely helps with the movement required to get the benefit. There is definitely another orgasm there that I never knew about. It is deep, profound, and does not involve ejaculation. Don't rush this process. Eventually you get there.
As far as using it during intercourse, my wife was originally sceptical but now is turned on by the device. She sometimes grabs it and twists it around a bit which drives me crazy and can lead to orgasm spontaneously if you are getting close. It should be in about 20 minutes before intercourse, and some contracting of the kegel muscle does help to position it and get things started. The sensations are very different. There are definitely prickly sensations in the penis, and more sensation in the bulb. As climax is reached, the kegel muscle starts to vigorously contract and move the aneros right up against the prostate. There is a preliminary leakage of pre-cum that feels hot and sensuous in the penis. At orgasm, one can definitely feel the warm pulse of semen coming before the big part of the orgasm starts. The pulsations go on and on. I have had as many as twenty pulsations during the orgasmic period. The first few are mild leading up to massive convulsions that leave me quite helpless and my wife ecstatic. The after-shocks go on for some time, depending on the moment. There is definitely more semen.
For a couple in their fifties this is definitely the hottest time we have ever had. For anybody that routinely uses a liquid lubricant, the extra lubrication toward the end of intercourse is wonderful, sweet, and romantic. Cleaning the aneros is easy, and occasional soaking in bleach is a good idea. This is definitely one of the best additions to our sex life, ever.

Updated 7/03 [M 56] While browsing for new toys at the "Toys in Babeland" site which is a woman oriented sex toy store, but very complete, I came across a new anal toy for men called the Aneros that really intriqued me. After doing a search for more information I found their website, www.malegspot.com and decided to try one as I've always liked some anal stimulation and feel that the prostate is very neglected by MOST men.
I received it in only two days and I've been MORE than pleased with it's effect. The shape is very different, but after using it the first time it's obvious someone really did their homework.
You lube yourself and the Aneros and upon insertion it settles itself right against your prostate and also applies pressure to your perinium at the same time. You control the sensations by muscular contractions as covered in the directions and the results are truly amazing. The deep, pleasureable feelings were strong enough to make my toes curl and strange noises come from my throat. I actually came very hard the first time while only holding my cock by its base and pulling down on the skin. I wasn't prepared for the suddenness or intensity of the orgasm or the amount of cum I spurted. It also causes copious amounts of precum to ooze from my cock. (This will have women wishing for a prostate! Well, maybe not, but they sure will envy you your new feelings.)
I would suggest that any man who enjoys or thinks he might enjoy anal stimulation try one of these wonderful toys. You can also have it in for sex with your wife or lover as it is very unobtrusive when inserted and the motions of fucking produce the same wonderful prostate massage and intense orgasms.
Babeland.com also has a very intriguing double ended dildo with a new shape called "The Divining Rod" that I'm trying to talk my wife into using to penetrate me anally. She let's me fuck her ass so it's only fair that she gets to fuck mine. Besides, that just more prostate stimulation for me!

Updated 10/02 [M 49] I have been using the Male G Spot Stimulator for 7 months now and it has been quite an experience. It took some time to learn how to use, the squeezing of the ass muscles and movement of the hips, but once accomplished the orgasms are mind bending. Previously I had problems with erections. With the Aneros inserted I'm hard immediately. My wife and I have included it into our sexual fun many times. She has been more than willing to lube it up and suck on my cock while she inserts it. A few tugs on my toy and I'm off to the races. Not one to be left out, my wife will lube up her ass and take us both for a deep penetrating ride. I'm sure the neighbors get an earfull but who cares? Would I recommend this to other fella's? Sure, but only to those who want a gut wrenching, sperm spewing, deeply satisfying orgasm.

I asked for more information and this man replied
I'll be glad to share more information about my special sex toy. The Aneros "Male G Spot" stimulator is made of plastic. It's length is 4 1/2" and 1" in diameter at the widest point. At the tip is a raised bump which rubs against the prostate. At the other end is a handle in the shape of a "S". Well it sorta looks like a S. The portion that rests between the cheeks is almost formed over into a circle so when I'm excited I or my wife can slip a finger through and pull which really gets me going. The opposite part of the "S" is shaped to rest under my balls. All in all it's quite comfortable once your used to it. I would encourage any male to give it a try if your interested in anal play. I can assure you that the orgasms you will have will more intense, last longer and at times more fluid. My best to you all..


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