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Updated 11/07 [M 37] Yes, I think many women are checking out our packages. I for one seem to have this "problem". I am average length (5.75 inches erect), however, what I "lack" in length I make up for in girth (8 inches). Flaccid I'm 3.5 inches long and 5 inches thick. From my very first sexual encounter, I've always gotten an "Oh!", "Wow!", or "What ...!"
At work, I've caught many a coworker practically staring at my bulge. I've been asked if I have a chronic erection or if I stuff a sock. Some of my wife's friends have asked her if they could see or even touch it. Of course, my wife would never go for this. After my wife and I got married she thought it would be a good idea that I switch to her doctor (female), so that we had a central point for medical history (whatever?). Of course, being a newlywed I did as told.
My wife had been seeing her doctor for over ten years and the doctor knew about our wedding. Of course, being a new patient I had to go through the FULL medical exam bit. When the doctor came into the room she introduced herself, congratulated me and told me all these wonderful things about my wife. When the doctor checked my genitals she said, "I see you and Linda have been very busy. The swelling should go down in a couple of days." Surprised I asked, "What swelling?" She proceeded to explain that often times a man's penis will swell if he has "too much" intercourse. After a quick chuckle, I told her not to worry and that everything was normal. She replied, "Really? Oh, okay".

Updated 12/06 [M] You asked whether men really like larger breasts. This guy does. A lover I once had was equipped with very large breasts, and she loved to swing them around while we were playing. She would hit me in the face with them, and get on top and swing them over/into my face, or press them together around my erection while I f.....ed between them. She also liked to have the nipples pinched and twisted which I was more than happy to accommodate. Foreplay to her involved a lot of playing with her breasts, and I loved it.

Updated 8/05 [M] Do woman like to have their breasts looked at in public? I think this is all about self esteem as well as comfort level. My wife loves to show her tits off in tight and revealing clothes, but only when I am with her. She feels safe when I am there. When she is alone, some asshole always makes a rude comment and she feels uncomfortable. Some woman are just not comfortable in their own skin and they just dont like being looked at period. I once had a female roommate who was on the heavy side, but otherwise attractive. She is very outgoing and sure of herself. I took her to the movies once and she told me to count how many guys stared right down her cleavage. There must have been 30 sets of eyes glued to her tits as we walked past. I laughed so hard, mostly because I would have looked also.
Do men prefer women with larger breasts? The answer - MAYBE. I do, I adore large breasts on woman. Fortunately god made well endowed women for men like me, as well he made woman with small breasts and men who love them too. On the same note, some men could care less about breast size, but melt into butter when they see a woman with a nice big heart shaped ass. We are all wired differently and thank god for that! How boring would things be if we were all the same.
I have often wondered why I have an obsession with large breasts (at least a C cup, but preferably larger). I have dated very nice attractive woman who could have made great girl friends or more, but if they had small breasts, I would invent reasons in my own mind why I should break up with them. The fact is, its just how the man upstairs wired my brain. I have been very fortunate, my wife is a beautiful 36D and loves the fact that I worship her gorgeous tits. Before I met her I dated one woman who was a 38E and had a fling with a sweet woman who was a 34DD. I prefered the latter because of her small frame size made her breasts look even bigger. I had the sexual stamina that I had when I was 19 with her (I was 34 at the time). She would ride me and lean down and her incredible tits would practically smother me. Just looking at her chest would make my cock so hard it would ache. I was in heaven and was able to have several orgasms. That particular relationship couldn't continue because there life was in the way for us at the time (thanking god again for unanswered prayers).

Updated 6/05 [M 58] My first love was 14 (it didn't work out between us, I was so clumsy then, at 14) and had say AA- cups:
I always was more interested in her face and her voice -so sweet!), but I never felt that she wouldn't make me unhappy by her pysics or "lack of them"..she didn't, she just didn't see me, which was more serious... We met again a few years ago and she had seen me well enough (quite normal:I had done all I could for that!)It just didn't work out between us... We went to university the same year, where I could forget her, meeting other girls. The first one who alowed me to pass a hand under her sweater was very tense: quite normal, as I discovered that at 18 she had no breasts at all, just wearing falsies in her bra. She kissed like heaven, and we stayed together a few months, without me being able to convince her to let me touch her "down under". We drifted apart and I met another girl, with who I spent more than a year, nearly every evening discussing music in her little apartment. She didn't make a point that I saw her taking her bath and rubbed her back, but the unspoken agreement was that t I wouldn't try to approach her sexually. I kept myself to that, even if it was difficult at moments...Breast size: A or B-cups with very small and dark nipples. Finally,first one, then another young man did what I had silently promised not to do, and she got pregnant two times (I paid her first abortion, though I was 100% innocent) and married finally...
Back to zero, but then I met my wife... in 1967: a bit rounded, beautiful B-cups (they're still B and beautiful...) I never felt attracted physically to any large breasted woman, though I had a short affair with one and two of my woman friends are generously developed.
Whenever I'm on a topless beach, I look first at dark large aereola (my wife is medium sized and not very dark there), but big "hooters" leave me ice cold: A to B-cups on adult women are my preferred ones. When I read women describing their B-cups as "small", I'm always wondering if they are brainwashed.... and , if so, whether it was by men or by other women.Artificial breast enlargements seem so unnatural: when I see "before &after" pictures, I more than often prefer the "before".
To my taste, A and AA are small but "hand filling" enough, B is normal, C on the large side but manageable and anything more is a little handicap or esthetically bad luck... I am much more concerned by sensitivity, willingness and nipples.

Updated 1/05 [F 38] I was a late bloomer, only "developing" from a girl into a woman in college, and not until taking birth control pills. Throughout my adolescence I was borderline anorexic/exercise bulimic and thus prolonged the onset of womanly development through rigorous jogging and dieting regimens.
My mother and sisters are unevenly-endowed, and I as well inherited this characteristic. My mother even had an implant and later, after my father had passed away, had it removed because the breast had hardened and it felt like she had a football under her blouse when you hugged her. One sister has huge, pendulous breasts, and the other sisters have small, tuberous breasts.
So I guess I'm the lucky one, having neither tuberous nor pendulous boobs. I just happen to have one that's a DDD cup and one that's a C (I'm currently pregnant; normally the smaller one is more like a B). Their shape is not bad, and if I'm wearing a thin-material, underwire bra with no seams, I look pretty sexy.
From age 18-37, I wore almost exclusively jogbras, which minimized the appearance of "lop-sidedness" (a word I hate). But I never felt sexy; the thick straps and racer-back style obliterating any hope of feminity since I also have a relatively muscular, athletic build and am desperate for anything that helps me look more girly. I was consumed with boob envy, and would check out women I found attractive, trying to figure out what I needed to be to look sexy...Should I match the small tit or the big tit?
I love being a woman, and in fact, love being pregnant and breastfeeding, even though I've had to consciously will myself to enjoy these experiences despite lingering negative feelings that have haunted me since childhood about my body, and low-self-esteem, and lack of confidence. I also have to will myself to not get frustrated when my baby is insatiable at the breast and wants to nurse constantly, while my husband has little or no interest and makes me feel unattractive and undesirable.
I was not one of those beauties who blossom in late elementary school, looking ravishing and glamorous throughout junior high and high school. On the contrary, I looked physically immature and lacked any glamour quotient whatsoever.
I feel that now, at the ripe age of 38, I'm finally getting "in touch" with my femininity! I finally feel like a "woman" instead of a "girl".
Part of what's helped me is "doing research" on the internet!
Looking at "taboo" pictures of women of all shapes and sizes has been very liberating for me! I appreciate and admire the female body and have been uplifted and edified by images of real women, and no longer feel like breast augmentation surgery is my only hope.
I still consider the idea for after my childbearing/breastfeeding days are over--a tummy tuck would be great too! Oh and let's trim those upper arms and the nose a bit while we're at it...that's the problem with plastic surgery. Where would I ever stop? But risking the loss of sensitivity in my nipples would stop me from starting with my breasts.
I grew up in a very strict Catholic home with no access to information about sex or sexuality. I was actually sexually molested/abused by relatives and others which no doubt contributed to my sexual inhibited-ness/obsession which has plagued me. The abuse never involved my breasts, as I had none, but surely messed with my mind.
Having never been able to relax and trust my husband's "love" for me, (probably because I always found it hard to believe that a man as sexy and handsome as he would find someone with a "deformity" like mine attractive, much less marry her--I always thought his family, in particular, his mother, pressured him into the "shit or get off the pot" point of commitment with me due to small-town gossip about our lengthy courship), I've never "gotten over the top" or the "edge" of orgasm during sex with him.
Early in our marriage, I was so self-conscious and hateful of my asymmetry that during our infrequent sex moments I'd tell him not to touch the small one or the large one, depending upon my particular neurosis at the time.
Now, I've come to appreciate my breasts. My sister-in-law had to recently undergo a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, and then a close friend went through the same thing as well.
Contemplating the surgeon's task of removal of the very flesh that I have always felt defined and limited by was a profound experience for me, and thinking about and praying for the women who've had to face the loss of a part of their female identity, regardless of the perfection or not that they once possessed, at least they were breasts, whether perky or saggy, tiny or heavy, round and spherical or conical, tubular, or bag-shaped, sky-pointing or earth-pointing, gravity-defying or obeying.
So I've just recently come to really love my boobs. Yeah, they don't match. Guess what?! That's actually cool! My husband gets to have BOTH! And with no guilt! He can enjoy the heavy, swinging-in-your-face bounce and sway of the "got milk" side, or he can cup and tweak and fondle and grab the dainty, petite "pacifier" side. I really enjoy the woman-on-top position where my breasts are swinging in his face and my nipples (especially the big one) are bouncing into his face, teasing his open mouth. He likes it too, believe me, and when he actually catches it in his mouth and gets going, it's as close as it gets for me to orgasm. Our sex life is actually getting better, or maybe amnesia is setting in for how young and otherwise beautiful and sexy I once was, and I only remember how great it still feels, even though I'm not as tight and smooth and hard-bodied as I used to be, and babies have stretched me "down there" as well. Maybe we just appreciate it more now!
I used to love to read about the mythical(?) Amazon women who inhabited an island with no men, unless they were needed for procreation, who had to hunt and fend for themselves and protect themselves, and who had developed into a race of skilled, athletic huntresses and warriors who were unevenly endowed, like myself, the better to sling their bow and arrow over one shoulder and run, their left arm free to run or pull back the bow, unencumbered by a breast, and their right breast remaining for nurturing children. Exactly my same asymmetry!
I would fantasize that I was descended from this race of self-sufficient assymetrical goddesses, and that I was super-powered with strengths and abilities not given to mortal women. Indeed, I've always been an exceptional athlete and am stronger than any woman I know.
And now that I appreciate my womanliness and the gift of beauty in the form God has blessed me with, I really admire my breasts like never before.
I recently purchased several bras that are as pretty, feminine and sexy as I can afford, and all are of the thinnest, smoothest material I can find, in pretty colors that make me feel girly-girl and hot. (Microfiber is a great invention! Lace is great too! I have to be able to feel and grab my nipple easily or I don't want to wear it!)
I love when my nipples protrude from the flimsy fabric of my bra and whatever top I'm wearing. I try to wear a top that allows nipple show and I love to stand with my breasts pushed out now! I crave attention and love to catch someone, male or female, noticing my breasts and nipples. I used to be self-conscious; now I'm proud of my assets! I would let someone look as long as they wanted, as long as it wasn't creepy. I wouldn't even mind if they "accidentally" brushed my nipple or saw my nipples exposed if for some reason my shirt was unbuttoned "too far" or I'd forgotten to pull my turtleneck down over my breasts under my half-unzipped down vest! I love love LOVE cold weather, and love it when I'm "nipping"! (Please let's all go solar-powered and stop Global Warming now!!!)
I am blessed with nipples that have been about the size of the lid of a fat magic marker since I've been a mother (my first pregnancy-body changes were quite a surprise, and it's taken me this long to appreciate the big nipples!) My aeriolas are in proportion with each breast, and the color is a pretty pregnant dusky brown.
My nipples are exquisitely sensitive, and I love having them touched, stroked, even looked at, blown, chilled, brushed, tapped, rubbed, squeezed, pulled, tugged, tweaked, twisted, rolled, flicked, popped, licked, sucked, caressed, cupped, held, kissed, foldled as much and as often as possible. I would keep my husband home from work and make him squeeze my nipples and breasts 24-7, through my bra, under my shirt or coat in public, all night long in bed, from the side as we stand in the back at the kid's Christmas music program at school, in a dark corner of our church during the homily, while on the phone with his parents, in any stolen moment like me sitting next to him while he catches the scores on ESPN, or while I'm putting in a load of laundry or washing dishes or doing my hair or brushing my teeth...I'd love it if he could just make love to me every second of life if there was any way to accomplish that.
I highly enjoy sex and penetration, intercourse, etc. Enjoy is an understatement. I'm actually insatiable and since my husband doesn't have the stamina or desire level that I do, (he works hard for a living, in his defense) that's why I'm up typing this at 4 am. (I work hard, too, but I've always had a super-high energy level.) I could go all night long, and still am waiting for our "honeymoon" we never got to have, and would love to be locked into a room alone with my husband for a week (or longer, like a month, as in "honey-MOON!", preferably!) to just have sex, sex, sex! (We'll have been married 14 years this June and "together" as a couple for 20 years in September! Maybe someday my husband will want me that much too!
I want to share something that just happened to me a couple days ago. I realized my new nude-colored lace bra had a rip in the fine webbing of the lace right at the point of my nipple. I guess the strain was too much for the fabric's structure! The very tip of my nipple was slightly protruding but the whole circumference of it couldn't fit, which wasn't comfortable. I thought, darn, I'll have to throw away this new bra! But then a brilliant thought came to me! I simply tore the hole a bit bigger to allow the nipple to poke through, and VOILA! Instant peek-a-boo bra! Of course I had to create a hole on the other side to match, and haven't been able to take it off since! I LOVE the nipples protruding through the bra and poking out, jutting so high since the bra is supporting my breasts! It's so lovely! I don't like going braless as it accentuates my unevenness and the heavy breast's nipple is too far south for my liking, but this solution is incredible. I've been so turned-on I've been touching and squeezing my nipples for two days now, and have even pulled my top up to reveal my breasts with the fudge-colored nipples poking up and out to whoever might glance into my car while driving! I crack all the windows and as it's December, my nipples maintain a state of erect hardness, and if I have a water bottle on hand, I splash some on my breasts and the effect is magical! I actually wish I could get pulled over by a cop just to see the look on his/her face when asking for my license and registration and seeing this pretty sight, my brownish-pink nipples jutting through the beige lace of my bra and my wet breasts looking so round and high and pretty, perched above my swelling, pregnant belly. Course then I'd get arrested for indecent exposure, but maybe one of my "police station" or "sexy attorney" fantasies could get a chance at reality! (Ha ha)
I just wish I could get my husband's attention, but he's always too tired to notice, or care. I actually told him about my peekaboo bra in a wave of boldness last night but he asked me why that should be exciting. Trying not to take it personally (no small feat) and to chalk it up to exhaustion on his part, I had no answer for that and rolled over to try not to cry, and to fall asleep to my usual fantasies which don't feature him...I can't seem to trick my brain into even pretending he's more interested in me than he is. And just as I can't tickle myself, masturbation doesn't work for me either. I just need my hubby, and hope that someday he'll "be there" for me.
Well, I hope the thought of a sexy mama with a rowdy carful of children amusing themselves in the backseats, oblivious to their mother's lovely breasts and nipples exposed for all to see as she drives along next to other cars makes you smile, and hopefully you'll catch a glimpse at a red light! Just don't get in a wreck!
And for those of you who are such boob snobs that only the most perfect globes will do, perhaps a trip to the cancer ward might cure you of your intolerance.
There's room on the planet for all of us, flat or busty, and let's enjoy the gifts God's given us while we can. Husbands, enjoy your wives! Grab her from behind and squeeze her nipples till she has to respond! Wives, if you're lucky enough to have a husband who wants you, let him have you! You don't know how lucky you are!
I just hope my husband notices me before all the collagen and elastin and oxytocin and estrogen and progesterone have drained from my body and I've withered like a dry dusty rose on a crisp stem. Right now, he still has the soft pretty bloom and color and heft and weight of the flower, if only he'd take the time to smell it, look at it, enjoy it! (My babies sure love my "nunnies" and they'd nurse til they were in kindergarten if I could not let our stupid culture overpower my motherly instincts and force me to wean before I get too many mean/unsupportive looks/comments from those who don't "get it".)
Well, here's to boobs and God's gift to us all. Remember, save it for your spouse and babies! You won't regret it!

Updated 12/04 [F 36] I have a couple of perspectives to share on the issue of enjoying having our breasts admired. I have a girlfriend who is particularly well endowed, which she describes as a curse. She says that she's constantly being ogled in her place of work, that she's been groped in bars by perfect strangers, and that she's rarely had a conversation with a man without catching him steeling at least a glance, if not being downright obvious about it. Her boobs are so nice that even I have to admit to sneaking a look when the opportunity arises. She says that if she wasn't so scared of the discomfort and potential for complication, she would have a reduction surgery immediately.
I on the other hand, being relatively small-chested, enjoy it when men sneak a peak at my boobs. One luxury of having smaller breasts is the ability to go bra-less, which is something that I take fairly regular advantage of. My nipples aren't particularly prominent, which allows me to doff my bra more often than not, yet if I'm excited, or I get a chill, it's pretty obvious to anyone paying attention that there's nothing restraining my breasts under my shirt. I'll often catch one of the men at work staring at my chest, and I'll often tease them a bit by making sure that a window is open or I'll wear an extra tight little sweater, just to see if I can attract their attention a bit more. My husband adores my titties, and pays them extra attention when we have sex, as he knows how sensitive they are, and how much pleasure they bring me. I've never experienced the burden of unwelcome attention like my girlfriend has, so for me, having my breasts admired is good fun, but I guess it all depends on your perspective.

Updated 10/04 [F 20] I am a 20 year old female and I enjoy women as well as men. I am bi and I know a good pair of tits when I see them. In my opinion "eraser" nipples is very sexy. I remember when I was 14 and I was at my friends house who had very young parents they were in there early 20's and were very hot. They were down stairs and we had told them we were going to her room but she put me in there closet and said "I heard them talking about sex earlier today, they'll come up here and you can watch through the closet and then you'll stop asking so many questions!" and then she ran to her room.
I waited in there for a few moments and then they came in. She pushed him on the bed and grabbed off her shirt. She was wearing no bra and the closet was so close to the bed that I was afraid to breathe. She revealed her beautiful large perky titties to him and me. I watched as he sucked her nipples until she moaned which is when I realized how much I liked women. To me physical attraction is just as important as mental attraction because whether you like the persons personality or not you will not sleep with someone who is ugly.

Updated 1/04 [F 46] I am a large breasted woman, 42F, with my ultimate goal in life being having a breast reduction. You asked do men like larger breasts? My husband is a firm believer that "bigger is better". However, as the owner, of the breasts in question, I don't agree. Natural large breasts (mine grew to a 34 DD at 13) tend to cause many problems as you grow more mature. Neck, shoulder and back pain are tops on list, then there are the hilarious events, as not being able to lift something up past your chest due to your arms are not long enough to lift the item around your breasts. In my personal opinion, women with smaller breasts have a more sensual look, then large breasted ladies.

[M 42] I'm not into big breasts, actually, but I really adore big nipples. Big areolas are not my thing, but protruding nipples are a beautiful thing in my mind. I love to see them poking through a shirt or submitting to my tongue. More beautiful than any landscape painting. I have noticed some fondness on my part for *dark* nipples also, which seem to turn up more on non-caucasian women.

Updated 8/03 [F 42] I think a lot of women enjoy having their breasts admired. I am a 38D and I do notice men looking at my breasts. I does make me feel good that they notice. My husband enjoys playing with them very much. He loves to see me in all types of bras. He loves handjobs and my breasts make them that much more enjoyable for him. He has several videos of large breasted women and I don't mind him watching them. I sometimes jack him off while he watches one of them and I know it is a real thrill for him to watch those large breasts on video and have my 38D's to pull and squeeze on.

Updated 6/03 [M] Maybe I'm not in the vast majority of men who admire large breasts, I love the smaller ones. I did go with a woman for several months who had extremely large breasts, so large and heavy that her bra straps had caused deep indentations in her shoulders. We were both in our 50's at the time. Of course all my friends thought I was a lucky guy SOB, but, the first time we were 'getting it on' I was nearly turned off by the sight of her giant tits, there was too much 'sag'. But she was proud as hell of them. I'm now in a relationship with a small breasted woman, 34B and she is concerned that they are too small. I keep telling her that anything I can't get in my mouth is wasted anyway.

[M 50] In reference to the woman who asked if guys like large nipples. I personally love large nipples and large auroela, and if they are the type that appear puffy that is nice too. And I like either large or small breasts both are very attractive to me.

Updated 5/03 [F 41] I have had a relationship now with a great guy for a year. He lives 200 miles away from me so our relationship is not like most in terms of how our relationship evolved or how often we see each other now. I told my boyfriend from the start that my breasts were about average, maybe a 36 C. I also told him I had wonderful nipples, big and perky. He loves them. I love him admiring them too. There was an occasion when I drove to see him. Thoughts of how he would look and how he would touch me when I finally got to him kept my foot heavy to the peddle. My pussy gets hot and wet every time just thinking of him and his beautiful cock. Anyway, somewhere between here and there I decided to take off my bra and show up at his house with my nipples hard and very visible underneath my shirt for him to see. God, did they look great. I get so worked up they get super erect and I might as well not even be wearing my thin blue shirt. When I walked through his front door he was sitting at his dinning table with his insurance man of all things. You should have seen the look on his face!! The insurance guy took one look at me, turned and smiled at my boyfriend and on very short notice picked up and left, thank God. My boyfriend walked over to me squeezed both my tits, pinched my nipples and told my how he loved looking at them from across the room. I was so turned on I dropped to my knees and gave him one of the best blow jobs he has ever gotten. So, every so often I'll go braless with a thin top on.....A girl has to do what a girl has to do!!

[F] By the time I was 15 I was already 34dd-26-38, which I liked (and still like), because it's sexy and fertile-looking, and I'm REALLY happy with my shape. However, the result of having such a build combined with a fairly idealized face has made me a prime target for comments such as: "She maybe beautiful, but she's a ******* idiot,"(overheard from a male acquaintance on the street as he spoke to a friend who noticed me). "Hey, Girl With The Big Tits, come over here!!!" (some random guy on the street). " Do you have implants? those can't be real..." (a guy at a club). "Now, THOSE are too big...."(woman in a department store to another women as they ogled my breasts). " With a body like yours, forget mainstream modeling, you can only hope to make it in porn" (NYCFAME talent scout when I inquired about modelling..seriously). Not to mention being assumed to be an, AHEM, "wanton woman," and not being taken seriously (I fear for my future as an aspiring journalist).
Women in our society seem damned no matter how they look...heavy (slob, ugly..), skinny/small breasts (anorexic, "boyish"), curvy/ideal (dumb, sex-objects). I say we throw out the stereotypes and unrealistic "ideals" and encourage healthy, vivacious, and confident women. It's what nature intended, and it's something that's truly gorgeous on any woman.

Updated 3/03 [M 35] I'm sure women look at mens bulges. I notice it fairly often when i'm out walking about in normal jeans. When i'm out running in my running shorts i cant believe how many women look straight down there. Although i'm not 100% sure if they are looking at my hidden bulge or my exposed (reasonably muscular) legs. I really enjoy looking at womens curves and breasts under their clothes, i dont see why they shouldnt do the same. I might even enjoy a woman looking there! I wonder what the women on your site will say about this?

Updated 2/03 [M 48] I wanted to write to you on this subject because I believe it acted against me in my relationship with my former wife. When we were dating our sex life was great, but as time went on it declined due to certain comments I made about her breasts. She was large, 38DD with very large nipples. I used to always tell her during sex how much her breasts aroused me, especially her huge nipples and areolas. At first she was comfortable with this and seemed to enjoy hearing it, in fact she let me measure them and when i found out just how big they were it aroused me even more. Gradually she tired of hearing it, enough so that toward the end of our relationship she would wear a t shirt during sex so as to limit me seeing them. Within 2 years of marriage we divorced and now I understand she has a woman partner. I now believe that some women love the comments and others are simply turned off by it.

[F 52] I'm told my breasts are large, and my nipples are especially large. The areola is dark and large and they crinkle up in these swirls and dips and the nipple is large. So, I get compliments regularly and all my men, I'm a poly lover, love to suck plenty, which I enjoy much. I can squeeze my nipples and this liquid comes out that tastes sweet and I love to lick it off . Wish I could lactate again and nurse the guys. I nursed my three babies for a total of nine years, so enjoyed it and would like to activate it again.
Love men admiring my breasts and looking at them and desiring them. Love when they nestle in between them.
Recently, I visited Pompei in Italy and a guide there took me privately in some of the ancient ruins, locked the gates and suckled most perfectly on my breasts; I got so wet and aroused. He suckled me from building to building and did it gently and with wetness. Just had the perfect touch and technique. Would love to go back to Pompei and seek him out specifically for this. He wanted to have intercourse, but I didn't want it--didn't feel safe enough. He said, "what am I a bambino (baby), that I can only suckle". Yes, I'm sorry, but I want you as a baby.
So, I enjoy my breasts and my whole body and glad the guys enjoy them , too.

[M 33] Older women with large breasts have ALWAYS turned me on, for as long as I can remember. I saw a semi-nude photo in an art book some years ago, of a middle-aged to older woman(55-65?) with very large breasts and VERY large nipples. Not just the areolas, but the nipple itself was like someone's small thumb. To this day, I cannot get that arousing photo out of my mind. Now, if I could ever find both of those fine qualities on a woman, I probably would have reached nirvana! :)

[M 32]One of her favorite pass-times is seeing how much attention her breasts will attract when going out by going bra-less under one of her very revealing blouses or one of her tight t-shirts. She has very firm b-cup breasts with very prominent, puffy nipples, and she loves it when men she doesn't know pay attention to them. She'll typically do this when we're away from home, but from time to time, she can't help herself, and will pop down to the mall to tease some of the salesmen or the patrons. She's also been known to go shoe shopping in a skirt without wearing any panties. It's amazing the deals she gets on her shoes!

Updated 1/03 [M 41] I have always enjoyed looking at women. Mainly their ass... But I have never been a boob man. But if the question is put to me I do prefer women with small or medium size breasts. They are sexier, and much more fun to play with. Now if you want to talk about nipples.... Large or small, it's the color that counts. Pink is boring, brown or a darker pink is wonderful. I have one friend, years ago, small breasts very firm. Her nipples were fantastic. Hard with the "eraser" type nipple. Dark areolas and very sensitive. She loved to have then bitten and her tits played with hard. That was one very sexy woman. And yes her ass was wonderful and I am sure it still is today. But as I said I am an ass man. I love the way she walks. :)

[M 56] I have always admired women's breasts. They are probably my favorite part of a woman's anatomy, one of the first things that I and most men notice, but that doesn't mean that size matters. It doesn't. Rather, I revel in the diversity of sizes, shapes, direction of point, and they are all beautiful regardless of cup size, youthfully firm or maturely pendulous. For those women who wish to have a different "look" or shape, if you do it for yourself I suppose that's your business, but please don't do it for mature, post-adolescent men. Breasts are beautiful for the soft skin, for the firmness that fills and shapes them, for the nipples in all their variety of colors and sizes, and that get all crinkly in passion, for the bounce or sway when you move. When you are nude, breasts point up, hang down, flow across your chest when you lay back, and do all sorts of other wonderful, enticing things. Most important of all is that they are sensitive, that you like to have them touched, however you like them touched.
There was one lady many years ago who simply did not enjoy them the way I did; her sensitive spot was her thighs. That was fine too, because legs, hips, behinds, all those areas are so beautiful as well. When we first meet or pass by, probably the first thing I notice is your face and hair; I love beautiful hair, hands and nails. And yes, ladies, we do want that girl with the "nice personality". We want the whole package.
My only concern is for those that are 'enhanced', which I have never experienced, I fear that those may lack the natural softness that I enjoy and might interrupt my pleasure with nagging thoughts of "plastic barbie".

[M 37] I was fortunate enough to recently spend some intimate time with a wonderful woman who happened to be blessed with a curvaceous figure. She was quite self conscious about her breasts and didn't like the idea of men oogling them. She always wore very baggy clothing and didn't like to wear clothes in public that displayed her chest. If she didn't have a baggy sweatshirt on she would walk around with her arms folded across her chest to hide them. Not having spent time before with a lady with large breasts I thought she must be feeling cold but she explained she wasn't cold just avoiding stares. In private I got to see more of them and I must say since then I've been obsecsed by them. I'm no longer with her and probably I'll never get to see her again but I still long to touch and feel her large breasts again. So different from smaller ones. So soft and almost liquid in feel and the large soft nipples gave such different sensations. Visually I have to admit they really turn me on but actual physical contact smaller ones have their own attractions.

[M 69] I do not have a major preference for breast size, however, I have had numerous lovers who remarked that they felt they virtually had "no tits." The truth is that each of them had delightfully piquant breasts with incredibly sensitive nipples. Now I don't have a scientific sample about nipple sensitivity in smaller breasts, but gosh were they exciting!!!

[M 58] I have loved small breasts since I can remember. Actually the smaller the better.
Fake breasts completely turn me off and if I know a woman has fake breasts I won't give her a second look.. Just my personal opinion...My wife and I have been nudists for years and are also in the lifestyle so I've seen more breasts than the average person. I've seen very few breast jobs that look desirable. Most want to pop if you look at them too long...

[F 39] I am a 42DD breasted woman and believe me I enjoy knowing that as i walk down the street with a tight or low cut shirt on with my breasts showing al ittle cleavage, that men are looking me. I enjoy the stimulation of having my breasts squeezed during sex, or rubbed while doing the "dishes" or even my nipples tweaked while working around the house. During sex however, I love a little roughness on them but ONLY if I ask him to pinch them, suck them twist them etc...on my terms only.
I don't mind men admiring my breasts. They are all natural and very sexy.

[M 53] Some time ago I met at work a most beautiful and intelligent young lady who brought a sparkle to a lot of men through her personality and looks. She only had to come into the room and everyone hesitated. Sure, she had good features, but in spite of being stunning, her slimness continued just below the shoulders. After seeing her a few times, you would come to realise that she could be described as 'flat'. Now let me just say that I use this to give an impression rather than to state the truth; what follows shows that this demeaning description was completely inappropriate in her case!
To cut a long story short, I was the lucky guy who dated this loveliness. We started as friends and without trying became closer and closer. Gradually, we began to touch until one evening I slipped my hand under her blouse onto her soft, warm back and caressed her shoulder blades over the top of her straps. She seemed pleased by this but I went no further; there was no way I was going to upset her.
On the next occasion, a few days later, she encouraged me to continue where I had stopped before, but this time, as I ran my fingertips lightly up her back from her waist, I was surprised to find that the straps were undone, and must have been like that for most of the evening (something that would not be possible with a large chest). She must have sensed my delight, and put her arms around my neck at the same time so as to encourage me, as if that was necessary, to run my hands around to the front. I did not hesitate.
My palms came to rest on the smoothest, firmest, delicious and sexy little titties that anyone could imagine, with that extra soft silkiness of the skin that only breasts have. The fact that there wasn't much there at all was really unbelievable exciting. She gave no sign of wanting me to stop there, and so I curled my thumbs around her nipples. Now, like any little boy I was used to pictures in magazines, but what my hands felt under her lacy bra was better than anything I'd seen. I don't want this to seem crude, but those nipples were big. I was take completely by surprise, and said something like 'how wonderful' before I could stop myself. Of course, she realized what I intended, and became a little shy. As I lifted the front of her blouse and bra, there were the plumpest, proud nipples ever; deep red, and of the most exquisite fullness. As I continued to stroke, they hardened with pleasure, and our kissing increased the sensation. And to think that I had assumed that she wasn't so well-formed; she was special, exciting and gorgeous in her own way.
So, believe me, the first impression of size isn't important; if you've been fortunate like me you'll probably know this already.

Updated 12/02 [M 55] A man asked the question if women like to have guys stare at their breasts. I once worked with a very attractive woman with a small bust, at least from what I could tell from the clothes she wore at work. She was very congenial and we found ourselves spending time together and dressing more casually around each other. I was invited over to dinner once at her house and when she opened the door she was wearing jeans and a light colored sweatshirt. I didn't pay too much attention to it until later in the evening I noticed she wasn't wearing a bra and the most enormous and beautiful nipples I had ever encountered were trying to poke through her top! I could see their outline perfectly and they were huge. I couldn't help but wonder was she cold or were they always this big? Or if she wasn't cold now, how big would they be when she was cold? Anyway, she noticed I was mesmerized by her but rather than get mad, she just smiled at me. I often wondered later if she had worn that top on purpose to make me notice her or she was so at ease with her body it didn't matter to her if anyone looked at her. Either way, I felt good about the incident and the fact she was that comfortable with me about it.

[F] I think that women like having their breasts admired as long as the man is not terribly obvious about his admiration. An appreciative glance is enjoyed I would suspect but a long hard stare would be beyond the pale so to speak. The same goes with compliments, especially in a public place, they would have to be subtle.

[F 43] I'm petite, slender, Asian, and happen to be uncharacteristically well-endowed. I've always been terribly self-conscious of my breasts, and it's only been in the past several months that I've come to a quiet acceptance of them. In fact, I'm still reluctant to get on top in view of my lovers because my breasts are heavy and sag a bit. The thing is, in spite of my self-consciousness over them, my breasts are a source of great sexual pleasure for me.
Previously, if I knew that a man was staring at my breasts, I would be terribly embarrassed. Now, at my age, I must admit I'm pleased I can still inspire male attention. But for the most part, I'm pretty much unaware of men noticing my breasts. I know that may sound contrived, as my breasts are pretty difficult to ignore! But I guess I prefer to believe that the men who are interested in me are viewing me as an entire package.

[M 55] Someone in your article asked whether men really like larger breasts? I sure do! I love to have my seven inch cock nestled right between them or my face buried in a nice double C or double D cups any day from ages 20 to 45 yrs olds. I'm very sure there's plenty of big tit lovers out there like us too. I hope some women that love to have men adore their breasts this way reply to this message for all us tit lovers? You might get their emails too.

[M 48] i'm a single male, 48, and love to see women with small breasts and flat chests showing off their hot titties. wow..what a rush to see nipples poking out thru t-shirts and blouses without bras. small breasts are my major turn-on and regardless of the owner's age, i always get hard when seeing little titties. i've also found throughout my years that women with little titties taste sweeter and are tigresses in bed.

[M] This is just some babbling regarding the subject...
When I was 13, I was masturbating in front a boy friend and a girl friend. She had huge tits, like 40-DD's. She was only 13 as well. Little did I know these would be the largest tits I would ever grab a hold of in my life.
It seems all of the women in my life have had small to medium size breasts - maybe A cups to C- cups.
BUT! I can only say I have never met a tit I didn't like. I have had so much fun playing with and sucking these "little guys" that I might have a panic attack if I was confronted with double - D's. I love them! Everybody has a routine and my routine is to start out by sucking "the guys" and then move on down to the stomach. From there it is obvious, I start sucking the inner thighs (both get equal attention) and then wham! I attack by pulling the "hood" out of the way and darting my tongue all over the clit. Then sex. I like the woman on top position and many of my ladies have figured out that if they want me to cum, all they have to do is lightly press their nipples onto mine - wham, boom - I cum almost immediately.
Girls, when it comes to tits, size does not matter. One of my ex-wives would reach orgasm if I sucked her titties for only 3 or 4 minutes - and she couldn't fill a B cup. I vote for small.

[M 55] I admit, I am 55 yo male and I do peep at women's breasts. I love them - okay. I have found it is a 50-50 proposition. There are 4 ladies at work that "turn heads" when they walk by. Two of the ladies I "watch" are always looking back to see if I am looking back to see... The other two, my gosh, if looks could kill, I'd be dead. I was watching one of the good guys and she caught me and her right nipple became hugely erect right in front of my eyes. I started getting a boner just watching. She smiled and took the candy bar she had just purchased and said, "Hi" and walked away. I melted like ice cream on a hot sidewalk. The other "good guy", 58 years old, 5 feet tall (maybe), small breasts, but hot as hell came in one day with a tight sweater wearing, I guess, a Wonder Bra. They had grown over night - A-cup to C-cup. Oops, again I started getting a boner watching this babe. She did, in my opinion do everything she could to show off for me.

[F 55] I really enjoy having my breast admired. I wear clothes to accentuate “the positive”. Since I have spent a fortune on them, it is nice to know that someone admires them. Of course this attention is most appreciated when done in a discreet, respectful way. Comments are even acceptable if they are complimentary.

[M 28] When I conjure up an image of the perfect breast within my mind size is not an issue. Size in itself is not what makes one pair more attractive and desirable than another. Once you get past merely looking and into actual sexual contact the thing that truly matters is how sensitive they are.
If we're talking purely visual stimuli I can get a lot out of large breasts, although it's never a matter of just their size; if I have a "preference" of appearance it's beautifully shaped small or medium breasts but not all small breasts are beautiful and some of the prettiest I've seen have been large. And if you're in love her breasts will be the most beautiful in the world regardless of size, shape or color; simply because they're HER breasts! Silicone however, is something I absolutely hate! I must confess that often I find larger breasts more attractive when wholly or partly covered, leaving plenty for the imagination. Push-up bra - 'cause first impressions last, huh? Well, it doesn't last beyond removal but it has nothing to do with effects of gravity or lack of firmness; you simply get such a kick out of dreaming up some sort of ideal hiding underneath that shirt that reality almost never matches one's inflated imagination once unveiled.
Even this "second impression" has little significance however, once I get to begin pleasuring her. Now it is all about how sensitive they are! Imagine a woman with the most beautiful breasts in the world - how do you react? You want to play with them of course! But then imagine that once you put your mouth to them all you hear are yawns, tired sighs and questions on when you plan to move on to more interesting territory... what happens to your interest in her breasts? It plummets from the heights of drooling desire to the depths of total non-interest. You do exactly what she requests, moving on to other parts to find, explore, love and dream of when alone. But her breasts will probably not feature much in your desires from now on, regardless of whatever fevered fantasies you had of them before you got them in your hands.
Imagine a different scenario - you get her bra off and they don't really conform to whatever you imagine as the perfect pair; not the right size and firmness, areolas wrong shape and color, whatever. But then you put your lips around a nipple and her response blows you away! She digs her fingers into the back of your head, pushing your face hard into her breasts, arching her back to get closer to your mouth, gasping as you suck harder. Much later you find yourself still at her swollen nipples; each time you pull back from one hard saliva-slick bud for breath her eager hands pull your head down again as she pushes the other nipple towards your lips. You're harder than ever before and each time her body rocks with yet another nipple-orgasm you almost climax onto her legs! From that day on every waking moment you dream of her breasts; the mere thought of them gets you hard and the sight of them as she bares them for you and the sheer eagerness on her face t! urns you into a panting Neanderthal.
One of the most common complaints I've read and heard from women is that many men have no idea how to handle breasts. The guys who loudly proclaim themselves big-tit-lovers are usually the ones with the least idea of how to properly appreciate them. So small-breasted women get to hear that they're "not big enough" and large-breasted women get their breasts mauled and mistreated... what stupidity and waste! The whole question of size simply seems so irrelevant to me. The scenarios I've described may be extremes but they illustrate my point - sex is something that happens between two people and the best sex is that mutually enjoyed. Me, I'm a fanatic giver - pleasuring a woman is my ultimate joy and so there are practically no sexual acts I find worth doing in themselves; it's all about the response I get, whether from cunnlingus, nipple sucking, kisses on the neck or whatever. Insisting on an act which does nothing for the partner is more th! an a waste of time for me, it's a downright turn-off.
Got slightly off track there... we were talking about breast-size, right? Right! So what I'm saying is this - the appearance of breasts (size, shape, color, whatever) might arouse interest initially, but once you do more than just look appearance stops being important. As for what you can and can't do sexually with large and small breasts respectively; yes, there are some things that are easier with larger breasts but again it's a matter of compatibility - if she feels she would rather have you between her legs than between her big breasts you act like a gentleman and comply with her wish. You might love a pair of breasts more for what you can do with them but don't be an ass about it or you'll find yourself breastless.

[M 55] I have a nipple fetish. I just love them! Although I have always been a breast man and love to look and them sway and bounce as a woman moves, to me her nipples and the areolas are the most erotic and sexy part of her breasts. Some of the most erotic and personally stimulating nipples I have ever seen were sitting atop smaller breasts. They are an absolute turn on to me. The size, shape, and color of them are so varied. I love to look at them, play with them, lick and suck them until they are standing out proud and erect for me in all their glory.

Updated 11/02 [M 46] I will be very interested to hear from your female readers on this topic. It's not one I can say I have talked with a lot of women about. My wife is small breasted and so I don't think she has found this to be much of an issue. I don't really like to raise it with her cause she's a bit sensitive about her size.
I think so much depends on who is doing the admiring and how it's being done. There was a terrific Seinfeld episode - I can't remember the details - but the heart of the issue was "how to look without getting caught". At least, not too much. I know for myself I find it incredibly difficult not to look, especially on those hot summer days shopping in air conditioned comfort when the 'cold weather indicators' are in abundance. God bless the frozen foods section of every grocery store. Are women really able to appreciate the siren call of erect nipples straining against thin summer weight clothes? How can I keep my eyes off them? Or when you bend over to get those last items out of the grocery cart at the cash?
What I would really like to know is, do women intuitively know when they're being eyeballed? Is there some technique you gals could share with us poor salivating men so that we can just stare, stare, stare without you knowing it? I wish there was but I doubt it. So, failing that, is there a polite way to admire without being considered a pervert. Just sign me - Blissfully breastfully smitten.

[F 28] Breast admiration is wonderful. Lots of women claim to be insulted about men gawking at them but personally I love it. If someone notices then good for you. Flaunt it if you got it girls!

[M] As a man I know that women crave this kind of attention. When I see a girl with her nipples poking through her blouse I know that she is getting tremendous satisfaction thinking about the men that are staring at her. I am convinced that she will masturbate to orgasm thinking about the men that have seen her jacking off to her "headlights"

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